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Im looking for a strong lovely sub. Female 34 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

I am a female dominant.  I have been in the lifestyle on and off for about 2years now.  I heard of this website from a podcast I follow and decided to give it try.  I don't like to roleplay online but I do like to tease.  I also like to brain storm and see what idea can brew or just simply compare our everyday journey.  I enjoy giving spankings


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Looking for, ages 60-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Mature, Oral, Sex Talk, Sex Toys

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It’s worth a try so why don’t we give it a try . Female 56 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

I like to listen to music, dance, sing, walk, watch movies. I like to go to the gym and travel. I dream to see a lot of new countries.


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Looking for, ages 50-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Feet, Mature, Outdoor Fun, Sub

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Hello everyone nice to meet you Female 47 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

I'm 5 ft 4 single female I like drinking going to beach


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Looking for, ages 46-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Sub

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I can be whatever you’re looking for ♥️ Female 23 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

I got what you’re looking for :) I’m 24 and live in Honolulu. Can’t wait to talk to you


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Looking for, ages 18-70. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Sub

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Trying to check thing out here Female 32 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

I'm 32 years old, living in the Honolulu region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 33 and 65.


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Looking for, ages 33-65. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Curves, Dom, Mature, Sex Games, Sexual Massage, Sub

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exploring the world with an open heart and a contagious smile. Ready for meaning.. Female 37 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

I am a charming, sensitive and sincere, passionate, hot, romantic, single lady. I want to find true love and a true man on this dating site. It is important for me to receive love and give it in return. I am a person who really knows what she wants, and who is ready for a real meeting! Life is short. Do not waste your time!


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Looking for, ages 45-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests,

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I seek happiness of life time from matured man Female 46 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

I  am willing to relocate if i can find a right man of my choice to be with and take care of me and  love  me as wife.   . I am born to please not to tease I am educated with high goals, morals, and integrity. I am looking for a serious relationship that can lead to marriage, no matter what age, age is just a number I'm looking for a male who's open minded to have correspondence with. I'm a strong, smart, independent lady with many goals and lots of drive. I love to have fun and need a real man by my side to hold it down with.


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Looking for, ages 48-85. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Exhibitionism, Mature, MILF, Sub, Voyeurism

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Couple looking to put out toes in the water. Ok maybe jump in. Couple 44, 29 from Kihei Hawaii, USA

Very nice couple with a secrete desire for taboo and kink


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Looking for, ages 18-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Couples, Discreet Meets, Fetish, Outdoor Fun, Soft Swap, Threesomes, Webcam

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Well am seeking for someone who is very open minded person to share my heart wit.. Female 45 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

Well am Cindy seeking for someone to share my heart to have access to trust and understand to each other’s better if you are interested you can text me to talk to both of us together


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Looking for, ages 36-88. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Bondage, Crossdress, Electro Play, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Feet, Impact Play, Leather / Latex, Lingerie, Pegging, Petite, Roleplay, Sexual Massage

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A simple lady down to the earth Female 41 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

I’m a newbie here willing to experience new things as well


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Looking for, ages 49-79. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Couples

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Being in love save life than being unhappy Female 42 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

I am a widower, having lost my beloved partner some time ago. Since then, life has presented its challenges, and I’ve found myself navigating the ups and downs of being a single parent to my dear daughter. While I cherish the bond we share, there’s an undeniable void in my life that yearns to be filled.


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Looking for, ages 52-82. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Edging, Lace, Temperature Play

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Looking for someone who knows how to please a woman...i enjoy men of all races a.. Female 33 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

I am a very caring, friendly person open for love and serious relations. I am also an intelligent lady with a good sense of humor. I am a joyful and have pretty emotional personality along with feelings of compassion and empathy.  I am loving, tender and affectionate girl and I am sure I could create a beautiful world around myself and my beloved man.


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Looking for, ages 18-39. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Fetish

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adventure seeker with a passion for laughter and genuine connections. Female 37 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

I am a sensual and romantic woman who was born for love and be loved. I am a woman who is serious and knows what she wants and needs in this life. My character is kind and soft, you will never hear me raising my voice, I do not like conflicts, I prefer to discuss all matters face to face. I also believe in true and pure love. I think that I am a woman for marriage, and I will be a good wife, lets try. I believe that it will help me to find one man for all my life. I do not want to play any games, and all I what is to create a strong and happy family.


