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I am a mistress looking for submissive Female 31 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

I like feminization, bondage, chastity, pussy worship, Ass face sitting, Role play, Ass licking, panties/ lingerie, humiliation, pegging, anal, alot of things really.
Don't like pain.


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Its nice to join you guys hopefully I do get to meet the honest and truthful he.. Female 40 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

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Trying to find the right someone Female 40 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

I am a young woman who loves to explore new things and live life to the fullest. I have a passion for travel and love to immerse myself in different cultures. I am a very outgoing and social person, and I love spending time with my friends and family. I am also very passionate about music, and love attending concerts and festivals whenever I get the chance. Overall, I'm excited to see what the future holds and am looking forward to meeting new people and making meaningful connections but the main purpose I'm here is to find a nice man to create a family with!


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Im a mistress and Im looking for my slave Female 51 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

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It’s worth a try so why don’t we give it a try . Female 56 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

I like to listen to music, dance, sing, walk, watch movies. I like to go to the gym and travel. I dream to see a lot of new countries.


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Im experienced Dom been into this  lifestyle for many years looking for somethi.. Female 35 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

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Looking for just a serious man in my life Female 38 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

I'm so cool in meeting new people and I just want to meet a man that'll take me serious in my life


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exploring the world with an open heart and a contagious smile. Ready for meaning.. Female 37 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

I am a charming, sensitive and sincere, passionate, hot, romantic, single lady. I want to find true love and a true man on this dating site. It is important for me to receive love and give it in return. I am a person who really knows what she wants, and who is ready for a real meeting! Life is short. Do not waste your time!


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Im 39 years old, living in the Honolulu region. Female 39 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

I'm 39 years old, living in the Honolulu region.
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Im a switch woman that gets excited training subs and also a good girl for dadd.. Female 45 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

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Hey there I’m on here looking for meetups and to experience new things on here l.. Female 36 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

Get busy living or get busy dying when the student is ready the teacher shall appear A fool is sure of anything a wise man keeps on guessing I dont mind you been sadist i love pain and i sometimes like been bisexual depends on what my man want i am  just looking  for a real relationship I like to laughing but enjoy making others laugh more than i do


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Looking for a partner in crime to enjoy life with. Female 27 from Hauula Hawaii, USA

Love fishing  and also like video games love going out to beach and I like riding a bicycle


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I am self-confident, funny, friendly and loving. I love this life and would like.. Female 33 from Kaneohe Hawaii, USA

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I am filipino, Puerto Rican, Native American, Trinidad & Barbados. I am from Oah.. Female 19 from Ewa Beach Hawaii, USA

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Being in love save life than being unhappy Female 42 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

I am a widower, having lost my beloved partner some time ago. Since then, life has presented its challenges, and I’ve found myself navigating the ups and downs of being a single parent to my dear daughter. While I cherish the bond we share, there’s an undeniable void in my life that yearns to be filled.


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Im 38 years old, living in the Honolulu region. Female 39 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

I'm 38 years old, living in the Honolulu region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 38 and 99.


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I am always open to discover something new: new countries, new people, new cultu.. Female 37 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

I am a tender and caring woman. I am kind, but strict, beautiful, but faithful. I make friends easily. Making people beautiful and happy is what I do with great pleasure. I believe that life is a gift. We should I have strong values in life and want to create a strong family! I am sure that people should value every single moment! I want to have a good family. I want to be happy as a woman, and I want my man to be happy every day!


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My name is Irene I come from Germany Female 27 from Kaneohe Hawaii, USA

Social like to get more friends I don't like to be angry


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Mature, kinky and a disciplinarian. Female 44 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

You don’t want to get on my last nerve, be prepared for what you’re getting into, I’m fierce and lovely.
But remember I’m the one in control.


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Looking for someone who knows how to please a woman...i enjoy men of all races a.. Female 33 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

I am a very caring, friendly person open for love and serious relations. I am also an intelligent lady with a good sense of humor. I am a joyful and have pretty emotional personality along with feelings of compassion and empathy.  I am loving, tender and affectionate girl and I am sure I could create a beautiful world around myself and my beloved man.


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I can be whatever you’re looking for ♥️ Female 23 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

I got what you’re looking for :) I’m 24 and live in Honolulu. Can’t wait to talk to you


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Hello everyone nice to meet you Female 47 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

I'm 5 ft 4 single female I like drinking going to beach


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A simple lady down to the earth Female 41 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

I’m a newbie here willing to experience new things as well


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I am goddess looking for serious submissive Female 31 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

like feminization, boy,  trans,  panties/ lingerie,  humiliation,  pegging,  anal,  alot of things really.
Don't like pain


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