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experienced dom looking for an occasional BDSM playmate. Female 46 from San Francisco California, USA

i always enjoy being in control enjoy teaching you to behave. you know how much you love to be pleasing


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I’M WILLING TO OWN A SUB TO TRAIN AND OWN AS MINE Female 36 from San Jose California, USA

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Looking for the kinksters like us to enjoy life! Couple 51, 51 from Sacramento California, USA

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Hi everyone I am here to listen and learn Female 47 from Union City California, USA

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Im new here looking for honest and and amazing man that wanting some good love Female 42 from San Jose California, USA

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Im a dominant woman who derives pleasure beyond imagination with sub. Female 35 from San Francisco California, USA

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I don’t want time wasters and unserious sub. Female 37 from San Francisco California, USA

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I’m a lovely lady with a pure heart ❤️it’s all love Female 33 from Union City California, USA

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Im 39 years old, living in the Santa Cruz region. Female 39 from Santa Cruz California, USA

Am Kelly,I have great respect for great men.I try to treat him tenderly and with kindness. All I have ever wanted in life is to be with a man who I am attracted to and he is attracted to me You can get me on together we both can make hoping we can share some love and get to know each other,


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Looking for someone serious to know each other !! Female 49 from Courtland California, USA

I enjoy music from the 60s & 70s, R&B,Cools,Country songs- Van Morrison, Rod Stewart, David Campbell, Jimmy Barnes, Neil Diamond, Chris Rea and Elton John.Andrea Bocelli,blues and jazz. I like the theater but not the ballet


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I’m a sexy dom, that is is looking for a submissive man Female 38 from San Francisco California, USA

I'm ready to dominate whoever is willing to submit to me, Let's explore and enjoy the kinky side of this lifestyle, bondage and submission is the dream but I choose to Dominate


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Hello, Im currently looking for someone to have some fun with here Female 27 from San Francisco California, USA

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Im understanding Kinky Dominant woman with Lots of experience... Female 29 from San Jose California, USA

I'm 29 years old, living in the San Jose region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 20 and 90.
I'm White / Caucasian with a Average body shape Black hair
I drink socially I don't smoke


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Submissive older woman wants phone sex only about sexual spankings, talking dirt.. Female 69 from Paso Robles California, USA

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