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Single hoping to meet my dream man on here and i also know that nothing good com.. Female 45 from Atherton California, USA

Everything is our hands, this is why we should not give up - this phrase characterizes me in the best way. I believe that everything is possible, it goes about our efforts and inner strength. As you might have understood already - I am a purposeful, responsible and optimistic lady. At the same time I am kind and caring, compassionate, romantic. I am a big humanist. I am too much sincere and too trustful to people. I believe that a lady should be modest, smart and feminine! I know that all these qualities are in me!


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I’m m new here!! I’m a Goddess Female 33 from Sacramento California, USA

I’m looking for a new pet to train and enjoy my fantasies together


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Worship me through your wallet. Female 28 from Walnut Creek California, USA

California girl born and raised! I'm single with a fur baby. In my free time I love to cook, travel, and read. I'm a book worm and read mostly smut. I love when men fall at my feet and worship me.


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I’m looking forward to meet a honest and caring sissy to serve, trained and plea.. Female 31 from San Francisco California, USA

consider my self as a strict but also a loving mistress, To me, A male/sub as the case may be has to be 'malleable'  You have to be capable of adjusting your self to satisfy  your mistress wants , It could mean a different things to peoples  depending on the situation, As a good sub, you have to be ready to relinquish your WILL and CONTROL into the hands of your mistress


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I LOVE TO MAKE EVERYONE AROUND ME TO SMILE THAT WHY I LOVE TO SMILE AND BE HAPPY.. Female 51 from Sacramento California, USA

I am good looking lol, extremely romantic and passionate. Will be your best friend. I exercise daily. I communicate like a canary and don't use foul language. I am sincere and responsible....I am an excellent cook and love good wine. I am a neat freak. I'll dance on the beach with you.


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Handsome … I will be very happy to know more about you … Female 25 from San Jose California, USA

Handsome … I will be very happy to know more about you and if you really very interested in me because I want someone who is ready to make me feel like a woman and also a very supportive person who ready for me as we both help each other in terms of needs and wants handsome … but it is very important to meet up for real .. so please get in touch with me here so that we Can make it happen for real


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I was born and raise in Canada and when i was at the age of 18years old i lost .. Female 31 from San Francisco California, USA

I am not looking for a perfect man, because he will be the BEST for me. He


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Looking to meet a new sub for a relationship Female 38 from Sacramento California, USA

I am Dom seeking a sub for my satisfaction, my 3 holes are ready for my sub, I am willing to try new things and see where it lead us to


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experienced dom looking for an occasional BDSM playmate. Female 46 from San Francisco California, USA

i always enjoy being in control enjoy teaching you to behave. you know how much you love to be pleasing


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Looking for someone to have fun with , leave a contact if you’re interested Female 58 from Santa Clara California, USA

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WISH I COULD COLLAR A SUB TO CHAIN AND TRAIN AS MINE Female 31 from Santa Clara California, USA

I like feminization, bondage,  chastity,  shemales,  panties/lingerie,  humiliation,  pegging,  anal,  alot of things really.
Don't like blood,  or pain.


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Im 39 years old, living in the Santa Cruz region. Female 39 from Santa Cruz California, USA

Am Kelly,I have great respect for great men.I try to treat him tenderly and with kindness. All I have ever wanted in life is to be with a man who I am attracted to and he is attracted to me You can get me on together we both can make hoping we can share some love and get to know each other,


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Let’s explore that part of you that needs to be explored Female 28 from San Francisco California, USA

I’m a dominant female seeking a submissive male to dominate


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I am a very fit academic, bisexual. I am in an open marriage. I do cycling, weig.. Couple 78, 78 from San Francisco California, USA

I like people who like to socialize (conversation, dinner, perhaps going to a gallery or concert together, etc.). I am a bisexual male, vers. My wife is straight, but 'bi-comfy'. We usually play singly, sometimes as a couple. If we play as a couple, the man should be bi/bicurious, the woman either bi or straight. I am not particularly kinky. I'm a fairly avid cyclist. I love to walk. I read sci-fi to relax. I prefer people in fairly good to very good shape. I'm not comfortable with someone who is deceiving their partner, e.g., 'single' men on the 'down-low' (or the reverse, for that matter). Also, please do not bother to answer if you are a straight single man or a couple with a straight man uncomfortable being around a male bisexual. *I AM NOT "GENEROUS"!!*


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MARRIED COUPLE, Looking to meet up with some new friends and see how things go. .. Couple 55, 58 from Sacramento California, USA

Cool vibes cool people. Outside inside ,Looking to meet  men woman or couples that  like to work hard and play hard .


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As a female dominant on this BDSM site, I am a confident and experienced individ.. Female 52 from Santa Clara California, USA

I’m blonde and powerful, with a commanding presence that demands attention. My voice can be both soothing and demanding, and I know how to use it to get what I want. I have a penchant for dressing in black and purple leather and lace, and I take great pride in my appearance as a woman


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My limits would be anything that I dont like and I will let you know when neces.. Female 35 from Sacramento California, USA

I am a dominant woman. I am not a dominatrix. This is not a profession, an act, or a role that I play. I am dominant by nature. I do not consider this a "lifestyle". This is how I am, has always been, and will always be. I am not just dominant sometimes. I am dominant all the time! I can’t turn my personality on and off. I am not just dominant in the bedroom. I am dominant in every room and everywhere.
I am not submissive in any way, nor will I do anything that is submissive. That means you or anyone else will never fuck me. So don’t expect a cuckold relationship because I am not nasty and have no interest in being with a bunch of people.
I will have a long-term relationship with a guy who knows his place. You will be in chastity almost daily. A LIVE-IN situation is what we will have.


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My fantasy is to watch a couple or more fuck in front of me Couple 48, 40 from Sacramento California, USA

Watch people have sex have big cock have big tits freaks. Orgies group sex


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Hey slave, you found me.Im Exploring boundaries, seeking a submissive connectio.. Female 34 from Sacramento California, USA

I'm a huge fan of communication, trust, and consent. I'm all about exploring and  fulfilling your desires in a safe and pleasing consensual way. I'm open and honest about boundaries, limits, and ready to fullfil your desires by giving you a fulfilling and enjoyable experience.


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I am hida babe, just new here,I want a mature man for serious friendship Female 30 from San Jose California, USA

My.name is Hida, i am born  American citizen, but still single though


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Hello there, I’m looking for a long term sub, who is loyal and committed to this.. Female 41 from San Francisco California, USA

Fun and exciting mistress who is super about this lifestyle


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Experienced dominatrix seeking devoted submissives to explore the depths of plea.. Female 39 from San Francisco California, USA

Plus sized blondie goddess in search of a worthy submissive to practice the lifestyle intimately and professionally. Pleasing both sides of the spectrum


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Looking to Share Activities….. Female 61 from Clearlake California, USA

I’m interested in ongoing FWBs 2-3x/mo on wkends w people who r fit n physically active outdoors, n into pleasurable, safe sexual exploring. Sound like a match for you? My pics are from past 2 yrs. I value kindness, respect n honesty. Some of my interests are horseback riding; hiking (4-6 mi); kayaking; billiards; grilling/cooking; sensual, erotic, sexual n kink explorations. (Gender Neutral means I can be both receptive n proactive. I enjoy wearing sexy, accessible clothing n I also enjoy initiating and/or guiding pleasurable experiences.)


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