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I'm looking for a friend first. If it evolves into something more, wonderful. But, even if doesn't become romantic, I hope that I've at least made a new friend.


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Im 34 years old, living in the San Jose region. Female 35 from San Jose California, USA

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The unholy trinity of My wit, skill and ferocity will have you on your hands and.. Female 38 from San Jose California, USA

I go by SanJose Goddess, and addressing me as Mistress is non-negotiable. With few years of expertise as a professional Dominatrix in San Jose, I prioritize authentic encounters over predefined menus. Although I prefer the organic experience, here's a brief overview of my expertise, including Latex fetish and worship, Bondage using various materials (chains, ropes, leather, plastic, etc.), and indulging in Foot fetish and worship, among other skills.


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Just checking things out really wanna meet more like minded people Couple 54, 54 from Martinez California, USA

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Dominatrix mistress. BDSM course available.. kinky events has several Dom and BD.. Female 29 from Washington California, USA

I am a professional Dominatrix who will take over your soul and body. I have several years of experience in climate. I tailor the session individually, having a very strong influence on the emotions, which I will sadistically control. Through pain you will experience pleasure until every painful stimulus reminds you of me. Like a demon, I will make you dependent on me so that you will never be able to forget about me. You will crave more sessions with me and you will look forward to the next ones. What I value most about femdom is the feeling of full control, I love seeing fear, devotion and excitement in the submissive's eyes. Controlling the submissive's emotions is my greatest fetish. FAVORITE PRACTICESFACESITTING , FOOT FETISH, CORPORAL PUNISHMENTOTHER PRACTICESEROTIC DOMINATIONTEASE AND DENIAL, MAGIC WAND, RUINED ORGASM, JOI, CEI, VACBED, CHASTITY BELT, STRAPON ORAL AND ANALMENTAL DOMINATIONSPITTING, NAME CALLING, ROLE PLAY


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Id love to explore the possibility of a connection between us. Lets chat and s.. Female 38 from Santa Clara California, USA

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I’m Jenny and am a gentle and outspoken besides I’m fun to chat with trust me Female 24 from Santa Clara California, USA

I looking for a serious relationship that could lead to marriage


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I am an honest and good christian who loves being surrounded by family, friends .. Female 41 from Walnut Creek California, USA

I am generally an optimistic person with a sense of humor, fairly easy-going, and I don't think that I'm too critical about things in my life, but I also believe that it takes two people contributing to a relationship to make it work since we all do believe in Almighty God.


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I’m an experienced Beautiful Mistress open to all kinds of kinks sexual activiti.. Female 30 from San Francisco California, USA

I'm 30 years old, living in the San Francisco region.
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Looking for that special man who is ready to love and beloved Female 45 from San Francisco California, USA

I am 45 years older single, never married,I am an open minded woman with a heart of gold who love life to it’s fullest


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I’m a lovely lady with a pure heart ❤️it’s all love Female 33 from Union City California, USA

I’m happy when I make people happy, I do like to have fun as well. I love to draw, and paint. design clothes, sing, play the guitar, drums, bass, violin, and piano. I've been playing music since I was five years old. so music's been a part of My life... forever.


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Im a switch woman that gets excited training subs and also a good girl for dadd.. Female 46 from San Francisco California, USA

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Hey y’all, it’s Goddess Kennedy a beautiful lady seeking for a sub to explore Female 26 from Sacramento California, USA

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We are a couple of 23-24 looking to meet a woman that wants to have a crazy nigh.. Couple 24, 23 from Antelope California, USA

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I am a woman looking for that one devoted man for me Female 34 from Union City California, USA

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Looking to Share Activities….. Female 61 from Clearlake California, USA

I’m interested in ongoing FWBs 2-3x/mo on wkends w people who r fit n physically active outdoors, n into pleasurable, safe sexual exploring. Sound like a match for you? My pics are from past 2 yrs. I value kindness, respect n honesty. Some of my interests are horseback riding; hiking (4-6 mi); kayaking; billiards; grilling/cooking; sensual, erotic, sexual n kink explorations. (Gender Neutral means I can be both receptive n proactive. I enjoy wearing sexy, accessible clothing n I also enjoy initiating and/or guiding pleasurable experiences.)


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I am dominant mistress seeking for a male submissive to own is collar as mine an.. Female 41 from San Francisco California, USA

I'm 41 years old, living in the San Francisco region.
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Looking for someone to have fun with , leave a contact if you’re interested Female 58 from Santa Clara California, USA

Send me a messages , I’ll catch you up .. Always free to talk


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Kind of open to anything dont hesitate to send a dm Female 27 from San Jose California, USA

I'm Sheryl a kinky mistress looking for a submissive sub to make my own


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Hello dear, how are you doing today.Nice to meet you, Id love get to know you b.. Female 52 from Sacramento California, USA

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As a female dominant on this BDSM site, I am a confident and experienced individ.. Female 52 from Santa Clara California, USA

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I am exactly the kind of person who wants to make my other half happy, but I exp.. Female 39 from Union City California, USA

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Im 27 years old, living in the Manteca region. Female 28 from Manteca California, USA

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