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Mature, kinky and a disciplinarian. Female 44 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

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I consider myself someone who is very clear about what she wants from life Female 41 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

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Im 39 years old, living in the Honolulu region. Female 39 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

I'm 39 years old, living in the Honolulu region.
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I can be whatever you’re looking for ♥️ Female 23 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

I got what you’re looking for :) I’m 24 and live in Honolulu. Can’t wait to talk to you

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Im looking for a strong lovely sub. Female 34 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

I am a female dominant. I have been in the lifestyle on and off for about 2years now. I heard of this website from a podcast I follow and decided to give it try. I don't like to roleplay online but I do like to tease. I also like to brain storm and see what idea can brew or just simply compare our everyday journey. I enjoy giving spankings

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I am a sensual and romantic woman who was born for love and be loved. I am a woman who is serious and knows what she wants and needs in this life. My character is kind and soft, you will never hear me raising my voice, I do not like conflicts, I prefer to discuss all matters face to face. I also believe in true and pure love. I think that I am a woman for marriage, and I will be a good wife, lets try. I believe that it will help me to find one man for all my life. I do not want to play any games, and all I what is to create a strong and happy family.

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Im 38 years old, living in the Honolulu region. Female 39 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

I'm 38 years old, living in the Honolulu region.
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Looking for just a serious man in my life Female 38 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

I'm so cool in meeting new people and I just want to meet a man that'll take me serious in my life

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Im Doris, Single with no kids and I want to meet a man who will never raise a h.. Female 33 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

a man who knows what he wants in life. Currently, I am missing my half, my man, my lover. I hope that he will be a little romantic and he will always smile when he thinks of me because I'm going to make him adorable

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Honesty and love with myself is my letter of introduction because this way I can.. Female 53 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

Honesty and love with myself is my letter of introduction because this way I can truly love the person next to me. I think that when you love yourself you are also capable of loving others. I am not a person of short relationships,i am a widow and I dedicated myself to myself; However, I think the time has come to give it a chance with someone who will know my value...

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Looking for a partner in crime to enjoy life with. Female 27 from Hauula Hawaii, USA

Love fishing and also like video games love going out to beach and I like riding a bicycle

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Married and looking for discreet relationship outside marriage. Female 32 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

My husband been away working on a contract job overseas for over 6 months, I need sex desperately.

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I am calm and very fun to be with i would like to find a new man whos loving and would be a lovely partner

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Trying to check thing out here Female 32 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

I'm 32 years old, living in the Honolulu region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 33 and 65.

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