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Seeking meaningful connections Female 49 from New York New York, USA

Oi... people please read b4 messaging Female, experienced, employed, serious, and seeking like minded others.  NOT here for casual sex, can get that anywhere. Deeper connections preferred.   Will sub to the RIGHT Dom, but seeking those who live to serve.  Don't be boring if you message me, at least TRY to get my attention. Very open minded to many forms of kink. Oh yeah, DON'T be married unless you both cum as a package  otherwise I don't play that way.  Open to POSSIBLE long-term, live ins, 24/7 lifestyle if you prove to be a potential candidate to serve this house (for this seeking those younger than me), however not holding my breath for that.  I am not needy so I can be picky. I have been wronged b4 so trust will not come easily.  I will expect to meet in person if you show promise, not into online time wasting.  Really just want to find my people I can be free and have fun with, go to bdsm parties with or just hang out and enjoy some non-vanilla life.


Demisexual

Looking for, ages 21-50. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Dom, Fetish, Sub

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As a female dominant on this BDSM dating site, I am a confident and experienced .. Female 40 from Florida New York, USA

Physically, I am blonde yet powerful, with a commanding presence that demands attention.
My soft voice can be both soothing and demanding, and I know how to use it to get what I want. I have a penchant for dressing in black leather and lace, and I take great pride in my appearance as a dominant woman.


Straight

Looking for, ages 31-51. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Pegging, Roleplay, Sex Toys

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OPEN TO SERIOUS MINDED PEOPLE ONLY. Couple 29, 29 from New York New York, USA

I AM HONEST , LOYAL , EASY TO GET ALONG WITH AND WILL LIKE TO MEET UP WITH LOYAL MINDED PEOPLE ONLY


Straight, Straight

Looking for, ages 36-86. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Erotic Fiction, Mature, Oral, Outdoor Fun, Sex Talk, Sexual Massage, Sub, Tickle Play

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Im Mistress Nancy, I am dominant in the BDSM lifestyle and I love training and .. Female 39 from New York New York, USA

I love loyal and obedient subs, you must be ready to live the BDSM lifestyle with me in a discrete way


Straight

Looking for, ages 56-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, Sex Toys

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Hi am Gina nice meeting everyone Female 40 from Pittsfield Massachusetts, USA

comfortable and soft conversation , biking ,music  and swimming and fishing


Straight

Looking for, ages 46-85. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Outdoor Fun

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Im 48 years old, living in the Brookline Village region. Female 48 from Brookline Village Massachusetts, USA

a lot of tools, cars, motor cycles, vinyl records, movies, dvds, VHS, laserdiscs ect. stereo systems according to her it's junk.. I was once in a very toxic relationship that almost ended my life but I am happy I am pass that stage.,It’s been 3yrs now and I finally think I am ready to move on with my life and spend time with a man whom would love and cherish me everyday unconditionally because I am unqiue I AM different, affectionate, devoted, easy going.. I getting ready to climb a mountain near me and looking for a Man karengeorgebesser att Gmel Dorrt come..that a clue that would like to climb it with me as WE WILL COME DOWN FOR FOOD ONLYU


Straight

Looking for, ages 48-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Couples, Dirty Talk, Sex Talk, Tickle Play

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Im 41 years old, living in the Newark region. Female 41 from Newark New Jersey, USA

I'm 41 years old, living in the Newark region.
I'm interested in meeting a couple or a man aged between 40 and 99.
I'm White / Caucasian  Blonde hair
I will travel for hookups


Straight

Looking for, ages 40-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age Gap, Age play, Anal, ASMR, BBW / BHM, BDSM, Body Hair, Couples, Curves, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Dom, Edging, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Feet, Fetish, Group Sex, Impact Play, Lace, Lingerie, Mature, MILF, Oral, Outdoor Fun, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Temperature Play, Threesomes, Tickle Play, Voyeurism

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Welcome to my world. I am ready to lead you through the thrilling realms of domi.. Female 38 from Greenwich Connecticut, USA

I’m looking for an alpha sub/ slut who is obedient, loyal, playful, coral, who lives to please. A sub body love, a houseboy, capable of giving mind numbing massages, who looks good in an apron and nothing else, I am a very sexy pervert looking woman/ mistress, Very active in participation and am ready to meet my other half, a sub to owned Am looking for a sub that will be able to listen to me , communicate his feelings to me , make me laugh, hold and comfort me in need, stan d by my side, respect me, passionate lover in every way, de support me in everyway, love me and only me, make me smile, protect me when needed, romantic time to time, constantlyreative, and treat me right. I am longing for a 24/ 7 relationship based in alternative lifestyle, am a mistress and am proud of it, are you ready for the relationship


Straight

Looking for, ages 18-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Sex Toys

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Im 36 years old, living in the Washington Depot region. Female 36 from Washington Depot Connecticut, USA

I'm 36 years old, living in the Washington Depot region. I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 27 and 75


Straight

Looking for, ages 27-83. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests,

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I like feminizationy, bondage, chastity, shemales, panties/lingeri e, humil.. Female 31 from New York New York, USA

I am a dominant mistress seeking for a submissive to explore


Straight

Looking for, ages 20-85. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Anal, ASMR, BBW / BHM, BDSM, Bondage, Dirty Talk, Edging, Erotic Fiction, Feet, MILF, Oral, Outdoor Fun, Roleplay, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Threesomes, Voyeurism

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Im finally comfortable in my own skin and like who I am YES. Whoever I love, I .. Female 37 from New York New York, USA

Talking about my self, I love friends and family,  I am a fun person and make friends easily.  I love life,  love my family and still have some love to share with a special man.  Life can be lonely without someone. . . I am a person who is very real when it comes to life and its' issues.  Am honest, kind caring, affectionate, good sense of humor, easy going, free thinker, trustworthy and respect the lives of other people.


