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Hello everyone, im new to the sit. lets vibes! Female 33 from Worcester Massachusetts, USA

i like to meet new people, i like to hang out with friends, i love listening to hip hop music. i love swimming and i love cooking.


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Looking for a senior Master. I love to serve and please. Female 69 from Alexandria Virginia, USA

I am Blonde. Five ft 3 inches 165 pounds and loosing more. I’m in good health . Walk 1/2 to 1 mile everydayLove to be used as Master wants,.


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Am dominant mistress, i am into sexual and domestic training and service i am ve.. Female 41 from New Hampton New Hampshire, USA

I am a powerful and beautiful mistress and very g term female led relationship.I have all been in this interested in lifestyle for seven years years and it has really been excellent,I am willing to tell you more about me but if you are interested in serving me and always address me as goddess Lisa


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Am looking for a Responsible man, who is Honest, Kind, Learned, Beautiful at Hea.. Female 42 from Rhodesdale Maryland, USA

I do want to go on with my life and I’ve asked God to bring someone into my life who will want me for me and be good to me because I know that there has to be someone out there for me because his never does anything without a reason even if we can’t figure it out. I know just because the lord has someone else in mind for me to share the rest of my life with because he doesn’t want us to be alone or lonely.I think showing affection in public is part of the acceptance of a relationship, Public intimacy is my thing. I miss that though. I like to held and to walk while holding my hand still, it's fun I guess.


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Looking For Like Minded Individuals To Hang Out With. Netflix & Chill, Cuddle, P.. Couple 40, 44 from Cherry Hill New Jersey, USA

I’m A Gemini & He’s A Virgo, You Do The Math lol. We’re very laid back individuals. We have a “No Drama” policy. Nothing but positive vibes.


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Being loyal without illusions, and for that reason you shall feel the weight of .. Female 34 from Albany New York, USA

I couldn't help touching myself yet another time. Are you ready to get kinky with me.


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Lets enjoy the best of fun in truth because we all not growing any younger Female 41 from Florida New York, USA

Am so so ready to enjoy all the best of fantasies because sex and joy of being submissive and a mistress is never common but comes with speciality


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I am a female currently serving a Dom looking for a playmate. Female 40 from Lowell Massachusetts, USA

I am looking for a new Daddy or master to serve. Still fairly new to the lifestyle but ready and willing to learn and adapt.


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Ready to dominate any submissive slut Female 27 from Boston Massachusetts, USA

I’m a dominant mistress seek for a submissive slut to own forever


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Im 25 years old, living in the Little Falls region. Female 25 from Little Falls New Jersey, USA

I’m open for anything and I definitely going to outside and doing some other stuffs that will makes me happy as well


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Im very serious about this online dating,because i hope i will find the right m.. Female 33 from New York New York, USA

I'm not the types of women who usually come online just for playing games or breaking heart. I do respect myself very well, so i will not introduces myself In doing such things like that. I will never do such harmful thing to you when we have much feelings for each other,and I will never do nothing to hurt someone feelings that he have for me. I will never do nothing to hurt you too, never would I


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Married and looking for fun outside marriage Female 32 from Newark Delaware, USA

I’m compassionate, affectionate, inquisitive, sexy, clean with no diseases. I’m looking into meeting someone for quality fun.


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IMMA A DOM SEEKING FOR A SUB TO OWN AND COLLAR AS MINE Female 30 from Bensalem Pennsylvania, USA

I like feminization, bondage, chastity, shemales, panties/ lingerie, humiliation, pegging, anal, alot of things really.
Don't like few bits


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"Passionate about exploring new adventures and making meaningful connections. Lover of good food, great conversations, and spontaneous road trips. Let's share laughs, create memories, and see where the journey takes us!"


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I love to explore different ways of domination with my submissive Female 34 from Pennsville New Jersey, USA

Love exploring different ways of domination with my sub. But I'm also looking for more intimacy. I work. I don't always have time but will try to make out time for the one that's special to me.


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Am a very well respected and slowly going woman, To be Loved and Be Loved Female 36 from Maryland Line Maryland, USA

I am a person who looks beyond what may be the obvious. Character is worth more than flashiness. I am a person who appreciates honesty and a great sense of humor.. I love to laugh and to enjoy the simple things in life. I would appreciate a person who has a good sense of who he is and a sense of direction about where he wants to be. I can appreciate a man who sees a woman as a friend and a partner...


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I’m a good lady good person good woman strict but fair with firm hand great kiss.. Female 27 from Wellesley Massachusetts, USA

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Model,single and also available for fun Female 25 from New York New York, USA

I'm 25 years old, living in the New York region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 41 and 75.


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I’m honest and loyal with a heart of giving? Female 36 from Newark New Jersey, USA

I am positive and active, romantic and loyal, gentle and passionate at the same time. I still believe in eternal love and I know that with me you will become the happiest man in the world. I have a big and kind heart and I invite you to live in it.


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Im 30 years old, living in the California region. Female 30 from California Maryland, USA

I'm 30 years old, living in the California region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 21 and 89.


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Im into extreme experiences and am looking for a fun-loving partner to join me .. Female 53 from Pennsville New Jersey, USA

'm into extreme experiences and am looking for a fun-loving partner to join me on my latest adventure


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Am an open book ask me anything Female 50 from Emmaus Pennsylvania, USA

Am an honest woman searching for the same thing ,i dont  lie or cheat ...


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Sky dives adventures muff diving fast cars ... Sequential sex , Simon says games , your ideas , dates with good food and eating each one taking turns under the table game.


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Am a loyal Dom looking for a kind heart Submissive partner whom will listen to m.. Female 44 from South Carver Massachusetts, USA

Have been into this lifestyle for years and I know how it feels . Be loyal and honest to me then we cool , I will explore your submissive part


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Hey, I’m Miss Ray. I’m a findom who loves to dominating men into submission. Female 32 from Boston Massachusetts, USA

What gets me excited:-Complete control -Seeing men in compromising positions-Obedience - Worship for allowing them to access this space with me.-The bond and trust built when engaging in these activities together.


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