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As a female dominant on this BDSM site, I am a confident and experienced individ.. Santa Clara California, USA , 52

I’m blonde and powerful, with a commanding presence that demands attention. My voice can be both soothing and demanding, and I know how to use it to get what I want. I have a penchant for dressing in black and purple leather and lace, and I take great pride in my appearance as a woman

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However a big fantasy of mine is to sort of control a sub from a distance. Be th.. San Francisco California, USA , 28

I can be very strict but a loving mummy findom, sissification, bondage, rope, role play, humiliation, face sitting, ball busting, ass worship and worship and toys just to name a few.

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Im 34 years old, living in the Union City region. Union City California, USA , 34

I'm 34 years old, living in the Union City region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 53 and 99.

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I would be happy if you can reach out to me let get to know more about each othe.. Walnut Creek California, USA , 38

I know that a lot of single ladies are looking for their love but not always successful, because virtual communication is very hard for some people. But I am an optimist and I hope that I will find my soul-mate here. I am a successful woman with kind heart and soul. I know what I want from this life, and I am ready for new relationships. I am cheerful, ambitious, sociable, romantic and caring girl with a good sense of humor. I like to have fun with friends and family..I want to find real and honest man. I want a person who will win my heart and will be serious and also passionate. I want to find mature man who know what is life and how to live with a mature woman. Man who is not afraid of my age.. I want man who ready to meet in real life

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Im very simple person and new on this online scene, Im seeking a serious long .. San Jose California, USA , 31

I am the only born in my family. I like outdoor activities. I usually like reading and doing sports. I also enjoy the sunshine on the beach in summer. I have an unfortunate family. My father abandoned me and my mother when I was very young, but this does not affect my own family. I want to seek a sincere and kind man to be with me and set our own family. I run my own business, so the other party doesn't need to be rich.

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I’m a dominatrix and I’ve led this lifestyle for quite some time now San Jose California, USA , 37

Im looking for a sub to train for a long term relationship

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Im seeking a serious long term relationship and more. Someone special to captur.. Herald California, USA , 40

I am searching for someone who shares the following qualities with me. Thoughtful, loving, goal oriented, along with sense of humor,  softspoken, well mannered,  dedicated. I also love to read and travel for my job.  My interests are many. An honest man,  intelligent,  loyal,  affectionate,  easy going,  romantic, soft-spoken and sensual

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I’m down to anything my duty is to serve you right Sacramento California, USA , 26

I'm 26 years old, living in the Dallas region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 21 and 61.

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I have alot of naugty things on my mind i will like to explore them with you Oakland California, USA , 37

I hope you come to me with sincerity and genuine love

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Any responsible man outta here? Come closer Mr. Don’t be shy, I’m here now. San Jose California, USA , 32

I am a gentle and sensual girl at heart, but my work and my work responsibilities made me to be strong and responsible. I love my job and do my duties well, but frankly I'm not doing a good job with my personal life. I'm here to change my life, I want to be happy. I want to be perceived as a woman, not as a good employee.

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I need a passionate, caring, mature male who will know how to pacify and tame me.. Union City California, USA , 34

I have a very kind soul and an open heart! I am very kind to people! Especially to those who need my help! I like helping people, and I will always come to the rescue and will not pass by those in need! I help orphanages and do charity work. I am very tired of being alone and I dream of mutual and pure love!

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I am a DOMINANT woman, who enjoys training men on how to be a loyal and submissi.. San Francisco California, USA , 36

I am a DOMINANT woman,  who enjoys    Face sitting feminization, bondage, Chasity,
panties/lingerie, collared, pegging, anal, oral, pussy eating, alot if things really
Don’t like blood, faeces or pain

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Very new sub, looking to fuck/ exposure to community Stockton California, USA , 33

Loves rough fantasy, wants to try it rough, but new to community

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Im 43 years old, living in the Denville region.Kindly leave any form or way to .. Nevada City California, USA , 43

I'm 43 years old, living in the Denville region. I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 61 and 85.I'm Mixed Ethnicity with a Average body shape Blonde hairI don't drink I don't smokeI will travel for hookups

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I’m here seeking for something special Santa Cruz California, USA , 38

I’m here seeking for something serious, With no games nor drama

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Hi Im looking for a friend first and maybe more later. I want to laugh, dance ex.. Alviso California, USA , 61

Hi Im looking for a friend first and maybe more later. I want to laugh, dance explore this world-just looking for someone to join me

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Fun loving and looking to have some fun Citrus Heights California, USA , 47, 36

Hate talking about myself ask any questions and I’ll answer them

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Im 48 years old, living in the Santa Clara region. Santa Clara California, USA , 48

I'm 48 years old, living in the Santa Clara region. I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 39 and 59.

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Learning My Role as a submissive French Camp California, USA , 46

I'm kind of particular in some things when it comes to being submissive. I don't want a mystery Dom who I don't even know if I'm attracted to or not. Super new to the lifestyle, but I think everyone here will have different definitions of what it means for them. Im looking for a Dominate man that I'm hyper turned on by. I don't want to be asked to submit right off the cuff so please don't go there. I have a strong personality with most people but when my Dom is near I want to be completely taken back by his presence. I love collars and leashes. I enjoy light discipline with small amounts of pain but I prefer pleasure. I have set boundaries that are non negotiable. I also have some that I fully expect to be pushed slightly. I don't want to be degraded.. I like to please my Dom based on the things he's attracted to the most. I'm extremely turned on by a large hand wrapped around my throat and hair pulling. There's more but you'll need to find out for yourself if you can get that far.

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Im 18 years old, living in the Rio Linda region. Rio Linda California, USA , 18

I'm 18 years old, living in the Rio Linda region.
I'm interested in meeting a couple or a man aged between 18 and 40.

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Busco hombre que quiera disfrutar de el cuerpo de mi esposa San Jose California, USA , 39, 39

Deseo ver a mi esposa teniendo una bna comida enfrente de mi y besarla hasta que la agar llegar

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Looking for a sub to fund our lifestyle Oakland California, USA , 23, 23

What gets us excited is Being in control, taking trips, and having fun with our subs.

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I am a loving, caring, honest, passionate, intelligent, affectionate woman with .. Healdsburg California, USA , 35

i am looking for a good person with so much love,not looking for a perfect person but want to feel what true love is all about.

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I don’t want time wasters and unserious sub. San Francisco California, USA , 37

I have the zeal for the BDSM lifestyle, not every woman should be a Mistress. I am here to rock your kinky world and take you on a long ride in my UNIVERSE.

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As a female dominance on this BDSM dating site I am a confident and experienced .. San Francisco California, USA , 40

Physically I am blind yet powerful with a commanding presence that demands attention. My soft voice can be both soothing and demanding, and I know how to use it to get what I want. I have a penchant for dressing in black leather and lace, and I take great pride in my appearance as a dominant woman.

Mentally, I am intelligent and analytical, with a deep understanding of the psychology of power exchange. I am skilled at reading my partner's body language and non-verbal cues, and I am always looking for ways to push their boundaries and challenge their limits.

In terms of my BDSM interests, I have a wide range of kinks and fetishes that I enjoy exploring with my submissives. From bondage and impact play to humiliation and worship, I know how to create a safe and consensual environment where we can both explore our deepest desires.

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