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I consider myself someone who is very clear about what she wants from life Female 41 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

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Disciplinarian and bondage mistress. Dominant lady you wouldn’t want to cross. Female 43 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

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Im looking for a strong lovely sub. Female 34 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

I am a female dominant.  I have been in the lifestyle on and off for about 2years now.  I heard of this website from a podcast I follow and decided to give it try.  I don't like to roleplay online but I do like to tease.  I also like to brain storm and see what idea can brew or just simply compare our everyday journey.  I enjoy giving spankings


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Im 39 years old, living in the Honolulu region. Female 39 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

I'm 39 years old, living in the Honolulu region.
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Its nice to join you guys hopefully I do get to meet the honest and truthful he.. Female 40 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

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The unholy trinity of My wit, skill and ferocity will have you on your hands and.. Female 34 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

I'm Mia but you have no choice but to call me Mistress. I'm a professional Dominatrix of many  years practicing My craft in "Australia ". I prefer an organic and genuine encounter over providing you with a menu to choose from, however here is a shortened list of my skilled abilities: Latex fetish & worship, Bondage (chains, ropes, leather, plastic etc) Foot fetish/Foot worship etc.


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Im a mistress and Im looking for my slave Female 51 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

Here for for sassy.. anyone ready.. I'm always a mistress


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Trying to check thing out here Female 32 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

I'm 32 years old, living in the Honolulu region.
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Looking for someone who knows how to please a woman...i enjoy men of all races a.. Female 33 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

I am a very caring, friendly person open for love and serious relations. I am also an intelligent lady with a good sense of humor. I am a joyful and have pretty emotional personality along with feelings of compassion and empathy.  I am loving, tender and affectionate girl and I am sure I could create a beautiful world around myself and my beloved man.


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Hello everyone nice to meet you Female 47 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

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Im experienced Dom been into this  lifestyle for many years looking for somethi.. Female 35 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

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Well am seeking for someone who is very open minded person to share my heart wit.. Female 45 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

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exploring the world with an open heart and a contagious smile. Ready for meaning.. Female 37 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

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Looking for just a serious man in my life Female 38 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

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adventure seeker with a passion for laughter and genuine connections. Female 37 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

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Honesty and love with myself is my letter of introduction because this way I can.. Female 53 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

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Im a switch woman that gets excited training subs and also a good girl for dadd.. Female 46 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

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I am self-confident, funny, friendly and loving. I love this life and would like.. Female 33 from Kaneohe Hawaii, USA

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I am goddess looking for serious submissive Female 31 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

like feminization, boy,  trans,  panties/ lingerie,  humiliation,  pegging,  anal,  alot of things really.
Don't like pain


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I am looking for a honest man who is willing to be in a relationship Female 50 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

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Looking for single men and couples looking for some fun and great sex. Female 77 from Keauhou Hawaii, USA

Absolutely love oral sex. It's all about quality fun and no drama


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I’M A DOMINANT GODDESS SEEKING FOR A SUB TO TRAIN AND EXPLORE IN THIS LIIFESTYLE Female 30 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

Am a professional  mistress who demands strict obedience loyalty at all time Come to me for your training I will make your dreams of being owned by me a reality for you Be at my feet worship me as the Goddess you have always fantasized


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Looking for a partner in crime to enjoy life with. Female 27 from Hauula Hawaii, USA

Love fishing  and also like video games love going out to beach and I like riding a bicycle


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  • Kurtistown Hawaii /
  • Wailuku Hawaii /
  • Pahoa Hawaii /
  • Kailua Kona Hawaii /
  • Pahala Hawaii /

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