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Better days ahead let talk now Female 48 from San Jose California, USA

Self control and take good care of my hygiene, love to kiss and get spank I love to cook and listen to some sweet jazz and blue music,love swimming and camping , i can be very romantic and passionate lady


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Looking for, ages 49-89. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Sub

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Seeking a wide kinky relationship with an openminded people Female 28 from Stockton California, USA

Do you craved to belong to a Mistress who will truly own you, know you, teach you, train you? Do you dream of going to the depths of subspace that only a real D/s relationship built on trust can create? Do you wish to serve, obey and be cherished for it? I am highly experienced in D/s relationships and BDSM. I lived many years as a Mistress, I have preferred to be dominant to submissive Male's. I have experience in most BDSM activities from sensual to hardcore. However, now I am ready to find a submissive Male's to train and serve me a submissive who is willing and like to be told what to do I mean one who need this in he's life. I am kind but strict, caring but sadistic, understanding but exacting. I will take the Male I accept far, perhaps farther than he knows is possible. I am only seeking for that one true submissive to get to know and train for an ongoing serious connection.  But I will play casually with those who request politely.


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Looking for, ages 30-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Discreet Meets, Dom, Feet, Fetish, S&M

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Looking for casual hookups no strings attached no drama just fun Couple 48, 45 from Clovis California, USA

A woman with a nice ass one who's not afraid to try new things


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Looking for, ages 29-58. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Cuckold, Outdoor Fun, Webcam

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New looking to meet couples or single people to have with. Couple 43, 32 from Lodi California, USA

To try new things and have fun. Either soft swap or full. Even open to play with single girls and guys. New to this lifestyle looking to try new and exciting things,


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Looking for, ages 30-49. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Couples, Dirty talk to me, Discreet Meets, Exhibitionism, Full Swap, Group Sex, Outdoor Fun, Roleplay, Send naked pics, Sexual Massage, Soft Swap, Tell naughty stories, Threesomes, Video themselves, Voyeurism

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I am exactly the kind of person who wants to make my other half happy, but I exp.. Female 39 from Union City California, USA

I am exactly the kind of person who wants to make my other half happy, but I expect the same from him. I am an intelligent, sweet woman. I hope I can meet a man with whom I can build something more. Who will be my soulmate.


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Looking for, ages 59-89. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age Gap, Sex Games, Sex Talk

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Im 34 years old, living in the San Jose region. Female 35 from San Jose California, USA

Oral sex and sex toys make me happy because I cum quick through oral sex or sex toy. i love to give oral sex too and would love to 69 often


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looking for a partner i cant wait to have Female 53 from Sonora California, USA

A partner in everything and always. I think that men are looking for their woman to become best friend, faithful lover, a partner in everything, and always. Would you add to this list so that your woman is a caring housekeeper? Why not! I am ready to act! And you?


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Im seeking a serious long term relationship and more. Someone special to captur.. Female 40 from Herald California, USA

I am searching for someone who shares the following qualities with me. Thoughtful, loving, goal oriented, along with sense of humor,  softspoken, well mannered,  dedicated. I also love to read and travel for my job.  My interests are many. An honest man,  intelligent,  loyal,  affectionate,  easy going,  romantic, soft-spoken and sensual


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Looking for, ages 46-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Couples

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Becoming my devoted cash vessel is your life purpose It’s a big turn-on knowing.. Female 31 from San Francisco California, USA

Whatever Mistress says goes. I love a good boy who is a attentive listener. Do as you’re told. It makes me happy when you are eager and enthusiastic about serving and spoiling me. I might even let you worship my feet.


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I’m single and honestly looking forward to meet my life partner Female 48 from San Jose California, USA

I’m a happy woman kind and caring woman looking for my true life partner


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Looking for, ages 37-87. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests,

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Im single dominant mistress.. Female 34 from Roseville California, USA

I'm looking for a new submissive to please and serve me.


