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I am pretty with good heart loving Providence Rhode Island, USA , 51

I am friendly and passionate like swimming and out door games

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Life is for the living, let’s live it Alexandria Virginia, USA , 29

I am a wonderful, smart young mistress, am love and enjoy amazing conversations and exploring nature at its peak. I am dominant woman that enjoys training submissive males

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Im 41 years old, living in the Newburgh region. Newburgh New York, USA , 41

I'm 41 years old, living in the Newburgh region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 18 and 90.

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Looking for love in all the wrong places... New York New York, USA , 36

Nice girl with a naughty streak. Looking for real and right; not just right now. This is the last place I'd expect to find that, but you never know unless you try. Kindness, intellect, a sense of humor, and the ability to hold a conversation beyond the sexual are a must. Chivalry and sarcasm are a bonus.

A bit of a nerd, introvert and book worm, I am slow to warm up,  but all the best things in life are worth waiting for. I'm not the life of any parties, but looking for someone who makes me want to go to some. I love the theatre (and sometimes come late), travel, exploration, animals, amusement parks, arcades and board games and a plethora of other things... many of which covid has sadly done a number on.

My interest in the world of BDSM, and particularly submission and control, is confined to the bedroom and other such parameters. I otherwise very much enjoy freedom.

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looking for some spice in our sex life... Delhi New York, USA , 43, 39

hi,we r married couple..looking for gud couple for swaping n group fun...

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A reliable , safe , discreet and communicative Playground for submissive New York New York, USA , 30

I’m a alpha dominant seeking to explore the depths of desires . I embrace every moment with enthusiasm and open heart

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Love and enjoy the fun part and I dont want a serious relationship, i just want.. Newark New Jersey, USA , 37

am kind, caring and considerate. I am a good listener, know about the heart of others. Let's memorize all the good things, cherish what we have right now, and create a cozy home together.

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I am easy and on going lady with big heart filled with love and care Delaware City Delaware, USA , 43

I'm 43 years old, living in the Delaware City region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 45 and 90.

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Am just a loyal and honest girl Am not here for relationship. Just fuck. . . c.. Ashburn Virginia, USA , 38

When I makes more friends
My interest in them increase

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In everything, always count on my love because I will never stop loving you New York New York, USA , 25

Caring lady, honest, truth and loving lady and sex

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I want to train and explore the bdsm lifestyle with a more loyal and committed s.. Philadelphia Pennsylvania, USA , 44

I feel excited having an absolute loyal submissive who’s more active to pleasure and worship me as his dominant mistress

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Hi just here to meet serious people Hillsborough New Jersey, USA , 25

Oh, there are so many things that get me excited! I love trying new foods, exploring new places, and learning interesting facts. But most of all, I get really excited when I get to chat with awesome friends.

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I am a woman who values and strives to create a home. For me, the most important.. Newark Delaware, USA , 38

I am a woman full of energy and passion for life. I am inspired by nature, and I love spending time outdoors, especially hiking and traveling. I like to discover new places, learn something new and immerse myself in the culture of different countries. Besides that, I also have a talent for cooking. I like to experiment with different cooking recipes and create delicious dishes. If you like to enjoy delicious food, then I'm sure I can cook something special and please you.

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Im seeking that slave/ sissy/ submale i can use and control, Be it sexually and.. Denver Pennsylvania, USA , 31

like feminization, boy,  ,  panties/ lingerie,  humiliation,  pegging,  anal,  alot of things really.
Don't like blood, or pain.

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hello everyone im new on here and ready to meet you all on here im lisa petters.. North Bergen New Jersey, USA , 45

im more into everything and willing to met you all asap on here

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Welcome subs, fetishists, CDs, sissy maids, servants, role players, masochists,.. Hartford Connecticut, USA , 29

I take pride and have full confidence in My intuitive ability to read a submissive subtle tells.

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52 yo female looking for male friendship & more Franklin New Hampshire, USA , 53

I love the male body. Summertime.  Music. Sweat. Being active. Sex. Good food .

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I believe in the power of love, and I’m hoping to find someone to share my life .. New York New York, USA , 38

Hi, I'm Maria. I'm an Ambitious career woman who knows what she wants, I'm a loyal and Supportive friend. Looking for someone down-to-earth, with goals, Intelligent, who has a great sense of humor, and the willingness to share the journey.

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Im 34 years old, living in the North Scituate region. North Scituate Rhode Island, USA , 34

I'm 34 years old, living in the North Scituate region.
I'm interested in meeting a woman or a man aged between 32 and 53.

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Don’t ever lie to someone who trust you . Pennsville New Jersey, USA , 39

Fun, Submissive, Pegging, chastity, crotch rope, gag

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New to this, Looking to have some fun, meet new people Auburn Massachusetts, USA , 37, 42

We are looking for people w similar interests. chemistry and positive energy are very important because once we click you know what’s happens next…

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I do not have any ideal or high expectations, but I would like to meet a man wit.. Fairfax Virginia, USA , 50

Despite my age, I am an open, active woman, free in thoughts and judgments. There is no taboo for me, but freedom, sincerity, feelings, emotions are very valuable. I am straightforward and confident in the goals that I set myself

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I am a loving woman, sincere, caring, responsible, friendly, trustworthy, unders.. Delaware City Delaware, USA , 52

I am a caring woman, sincere, romantic, loving, friendly, responsible, with many goals in life. I am family-oriented and looking forward meeting the love of my life.

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Looking to explore BDSM as a dom. I will train you to be a better submissive . &.. Atlantic City New Jersey, USA , 32

Looking to explore BDSM as a dom. I will train you to be a better submissive . &bdsm True romantic at heart.

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We are looking for couples and Bi singles to explore with. We prefer withen the .. North Bennington Vermont, USA , 51, 51

We are a happily married couple looking to make connections with others for short and long term friendships.

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