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I am a very fit academic, bisexual. I am in an open marriage. I do cycling, weig.. Couple 78, 78 from San Francisco California, USA

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Im 37 years old, living in the Universal City region. Female 37 from San Jose California, USA

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Im 34 years old, living in the Sacramento region. Female 35 from Sacramento California, USA

I'm 34 years old, living in the Sacramento region.
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Im 44 years old, living in the Santa Rosa region. Female 44 from Santa Rosa California, USA

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Looking for someone to have fun with , leave a contact if you’re interested Female 58 from Santa Clara California, USA

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I expect loyalty and obedience ;) Female 18 from San Mateo California, USA

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I’m a dominatrix and I’ve led this lifestyle for quite some time now Female 37 from San Jose California, USA

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