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Married and looking for discreet relationship outside marriage. Female 32 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

My husband been away working on a contract job overseas for over 6 months, I need sex desperately.


Straight

Looking for, ages 54-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age Gap, Anal, Bondage, Curves, Discreet Meets, Fetish, Lingerie, Oral, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub

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Mature, kinky and a disciplinarian. Female 44 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

You don’t want to get on my last nerve, be prepared for what you’re getting into, I’m fierce and lovely.
But remember I’m the one in control.


Straight

Looking for, ages 50-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction

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Well am seeking for someone who is very open minded person to share my heart wit.. Female 45 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

Well am Cindy seeking for someone to share my heart to have access to trust and understand to each other’s better if you are interested you can text me to talk to both of us together


Straight

Looking for, ages 36-88. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Bondage, Crossdress, Electro Play, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Feet, Impact Play, Leather / Latex, Lingerie, Pegging, Petite, Roleplay, Sexual Massage

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Looking for a partner in crime to enjoy life with. Female 27 from Hauula Hawaii, USA

Love fishing  and also like video games love going out to beach and I like riding a bicycle


Straight

Looking for, ages 35-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Roleplay, Sex Toys

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I am self-confident, funny, friendly and loving. I love this life and would like.. Female 33 from Kaneohe Hawaii, USA

I am fond of travelling and being active. I like to develop myself as personality. I like to spend time with my beloved man. I like cooking, being photographed, sports


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Looking for, ages 40-84. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Soft Swap

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It’s worth a try so why don’t we give it a try . Female 56 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

I like to listen to music, dance, sing, walk, watch movies. I like to go to the gym and travel. I dream to see a lot of new countries.


Straight

Looking for, ages 50-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Feet, Mature, Outdoor Fun, Sub

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I can be whatever you’re looking for ♥️ Female 23 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

I got what you’re looking for :) I’m 24 and live in Honolulu. Can’t wait to talk to you


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Looking for, ages 18-70. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Sub

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I am single never married looking for a serious relationship here I don’t have e.. Female 33 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

I'm 33 years old, living in the Honolulu region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 40 and 99.


Straight

Looking for, ages 40-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests,

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Honesty and love with myself is my letter of introduction because this way I can.. Female 53 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

Honesty and love with myself is my letter of introduction because this way I can truly love the person next to me. I think that when you love yourself you are also capable of loving others. I am not a person of short relationships,i am a widow and  I dedicated myself to myself; However, I think the time has come to give it a chance with someone who will know my value...


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Looking for, ages 70-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests,

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I love to meet new people and start a new conversation Female 42 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

I love to read and dance listening to music and watching movies


Straight

Looking for, ages 38-88. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age Gap, Body Hair, Curves, Mature, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage

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I am filipino, Puerto Rican, Native American, Trinidad & Barbados. I am from Oah.. Female 19 from Ewa Beach Hawaii, USA

I like the gym & being in nature & being up & active.


Bisexual

Looking for, ages 18-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests,

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I am looking for a honest man who is willing to be in a relationship Female 50 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

Honest,caring,and love to be happy. I hope I meet someone who will make me happy and smile


Straight

Looking for, ages 41-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age Gap, Age play, Couples

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Couple looking to put out toes in the water. Ok maybe jump in. Couple 44, 29 from Kihei Hawaii, USA

Very nice couple with a secrete desire for taboo and kink


Straight, Straight

Looking for, ages 18-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Couples, Discreet Meets, Fetish, Outdoor Fun, Soft Swap, Threesomes, Webcam

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Hiii!!! I’m just experimenting and curious:) Female 18 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

I’m 5 feet tall, i have a big attitude and need ti be put in my place


Straight

Looking for, ages 18-28. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Dom, Roleplay, Sex Toys, Sub

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Im 39 years old, living in the Honolulu region. Female 39 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

I'm 39 years old, living in the Honolulu region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 45 and 82.


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Looking for, ages 45-82. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Anal, Dirty Talk, Fetish, Mature, Outdoor Fun, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Threesomes, Webcam

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Being in love save life than being unhappy Female 42 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

I am a widower, having lost my beloved partner some time ago. Since then, life has presented its challenges, and I’ve found myself navigating the ups and downs of being a single parent to my dear daughter. While I cherish the bond we share, there’s an undeniable void in my life that yearns to be filled.


