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IM A DOMINANT MISTRESS SEEKING A OBEDIENT SUBMISSIVE TO TRAIN Female 32 from Santa Clara California, USA

I like feminization, bondage,  chastity,  shemales,  panties/lingerie,  humiliation,  pegging,  anal,  alot of things really.
Don't like blood , or pain.


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Im 33 years old, living in the Vallejo region. Female 33 from Vallejo California, USA

I'm 33 years old, living in the Vallejo region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 54 and 99.


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I’m a mistress and i give training to submissive male who is ready to submit to .. Female 28 from Campbell California, USA

Will only see experienced subs that are willing and able to please and do anything I said as her MISTRESS.. yes of course


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Hey...Its Michy here.... hook me up for some fancy adventure. Female 38 from American Canyon California, USA

I am adventurous and full of life. Hi.. I love working and playing fair... easy to relate with and be with (smile), I am verily interested in experiencing life. I love going for picnics and traveling, I like cooking, music and movies.


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Im 33 years old, living in the Vallejo region. Female 33 from Vallejo California, USA

I'm 33 years old, living in the Vallejo region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 43 and 99.


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Hi am farra am single funmy amd caring i wosh to have a man like the way i will .. Female 33 from Santa Clara California, USA

I'm 33 years old, living in the Santa Clara region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 35 and 90.


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Hi everyone I am here to listen and learn Female 47 from Union City California, USA

I am a honest lady and also and loyal one so I need a caring man


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However a big fantasy of mine is to sort of control a sub from a distance. Be th.. Female 28 from San Francisco California, USA

I can be very strict but a loving mummy findom, sissification, bondage, rope, role play, humiliation, face sitting, ball busting, ass worship and worship and toys just to name a few.


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My name is Traci, I am new to all of this and Im hoping to be able to enjoy my .. Female 42 from Sacramento California, USA

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Controlling and Dominating milf ready to make your desires a reality Female 31 from San Francisco California, USA

Horny milf needs a serious submissive man only so we can have a wonderful relationship full of sexual energies and fantasies


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True love first Female 25 from American Canyon California, USA

I'm Sweet girl and lovely as well...I'm lookin' for relationships


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I expect loyalty and obedience ;) Female 18 from San Mateo California, USA

I like actions over words. Show me don’t tell me how bad you want me


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Soy mexicana inteligente y bella Female 30 from Santa Rosa California, USA

Soy una mujer discreta, sensual, dispuesta aserte feliz..


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Just a fun couple looking for some kinky fun ! Couple 67, 67 from Reno Nevada, USA

Sex with others is always hot ! I really like eating a fresh cream pie out of her!


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A friend, girlfriend, lover. . . wife. . . . i am looking for long term relati.. Female 38 from Vallejo California, USA

i am looking for long term relationship...A friend, girlfriend, lover...wife..?


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Caring Mummy Dom looking for a healthy and clean sub who is ready to have his de.. Female 47 from San Francisco California, USA

For those submissives out there that truly understand…you are the rarest form of human beings. You are the most beautiful creatures God has placed on this earth. It's in complete submission that you find total freedom. I love the whole psychological element of BDSM. I don't want to have to make you to submit, I want you to submit because you know that you're safe with me. Because you know there is nothing I won't do for you. Because you know that I will walk through fire for you. It is the most beautiful thing in this world. A sub who loves his mistress enough to fully and completely surrender to Her.


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INTELLIGENT AND CARING MEN IS A TURN ON..LETS GET FREAKY AND KINKY..CARREER LADY.. Female 34 from Santa Clara California, USA

KINDHEARTED AND HERE FOR SERIOUS MINDED MALE. . DON'T COME IN HERE AND TALK DIRTY. . MIND YOUR WORDS AND BE INTENTIONAL. . LOVER OF GOODNESS AND CARING MEN.  I MAKE HAY WHILE THE SUN SHINES.  LOVE VACCATIONS AND NEW ADVENTURES.


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As a female dominance on this BDSM dating site I am a confident and experienced .. Female 40 from San Francisco California, USA

Physically I am blind yet powerful with a commanding presence that demands attention. My soft voice can be both soothing and demanding, and I know how to use it to get what I want. I have a penchant for dressing in black leather and lace, and I take great pride in my appearance as a dominant woman.

Mentally, I am intelligent and analytical, with a deep understanding of the psychology of power exchange. I am skilled at reading my partner's body language and non-verbal cues, and I am always looking for ways to push their boundaries and challenge their limits.

In terms of my BDSM interests, I have a wide range of kinks and fetishes that I enjoy exploring with my submissives. From bondage and impact play to humiliation and worship, I know how to create a safe and consensual environment where we can both explore our deepest desires.


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We are a couple of 23-24 looking to meet a woman that wants to have a crazy nigh.. Couple 24, 23 from Antelope California, USA

We like to go on hikes camping cars so if you’re interested in meeting us let’s chat


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Im 39 years old, living in the Santa Cruz region. Female 39 from Santa Cruz California, USA

Am Kelly,I have great respect for great men.I try to treat him tenderly and with kindness. All I have ever wanted in life is to be with a man who I am attracted to and he is attracted to me You can get me on together we both can make hoping we can share some love and get to know each other,


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I’m down to anything my duty is to serve you right Female 26 from Sacramento California, USA

I'm 26 years old, living in the Dallas region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 21 and 61.


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Hello I love to travel and I am a nature and outdoors lover, thats why I love t.. Female 36 from Union City California, USA

Hello I love to travel and I am a nature and outdoors lover, that's why I love to travel, I have a very noble and sweet heart, I like to help people around me and I really love my profession, I have my expectations very high here, I enjoy good and interesting conversations, I can and like to talk about anything, with me you won't get bored, do you want to find out ?

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Need partner: 20 - 75 years old
, I am looking for a good man for my life, a man with whom I can share the best moments of my life and the best experiences, someone with whom I can enjoy the best views, the best moments and the best laughs, I would like to know if That man is you, and if you are willing for your life to take an amazing turn


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Caring Mummy Dom looking for a healthy and clean sub who is ready to have his de.. Female 33 from Santa Rosa California, USA

I cherish anal and oral sex, I want to be the reason for you to scream and plead for pleasure.


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Sometimes I wish I would meet people like me but the universe does not work that.. Female 50 from San Jose California, USA

If I could only send one text to someone to contact me, I would probably put it as "Hey there! Let's connect and chat. Send me a text and let's start the conversation!


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I’m very active and very busy. Female 36 from Walnut Creek California, USA

I like to be used for others pleasure. Looking for someone that wants to be selfish.


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