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We are a happy polycule who date both single and as a couple. We value intellige.. Couple 57, 55 from Cologne New Jersey, USA

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I’m sweet, ambitious and thoughtful. Female 37 from Florida New York, USA

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Im 30 years old, living in the Florida region. Female 30 from Florida New York, USA

I'm 30 years old, living in the Florida region.
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am a switch i can be submissive and dominate depending on who i am with ...i lov.. Female 38 from New York New York, USA

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I am new on here seeking for someone real Female 49 from Baltimore Maryland, USA

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