Straight

Looking for, ages 40-89. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Sub

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Im 28 years old, living in the Denver region. Female 29 from Newark New Jersey, USA

I'm 28 years old, living in the Denver region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 27 and 77.


Straight

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Just a curious little girl looking to explore my kinky side more. Female 25 from Springfield Massachusetts, USA

I'm 25 years old, living in the Springfield region.
I'm interested in meeting a couple or a woman or a man aged between 28 and 38.


Bisexual

Looking for, ages 28-38. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Sub

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looking for some spice in our sex life... Couple 43, 39 from Delhi New York, USA

hi,we r married couple..looking for gud couple for swaping n group fun...


Straight, Bisexual

Looking for, ages 18-72. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Couples, Cuckold, Discreet Meets, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Full Swap, Outdoor Fun, Soft Swap, Threesomes

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I am mistress searching for a someone who is looking to explore his/her submissi.. Female 42 from New York New York, USA

As a dominant mistress, I am looking to explore my kinks with submissive male who ready to explore the lifestyle


Straight

Looking for, ages 35-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Dom, Fetish, Pegging

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Seeking for my soul mate, someone I can call my own and spend the rest of my lif.. Female 36 from Piscataway New Jersey, USA

I am a communicative and open-minded person. I can easily accommodate different people. I cannot only listen but hear. At the same time I have a pronounced personality and personal point of view on everything. I am an ideal subordinate, but creative and independent enough to make my life full and interesting.


Straight

Looking for, ages 40-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests,

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Am a dom seeking for submissive sub to train to be mine Female 31 from Birmingham New Jersey, USA

I like feminization, bondage, chastity, pussy You worship, Ass face sitting, Role play, Ass licking, panties/ lingerie, humiliation, pegging, anal, alot of things really.
I have some dislikes


Straight

Looking for, ages 18-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, S&M, Sex Toys

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I am a Dominant Goddess looking to meet new subs interested in the life style Female 42 from Jersey City New Jersey, USA

Step into the alluring world of dominance and submission with a Mistress who embodies grace, strength, and profound understanding. With a keen eye for trust and respect, I navigate the intricate realms of power exchange. My presence commands attention, yet my nurturing nature fosters a safe space for exploration and growth. As a Mistress, I am adept at reading desires, deciphering unspoken needs, and crafting experiences that push boundaries in the most exhilarating yet consensual manner. With a wealth of experience, I blend creativity and empathy to sculpt bespoke journeys of dominance, tailored to each submissive's yearnings. Beyond the leather and lace, I prioritize communication and mutual trust, fostering a connection that transcends the physical. Enter my world, where submission becomes liberation, and together, we unravel the profound beauty of consensual dominance and submission.


Straight

Looking for, ages 20-64. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Roleplay

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Im 40 years old, living in the Hartford region. Female 41 from Hartford Connecticut, USA

I'm 40 years old, living in the Hartford region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 52 and 81.


Straight

Looking for, ages 52-81. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Outdoor Fun, Threesomes

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Im a simple lady with and i have been single for 2 years look for someone who ca.. Female 46 from South Carver Massachusetts, USA

I'm 46 years old, living in the South Carver region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 54 and 87.


Straight

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A healthy, listening and communicative space for submissive Female 35 from Trenton New Jersey, USA

I’m a born dominant with lot of experience to teach my submissive


Straight

Looking for, ages 40-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Bondage, Cuckold, Discreet Meets, Edging, Fetish, Pegging, Sex Toys

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Dom looking for sub am looking for have a good time Female 63 from Manchester Connecticut, USA

Born and Raised in London no matter what you are going through Never think of giving up


Straight

Looking for, ages 70-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Dom, Sex Toys

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Come play with me. Looking to explore my submissive side Female 37 from Chicopee Massachusetts, USA

I love wax play, pain, flogging, nails drug down my back nipple clamps and clothes pins hasn't been much I haven't tried I didn't like let's talk


Straight

Looking for, ages 27-47. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Dom, Fetish, Roleplay, Sex Toys, Sub

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Am a Dom and am looking for sub if you are not a sub dont text me Female 28 from New York New York, USA

I am down for fun, I love swimming, club, walk, movie


Straight

Looking for, ages 20-75. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Dom, Fetish, Roleplay

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Haha I’m free to talk to.I’ve been hurt soo many times and don’t want that to ha.. Female 40 from Bronx New York, USA

I want to meet the man of my life,the one who’s ready to love me and be loved


Straight

Looking for, ages 45-74. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Couples, Outdoor Fun

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