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Hello... My name is Mistress Sarai and I am a sensual, elegant dominant who enjo.. Female 41 from Sacramento California, USA

Fun loving and cheerful personality, I generally stay positive and try to encourage and support the people I care about.  I tend to get along well with most people. As far as relationships go,  I separated more than a year ago after a very LTR, and I am getting back out there slowly now. I am honest, confident, creative, caring and kinky. Open minded and here for the discovery of meaningful play, that may lead to a more with the right person. I am happily single and really love my life, but I know from experience that I really prefer a relationship with someone special. I am seeking an honest and open minded personality. Someone who has qualities that  extend beyond just sexuality. I enjoy good conversation and a good sense of humor. I also hope to find someone who would enjoy fun outdoor activities, beach, boating, hiking, fitness, music, entertainment,  good food and travel. That being said, I want someone who matches my desires and passion for pleasure.


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Mistress is willing to teach you everything you need to know about this lifestyl.. Female 28 from Union City California, USA

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Kind of open to anything dont hesitate to send a dm Female 27 from San Jose California, USA

I'm Sheryl a kinky mistress looking for a submissive sub to make my own


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Ask me anything you wanna know Female 34 from Union City California, USA

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I am looking for an older special one who will rekindle the flame of passion and.. Female 30 from San Francisco California, USA

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Im a legitimate sovereign goddess Female 25 from American Canyon California, USA

Looking for  that  special older one, who will rekindle the flame of passion and desire that seems to have been lost in my past relationship. Someone willing to assist me and ready to live the alternate kinky BDSM lifestyle with me secretly


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Im ready to offer strict, yet sensual domination to all submissives and I genui.. Female 38 from Sacramento California, USA

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Looking for the kinksters like us to enjoy life! Couple 51, 51 from Sacramento California, USA

Hey Fellow perverts! Mature and secure couple looking for couples and select singles for regular play in and outside the bedroom that are d.d.f We are an easy going couple with experience in the lifestyle but don’t let that intimidate you newbie’s   as we are no pressure but ask you to be as genuine as we are. We like a few different dynamics of play so hit us up and see if it clicks with your type of kink? Wife is a Sexy and classy submissive vixen that is very Fun! If this sounds like your style hit us up and let’s make it happen. Happy hunting fellow kinkster!


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Looking to explore and reconnect with this part of my identity. Female 40 from San Jose California, USA

Hello! Thanks for checking out my profile. I recently separated from my husband who was very vanilla and am looking to reconnect with this side of my identity. Feeling safe is important, please don’t message asking for a random meetup. I need a human connection before meeting. Also, please don’t message me if you live in another state. Only local people, thank you. I look forward to hearing from you!


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Im 29 years old, living in the Redding region. Couple 30, 30 from Redding California, USA

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Caring Mummy Dom looking for a healthy and clean sub who is ready to have his de.. Female 47 from San Francisco California, USA

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I want somebody who will let me run all over them Female 34 from San Jose California, USA

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Looking for fun. I am interested in being a sub, but new to the community Female 33 from Stockton California, USA

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heyyy im Erin and im always kinky Female 18 from San Francisco California, USA

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The need to be the Dom with the ideal painslut. Less pain rather not much of pai.. Female 38 from San Francisco California, USA

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Im 38 years old, living in the San Jose region. Female 38 from San Jose California, USA

I'm 38 years old, living in the San Jose region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 41 and 93.


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My fantasy is to watch a couple or more fuck in front of me Couple 48, 40 from Sacramento California, USA

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Im very simple person and new on this online scene, Im seeking a serious long .. Female 31 from San Jose California, USA

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I’m m new here!! I’m a Goddess Female 33 from Sacramento California, USA

I’m looking for a new pet to train and enjoy my fantasies together


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Im 35 years old, living in the Los Angeles region. Female 36 from San Jose California, USA

I'm 35 years old, living in the Los Angeles region.
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