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My wit, skill, and ferocity form a formidable trio that will leave you at my mer.. Female 28 from Sacramento California, USA

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Looking for a long term relationship Female 45 from San Francisco California, USA

I am serious and i want to love and to be loved again. I don't joke about stuff like this when feelings are involved,or play any head games.i am very serious, at the beginning i was just not sure about the distance but you have changed my mind. i want someone  to spend time with, doing things together, share everything together and more. I just want one man, in my life, one I can love, and cherish, and be with. Share my sorrows, and my happiness. My good times and bad, would hope he would share the same with me.


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IM A DOMINANT SEEKING FOR A SUB Female 30 from Santa Clara California, USA

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