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Im 51 years old, living in the Des Moines region. Female 51 from Des Moines Iowa, USA

I'm 51 years old, living in the Des Moines region.
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Im 42 years old, living in the Missouri Valley region. Female 42 from Missouri Valley Iowa, USA

I'm 42 years old, living in the Missouri Valley region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 50 and 90.


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Im Looking for a simplistic man with a serious sense of Humor, A Loving, Car.. Female 40 from Saint Paul Minnesota, USA

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Mistress seeking loyal submissives Female 59 from Hastings Minnesota, USA

Mistress looking for submissive subs for longterm meets.

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Im 21 years old, living in the Iowa City region. Female 21 from Iowa City Iowa, USA

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Kinky adventurer seeking play partners for mindful exploration Female 35 from New Hampton Iowa, USA

I am experienced in BDSM activities. I primarily identify as a submissive but could switch. I enjoy bondage, role playing, sensation play, impact play. I prefer direct and explicit communication from my partner with a touch of mutual respect. I do outdoors mostly


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Im a switch woman that gets excited training subs and also a good girl for dadd.. Female 45 from Des Moines Iowa, USA

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I thought I could give it a try Female 18 from Des Moines Iowa, USA

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I’m Mary and a good hearted woman. Sincere and honest with my decision, in a com.. Female 44 from Minnesota Lake Minnesota, USA

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Hi everyone,I’m new here,wanna make some friends Female 42 from Minnesota Lake Minnesota, USA

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I’m a Dominant woman, who is looking for a submissive grow into a 24/7 with deep.. Female 49 from Illinois City Illinois, USA

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Looking for NBSP; that Nbsp; special older one , who will rekindle the flame of .. Female 24 from Iowa City Iowa, USA

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Am new here looking for a submissive slave or a sissy slut to serve me and worsh.. Female 25 from Minneapolis Minnesota, USA

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Just looking for no drama, nsa fucking!!! Female 59 from Melrose Iowa, USA

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Lets explore our sexual fantasies and desires together Female 33 from Saint Paul Minnesota, USA

It take sec to make a good friend that last a lifetime


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Looking for fun spice up life with another couple Female 63 from Waterloo Iowa, USA

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Looking to explore my submissive side with knowledgeable Doms. Female 35 from Minneapolis Minnesota, USA

I mainly get on here on the weekends thanks to having 3 little ones (who will always come first for me).
Looking to explore my submissive side with knowledgeable Doms.
Gonna be honest I can't afford the VeryImportantPerson subscription so if I'm not going to be able to see your message please don't message me it's just a waste of both of our time. Also do not message me if you don't have a basic understanding of grammer and spelling. Doesn't have to be perfect cause mine sure ain't. So if you are still here... I DO NOT WANT A RELATIONSHIP!!! Divorced mom of 3 who loves to read. Now I want to have an adventure outside of books. I know a lot about BDSM (or whatever label you want to put on it) from research but have no practical experience. Looking to personally feel the things I have read about that make me long for a Doms touch.


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I am a kind, funny lady with a good sense of humor. I am optimistic, romantic, p.. Female 36 from Minneapolis Minnesota, USA

I am a very passionate, outgoing and positive woman who loves the thrill of adventure and reaching lofty goals. I consider myself to be a kind, loving and faithful woman. I am also optimistic, goal oriented and adventurous


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Looking for some safe adult fun. Female 42 from Saint Paul Minnesota, USA

What makes me happy is a strong confident man who knows what he wants and knows how to give a woman what she wants and wants to explore and figure out what turns me on.


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I’m looking for whom to serve me and worship by my feet as a mistress i am. Female 31 from Jolley Iowa, USA

I have been a mistress for more than 3 years now and I am an active member of a group of dominant both men and women in the city and all over the state. I will not accept anything less than your absolute submission and trust, which I take quite seriously. I cannot wait to take total control of your life.


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Looking for someone to do things with Female 33 from Ankeny Iowa, USA

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