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Lover of Nature and life itself Female 38 from American Canyon California, USA

Life has got all those twists and turns. You've got to hold on tight and off you go.


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Seeking a wide kinky relationship with an openminded people Female 28 from Stockton California, USA

Do you craved to belong to a Mistress who will truly own you, know you, teach you, train you? Do you dream of going to the depths of subspace that only a real D/s relationship built on trust can create? Do you wish to serve, obey and be cherished for it? I am highly experienced in D/s relationships and BDSM. I lived many years as a Mistress, I have preferred to be dominant to submissive Male's. I have experience in most BDSM activities from sensual to hardcore. However, now I am ready to find a submissive Male's to train and serve me a submissive who is willing and like to be told what to do I mean one who need this in he's life. I am kind but strict, caring but sadistic, understanding but exacting. I will take the Male I accept far, perhaps farther than he knows is possible. I am only seeking for that one true submissive to get to know and train for an ongoing serious connection.  But I will play casually with those who request politely.


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Im 32 years old, living in the Union City region. Female 32 from Union City California, USA

Dominant goddess seeking for a loyal and honest sub


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My name is ann single never marriage am very lovely and passsionate Female 35 from San Francisco California, USA

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Some men make the assumption that because a woman is sexual that she sleeps arou.. Female 39 from Modesto California, USA

I’m originally from Germany, currently living in California, I seek more than sex, I love sex and everything about it. I've had partners. I haven't come across anything I'm not willing to try in the bedroom and embrace most of it.. I embrace my sexuality. I do have a line though. I don't fuck anyone I don't know. I don't randomly pick someone up at a bar and take them home. I have a relationship with the person, long term partner, I have a connection.


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As a female dominant on this BDSM dating site, I am a confident and experienced .. Female 47 from San Francisco California, USA

Physically, I am blonde yet powerful, with a commanding presence that demands attention. My soft voice can be both soothing and demanding, and I know how to use it to get what I want. I have a penchant for dressing in black leather and lace, and I take great pride in my appearance as a dominant woman


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Single lady ready to mingle with a caring man and also i am looking for a long t.. Female 39 from Fremont California, USA

Single lady ready to mingle with a caring man and also i am looking for a long term relationship which going to lead marriage and more


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Looking for my life partner, someone to spend the rest of my life with Female 40 from Santa Clara California, USA

First of all I am looking for a true honest and faithful GENTLEMAN, you never have to impress me with a LIE, never start a relationship out with dishonesty it will not go far. Just be true to yourself and then you will be truthful with me. (yes I have been lied to and cheated on continuously throughout my previous relationship) therefore I am not giving up on finding true love and honesty from a true GENTLEMAN. I have closed that chapter in my life, looking to start my final chapter of love.


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I’m an alpha dominant woman seeing for a loyal and trustworthy submissive male Female 31 from Sunnyvale California, USA

A goddess seeking for a submissive male to worship body and feet


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Im 33 years old, living in the Sacramento region. Female 34 from Sacramento California, USA

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Am looking for an obedient sub male that is ready to serve me in person and he m.. Female 36 from Richmond California, USA

Am new on the site and i believe am going to meet the right sub male here and he should be able to ready and serve me in person


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Loving, caring, truthfull and responsible Female 34 from Lodi California, USA

I prefer you to ask me about myself rather than making it public


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I am dominant mistress seeking for a male submissive to own is collar as mine an.. Female 41 from San Francisco California, USA

I'm 41 years old, living in the San Francisco region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 28 and 99.


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I am looking for someone in love with life and open to exploring all its possibi.. Female 38 from Petaluma California, USA

I am looking for a man who will respect me and my career. I know sometimes I need to work at night but I will try my best to accompany my family after work


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Down to earth for fun ❤️❤️❤️ indoor and outdoor fun Female 26 from Fresno California, USA

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I’m a dominatrix and I’ve led this lifestyle for quite some time now Female 37 from San Jose California, USA

Im looking for a sub to train for a long term relationship


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I am a Rock N Roll Cowgirl here to Rock Your World!❤️ Female 51 from Delhi California, USA

What pleases me is just knowing that what I'm doing pleases you!


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Hola somos una pareja amistosa y sencillos buena onda no nos gustan los farsante.. Couple 48, 48 from Stockton California, USA

Quisiéramos hacer un trío con un hombre ya que nunca lo hemos hecho y que sea duradero


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I am a woman looking for that one devoted man for me Female 34 from Union City California, USA

I am  beautiful caring,kind when treated nice and bossy and I go by my policy .


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I am real with many positive sides and flaws. I am here because I want to meet a.. Female 49 from San Jose California, USA

. Dreaming of sun, sand, and salty air. On a mission to find my own little piece of paradise. I'm passionate about making the most out of every moment. Let's make memories together.


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Caring Pet looking to take care of Sir Female 47 from Folsom California, USA

Fairly obedient pet with a bad girl streak looking for experienced Dom to mutually push each other’s limits .


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I would describe myself as a loving,caring and honest person.I value kindness an.. Female 40 from Atherton California, USA

I am a respectful person and value honesty and open communication above all else.I am always open to trying new things and experiencing new adventures.


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Looking 4 Fun Friends with benefits Female 74 from Oakley California, USA

Anyone wants to play, can be discreet, just looking to have safe fun. Male bi here.


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I am a dominant Mistress and Im here to rule and have you satisfy and give me p.. Female 44 from Auburn California, USA

I married my past Sub but he is late. I want a submissive male who knows what he wants and is willing to give up control and serve his mistress.


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Im 23 years old, living in the Chicago Park region. Female 23 from Chicago Park California, USA

I'm 23 years old, living in the Chicago Park region.
I'm interested in meeting a transgender person or a couple or a woman or a man aged between 32 and 82.


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