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Looking for, ages 45-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests,

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Im experienced Dom been into this  lifestyle for many years looking for somethi.. Female 35 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

I¡¯m a good lady good person good woman strict but fair w firm hand great kisser/lover!


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Looking for, ages 45-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Sex Toys

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Its nice to join you guys hopefully I do get to meet the honest and truthful he.. Female 40 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

Been cared for loved and appreciated makes me more excited


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Looking for, ages 40-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Body Hair, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Sex Talk, Sexual Massage, Sub

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Mature, kinky and a disciplinarian. Female 44 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

You don’t want to get on my last nerve, be prepared for what you’re getting into, I’m fierce and lovely.
But remember I’m the one in control.


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Looking for, ages 50-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction

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Looking for single men and couples looking for some fun and great sex. Female 77 from Keauhou Hawaii, USA

Absolutely love oral sex. It's all about quality fun and no drama


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Looking for, ages 50-80. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Discreet Meets, Full Swap, Threesomes

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Looking for just a serious man in my life Female 38 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

I'm so cool in meeting new people and I just want to meet a man that'll take me serious in my life


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Looking for, ages 51-78. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Roleplay, Sex Talk, Tickle Play

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Hello handsome men on this app i am new to this app but i have tried some relati.. Female 44 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

I am calm and very fun to be with i would like to find a new man whos loving and would be a lovely partner


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Looking for, ages 44-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Dirty Talk, Mature, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage

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Im Doris, Single with no kids and I want to meet a man who will never raise a h.. Female 33 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

a man who knows what he wants in life. Currently, I am missing my half, my man, my lover. I hope that he will be a little romantic and he will always smile when he thinks of me because I'm going to make him adorable


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Looking for, ages 35-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BBW / BHM, Body Hair, Curves, Dirty Talk, Electro Play, Erotic Fiction, Impact Play, Pegging, Sub

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Hey there I’m on here looking for meetups and to experience new things on here l.. Female 36 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

Get busy living or get busy dying when the student is ready the teacher shall appear A fool is sure of anything a wise man keeps on guessing I dont mind you been sadist i love pain and i sometimes like been bisexual depends on what my man want i am  just looking  for a real relationship I like to laughing but enjoy making others laugh more than i do


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Looking for, ages 50-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Erotic Fiction, Roleplay, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Temperature Play

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I am Abigail **** Years old never married more and see where it will lead us too.. Female 58 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

I am Abigail **** Years old never married an
more and see where it will lead us too ..Hope to hear from you soon


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Looking for, ages 50-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BBW / BHM, Erotic Fiction, Threesomes, Voyeurism

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I am a mistress looking for submissive Female 31 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

I like feminization, bondage, chastity, pussy worship, Ass face sitting, Role play, Ass licking, panties/ lingerie, humiliation, pegging, anal, alot of things really.
Don't like pain.


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Looking for, ages 18-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, S&M, Sex Toys, Sub

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I’M A DOMINANT GODDESS SEEKING FOR A SUB TO TRAIN AND EXPLORE IN THIS LIIFESTYLE Female 30 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

Am a professional  mistress who demands strict obedience loyalty at all time Come to me for your training I will make your dreams of being owned by me a reality for you Be at my feet worship me as the Goddess you have always fantasized


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Looking for, ages 18-88. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Anal, ASMR, BBW / BHM, BDSM, Bondage, Erotic Fiction, Feet, Fetish, Leather / Latex, LGBTQIA+, MILF, Oral, Roleplay, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Threesomes

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Married and looking for discreet relationship outside marriage. Female 32 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

My husband been away working on a contract job overseas for over 6 months, I need sex desperately.


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Looking for, ages 54-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age Gap, Anal, Bondage, Curves, Discreet Meets, Fetish, Lingerie, Oral, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub

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Active member locations

  • Pahoa Hawaii /
  • Pahala Hawaii /
  • Lahaina Hawaii /
  • Ocean View Hawaii /
  • Captain Cook Hawaii /
  • Wailuku Hawaii /
  • Kailua Kona Hawaii /
  • Kihei Hawaii /
  • Kurtistown Hawaii /
  • Keauhou Hawaii /
  • Hilo Hawaii /
  • Keaau Hawaii /

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