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Dm if you need any support for your home bills Female 25 from Union City California, USA

just try to believe me you gonna I’m good honest woman I understand you’re struggling so I can never do anything to hurt your feelings


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Looking for, ages 23-33. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Sexual Massage

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I’m a mistress and i give training to submissive male who is ready to submit to .. Female 28 from Campbell California, USA

Will only see experienced subs that are willing and able to please and do anything I said as her MISTRESS.. yes of course


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LA lady, Midwest baby with time also spent on the East Coast. I love my work and.. Female 37 from Los Gatos California, USA

My animal rescue work is what nourishes my heart and soul. I’m very passionate about animal rescue and rights, if money didn’t matter, I’d “work” in rescue full time.

I love being active, learning new things, and spending as much time outside in the sun!


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In love and feeling adventurous Couple 42, 42 from Sacramento California, USA

High Sch00l sweethearts that have spent our lives together. We Have Now we're experiencing and experimenting our fantasies and fetishes with eachother.


Straight, Bisexual

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Im 46 years old, living in the San Jose region. Female 47 from San Jose California, USA

I'm 46 years old, living in the San Jose region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 44 and 65.


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Real looking to find fun let’s get it together Female 31 from San Francisco California, USA

I love having fun making new friends serious minded people here


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I taste for a long romantic warm kiss in time of night sleep and a deep suck coc.. Female 46 from Fremont California, USA

I'm looking for friends, possibly friends with benefits. If that goes into a LTR, great. If not, that's ok as well. I'm just very lonely and need a friend. Tired of sleeping naked and single all the time. I need a peaceful fun.


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I want somebody who will let me run all over them Female 34 from San Jose California, USA

Things that get me excited is someone who obeys and does what they are told at all times be a good boy .


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Hey...Its Michy here.... hook me up for some fancy adventure. Female 38 from American Canyon California, USA

I am adventurous and full of life. Hi.. I love working and playing fair... easy to relate with and be with (smile), I am verily interested in experiencing life. I love going for picnics and traveling, I like cooking, music and movies.


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Experienced Bisexual Mistress Offering Devotion, Discipline, and Delight. Explor.. Female 55 from Modesto California, USA

As a Bisexual Mistress, I embody the art of dominance with finesse and passion. With years of experience, I create a safe space to explore your deepest fantasies and embrace every aspect of your submission. Whether you seek discipline, devotion, or sensual exploration, I am here to guide you on an exhilarating journey of self-discovery and pleasure. Let's delve into the realms of BDSM together, where boundaries are respected, desires are fulfilled, and fantasies come to life.


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I am searching for someone special and adventurous who would love this type of B.. Female 31 from Fremont California, USA

I'm a dom and I train subs to serve, i am searching for a submissive kinky sub to serve me in a serious long/ short term permanent M/s D/s relationship and he must have a good heart, open minded, truthful, caring, honest, loyal, obedient, respectful, straight, kinky, listens, submissive, etc. Someone special and adventurous who would love this type of BDSM scenario.


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I am the Goddess of Pleassure! Female 32 from San Francisco California, USA

Goddess understand ma your need to submit and obey. I am an experienced mistress , young looking matured lady. I enjoy helping gentlemen to explore their kinks and fetishism at all levels, whether it be for pure fun or to fulfill a desire to relent full control to a beautiful and a dominant woman


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Looking for casual hookups no strings attached no drama just fun Couple 48, 45 from Clovis California, USA

A woman with a nice ass one who's not afraid to try new things


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Im 34 years old, living in the San Jose region. Female 35 from San Jose California, USA

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I’m a really fun loving lady who loves to explore new things. I am looking for a.. Female 43 from San Francisco California, USA

I love traveling, swimming reading and most importantly the bds world. I love to be with a sub who see's me as his goddess. Who would love to be with me always and love to travel the world with me.


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looking for a partner i cant wait to have Female 53 from Sonora California, USA

A partner in everything and always. I think that men are looking for their woman to become best friend, faithful lover, a partner in everything, and always. Would you add to this list so that your woman is a caring housekeeper? Why not! I am ready to act! And you?


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Looking to Share Activities….. Female 61 from Clearlake California, USA

I’m interested in ongoing FWBs 2-3x/mo on wkends w people who r fit n physically active outdoors, n into pleasurable, safe sexual exploring. Sound like a match for you? My pics are from past 2 yrs. I value kindness, respect n honesty. Some of my interests are horseback riding; hiking (4-6 mi); kayaking; billiards; grilling/cooking; sensual, erotic, sexual n kink explorations. (Gender Neutral means I can be both receptive n proactive. I enjoy wearing sexy, accessible clothing n I also enjoy initiating and/or guiding pleasurable experiences.)


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As a female dominance on this BDSM dating site I am a confident and experienced .. Female 40 from San Francisco California, USA

Physically I am blind yet powerful with a commanding presence that demands attention. My soft voice can be both soothing and demanding, and I know how to use it to get what I want. I have a penchant for dressing in black leather and lace, and I take great pride in my appearance as a dominant woman.

Mentally, I am intelligent and analytical, with a deep understanding of the psychology of power exchange. I am skilled at reading my partner's body language and non-verbal cues, and I am always looking for ways to push their boundaries and challenge their limits.

In terms of my BDSM interests, I have a wide range of kinks and fetishes that I enjoy exploring with my submissives. From bondage and impact play to humiliation and worship, I know how to create a safe and consensual environment where we can both explore our deepest desires.


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Experienced dominatrix seeking devoted submissives to explore the depths of plea.. Female 39 from San Francisco California, USA

Plus sized blondie goddess in search of a worthy submissive to practice the lifestyle intimately and professionally. Pleasing both sides of the spectrum


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So we are here to for a new experience and we are ready to play Couple 37, 35 from Sacramento California, USA

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Im 33 years old, living in the San Francisco region. Female 33 from San Francisco California, USA

I'm 33 years old, living in the San Francisco region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 32 and 79.


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Hi, Am here for something casual adult fun FWB with loving mature man meet regul.. Female 53 from Oakland California, USA

Hi, Mott by name single loyal caring honest easy going open minded person who like o cook dance read


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Im 40 years old, living in the West Sacramento region. Female 40 from West Sacramento California, USA

I'm 40 years old, living in the West Sacramento region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 35 and 90.


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Im looking for long term relationship Im Angela new on here, just signed up in.. Female 48 from Santa Clara California, USA

I am a quiet, creative and intellectual person. In a relationship I would bring a lot of joy, happiness and respect. And above all a lot of love and loyalty. For me, loyalty is very important, when I love I only have eyes for that person and I give myself completely and I expect the same from him. If you had the opportunity to have a date with me, what would be the first thing you would ask me?


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I care.I take charge to provide a haven for pleasure and fantasies. Female 35 from San Jose California, USA

I love travelling,reading, swimming and having nice time with my sub


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