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I’ve been single for so long, I need a genuine man to share my life with Female 40 from Fremont California, USA

I’m simple woman who is looking for a genuine man to spend the rest of my life with, I don’t care where you from, what matters is what the heart has to offer for each other


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Looking for the right one someone i will spend the rest of my life with and be f.. Female 40 from California Hot Springs California, USA

I am a person who is positive about every aspect of life. There are many things I like to do, to see, and to experience. I like to read, I like to write, I LOVE INDOOR AND OUTDOOR.


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Learning My Role as a submissive Female 46 from French Camp California, USA

I'm kind of particular in some things when it comes to being submissive. I don't want a mystery Dom who I don't even know if I'm attracted to or not. Super new to the lifestyle, but I think everyone here will have different definitions of what it means for them. Im looking for a Dominate man that I'm hyper turned on by. I don't want to be asked to submit right off the cuff so please don't go there. I have a strong personality with most people but when my Dom is near I want to be completely taken back by his presence. I love collars and leashes. I enjoy light discipline with small amounts of pain but I prefer pleasure. I have set boundaries that are non negotiable. I also have some that I fully expect to be pushed slightly. I don't want to be degraded.. I like to please my Dom based on the things he's attracted to the most. I'm extremely turned on by a large hand wrapped around my throat and hair pulling. There's more but you'll need to find out for yourself if you can get that far.


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Better days ahead let talk now Female 48 from San Jose California, USA

Self control and take good care of my hygiene, love to kiss and get spank I love to cook and listen to some sweet jazz and blue music,love swimming and camping , i can be very romantic and passionate lady


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I taste for a long romantic warm kiss in time of night sleep and a deep suck coc.. Female 46 from Fremont California, USA

I'm looking for friends, possibly friends with benefits. If that goes into a LTR, great. If not, that's ok as well. I'm just very lonely and need a friend. Tired of sleeping naked and single all the time. I need a peaceful fun.


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Im a dominant one seeking to be worshipped. Female 30 from Sacramento California, USA

I'm completely dominant and experienced ,I would like to share my fetishes as a DOM woman with kinky males on here..


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Im here to meeting new people and exploring Female 27 from San Francisco California, USA

I'm very inquisitive and love to explore,what can I say learning never ends


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I’m a cool independent lady Female 42 from California Hot Springs California, USA

I love fun a lot and love to party and dance and I also love hicking


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Welcome to My world, the world of Femdom. The world in which men exist only to .. Female 32 from San Jose California, USA

Welcome to My world, the world of Femdom.
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considerate lovers who understand the importance of mutual respect and consent. .. Couple 27, 43 from Rio Linda California, USA

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You shine better than a star! m Female 29 from Sacramento California, USA

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Im looking to have a kinky experience here! Female 28 from Sacramento California, USA

I'm completely dominant and would like to explore and meet new  submissive people here.


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I would like to tell you a bit about myself. I am woman of strong character and .. Female 46 from San Jose California, USA

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In love and feeling adventurous Couple 42, 42 from Sacramento California, USA

High Sch00l sweethearts that have spent our lives together. We Have Now we're experiencing and experimenting our fantasies and fetishes with eachother.


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Looking for my soulmate and hope you are here? Female 45 from Atherton California, USA

The most important quality I have; I'll tell you when we meet. I can say for sure, I am an optimist. I feel like I'm at the stage in my life when everything should be fine. I am not afraid to make discoveries, to explore something new and unknown for me in feelings and a relationship. I don't want to spend my life alone, I am a cheerful and loving woman, I want to give love and affection! I want and can prove it in real action, perhaps you'll notice it first. Our happiness is in our hands, agree? Less words, more action!


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LA lady, Midwest baby with time also spent on the East Coast. I have a career, l.. Female 37 from Los Gatos California, USA

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I love being active, learning new things, and spending as much time outside in the sun!


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Hello, Im looking for someone to have some fun with! send me a message Female 27 from San Jose California, USA

Currently single and I'm looking for a long term fwb partner


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Hello everyone here, im new here and im single and im here to look for a serious.. Female 38 from Los Banos California, USA

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Ask me anything you wanna know Female 34 from Union City California, USA

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Send me a message and maybe we’ll meet up for some under-cover work. Female 35 from Santa Rosa California, USA

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A BEAUTIFUL MISS WANTS TO EXPLORE HER FANTASIES Female 34 from Fremont California, USA

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Here for a good time, not a long time. Looking to meet new people and have fun Female 27 from San Francisco California, USA

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I really want to owned you as my sissy slut forever Female 38 from Fernley Nevada, USA

I am a caring Mistress..Life is going very well and I have never been more positive about the future. I am seeking an attractive, intelligent, and willing sub to train and spoil.


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Hi!! Im mistress Jenelle and Im good with what I do as a Dom and need a very l.. Female 29 from Atherton California, USA

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I am a very simple person, hope to find a simple man. You dont have to be rich,.. Female 42 from Sacramento California, USA

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