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adventure seeker with a passion for laughter and genuine connections. Female 37 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

I am a sensual and romantic woman who was born for love and be loved. I am a woman who is serious and knows what she wants and needs in this life. My character is kind and soft, you will never hear me raising my voice, I do not like conflicts, I prefer to discuss all matters face to face. I also believe in true and pure love. I think that I am a woman for marriage, and I will be a good wife, lets try. I believe that it will help me to find one man for all my life. I do not want to play any games, and all I what is to create a strong and happy family.


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Looking for, ages 45-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests,

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Looking for just a serious man in my life Female 38 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

I'm so cool in meeting new people and I just want to meet a man that'll take me serious in my life


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I am single never married looking for a serious relationship here I don’t have e.. Female 33 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

I'm 33 years old, living in the Honolulu region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 40 and 99.


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Im a switch woman that gets excited training subs and also a good girl for dadd.. Female 46 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

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Its nice to join you guys hopefully I do get to meet the honest and truthful he.. Female 40 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

Been cared for loved and appreciated makes me more excited


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Im a switch woman that gets excited training subs and also a good girl for dadd.. Female 45 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

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A simple lady down to the earth Female 41 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

I’m a newbie here willing to experience new things as well


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Disciplinarian and bondage mistress. Dominant lady you wouldn’t want to cross. Female 43 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

A mature dominant lady who’s demanding, intolerant and sometimes I can be an utter bitch. Don’t come to me with false desires. Once you click you’re hooked.


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I am filipino, Puerto Rican, Native American, Trinidad & Barbados. I am from Oah.. Female 19 from Ewa Beach Hawaii, USA

I like the gym & being in nature & being up & active.


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Trying to find the right someone Female 40 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

I am a young woman who loves to explore new things and live life to the fullest. I have a passion for travel and love to immerse myself in different cultures. I am a very outgoing and social person, and I love spending time with my friends and family. I am also very passionate about music, and love attending concerts and festivals whenever I get the chance. Overall, I'm excited to see what the future holds and am looking forward to meeting new people and making meaningful connections but the main purpose I'm here is to find a nice man to create a family with!


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Hiii!!! I’m just experimenting and curious:) Female 18 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

I’m 5 feet tall, i have a big attitude and need ti be put in my place


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Couple looking to put out toes in the water. Ok maybe jump in. Couple 44, 29 from Kihei Hawaii, USA

Very nice couple with a secrete desire for taboo and kink


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I consider myself someone who is very clear about what she wants from life Female 41 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

im new here and gertajusde  is where to get through Jjj male  I aspire to turn my candle-making passion into a thriving business, making them the epitome of home decor. I haven't ventured into the world of motherhood yet, but I do believe that there's a story waiting to be written.


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Married and looking for discreet relationship outside marriage. Female 32 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

My husband been away working on a contract job overseas for over 6 months, I need sex desperately.


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I am Abigail **** Years old never married more and see where it will lead us too.. Female 58 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

I am Abigail **** Years old never married an
more and see where it will lead us too ..Hope to hear from you soon


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exploring the world with an open heart and a contagious smile. Ready for meaning.. Female 37 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

I am a charming, sensitive and sincere, passionate, hot, romantic, single lady. I want to find true love and a true man on this dating site. It is important for me to receive love and give it in return. I am a person who really knows what she wants, and who is ready for a real meeting! Life is short. Do not waste your time!


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Hello I’m single here and new seeking for something Bette r Female 42 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

I'm 42 years old, living in the Richmond region. I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 51 and 97.


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Looking for a partner in crime to enjoy life with. Female 27 from Hauula Hawaii, USA

Love fishing  and also like video games love going out to beach and I like riding a bicycle


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Trying to check thing out here Female 32 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

I'm 32 years old, living in the Honolulu region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 33 and 65.


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Hello handsome men on this app i am new to this app but i have tried some relati.. Female 44 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

I am calm and very fun to be with i would like to find a new man whos loving and would be a lovely partner


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Looking for, ages 44-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Dirty Talk, Mature, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage

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I am goddess looking for serious submissive Female 31 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

like feminization, boy,  trans,  panties/ lingerie,  humiliation,  pegging,  anal,  alot of things really.
Don't like pain


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Looking for, ages 18-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BBW / BHM, BDSM, Dom, Full Swap, Group Sex, Outdoor Fun, Roleplay, Sex Toys, Sub, Threesomes

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Am looking for honesty man. I need someone who will love me and take good care o.. Female 53 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

I'm a very active and cheerful lady, who is ready to give all her love and who needs to be loved. All my friends say that I'm a positive person with a good sense of humor and a wide range of interests in life. I'm a very outgoing person and my life is full of movement. I try to spend every moment doing something that I like and enjoy and to discover something new. I always try to find positive things in everything, even if it's something bad. I want to share my life with a worthy man from this dating site. Maybe it will be you? Let's find it out together!


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Im a mistress and Im looking for my slave Female 51 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

Here for for sassy.. anyone ready.. I'm always a mistress


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I am self-confident, funny, friendly and loving. I love this life and would like.. Female 33 from Kaneohe Hawaii, USA

I am fond of travelling and being active. I like to develop myself as personality. I like to spend time with my beloved man. I like cooking, being photographed, sports


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Looking for, ages 40-84. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Soft Swap

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It’s worth a try so why don’t we give it a try . Female 56 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

I like to listen to music, dance, sing, walk, watch movies. I like to go to the gym and travel. I dream to see a lot of new countries.


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