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Hi we are new to this looking to explore together its been a fantasy for a while.. Couple 41, 41 from Sacramento California, USA

Four play toys and sharing watching each other get off we been married for 21 years with our ups and downs never did anything like this yet we are both very sexual I can go for hours I'm energizer moby


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Looking for my life partner, someone to spend the rest of my life with Female 40 from Santa Clara California, USA

First of all I am looking for a true honest and faithful GENTLEMAN, you never have to impress me with a LIE, never start a relationship out with dishonesty it will not go far. Just be true to yourself and then you will be truthful with me. (yes I have been lied to and cheated on continuously throughout my previous relationship) therefore I am not giving up on finding true love and honesty from a true GENTLEMAN. I have closed that chapter in my life, looking to start my final chapter of love.


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Cant wait to explore so many things with my match Female 32 from San Francisco California, USA

Loving, caring and always happy to make new friends, my policy be good. No faking it.


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Hey there everyone! I am new here. i am a sound and open minded woman, i am qui.. Female 35 from Sheridan California, USA

I love to go for walks on the beach. I have quite a few likes. I am open to dinner nights and movies as well. I love reading too.


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My limits would be anything that I dont like and I will let you know when neces.. Female 35 from Sacramento California, USA

I am a dominant woman. I am not a dominatrix. This is not a profession, an act, or a role that I play. I am dominant by nature. I do not consider this a "lifestyle". This is how I am, has always been, and will always be. I am not just dominant sometimes. I am dominant all the time! I can’t turn my personality on and off. I am not just dominant in the bedroom. I am dominant in every room and everywhere.
I am not submissive in any way, nor will I do anything that is submissive. That means you or anyone else will never fuck me. So don’t expect a cuckold relationship because I am not nasty and have no interest in being with a bunch of people.
I will have a long-term relationship with a guy who knows his place. You will be in chastity almost daily. A LIVE-IN situation is what we will have.


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Im 49 years old, ready to enjoy life again Female 49 from Oakland California, USA

I am a great widow .Open minded and easy going,hoping to explore and make a great lifetime !


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I am intuitive by nature. While I am not a mind reader, I am frequently asked ho.. Female 29 from Modesto California, USA

Using my seductive charms, as well as a sharp tongue (and even sharper whip), I strategically leave you at my feet with my cunning playfulness.


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Looking for the man to be with Female 48 from San Jose California, USA

I do not think that I am not better than others, but I hope to be the best for my future partner. You will see that I`m active and spontaneous. I like to laugh and always try to be positive. I always try to understand others and it is easy for me to make friends. I am honest and open with my close people. I have everything to become an excellent wife or a lover to make my man happy sexually and be the best friend and a passionate lover for my man!


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Looking for, ages 49-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Couples, Outdoor Fun, Soft Swap

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Seduction served with simplicity and smiles :) Female 33 from Burlingame California, USA

Direct and honest communication stemming from genuine understanding and confidence in one's self.


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Looking for, ages 27-56. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests,

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I’m a massage therap*st and as well into hookups and content creating, not reall.. Female 26 from San Jose California, USA

I’m a massage therap*st and as well into hookups and content creating, not really on here , send a dm too know more about me


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Married and looking for hookups outside marriage. Female 33 from Sacramento California, USA

I’m compassionate, affectionate, inquisitive, sexy, clean with no diseases. I’m looking into meeting someone for quality fun.


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Let’s embark on an electrifying adventure where pleasure and pain come together,.. Female 44 from San Francisco California, USA

I’m gonna keep it brief. I’ve been kink for quite a while with experiences in a good number of kinks. Right now I crave entering into a kinky routine relationship with a mature mind.


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Hola somos una pareja amistosa y sencillos buena onda no nos gustan los farsante.. Couple 48, 48 from Stockton California, USA

Quisiéramos hacer un trío con un hombre ya que nunca lo hemos hecho y que sea duradero


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Im a dominant woman who derives pleasure beyond imagination with sub. Female 35 from San Francisco California, USA

I'm looking for that distinct older one who will relight the blaze of passion and desire that have been quenched, someone i can confide in and ready to live the bdsm kinky Lifestyle with


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