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Looking for a partner in crime to enjoy life with. Female 27 from Hauula Hawaii, USA

Love fishing  and also like video games love going out to beach and I like riding a bicycle


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Looking for, ages 35-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Roleplay, Sex Toys

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It’s worth a try so why don’t we give it a try . Female 56 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

I like to listen to music, dance, sing, walk, watch movies. I like to go to the gym and travel. I dream to see a lot of new countries.


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Looking for someone who knows how to please a woman...i enjoy men of all races a.. Female 33 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

I am a very caring, friendly person open for love and serious relations. I am also an intelligent lady with a good sense of humor. I am a joyful and have pretty emotional personality along with feelings of compassion and empathy.  I am loving, tender and affectionate girl and I am sure I could create a beautiful world around myself and my beloved man.


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Disciplinarian and bondage mistress. Dominant lady you wouldn’t want to cross. Female 43 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

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I am always open to discover something new: new countries, new people, new cultu.. Female 37 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

I am a tender and caring woman. I am kind, but strict, beautiful, but faithful. I make friends easily. Making people beautiful and happy is what I do with great pleasure. I believe that life is a gift. We should I have strong values in life and want to create a strong family! I am sure that people should value every single moment! I want to have a good family. I want to be happy as a woman, and I want my man to be happy every day!


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Looking for just a serious man in my life Female 38 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

I'm so cool in meeting new people and I just want to meet a man that'll take me serious in my life


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I am self-confident, funny, friendly and loving. I love this life and would like.. Female 33 from Kaneohe Hawaii, USA

I am fond of travelling and being active. I like to develop myself as personality. I like to spend time with my beloved man. I like cooking, being photographed, sports


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My name is Irene I come from Germany Female 27 from Kaneohe Hawaii, USA

Social like to get more friends I don't like to be angry


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Its nice to join you guys hopefully I do get to meet the honest and truthful he.. Female 40 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

Been cared for loved and appreciated makes me more excited


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I am goddess looking for serious submissive Female 31 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

like feminization, boy,  trans,  panties/ lingerie,  humiliation,  pegging,  anal,  alot of things really.
Don't like pain


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Hiii!!! I’m just experimenting and curious:) Female 18 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

I’m 5 feet tall, i have a big attitude and need ti be put in my place


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I consider myself someone who is very clear about what she wants from life Female 41 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

im new here and gertajusde  is where to get through Jjj male  I aspire to turn my candle-making passion into a thriving business, making them the epitome of home decor. I haven't ventured into the world of motherhood yet, but I do believe that there's a story waiting to be written.


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Im a switch woman that gets excited training subs and also a good girl for dadd.. Female 45 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

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I am filipino, Puerto Rican, Native American, Trinidad & Barbados. I am from Oah.. Female 19 from Ewa Beach Hawaii, USA

I like the gym & being in nature & being up & active.


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Hello handsome men on this app i am new to this app but i have tried some relati.. Female 44 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

I am calm and very fun to be with i would like to find a new man whos loving and would be a lovely partner


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Hello I’m single here and new seeking for something Bette r Female 42 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

I'm 42 years old, living in the Richmond region. I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 51 and 97.


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adventure seeker with a passion for laughter and genuine connections. Female 37 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

I am a sensual and romantic woman who was born for love and be loved. I am a woman who is serious and knows what she wants and needs in this life. My character is kind and soft, you will never hear me raising my voice, I do not like conflicts, I prefer to discuss all matters face to face. I also believe in true and pure love. I think that I am a woman for marriage, and I will be a good wife, lets try. I believe that it will help me to find one man for all my life. I do not want to play any games, and all I what is to create a strong and happy family.


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I love to meet new people and start a new conversation Female 42 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

I love to read and dance listening to music and watching movies


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Am looking for honesty man. I need someone who will love me and take good care o.. Female 53 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

I'm a very active and cheerful lady, who is ready to give all her love and who needs to be loved. All my friends say that I'm a positive person with a good sense of humor and a wide range of interests in life. I'm a very outgoing person and my life is full of movement. I try to spend every moment doing something that I like and enjoy and to discover something new. I always try to find positive things in everything, even if it's something bad. I want to share my life with a worthy man from this dating site. Maybe it will be you? Let's find it out together!


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I’M A DOMINANT GODDESS SEEKING FOR A SUB TO TRAIN AND EXPLORE IN THIS LIIFESTYLE Female 30 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

Am a professional  mistress who demands strict obedience loyalty at all time Come to me for your training I will make your dreams of being owned by me a reality for you Be at my feet worship me as the Goddess you have always fantasized


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Im 39 years old, living in the Honolulu region. Female 39 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

I'm 39 years old, living in the Honolulu region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 45 and 82.


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I seek happiness of life time from matured man Female 46 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

I  am willing to relocate if i can find a right man of my choice to be with and take care of me and  love  me as wife.   . I am born to please not to tease I am educated with high goals, morals, and integrity. I am looking for a serious relationship that can lead to marriage, no matter what age, age is just a number I'm looking for a male who's open minded to have correspondence with. I'm a strong, smart, independent lady with many goals and lots of drive. I love to have fun and need a real man by my side to hold it down with.


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Im Doris, Single with no kids and I want to meet a man who will never raise a h.. Female 33 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

a man who knows what he wants in life. Currently, I am missing my half, my man, my lover. I hope that he will be a little romantic and he will always smile when he thinks of me because I'm going to make him adorable


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Hello everyone nice to meet you Female 47 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

I'm 5 ft 4 single female I like drinking going to beach


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Looking for, ages 46-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Sub

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Im looking for a strong lovely sub. Female 34 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

I am a female dominant.  I have been in the lifestyle on and off for about 2years now.  I heard of this website from a podcast I follow and decided to give it try.  I don't like to roleplay online but I do like to tease.  I also like to brain storm and see what idea can brew or just simply compare our everyday journey.  I enjoy giving spankings


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