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I'm 47, hoping to find my submissive male. I would like a sub in the bedroom and a vanilla man outside of the bedroom to be my partner. Please be respectful at all times xx

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Im experience dom seeking for an obedient sub that is ready to explore his inne.. Female 41 from Pennsburg Pennsylvania, USA

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Im a born miss trying to explore my kinks and fetish over here Female 42 from California Maryland, USA

I like having fun, most especially when I'm trying out my kinks and fetishes, I like to dominate

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Mistress is willing to teach you everything you need to know about this lifestyl.. Female 34 from Philadelphia Pennsylvania, USA

Mistress enjoys being in control of my partner, what are your inner desires, let me know and we can explore them together

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Somos Una pareja en busca de sexo. Y pasarla Genial Couple 42, 41 from Bronx New York, USA

Somos Una pareja que nos gusta el Sexo,a mi Esposo le gusta verme con otros y a mi tambien.Sabemos lo que Queremos. Si no estas seguro y no tienes fotos por favor ahorranos el Tiempo y sigue buscando.

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I am a cute kinky lading wanting to find a discreet friend or LTR ,Would love to.. Female 40 from Pennsburg Pennsylvania, USA

I am looking for casual relationship with man. By casual I mean both intimate and social (going places, doing things) - it will be ongoing with relationship hopefully growing, but not necessarily exclusive (at least initially).

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Single looking forward to a long term relationship Female 28 from Boston Massachusetts, USA

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