Straight

Looking for, ages 52-82. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Edging, Lace, Temperature Play

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Im 40 years old, living in the Honolulu region. Female 40 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

I do not have any ideal or high expectations, but I would like to meet a man with whom I will be myself, like he is with me, the man who will tell me yes if I invite him to go on a trip around the world


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Looking for, ages 48-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests,

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Disciplinarian and bondage mistress. Dominant lady you wouldn’t want to cross. Female 43 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

A mature dominant lady who’s demanding, intolerant and sometimes I can be an utter bitch. Don’t come to me with false desires. Once you click you’re hooked.


Straight

Looking for, ages 44-78. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

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Im Doris, Single with no kids and I want to meet a man who will never raise a h.. Female 33 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

a man who knows what he wants in life. Currently, I am missing my half, my man, my lover. I hope that he will be a little romantic and he will always smile when he thinks of me because I'm going to make him adorable


Straight

Looking for, ages 35-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BBW / BHM, Body Hair, Curves, Dirty Talk, Electro Play, Erotic Fiction, Impact Play, Pegging, Sub

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I am goddess looking for serious submissive Female 31 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

like feminization, boy,  trans,  panties/ lingerie,  humiliation,  pegging,  anal,  alot of things really.
Don't like pain


Straight

Looking for, ages 18-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BBW / BHM, BDSM, Dom, Full Swap, Group Sex, Outdoor Fun, Roleplay, Sex Toys, Sub, Threesomes

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I am Abigail **** Years old never married more and see where it will lead us too.. Female 58 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

I am Abigail **** Years old never married an
more and see where it will lead us too ..Hope to hear from you soon


Straight

Looking for, ages 50-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BBW / BHM, Erotic Fiction, Threesomes, Voyeurism

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Am looking for honesty man. I need someone who will love me and take good care o.. Female 53 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

I'm a very active and cheerful lady, who is ready to give all her love and who needs to be loved. All my friends say that I'm a positive person with a good sense of humor and a wide range of interests in life. I'm a very outgoing person and my life is full of movement. I try to spend every moment doing something that I like and enjoy and to discover something new. I always try to find positive things in everything, even if it's something bad. I want to share my life with a worthy man from this dating site. Maybe it will be you? Let's find it out together!


Straight

Looking for, ages 50-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age Gap, ASMR, Bondage, Crossdress, Cuckold, Curves, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Impact Play, Leather / Latex, LGBTQIA+, Mature, Petite, Sub, Temperature Play, Webcam

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I am a mistress looking for submissive Female 31 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

I like feminization, bondage, chastity, pussy worship, Ass face sitting, Role play, Ass licking, panties/ lingerie, humiliation, pegging, anal, alot of things really.
Don't like pain.


Straight

Looking for, ages 18-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, S&M, Sex Toys, Sub

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My wit, skill, and ferocity form a formidable trio that will leave you at my mer.. Female 28 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

I go by loyal mistress , and addressing me as Mistress is non-negotiable. With few years of expertise as a professional Dominatrix in Brisbane, I prioritize authentic encounters over predefined menus. Although I prefer the organic experience, here's a brief overview of my expertise, including Latex fetish and worship, Bondage using various materials (chains, ropes, leather, plastic, etc.), and indulging in Foot fetish and worship, among other skills.


Bisexual

Looking for, ages 18-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age Gap, Age play, Anal, ASMR, BBW / BHM, BDSM, Body Hair, Bondage, Bukkake, Couples, Crossdress, Cuckold, Curves, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Dom, Edging, Electro Play, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Feet, Fetish, Group Sex, Impact Play, Lace, Leather / Latex, LGBTQIA+, Lingerie, Mature, MILF, Nylons, Oral, Outdoor Fun, Pegging, Petite, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Temperature Play, Threesomes, Tickle Play, Voyeurism, Webcam

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I seek happiness of life time from matured man Female 46 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

I  am willing to relocate if i can find a right man of my choice to be with and take care of me and  love  me as wife.   . I am born to please not to tease I am educated with high goals, morals, and integrity. I am looking for a serious relationship that can lead to marriage, no matter what age, age is just a number I'm looking for a male who's open minded to have correspondence with. I'm a strong, smart, independent lady with many goals and lots of drive. I love to have fun and need a real man by my side to hold it down with.


Straight

Looking for, ages 48-85. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Exhibitionism, Mature, MILF, Sub, Voyeurism

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Active member locations

  • Captain Cook Hawaii /
  • Pahala Hawaii /
  • Kihei Hawaii /
  • Lahaina Hawaii /
  • Pahoa Hawaii /
  • Ocean View Hawaii /
  • Keauhou Hawaii /
  • Hilo Hawaii /
  • Kurtistown Hawaii /
  • Kailua Kona Hawaii /
  • Keaau Hawaii /
  • Wailuku Hawaii /

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