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An experienced master who is actively searching for a male partner who shares a genuine enthusiasm for exploring our shared fetish preferences. This journey of exploration is not only an opportunity for us to indulge in their desires but also a chance to forge a deep, trusting connection with a like-minded individual.
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Dom

I'm a DOMINANT woman, who enjoys training men on how to be a loyal and submissive man, ready to please his partner and how to live the alternate BDSM lifestyle. I've led the BDSM lifestyle for years now, i am not into blood or scat or any form of permanent markings or bruises, i am not into much pain at all, rather, i like the kinky role play, bondage play, pussy worship, foot worship, and other special ways at pleasuring one's partner. My main aim is to derive pleasure in ways unexplainable. There's so much to this lifestyle i want to show to my potential sub/slave. All i want is your obedience and loyalty, and above all, your submission to me as your mistress
Straight
Looking for, ages 43-80.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age Gap, Age play, Anal, ASMR, BDSM, Bondage, Couples, Crossdress, Electro Play, Feet, Group Sex, Impact Play, Leather / Latex, LGBTQIA+, Mature, MILF, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Games, Sex Toys, Threesomes

I'm a woman who is talented, smart and so different from every other girl. For me every women is beautiful, each woman has a unique personalities, like me I have a simple personalities like romantic, sweet and down-to-earth and I can say that I have always positive insights of life. Our life is so short so let's cherish it. I have different interests. I like to communicate with interesting people. I'm the kind of woman that willing to share my life with the right man. I'm the kind of woman that has a personality of friendly, romantic, sincere, amiable, family-oriented, and especially God-fearing.
Straight
Looking for, ages 50-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age play, Anal, BDSM, Body Hair, Couples, Crossdress, Cuckold, Curves, Dirty Talk, Dom, Electro Play, Erotic Fiction, Feet, Fetish, Lingerie, Mature, MILF, Oral, Outdoor Fun, Petite, Roleplay, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub

I like reading books, painting, listening to music. I like to prepare tasty dishes. I also like outdoor activities and sports.
Straight
Looking for, ages 49-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Sexual Massage

I'm here to find a serious relationship.
I like to travel
Sea mountain
Like going to the mall
Shopping once a month
I'm single, never married,I want to meet a kind hearted person and willing to accept me for who I am
Straight
Looking for, ages 55-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Pegging, Sex Toys, Sub

I mainly get on here on the weekends thanks to having 3 little ones (who will always come first for me).
Looking to explore my submissive side with knowledgeable Doms.
Gonna be honest I can't afford the VeryImportantPerson subscription so if I'm not going to be able to see your message please don't message me it's just a waste of both of our time. Also do not message me if you don't have a basic understanding of grammer and spelling. Doesn't have to be perfect cause mine sure ain't. So if you are still here... I DO NOT WANT A RELATIONSHIP!!! Divorced mom of 3 who loves to read. Now I want to have an adventure outside of books. I know a lot about BDSM (or whatever label you want to put on it) from research but have no practical experience. Looking to personally feel the things I have read about that make me long for a Doms touch.
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-59.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Discreet Meets, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Fetish, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub

I am a positive person, so I see life in bright colors! I am a calm and active lady. I don't like to sit at home and do nothing. That's why I always try to practice myself, develop my skills in everything.
Straight
Looking for, ages 48-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Bukkake, Couples, Fetish, Full Swap, Outdoor Fun, Soft Swap, Threesomes, Webcam

I like feminization, bondage, chastity, , pussy worship and ass face sitting panties/lingerie, humiliation, pegging, anal, alot of things really.
Don't like blood, , or pain.
Straight
Looking for, ages 20-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Roleplay, Sex Toys

Well, I'm just your lowkey woman, living life to the fullest! I'm a lover of all things cozy – you'll often find me curled up with a good book and a cup of tea. I'm passionate about my hobbies, like gardening and baking, and I enjoy spending time with my friends and family, whether it's hosting dinner parties or going on outdoor adventures. Overall, I'm just trying to make the most of every moment and spread a little joy wherever I go
Straight
Looking for, ages 45-69.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Outdoor Fun

Anything good makes me happy i love life. Keep it real love
Straight
Looking for, ages 46-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Curves, Feet, Lingerie, Outdoor Fun, Sex Talk, Sexual Massage, Tickle Play

all my life has been engulfed with misery and loneliness, i watch my life layer wide spread in front of me and didnt know what to do with it..
Straight
Looking for, ages 34-67.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Couples, Dirty Talk, Mature, Oral, Outdoor Fun, Sex Talk, Sexual Massage

I fundlementaly expect to achieve deep Trust, Communication, Safety, Commitment, and Growth (personally, professionally, sexually and more). All fetishes, desires and fantasies are welcomed. Some of mine are listed but this is an evergreen process between two partners.
Straight
Looking for, ages 54-72.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Roleplay, Sex Toys

In My presence you will feel overwhelmed by My beauty. My femininity will make you feel weak and very humble. Kneeling down in front of Me, you will shiver and tremble, unable to control yourself
Bisexual
Looking for, ages 22-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age play, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

I'm 53 years old, living in the Des Moines region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 44 and 90.
Straight
Looking for, ages 44-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests,

I am very open and really interested in serious and worthy one who knows that their rightful place is under my feet, to worship my body, ass and feet.
Straight
Looking for, ages 49-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age play, BDSM, Fetish, Sub

I'm 51 years old, living in the Waukesha region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 40 and 99.
Straight
Looking for, ages 40-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age play, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Roleplay, S&M

I think it would be hot to see a man or woman kneel for me. Who likes me telling them how good they are.
Bisexual
Looking for, ages 21-47.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Roleplay, Sex Toys, Sub

This relationship is about training the sub to trustsomeone else. My interest is in training you. The moreunexperienced you are the better. The more you arelooking for someone to trust, the better.
Straight
Looking for, ages 42-62.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, Sex Toys

I’ll be honest I’m a totally passenger princess and definitely have a black cat personality
Straight
Looking for, ages 29-40.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Dom, S&M, Sub

I'm 36 years old, living in the Illinois City region.
I'm interested in meeting a transgender person or a man aged between 41 and 91.
Straight
Looking for, ages 41-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

My personality traits are joking kidding teasing people but never forget my responsibilities..
Straight
Looking for, ages 35-88.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age play, Anal, Couples, Cuckold, Curves, Dom, Impact Play, Outdoor Fun, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Temperature Play, Tickle Play

Are you willing to give up control and let me guide you through the game, or do you prefer to resist and face the consequences?
Let your eyes revel in their perfection, and let your hands tremble with the desire to give me pleasure.
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay

I’m easy going person I like Traveling and fishing and I’m looking for friendship first
Straight
Looking for, ages 44-80.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age play, Dirty Talk, Electro Play, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Sex Games, Sex Talk

Let me tease you into submission till I’m satisfied
Bisexual
Looking for, ages 18-76.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age play, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Roleplay, Sex Toys

I’m good and honest serious lady looking for a long term relationship
Straight
Looking for, ages 50-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sexual Massage

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