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Hello... My name is Mistress Sarai and I am a sensual, elegant dominant who enjo.. Female 41 from Sacramento California, USA

Fun loving and cheerful personality, I generally stay positive and try to encourage and support the people I care about.  I tend to get along well with most people. As far as relationships go,  I separated more than a year ago after a very LTR, and I am getting back out there slowly now. I am honest, confident, creative, caring and kinky. Open minded and here for the discovery of meaningful play, that may lead to a more with the right person. I am happily single and really love my life, but I know from experience that I really prefer a relationship with someone special. I am seeking an honest and open minded personality. Someone who has qualities that  extend beyond just sexuality. I enjoy good conversation and a good sense of humor. I also hope to find someone who would enjoy fun outdoor activities, beach, boating, hiking, fitness, music, entertainment,  good food and travel. That being said, I want someone who matches my desires and passion for pleasure.


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Im 35 years old, living in the Los Angeles region. Female 36 from San Jose California, USA

I'm 35 years old, living in the Los Angeles region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 52 and 97.


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Looking for a sub to fund our lifestyle Couple 23, 23 from Oakland California, USA

What gets us excited is Being in control, taking trips, and having fun with our subs.


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My name is Traci, I am new to all of this and Im hoping to be able to enjoy my .. Female 42 from Sacramento California, USA

Erotic texting, and foreplay are fascinating to me, I would love to try out and learn new things and try to awaken the longing of passion and pleasure. I would love to be able to have multiple orgasms, I have never had that before.


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Looking for fun. I am interested in being a sub, but new to the community Female 33 from Stockton California, USA

33 yo female, Naive but looking for fun, wants to be submissive and follow commands


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I am a dominant Mistress and Im here to rule and have you satisfy and give me p.. Female 44 from Auburn California, USA

I married my past Sub but he is late. I want a submissive male who knows what he wants and is willing to give up control and serve his mistress.


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I’m here looking to meet and find my charming knight Female 41 from Walnut Creek California, USA

Looking for a long term relationship , leading to something fruitful


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Text me Now! If you would love to explore your kinky side with Mistress. Female 35 from Belmont California, USA

I’m a professional  mistress who demands strict obedience loyalty at all time Come to me for your training I will make your dreams of being owned by me a reality for you Be at my feet worship me as the Goddess you have always fantasized


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I am intuitive by nature. While I am not a mind reader, I am frequently asked ho.. Female 29 from Modesto California, USA

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seeking for a serious relationship with the right man . Not here for games pleas.. Female 38 from Santa Clara California, USA

I'm easy going lady, love to cook, work alot because i own my work. I love to go out with my man love fishing as well.


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Im 39 years old, living in the San Francisco region. Female 40 from San Francisco California, USA

I am a simple single woman looking for fun and pleasure.


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Hello and how are you doing on here Female 42 from San Jose California, USA

Hello am new on here seeking for a long term relationship


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I am a genuine and down to earth lady seeking for a loving and generous man Female 44 from San Jose California, USA

Let's talk cause I got a lot of things that makes happy .


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Am here seeking for serious relationship Female 28 from Vallejo California, USA

I am Laura and i am here seeking for serious relationship


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Hello everyone here, im new here and im single and im here to look for a serious.. Female 38 from Los Banos California, USA

Im just good and very respectful person and im here for a serious relationship


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The need to be the Dom with the ideal painslut. Less pain rather not much of pai.. Female 38 from San Francisco California, USA

I am understanding and mature, I do one sub at a time. Just one obedient, lost and honest sub will do.


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I am active lady, kind, sympathetic, open, cheerful, and purposeful. I dont lik.. Female 45 from San Mateo California, USA

I am young woman but I am mature enough for family life. I know what kind of man I am looking for and understand that dating online can be challenging; still, I would like to be happy and ready to go on a date if you ask me out. I am romantic, feminine, tender. I love my friends and family.


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The unholy trinity of My wit, skill and ferocity will have you on your hands and.. Female 38 from San Jose California, USA

I go by SanJose Goddess, and addressing me as Mistress is non-negotiable. With few years of expertise as a professional Dominatrix in San Jose, I prioritize authentic encounters over predefined menus. Although I prefer the organic experience, here's a brief overview of my expertise, including Latex fetish and worship, Bondage using various materials (chains, ropes, leather, plastic, etc.), and indulging in Foot fetish and worship, among other skills.


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A friend, girlfriend, lover. . . wife. . . . i am looking for long term relati.. Female 38 from Vallejo California, USA

i am looking for long term relationship...A friend, girlfriend, lover...wife..?


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Im 46 years old, living in the San Jose region. Female 46 from San Jose California, USA

I'm 46 years old, living in the San Jose region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 42 and 89.


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An experienced kinky Dominique Female 30 from Danville California, USA

What are your fantasies and desire and your fairy Mistress will grant it


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Im a legitimate sovereign goddess Female 25 from American Canyon California, USA

Looking for  that  special older one, who will rekindle the flame of passion and desire that seems to have been lost in my past relationship. Someone willing to assist me and ready to live the alternate kinky BDSM lifestyle with me secretly


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Im 29 years old, living in the Sacramento region. Female 29 from Sacramento California, USA

I'm 29 years old, living in the Sacramento region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 28 and 99.


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I want to know and explore this wonderful world together, tightly holding hands,.. Female 49 from Santa Rosa California, USA

First of all, I am looking for a great friend for me, kind, responsible, honest, purposeful, generous, and with a good sense of humor.


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Dm if you need any support for your home bills Female 25 from Union City California, USA

just try to believe me you gonna I’m good honest woman I understand you’re struggling so I can never do anything to hurt your feelings


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