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Looking forward to find someone serious Female 38 from San Jose California, USA

I’m a one man type of lady, hoping to find something serious on here.. Build a better life together


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Im 45 years old, living in the Union City region. Female 45 from Union City California, USA

I'm 45 years old, living in the Union City region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 50 and 90.


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Looking to meet a new sub for a relationship Female 38 from Sacramento California, USA

I am Dom seeking a sub for my satisfaction, my 3 holes are ready for my sub, I am willing to try new things and see where it lead us to


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Caring Pet looking to take care of Sir Female 47 from Folsom California, USA

Fairly obedient pet with a bad girl streak looking for experienced Dom to mutually push each other’s limits .


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I am dominant mistress seeking for a male submissive to own is collar as mine an.. Female 41 from San Francisco California, USA

I'm 41 years old, living in the San Francisco region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 28 and 99.


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I am a good entrepreneurial and very educated woman, I like to give my best ever.. Female 45 from Pittsburg California, USA

I am a difficult woman to conquer, I like a man educated and of good taste, I have to be kind and respectful, I have to be chivalrous and romantic, I think I am looking for my Romeo haha. I hope you are captivated by me and want to meet me.


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Learning My Role as a submissive Female 46 from French Camp California, USA

I'm kind of particular in some things when it comes to being submissive. I don't want a mystery Dom who I don't even know if I'm attracted to or not. Super new to the lifestyle, but I think everyone here will have different definitions of what it means for them. Im looking for a Dominate man that I'm hyper turned on by. I don't want to be asked to submit right off the cuff so please don't go there. I have a strong personality with most people but when my Dom is near I want to be completely taken back by his presence. I love collars and leashes. I enjoy light discipline with small amounts of pain but I prefer pleasure. I have set boundaries that are non negotiable. I also have some that I fully expect to be pushed slightly. I don't want to be degraded.. I like to please my Dom based on the things he's attracted to the most. I'm extremely turned on by a large hand wrapped around my throat and hair pulling. There's more but you'll need to find out for yourself if you can get that far.


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Im here to meeting new people and exploring Female 27 from San Francisco California, USA

I'm very inquisitive and love to explore,what can I say learning never ends


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Most of all I wish to find a life partner so that together we can set up our goa.. Female 39 from Fremont California, USA

I want to enter into a relationship with a man whom I can completely trust, to whom I will be endlessly devoted. I am sure that my man will be the kindest, generous and loving partner.

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Im sexy goddess princess Godiva Female 34 from San Jose California, USA

I like exploring with people. Finding out what sensations they enjoy, what narratives are going on in their heads, & how we can connect those things to create a scene that makes you feel how you want to feel, satisfying my desires is the only purpose you serve


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Looking for the kinksters like us to enjoy life! Couple 51, 51 from Sacramento California, USA

Hey Fellow perverts! Mature and secure couple looking for couples and select singles for regular play in and outside the bedroom that are d.d.f We are an easy going couple with experience in the lifestyle but don’t let that intimidate you newbie’s   as we are no pressure but ask you to be as genuine as we are. We like a few different dynamics of play so hit us up and see if it clicks with your type of kink? Wife is a Sexy and classy submissive vixen that is very Fun! If this sounds like your style hit us up and let’s make it happen. Happy hunting fellow kinkster!


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Super curious eager to discover new sensations and try and give it all Female 28 from Fremont California, USA

I just want to have fun here. I hope I will find it here and i made the right decision


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Im Beth, Open minded and down for some fun Female 29 from San Francisco California, USA

I'm imperfect, down to earth.. I'm fun to be with, like vodka sometimes


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I am a very fit academic, bisexual. I am in an open marriage. I do cycling, weig.. Couple 78, 78 from San Francisco California, USA

I like people who like to socialize (conversation, dinner, perhaps going to a gallery or concert together, etc.). I am a bisexual male, vers. My wife is straight, but 'bi-comfy'. We usually play singly, sometimes as a couple. If we play as a couple, the man should be bi/bicurious, the woman either bi or straight. I am not particularly kinky. I'm a fairly avid cyclist. I love to walk. I read sci-fi to relax. I prefer people in fairly good to very good shape. I'm not comfortable with someone who is deceiving their partner, e.g., 'single' men on the 'down-low' (or the reverse, for that matter). Also, please do not bother to answer if you are a straight single man or a couple with a straight man uncomfortable being around a male bisexual. *I AM NOT "GENEROUS"!!*


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I am very aware that I am a beautiful woman. Beauty is one of the powerful tools.. Female 36 from Stockton California, USA

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Im looking for friend with benefits Female 43 from Sacramento California, USA

I’m looking for friend with benefits with someone serious and matured


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Is there a real and serious sub ready to explore Female 49 from Santa Clara California, USA

I am a prodom and professional mistress. My dungeon is well being equipped with different kind of toys and kits I use for training.


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Im 32 years old, living in the Union City region. Female 32 from Union City California, USA

Dominant goddess seeking for a loyal and honest sub


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Better days ahead let talk now Female 48 from San Jose California, USA

Self control and take good care of my hygiene, love to kiss and get spank I love to cook and listen to some sweet jazz and blue music,love swimming and camping , i can be very romantic and passionate lady


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My name is Traci, I am new to all of this and Im hoping to be able to enjoy my .. Female 42 from Sacramento California, USA

Erotic texting, and foreplay are fascinating to me, I would love to try out and learn new things and try to awaken the longing of passion and pleasure. I would love to be able to have multiple orgasms, I have never had that before.


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Life is to short to waste time , ready for district affairs and few relationship.. Female 40 from Santa Rosa California, USA

I’m a woman with big heart to love , and also a a kindly lady at the same time , I like to get naughty with my man in any moment


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Mistress is here and hopefully to meet a loyal submissive Female 32 from San Jose California, USA

Mistress is special, dominant and hot awaiting her first loyal submissive online.


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Im 18 years old, living in the Rio Linda region. Female 18 from Rio Linda California, USA

I'm 18 years old, living in the Rio Linda region.
I'm interested in meeting a couple or a man aged between 18 and 40.


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I am here to meet people and have a good time Female 30 from Sunnyvale California, USA

I am always excited about vacations, shopping,


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