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An experienced kinky Dominique Female 30 from Danville California, USA

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Fun loving and looking to have some fun Couple 47, 36 from Citrus Heights California, USA

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I think life can never be without a relationship Female 28 from Union City California, USA

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I’m a dominatrix and I’ve led this lifestyle for quite some time now Female 37 from San Jose California, USA

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New looking to meet couples or single people to have with. Couple 43, 32 from Lodi California, USA

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Want to explore ?? Pm me let’s explore together xxx Couple 36, 36 from Ukiah California, USA

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I am a good entrepreneurial and very educated woman, I like to give my best ever.. Female 45 from Pittsburg California, USA

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I’m a model, also a great mistress. Just want to meet subs and have fun Female 31 from Bakersfield California, USA

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Dominance is a trait I find amusing, it is often times misunderstood but if you’.. Female 43 from American Canyon California, USA

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Just trying to have some freak nasty fun Female 36 from Fairfield California, USA

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I’M WILLING TO OWN A SUB TO TRAIN AND OWN AS MINE Female 36 from San Jose California, USA

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Darkness is not just about what we can see, it is a lifestyle we all need to exp.. Female 34 from Sacramento California, USA

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Caring Mummy Dom looking for a healthy and clean sub who is ready to have his de.. Female 47 from San Francisco California, USA

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Any submissive man out there who’s willing to serve mistress Female 38 from San Francisco California, USA

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I am the Goddess of Pleassure! Female 32 from San Francisco California, USA

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Im a switch woman that gets excited training subs and also a good girl for dadd.. Female 46 from San Francisco California, USA

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Im 49 years old, ready to enjoy life again Female 49 from Oakland California, USA

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Very new sub, looking to fuck/ exposure to community Female 33 from Stockton California, USA

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Please we can make it work if only we join hands together Female 39 from California Hot Springs California, USA

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Looking forward to find someone serious Female 38 from San Jose California, USA

I’m a one man type of lady, hoping to find something serious on here.. Build a better life together


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Im in need of a man that wants to spank me and dominate me Female 64 from Sacramento California, USA

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Im 45 years old, living in the French Camp region. Female 46 from French Camp California, USA

I'm 45 years old, living in the French Camp region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 36 and 56.


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Hello dear, how are you doing today.Nice to meet you, Id love get to know you b.. Female 52 from Sacramento California, USA

Hello dear, how are you doing today.Nice to meet you, I'd love get to know you better but i'm not always online here. text me…


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Learning My Role as a submissive Female 46 from French Camp California, USA

I'm kind of particular in some things when it comes to being submissive. I don't want a mystery Dom who I don't even know if I'm attracted to or not. Super new to the lifestyle, but I think everyone here will have different definitions of what it means for them. Im looking for a Dominate man that I'm hyper turned on by. I don't want to be asked to submit right off the cuff so please don't go there. I have a strong personality with most people but when my Dom is near I want to be completely taken back by his presence. I love collars and leashes. I enjoy light discipline with small amounts of pain but I prefer pleasure. I have set boundaries that are non negotiable. I also have some that I fully expect to be pushed slightly. I don't want to be degraded.. I like to please my Dom based on the things he's attracted to the most. I'm extremely turned on by a large hand wrapped around my throat and hair pulling. There's more but you'll need to find out for yourself if you can get that far.


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I LOVE TO MAKE EVERYONE AROUND ME TO SMILE THAT WHY I LOVE TO SMILE AND BE HAPPY.. Female 51 from Sacramento California, USA

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