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I have been in the lifestyle for 6 years,its something i practice outside my va.. Santa Clara California, USA , 33

when i have my sub for myself alone and he's obeying me the right way i asked him to

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As a Bisexual Mistress, I embody the art of dominance with finesse and passion. With years of experience, I create a safe space to explore your deepest fantasies and embrace every aspect of your submission. Whether you seek discipline, devotion, or sensual exploration, I am here to guide you on an exhilarating journey of self-discovery and pleasure. Let's delve into the realms of BDSM together, where boundaries are respected, desires are fulfilled, and fantasies come to life.

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WISH I COULD COLLAR A SUB TO CHAIN AND TRAIN AS MINE Santa Clara California, USA , 31

I like feminization, bondage,  chastity,  shemales,  panties/lingerie,  humiliation,  pegging,  anal,  alot of things really.
Don't like blood,  or pain.

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Im ready to make you explore new areas of fun and enjoyable moment just hit me u.. Pasadena California, USA , 30

I'm danniellie always happy and God-fearing I hate lie and cheating

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INTELLIGENT AND CARING MEN IS A TURN ON..LETS GET FREAKY AND KINKY..CARREER LADY.. Santa Clara California, USA , 34

KINDHEARTED AND HERE FOR SERIOUS MINDED MALE. . DON'T COME IN HERE AND TALK DIRTY. . MIND YOUR WORDS AND BE INTENTIONAL. . LOVER OF GOODNESS AND CARING MEN.  I MAKE HAY WHILE THE SUN SHINES.  LOVE VACCATIONS AND NEW ADVENTURES.

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Im here new on here but am looking for LTR California City California, USA , 41

I am outgoing, Inquisitive and independent. I am a lover of a good conversation, Good drinks and long walks on the beach. Laugther is a priority. My humor is some mix of nerdy and sarcastic. I

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I've always had an incredible passion for living life to its fullest. I am a hopeless romantic and always strive to believe in the good within everyone. I'm straightforward about my needs, and honest when I feel hurt. I am looking for an equally positive partner who loves to try new experiences and is a great and open communicator.

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Im 35 years old, living in the California City region. California City California, USA , 35, 43

I'm 35 years old, living in the California City region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 30 and 99.

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I’m looking for that man who is ready to {“Suffer the pain of discipline or the .. San Jose California, USA , 29

Outgoing, happy, fun, loving, caring person.  Looking to encounter a fun,  loving caring man,  but also knows how to take care of a woman and knows how to be committed and submissive when serving a mistress without any limits or cause for .

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I will really like to see where this leads Atherton California, USA , 36

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Let's talk cause I got a lot of things that makes happy .

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Im 33 years old, living in the San Francisco region. San Francisco California, USA , 33

I'm 33 years old, living in the San Francisco region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 32 and 79.

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Down to have a lot of fun and open to whatever San Francisco California, USA , 41

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Im 34 years old, living in the San Francisco region. San Francisco California, USA , 34

I'm 34 years old, living in the San Francisco region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 32 and 90.

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Im Mistress Morgan by name ,Im looking for a good, honest, truthful, obedient .. Santa Clara California, USA , 36

I'm dominant mistress who like Face sitting feminization, bondage, Chasity,
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Cant wait to explore so many things with my match San Francisco California, USA , 32

Loving, caring and always happy to make new friends, my policy be good. No faking it.

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Am seeking a submissive male who love to be spanked American Canyon California, USA , 44

I'm 43 years old, living in the American Canyon region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 50 and 76.

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I will push your limits, but never cross your boundaries and I will use your body in a way that will make you continue to yearn for Me,My rapport with my sub is VERY important. Whether you choose to meet with Me only once or reoccurring, I assure you that you will experience a discreet and safe encounter while you are in My presence and play space,my expertise is incomparable; I will take you into My world and allow you to experience Domination in its purest from, you will feel exhilarated and renewed when I am done with you. &

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Im 37 years old, living in the California City region. California City California, USA , 37

I'm 37 years old, living in the California City region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 40 and 99.

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I’m single and honestly looking forward to meet my life partner San Jose California, USA , 48

I’m a happy woman kind and caring woman looking for my true life partner

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never married and had no kids, i am here looking for my soul mate to build a lon.. California City California, USA , 38

I would also like to find an honest and good christian who we can participate in activities together and encourage each other to pursue our interests as well. I have several hobbies (and wish I could find more time to pursue those) such as cooking ,swimming, playing computer, dancing, and reading, and more,and would like someone to share that with, as well as sharing his interest with me too

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