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I enjoy exploring mutual erotic pleasure in regards to Discipline Pasadena California, USA , 46

I’ve been a Dom for quite some years now
I’m an adventurous and a Single .
Looking forward to owning a sub exploring fetish kinks.

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I love to achieve my goals and develop in directions that are interesting to me... California City California, USA , 34

If there is one thing that really defines my sexual preference it will be the fact that i love kinks and i have dominant qualities.I would like to find a man who is willing and ready to be my submissive during kinky role plays.

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I think life can never be without a relationship Union City California, USA , 28

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MARRIED COUPLE, Looking to meet up with some new friends and see how things go. .. Sacramento California, USA , 55, 58

Cool vibes cool people. Outside inside ,Looking to meet  men woman or couples that  like to work hard and play hard .

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Im 46 years old, living in the San Jose region. San Jose California, USA , 47

I'm 46 years old, living in the San Jose region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 44 and 65.

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Hey y’all, it’s Goddess Kennedy a beautiful lady seeking for a sub to explore Sacramento California, USA , 26

Bdsm, pegging, Foot fetish, latex, I also enjoyed reading and going to beaches

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New looking to meet couples or single people to have with. Lodi California, USA , 43, 32

To try new things and have fun. Either soft swap or full. Even open to play with single girls and guys. New to this lifestyle looking to try new and exciting things,

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I’m into pegging Bdsm Cross dressing Seduction Breast fetish Feet fetish .. San Francisco California, USA , 39

I am sex lover, decided to enter here and experience new things. I love to explore my fantasies and fetish. Love to meet new people, socializing and lots of fun.

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Im 49 years old, ready to enjoy life again Oakland California, USA , 49

I am a great widow .Open minded and easy going,hoping to explore and make a great lifetime !

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I’m looking for that man who is ready to {“Suffer the pain of discipline or the .. San Jose California, USA , 29

Outgoing, happy, fun, loving, caring person.  Looking to encounter a fun,  loving caring man,  but also knows how to take care of a woman and knows how to be committed and submissive when serving a mistress without any limits or cause for .

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Im 46 years old, living in the California Hot Springs region. California Hot Springs California, USA , 46

I'm 46 years old, living in the California Hot Springs region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 50 and 81.

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Looking for someone to have fun with , leave a contact if you’re interested Santa Clara California, USA , 58

Send me a messages , I’ll catch you up .. Always free to talk

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I’m very active and very busy. Walnut Creek California, USA , 36

I like to be used for others pleasure. Looking for someone that wants to be selfish.

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I care.I take charge to provide a haven for pleasure and fantasies. San Jose California, USA , 35

I love travelling,reading, swimming and having nice time with my sub

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Looking forward to find someone serious San Jose California, USA , 38

I’m a one man type of lady, hoping to find something serious on here.. Build a better life together

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Listo para conexiones en Stockton Stockton California, USA , 43, 43

Tengo 43 y estoy en Stockton. Ansioso por conocer a Pareja, Mujer, Hombre de 23 - 58. Explorando citas casuales, clubs, fiestas y eventos, parejas, cornudos, encuentros discretos, intercambio completo, encuentros de grupo, sexo en grupo, sexo seguro, intercambio suave.

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Looking for a loyal and trustworthy playmate California City California, USA , 25

Open minded, here mainly for a loyal and committed playmate to discreet my hookups lifestyle, distance is not a problem if we understand each other

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I am looking for a submissive whose desire to yield control mirrors my own desir.. California City California, USA , 27

I am looking for a submissive whose desire to yield control mirrors my own desire
to have control

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Hola somos nuevos en esto con mi esposo Modesto California, USA , 36, 36

Me encanta conocer personas nuevas y tener pláticas eroticas

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IM A DOMINANT SEEKING FOR A SUB Santa Clara California, USA , 30

I like feminization, bondage,  chastity,  shemales,  panties/lingerie,  humiliation,  pegging,  anal,  alot of things really. 
Don't like blood, or pain.

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Looking for the kinksters like us to enjoy life! Sacramento California, USA , 51, 51

Hey Fellow perverts! Mature and secure couple looking for couples and select singles for regular play in and outside the bedroom that are d.d.f We are an easy going couple with experience in the lifestyle but don’t let that intimidate you newbie’s   as we are no pressure but ask you to be as genuine as we are. We like a few different dynamics of play so hit us up and see if it clicks with your type of kink? Wife is a Sexy and classy submissive vixen that is very Fun! If this sounds like your style hit us up and let’s make it happen. Happy hunting fellow kinkster!

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Text me Now! If you would love to explore your kinky side with Mistress. Belmont California, USA , 35

I’m a professional  mistress who demands strict obedience loyalty at all time Come to me for your training I will make your dreams of being owned by me a reality for you Be at my feet worship me as the Goddess you have always fantasized

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Hi there. Im Erica. My husband and I have lived in Roseville for14 years . I gu.. Antelope California, USA , 48, 53

Hi there. I'm Erica. My husband and I have lived in Roseville for14 years,  I am bi/pan sexual and enjoy the time i can have with a woman, my husband only wants me to be happy. We are fairly new to this as well. All we would want is for you to be comfortable. We would love to get to know you better and maybe enjoy an evening together.
Please feel free to reach out

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Looking for consistency, consideration, and aftercare. Modesto California, USA , 42

Still trying to figure this one out. Learning, exploring l, and trying new things.

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Im 40 years old, living in the West Sacramento region. West Sacramento California, USA , 40

I'm 40 years old, living in the West Sacramento region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 35 and 90.

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