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Physically I am blind yet powerful with a commanding presence that demands attention. My soft voice can be both soothing and demanding, and I know how to use it to get what I want. I have a penchant for dressing in black leather and lace, and I take great pride in my appearance as a dominant woman.

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Hi I’m new to all this dating stuff and am single looking for a serious long ter.. Female 39 from Union City California, USA

I’m mercy and am god fearing woman I'm caring, faithful, loyal, truthful,generous, sincere, goals achiever, honest, spiritual oriented, future driven, confidential, understands the ups and downs of life, Committedto relationship, reader, visionary, conservative, passionate, romantic,and loving


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Dominant Lady Seeking a Worthy Submissive Greetings, potential admirers! I am a .. Female 33 from San Francisco California, USA

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Dm if you need any support for your home bills Female 25 from Union City California, USA

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Am here seeking for serious relationship Female 28 from Vallejo California, USA

I am Laura and i am here seeking for serious relationship


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Wanna be a dominant and have control Female 31 from San Francisco California, USA

Need a loyal and humble sub to have control and willing to serve me all of his life


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Looking for someone to have fun with , leave a contact if you’re interested Female 58 from Santa Clara California, USA

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Im new here looking for honest and and amazing man that wanting some good love Female 42 from San Jose California, USA

I'm honest loving and caring that know what I want for myself looking for the same in return


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We are a nice couple looking for new things and new friends Couple 37, 35 from Sacramento California, USA

Ready to meet new people , have fun , new on this


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Im single dominant mistress.. Female 34 from Roseville California, USA

I'm looking for a new submissive to please and serve me.


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Im single and new member Female 46 from Union City California, USA

looking at me, you probably think 'escort, prostitution or lesbian, how can she be lonely and look for a man?' Well, you almost guessed it, I'm all taken together LOL, a joke! this is the whole essence of the problem of my search for a husband, I have always been perceived as another person, I am not what you see in the picture, I have something more important than my beautiful body parts, this is my soul! although I can and want to be the best escort for my husband LOL oh yeah. I would like you not only to stare at my tits, but also to look into my eyes sometimes, I appreciate that in men if anything, I don't need a millionaire man, I will be happy with a man with his care and love and most importantly in his submission to my desires and fantasies, spiritual values and things are much more important than material ones.


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Very new sub, looking to fuck/ exposure to community Female 33 from Stockton California, USA

Loves rough fantasy, wants to try it rough, but new to community


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In love and feeling adventurous Couple 42, 42 from Sacramento California, USA

High Sch00l sweethearts that have spent our lives together. We Have Now we're experiencing and experimenting our fantasies and fetishes with eachother.


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Just a fun couple looking for some kinky fun ! Couple 67, 67 from Reno Nevada, USA

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Lover of Nature and life itself Female 38 from American Canyon California, USA

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Im looking for long term relationship Im Angela new on here, just signed up in.. Female 48 from Santa Clara California, USA

I am a quiet, creative and intellectual person. In a relationship I would bring a lot of joy, happiness and respect. And above all a lot of love and loyalty. For me, loyalty is very important, when I love I only have eyes for that person and I give myself completely and I expect the same from him. If you had the opportunity to have a date with me, what would be the first thing you would ask me?


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Hello I am new to scene and hope to find a friend who I can trust. Possibly for .. Female 55 from San Francisco California, USA

Nice people and music. I want to explore possibly  being sub to a stable and good hearted man/ disciplinarian .


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I am a dominant Mistress and Im here to rule and have you satisfy and give me p.. Female 44 from Auburn California, USA

I married my past Sub but he is late. I want a submissive male who knows what he wants and is willing to give up control and serve his mistress.


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Free and open here, NEW to the area Female 41 from Union City California, USA

I'm 41 years old, living in the Union City region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 49 and 99.


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Caring Pet looking to take care of Sir Female 47 from Folsom California, USA

Fairly obedient pet with a bad girl streak looking for experienced Dom to mutually push each other’s limits .


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Hey everyone new sub is here ready to serve Female 32 from San Jose California, USA

I’m a sub seeking for a lot of things I don’t mind any type of relationship I’m interested


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Looking for my life partner, someone to spend the rest of my life with Female 40 from Santa Clara California, USA

First of all I am looking for a true honest and faithful GENTLEMAN, you never have to impress me with a LIE, never start a relationship out with dishonesty it will not go far. Just be true to yourself and then you will be truthful with me. (yes I have been lied to and cheated on continuously throughout my previous relationship) therefore I am not giving up on finding true love and honesty from a true GENTLEMAN. I have closed that chapter in my life, looking to start my final chapter of love.


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I’m an experienced Beautiful Mistress open to all kinds of kinks sexual activiti.. Female 30 from San Francisco California, USA

I'm 30 years old, living in the San Francisco region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 60 and 90.


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Im 47 years old, living in the Columbus region. Female 47 from Atherton California, USA

I'm 47 years old, living in the Columbus region. I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 19 and 90.


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Im sexy goddess princess Godiva Female 34 from San Jose California, USA

I like exploring with people. Finding out what sensations they enjoy, what narratives are going on in their heads, & how we can connect those things to create a scene that makes you feel how you want to feel, satisfying my desires is the only purpose you serve


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