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I’m a multifaceted dominatrix who delights and excels in fulfilling fantasies wh.. Female 33 from San Francisco California, USA

I am proud of who I am and have become in our community. I live and breathe the lifestyle with a passion.


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Hey, Lets chat and see where this will lead too Female 34 from San Francisco California, USA

Love going to the beach and love going out to high on whiskey


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I’m very active and very busy. Female 36 from Walnut Creek California, USA

I like to be used for others pleasure. Looking for someone that wants to be selfish.


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Hi Im looking for a friend first and maybe more later. I want to laugh, dance ex.. Female 61 from Alviso California, USA

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Im mistress Sophie and my opinion about the world is we all have one life to li.. Female 40 from Sacramento California, USA

I take delight in playing with the imaginations of my sub just as much as I take pleasure in exploring their sexuallity to the peak, I am intelligent, curious, adventurous, creative, compassionate... And real.

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Looking for a very specific type of man. If you need to let control go to a wome.. Female 35 from Santa Clara California, USA

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Send me a message and maybe we’ll meet up for some under-cover work. Female 35 from Santa Rosa California, USA

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We are looking for a woman that is willing to join us in a polygamy relationship.. Couple 38, 24 from Sacramento California, USA

I'm 38 years old, living in the Sacramento region.
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Im 18 years old, living in the Rio Linda region. Female 18 from Rio Linda California, USA

I'm 18 years old, living in the Rio Linda region.
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I’M WILLING TO OWN A SUB TO TRAIN AND OWN AS MINE Female 36 from San Jose California, USA

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Don't like pain.


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Love to make new friends ❤️love outdoors sometimes Female 38 from Penngrove California, USA

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I’m BBW looking for a man who will always spank me Female 63 from San Jose California, USA

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Loving, caring, truthfull and responsible Female 34 from Lodi California, USA

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I really want to owned you as my sissy slut forever Female 38 from Fernley Nevada, USA

I am a caring Mistress..Life is going very well and I have never been more positive about the future. I am seeking an attractive, intelligent, and willing sub to train and spoil.


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I will really like to see where this leads Female 36 from Atherton California, USA

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Im 34 years old, living in the San Francisco region. Female 34 from San Francisco California, USA

I'm 34 years old, living in the San Francisco region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 32 and 90.


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Im 36 years old, living in the San Jose region. Female 36 from San Jose California, USA

I am Brianna .Single With no never married ..I am here for a man who


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I am a very fit academic, bisexual. I am in an open marriage. I do cycling, weig.. Couple 78, 78 from San Francisco California, USA

I like people who like to socialize (conversation, dinner, perhaps going to a gallery or concert together, etc.). I am a bisexual male, vers. My wife is straight, but 'bi-comfy'. We usually play singly, sometimes as a couple. If we play as a couple, the man should be bi/bicurious, the woman either bi or straight. I am not particularly kinky. I'm a fairly avid cyclist. I love to walk. I read sci-fi to relax. I prefer people in fairly good to very good shape. I'm not comfortable with someone who is deceiving their partner, e.g., 'single' men on the 'down-low' (or the reverse, for that matter). Also, please do not bother to answer if you are a straight single man or a couple with a straight man uncomfortable being around a male bisexual. *I AM NOT "GENEROUS"!!*


Bisexual, Bicurious

Looking for, ages 40-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests,

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if you are looking for a woman who will emotionally support, love and be a frien.. Female 49 from Modesto California, USA

I love spontaneity and being a bit impulsive. I am continually attempting to function from the inside out and to go with my intuitive impulses, because sometimes the spontaneous actions are the most fun, not expected and purely delightful


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Darkness is not just about what we can see, it is a lifestyle we all need to exp.. Female 34 from Sacramento California, USA

I'm here to explore every aspect of this alternative lifestyle, I'm well experienced and continually learning to be the best for myself and my partner. Will you allow me to explore with you?


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Lifestyle Dom looking for a male sub for some extremely kinky submissive rolepla.. Female 43 from Sacramento California, USA

The opportunity to serve and be my sub will feel like the ultimate blessing for you. Serving me is a dream come true!!! Only the chosen ones can serve me


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My limits would be anything that I dont like and I will let you know when neces.. Female 35 from Sacramento California, USA

I am a dominant woman. I am not a dominatrix. This is not a profession, an act, or a role that I play. I am dominant by nature. I do not consider this a "lifestyle". This is how I am, has always been, and will always be. I am not just dominant sometimes. I am dominant all the time! I can’t turn my personality on and off. I am not just dominant in the bedroom. I am dominant in every room and everywhere.
I am not submissive in any way, nor will I do anything that is submissive. That means you or anyone else will never fuck me. So don’t expect a cuckold relationship because I am not nasty and have no interest in being with a bunch of people.
I will have a long-term relationship with a guy who knows his place. You will be in chastity almost daily. A LIVE-IN situation is what we will have.


Straight

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Am really honest sincere and trustworthy i do treat people how i want to be trea.. Female 46 from Santa Cruz California, USA

Am outgoing person,like shopping,going to beach,visiting nice places


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Im a passionate and caring person who is always looking for new experiences Female 24 from San Jose California, USA

Passionate about my career and always up for a challenge


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