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Ready to embark on a romantic adventure together? Its inviting, positive, and .. Female 45 from Merced California, USA

Passionate traveler with a swing on the greens! Exploring new destinations and teeing off on the golf course are my perfect escapes. Looking for a partner who shares the love for adventure and a round of friendly competition. Let's create unforgettable memories on the road and on the fairway


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Charming and ready to explore, What can I say? New to this and starting to explo.. Female 34 from San Francisco California, USA

If you want to know more about me you can easily ask it away, But I do love to travel read books and sing.


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Hello I’m sure down for fun with a horny man.. let’s play Female 51 from Santa Clara California, USA

I’m in for fun and sure fun to be with.. let us get to play.. I only need a loving and mature one..


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Hi we are new to this looking to explore together its been a fantasy for a while.. Couple 41, 41 from Sacramento California, USA

Four play toys and sharing watching each other get off we been married for 21 years with our ups and downs never did anything like this yet we are both very sexual I can go for hours I'm energizer moby


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Caring Pet looking to take care of Sir Female 47 from Folsom California, USA

Fairly obedient pet with a bad girl streak looking for experienced Dom to mutually push each other’s limits .


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Divorced. Curious. Possibly looking for something fun. Female 43 from Tracy California, USA

I like reading, movies, music, DIYing. I love the water and nature.


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Im seeking like minded friends for fun playdates. Female 41 from Modesto California, USA

I love experiencing new things and enjoying life..


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I am a professional dominatrix, lifestyle Mistress, and one of the most naturall.. Female 35 from San Francisco California, USA

Authenticity is an essential part of my sessions. My lust for control and my naturally seductive nature equate to intensely atmospheric experiences for everyone involved. I am a firm believer that I should enjoy my time spent with my submissives just as much as they enjoy their time with me, their mistress.
Nothing makes my pulse race quite like having a submissive at my feet; willing to endure whatever I have in store for them for my enjoyment, for my pleasure.
When in my presence, rest assured that you’ll be in safe hands in a judgement-free environment, you are encouraged to discuss your interests in an open and honest manner. I am well-educated, intelligent and understand the complex psychological notions behind the yearning to visit a professional mistress.
This is not simply a job to me, it’s a lifestyle. I am and energetic and caring mistress, and have the necessary experience in order to lead you safely to a place where you can explore your submission without judgement.


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I was born and raise in Canada and when i was at the age of 18years old i lost .. Female 31 from San Francisco California, USA

I am not looking for a perfect man, because he will be the BEST for me. He


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I taste for a long romantic warm kiss in time of night sleep and a deep suck coc.. Female 46 from Fremont California, USA

I'm looking for friends, possibly friends with benefits. If that goes into a LTR, great. If not, that's ok as well. I'm just very lonely and need a friend. Tired of sleeping naked and single all the time. I need a peaceful fun.


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I am looking for someone in love with life and open to exploring all its possibi.. Female 38 from Petaluma California, USA

I am looking for a man who will respect me and my career. I know sometimes I need to work at night but I will try my best to accompany my family after work


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Hello I am new to scene and hope to find a friend who I can trust. Possibly for .. Female 55 from San Francisco California, USA

Nice people and music. I want to explore possibly  being sub to a stable and good hearted man/ disciplinarian .


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Hello everyone here, I’m just new on here and will be glad to meet new people wi.. Female 31 from Dixon California, USA

I'm 30 years old, living in the Miami region. I'm interested in meeting a couple or a man aged between 30 and 90.


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IM A DOMINANT SEEKING FOR A SUB Female 30 from Santa Clara California, USA

I like feminization, bondage,  chastity,  shemales,  panties/lingerie,  humiliation,  pegging,  anal,  alot of things really. 
Don't like blood, or pain.


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Here for a good time, not a long time. Looking to meet new people and have fun Female 27 from San Francisco California, USA

All happy girls are alike; every unhappy girl is unhappy in her own way. My kind of unhappy is full of self-deprecating humor, double IPAs, and Is actually pretty rad.Let me know if you want to be miserable together.


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I love traveling and discovering new places. I enjoy of nature, hiking and sing .. Female 39 from San Francisco California, USA

I am light, kind person but still serious and self-condident. By my character, I am wise, well-balanced woman and by my heart. I am sweet, tender and helping. Would love to have a nice dialogue and show my qualitites in more private way. I love music, dancing, spending my free time in nature, by the sea, thinking about life or dreaming. I always try to live in pleasure. I am a woman who looks after herself, does fitness and spiritual development.. I love photography and movies


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Looking to explore and reconnect with this part of my identity. Female 40 from San Jose California, USA

Hello! Thanks for checking out my profile. I recently separated from my husband who was very vanilla and am looking to reconnect with this side of my identity. Feeling safe is important, please don’t message asking for a random meetup. I need a human connection before meeting. Also, please don’t message me if you live in another state. Only local people, thank you. I look forward to hearing from you!


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I’m into pegging Bdsm Cross dressing Seduction Breast fetish Feet fetish .. Female 39 from San Francisco California, USA

I am sex lover, decided to enter here and experience new things. I love to explore my fantasies and fetish. Love to meet new people, socializing and lots of fun.


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Soy mexicana inteligente y bella Female 30 from Santa Rosa California, USA

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I am a Dom in search of a submissive male to explore our sex preferences. Female 37 from Davis California, USA

I want to meet a sub who is willing to submit to me as his mistress play with my body and satisfy me xxxly. Matured minds


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Im 51 years old, living in the Santa Clara region. Female 51 from Santa Clara California, USA

I'm 51 years old, living in the Santa Clara region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 48 and 82.


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Wanting to try something new and fun curious about threesomes Couple 50, 72 from Burney California, USA

Fantasize about it having a threesum having sexual contact with another female in front of your man friend


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Let me be the only thing on your mind all day Female 28 from Santa Rosa California, USA

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Im 28 years old, open to anything Like to explore Female 29 from Modesto California, USA

I'm 28 years old, I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 19 and 86.


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Im 29 years old, living in the Redding region. Couple 30, 30 from Redding California, USA

Looking to try new things and explore a little bit


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