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Fun loving and looking to have some fun Couple 47, 36 from Citrus Heights California, USA

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I am a professional business owner/CEO with a back ground in Marketing and sales.. Female 39 from Lotus California, USA

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Hello I’m sure down for fun with a horny man.. let’s play Female 51 from Santa Clara California, USA

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This mistress is not here to waste time only wants an understanding mature slave to train into BDSM lifestyle


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Learning My Role as a submissive Female 46 from French Camp California, USA

I'm kind of particular in some things when it comes to being submissive. I don't want a mystery Dom who I don't even know if I'm attracted to or not. Super new to the lifestyle, but I think everyone here will have different definitions of what it means for them. Im looking for a Dominate man that I'm hyper turned on by. I don't want to be asked to submit right off the cuff so please don't go there. I have a strong personality with most people but when my Dom is near I want to be completely taken back by his presence. I love collars and leashes. I enjoy light discipline with small amounts of pain but I prefer pleasure. I have set boundaries that are non negotiable. I also have some that I fully expect to be pushed slightly. I don't want to be degraded.. I like to please my Dom based on the things he's attracted to the most. I'm extremely turned on by a large hand wrapped around my throat and hair pulling. There's more but you'll need to find out for yourself if you can get that far.


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I’m available , we can meet and have a long talk and nice time together Female 31 from Fremont California, USA

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I am a loving, caring, honest, passionate, intelligent, affectionate woman with .. Female 35 from Healdsburg California, USA

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Im a vibrant, captivating woman who thrives on embracing lifes endless possibi.. Female 40 from San Jose California, USA

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Hi we are new to this looking to explore together its been a fantasy for a while.. Couple 41, 41 from Sacramento California, USA

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Send me a message and maybe we’ll meet up for some under-cover work. Female 35 from Santa Rosa California, USA

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Dominance is a trait I find amusing, it is often times misunderstood but if you’.. Female 43 from American Canyon California, USA

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I get very attached to people and consider this my weakness. Mutual and fulfilli.. Female 49 from Union City California, USA

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Most of all I wish to find a life partner so that together we can set up our goa.. Female 39 from Fremont California, USA

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Im 40 years old, living in the San Francisco region. Female 40 from San Francisco California, USA

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I am a very simple person, hope to find a simple man. You dont have to be rich,.. Female 42 from Sacramento California, USA

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IM A DOMINANT GODDESS SEEKING FOR A SUBMISSIVE TO OWN AND TRAIN AND EXPLORE WIT.. Female 23 from Santa Clara California, USA

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Am looking for an obedient sub male that is ready to serve me in person and he m.. Female 36 from Richmond California, USA

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Tired of loneliness let give it a try Female 56 from Livermore California, USA

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I am a professional dominatrix, lifestyle Mistress, and one of the most naturall.. Female 35 from San Francisco California, USA

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