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I will really like to see where this leads Female 36 from Atherton California, USA

soft and tender lady who likes adventure and loves to explore new things


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Welcome to My digital and playground, My devotee. If you are not yet a rabid adm.. Female 24 from San Jose California, USA

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Curvy and Nerdy woman searching for a Sir/master/dadd y. Is in an open relatio.. Female 32 from Oakland California, USA

I’m a 31 year old submissive woman that loves video games, anime, cosplay, and TTRPGs. I also enjoy making art and cooking. I’m excited to find a dom for me that will take care of my needs and spoils my fantasy kinks one day. I’m in a relationship with my wife , we are open and poly so there’s no drama with keeping this secret as she knows I do this.


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LA lady, Midwest baby with time also spent on the East Coast. I have a career, l.. Female 37 from Los Gatos California, USA

My animal rescue work is what nourishes my heart and soul. I’m very passionate about animal rescue and rights, if money didn’t matter, I’d “work” in rescue full time.

I love being active, learning new things, and spending as much time outside in the sun!


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I am a professional dominatrix, lifestyle Mistress, and one of the most naturall.. Female 35 from San Francisco California, USA

Authenticity is an essential part of my sessions. My lust for control and my naturally seductive nature equate to intensely atmospheric experiences for everyone involved. I am a firm believer that I should enjoy my time spent with my submissives just as much as they enjoy their time with me, their mistress.
Nothing makes my pulse race quite like having a submissive at my feet; willing to endure whatever I have in store for them for my enjoyment, for my pleasure.
When in my presence, rest assured that you’ll be in safe hands in a judgement-free environment, you are encouraged to discuss your interests in an open and honest manner. I am well-educated, intelligent and understand the complex psychological notions behind the yearning to visit a professional mistress.
This is not simply a job to me, it’s a lifestyle. I am and energetic and caring mistress, and have the necessary experience in order to lead you safely to a place where you can explore your submission without judgement.


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I am here to dominate you and turn you to my sub Female 63 from San Francisco California, USA

I am everything you looking for in a Mistress and more


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Am young and strong lady who is ready to settle with someone who is ready to set.. Female 50 from Fremont California, USA

Am hardworking, caring, healthy, honest and i do have a great sense of humor


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An experienced kinky Dominique Female 30 from Danville California, USA

What are your fantasies and desire and your fairy Mistress will grant it


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Married couple here looking for a playmate for husband and/or couples for full s.. Couple 31, 31 from Sacramento California, USA

We enjoy the outdoors and spending time together and with family. Concerts, four-wheeling, fishing, nature walks, ocean, camping just to name a few.


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Im 46 years old, living in the San Jose region. Female 47 from San Jose California, USA

I'm 46 years old, living in the San Jose region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 44 and 65.


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I really want to owned you as my sissy slut forever Female 38 from Fernley Nevada, USA

I am a caring Mistress..Life is going very well and I have never been more positive about the future. I am seeking an attractive, intelligent, and willing sub to train and spoil.


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Here for a good time, not a long time. Looking to meet new people and have fun Female 27 from San Francisco California, USA

All happy girls are alike; every unhappy girl is unhappy in her own way. My kind of unhappy is full of self-deprecating humor, double IPAs, and Is actually pretty rad.Let me know if you want to be miserable together.


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Hello... My name is Mistress Sarai and I am a sensual, elegant dominant who enjo.. Female 41 from Sacramento California, USA

Fun loving and cheerful personality, I generally stay positive and try to encourage and support the people I care about.  I tend to get along well with most people. As far as relationships go,  I separated more than a year ago after a very LTR, and I am getting back out there slowly now. I am honest, confident, creative, caring and kinky. Open minded and here for the discovery of meaningful play, that may lead to a more with the right person. I am happily single and really love my life, but I know from experience that I really prefer a relationship with someone special. I am seeking an honest and open minded personality. Someone who has qualities that  extend beyond just sexuality. I enjoy good conversation and a good sense of humor. I also hope to find someone who would enjoy fun outdoor activities, beach, boating, hiking, fitness, music, entertainment,  good food and travel. That being said, I want someone who matches my desires and passion for pleasure.


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I taste for a long romantic warm kiss in time of night sleep and a deep suck coc.. Female 46 from Fremont California, USA

I'm looking for friends, possibly friends with benefits. If that goes into a LTR, great. If not, that's ok as well. I'm just very lonely and need a friend. Tired of sleeping naked and single all the time. I need a peaceful fun.


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I am hardworking, honest woman and a big dreamer. My biggest dream is to find a .. Female 36 from Santa Clara California, USA

I like to learn new stuff every day and improve my mind and body. I hope to find someone as active and as goal oriented as me here, so we would be a team and achieve everything together. I like to have an active life, to travel, to do some crazy stuff like diving.


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I am intuitive by nature. While I am not a mind reader, I am frequently asked ho.. Female 29 from Modesto California, USA

Using my seductive charms, as well as a sharp tongue (and even sharper whip), I strategically leave you at my feet with my cunning playfulness.


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Looking for my last kiss . I’m ready for you Female 44 from Fremont California, USA

It is hard to describe myself but I will try. I believe I am a kind lady, very optimistic and full of energy. I enjoy communicating with people. My friends say that I am very easy-going person and can easily find new friends


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Im 35 years old, living in the Los Angeles region. Female 36 from San Jose California, USA

I'm 35 years old, living in the Los Angeles region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 52 and 97.


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In love and feeling adventurous Couple 42, 42 from Sacramento California, USA

High Sch00l sweethearts that have spent our lives together. We Have Now we're experiencing and experimenting our fantasies and fetishes with eachother.


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Hi there. Im Erica. My husband and I have lived in Roseville for14 years . I gu.. Couple 48, 53 from Antelope California, USA

Hi there. I'm Erica. My husband and I have lived in Roseville for14 years,  I am bi/pan sexual and enjoy the time i can have with a woman, my husband only wants me to be happy. We are fairly new to this as well. All we would want is for you to be comfortable. We would love to get to know you better and maybe enjoy an evening together.
Please feel free to reach out


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I am an active person, so I prefer to travel in my free time. I like to cook. I .. Female 43 from San Jose California, USA

I am an active, beautiful and passionate woman. I like my age. I love being myself, what I am! I am an open woman and always happy about new acquaintances. I have a good sense of humor. I always support different topics in communication and try never to lie. I am an accomplished woman. I have a good job. I am a dentist. My job gives me pleasure. I came to this dating site to meet a man who will become my second half! I want to be happy and loved.


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Capricorns have more fun, it’s true Female 42 from Santa Rosa California, USA

Love being tied up and being a good girl. Gag me choke me


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Am seeking a submissive male who love to be spanked Female 44 from American Canyon California, USA

I'm 43 years old, living in the American Canyon region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 50 and 76.


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Submissive older woman wants phone sex only about sexual spankings, talking dirt.. Female 69 from Paso Robles California, USA

someone who likes to take charge and is totally into satisfying me, and likes making me come a lot.  Someone who likes role play and fantasies, and describing all of it, who enjoys talking dirty, hearing me moan with pleasure and listening to his groans of pleasure too. All that makes me very happy!


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I am a DOMINANT woman, who enjoys training men on how to be a loyal and submissi.. Female 36 from San Francisco California, USA

I am a DOMINANT woman,  who enjoys    Face sitting feminization, bondage, Chasity,
panties/lingerie, collared, pegging, anal, oral, pussy eating, alot if things really
Don’t like blood, faeces or pain


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