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single here for that special someone Female 54 from Saint Paul Minnesota, USA

single never been married and am an independent woman


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IM A DOM SEEKING FOR A SUBMISSIVE TO OWN AND TRAIN AS MINE Female 29 from Des Moines Iowa, USA

I like feminization, bondage,  chastity,  pussy worship,  Ass face sitting, Role play, Ass licking, panties/lingerie,  humiliation,  pegging,  anal,  alot of things really.
Don't like blood,  faeces,  or pain.


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You will love me when you get to meet me Female 31 from Iowa City Iowa, USA

I love to have fun and enjoy both indoor and outdoor activities


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Looking to have fun,hangout,try new experiences Female 34 from Elk River Minnesota, USA

Easy going, open minded, spontaneous, like to travel, witty too


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I am very interested learng Bdsm. I need some work with me and very passion. I .. Female 51 from Saint Cloud Minnesota, USA

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I am kind, sincere and open lady. I like spending time outdoors, at the seaside... Female 53 from Albert Lea Minnesota, USA

The man I am looking for is serious and cheerful. He loves this life and enjoys getting to know this huge world! I see him as a person who stands with both feet on but with this still believes in miracles of this life. It would be great if he would love animals like I do)


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I like to be adventurous and active. Female 40 from Iowa Falls Iowa, USA

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I want someone real and ready to commit to me Female 26 from Minneapolis Minnesota, USA

Come let’s explore my kinky world and make memories together


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Im not very good with words so I dont know what to write Female 28 from Des Moines Iowa, USA

I'm 27 I'm looking into my submissive side I'm not good with words


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I am looking for someone who will take his words seriously and will keep his wor.. Female 48 from Bethany Missouri, USA

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I am looking for something real Female 49 from Des Moines Iowa, USA

I am a sub looking for a 24/7 TPE where I serve you and obey you. Yes, I understand what that means. Yes, I understand how it works. However, I am looking for a relationship with a partner that understands this type of relationship is still a give and take for both parties.


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I’m looking for a serious relationship,if you are here for fun dont bother to c.. Female 50 from West Des Moines Iowa, USA

My name is Mary,I'm new here searching for the right honest man who's ready to love and beloved.I work as a Veterniary Doctor giving treatment to animals and care for homeless animals.


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Adventure seeker Looking for fun and connection Female 34 from Minneapolis Minnesota, USA

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A Dominant mistresss seeking for a submissive sissy / sub willing to be obedient.. Female 34 from Minneapolis Minnesota, USA

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There is pleasure in pain, small but mighty. Female 33 from Illinois City Illinois, USA

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Switch looking for Dom who can handle sub side that is brat but sees respect or .. Female 35 from Iowa Falls Iowa, USA

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My name is Crystal. I am 38 years old. I am looking to have some fun. Female 38 from Altoona Wisconsin, USA

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Im glad to meet anyone thats interested in me Female 34 from Austin Minnesota, USA

Love has no limits and distance is never a problem once ❤️ is involved


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WISH I COULD COLLAR A SUBMISSIVE TO TRAIN AND COLLAR AS MINE Female 32 from Minneapolis Minnesota, USA

I like feminization, bondage,  chastity,  shemales,  panties/lingerie,  humiliation,  pegging,  anal,  alot of things really.
Don't like blood,  or pain.


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I’m looking for a sugar baby.. Female 51 from Saint Paul Minnesota, USA

I'm 51 years old, living in the Saint Paul region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 18 and 24.


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I’m good caring honest trustworthy and loving dominant goddess Female 32 from Atalissa Iowa, USA

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Hi everyone,I’m new here,wanna make some friends Female 42 from Minnesota Lake Minnesota, USA

I like simple things and I really enjoy laughing when I can


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Im very sexual and attractive..Im willing to explore and get to know more and .. Female 45 from Saint Paul Minnesota, USA

Once we begin texting i'll tell  you everything..i'm a simple girl who is ready for something new


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I take pride in my art , I will lead and Dom you like never before Female 38 from Illinois City Illinois, USA

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