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Mistress looking for a submissive male to explore his submissive side.I need a o.. Sacramento California, USA , 42

Having completed control over a submissive male. Who will obey commands without hesitation.
The one that I'm in complete control of the submissive male and that his heart Body and Soul belongs to me and also willing to show appreciation and commitment when needed .!!

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Aren’t joking here and am here for fun if you’re interested hit me up now California City California, USA , 30

I’m available for any kind of kinks Also a professional mistress Hit me up only the serious

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I’m a lovely lady with a pure heart ❤️it’s all love Union City California, USA , 33

I’m happy when I make people happy, I do like to have fun as well. I love to draw, and paint. design clothes, sing, play the guitar, drums, bass, violin, and piano. I've been playing music since I was five years old. so music's been a part of My life... forever.

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Im 41 years old, living in the Wollongong region. Atherton California, USA , 41

I'm 41 years old, living in the Wollongong region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 44 and 99.

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I get very attached to people and consider this my weakness. Mutual and fulfilli.. Union City California, USA , 49

adequate and fair. I get very attached to people and consider this my weakness. Mutual and fulfilling relationships are important to me. I am ready to change if it makes me a better person than before. Friends are just as important to me, but I am modest and not the life of the party; I don't always feel comfortable in an unfamiliar group. I am very friendly and sweet if I feel positive energy from a person. I love outdoor activities: trekking, hiking, and I dream of climbing mountains. I try to develop diversified, watch documentaries about economics, history, read world news. I have a good understanding of fine art, the nature of French impressionism, one of my favorite artists is Toulouse-Lautrec. I want to develop an environmental project. I like to organize interesting trips. I don't like parties, I lead a healthy lifestyle. I don't smoke or drink alcohol.

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I’m here seeking for something special Santa Cruz California, USA , 38

I’m here seeking for something serious, With no games nor drama

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Im 40 years old, living in the West Sacramento region. West Sacramento California, USA , 40

I'm 40 years old, living in the West Sacramento region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 35 and 90.

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I am interested in finding someone or something to explore. Pahrump Nevada, USA , 33

31, wishing to switch or mostly Dom. Would love to learn more about bondage.

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Looking for a sub to have fun with California City California, USA , 28

A happy mistress that willing to train my sissy slut

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Im 25 years old, Im actually seeking for the submissive ones, whos ready for .. California City California, USA , 25

I'm a pro dome, I enjoy this lifestyle everyday of my life and I practice what I preach everyday. I got into this dominant lifestyle for some old years back, I need a submissive person that would be my personal property and that would serve, obey command

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Bdsm, pegging, Foot fetish, latex, I also enjoyed reading and going to beaches

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Im 37 years old, living in the San Jose region. San Jose California, USA , 37

I'm 37 years old, living in the San Jose region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 45 and 97.

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Im 39 years old, living in the Sacramento region. Sacramento California, USA , 40

I'm 39 years old, living in the Sacramento region.
I'm interested in meeting a couple or a man aged between 46 and 90.

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I’m BBW looking for a man who will always spank me San Jose California, USA , 63

I’m a very loving person but lately my Libido has been crazy. I would like to find a man who is affectionate a great kisser and knows how to please me so I’m begging for more! I Love going to the movies day trips and love the rain and want to be made love to by a fireplace! Thanks for reading my profile! I’m not looking for a long distance relationship unless there’s great potential!

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Dominatrix with a touch of love Fremont California, USA , 24

Master of psychological dominance, finding exhilaration in unlocking the hidden cravings of those who dare to enter my realm. I am ready to to dominate who ever is willing to submit to me, let's explore and enjoy the kinky side of this lifestyle, bondage and submission is the dream but I choose to dominate.

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Ask me and anything tell me an more Orangevale California, USA , 42

Ask me and I would tell you an I have favorite an I’m

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Skilled and experienced DOM seeking a long term relationship with ONE submissive.. San Francisco California, USA , 44

I love traveling, swimming reading and most importantly the bdsm world. I love to be with a sub who see's me as his goddess. Who would love to be with me always and love to travel the world with me.

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Astonishing!... Dont disrespect me California City California, USA , 38

patiently looking for that committed sissy who'll rekindle the flames of passion that has been lost in my past relationships

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LOOKING FOR A SUB TO DOMINATE? Santa Clara California, USA , 30

I like feminization, bondage,  chastity,  shemales,  panties/lingerie,  humiliation,  pegging,  anal,  alot of things really. 
Don't like blood, or pain.

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Any responsible man outta here? Come closer Mr. Don’t be shy, I’m here now. San Jose California, USA , 32

I am a gentle and sensual girl at heart, but my work and my work responsibilities made me to be strong and responsible. I love my job and do my duties well, but frankly I'm not doing a good job with my personal life. I'm here to change my life, I want to be happy. I want to be perceived as a woman, not as a good employee.

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Im a happy wife ☺️ living the happy life! Interested in having some fun? Messag.. Fernley Nevada, USA , 33

Mama♡L loves to be the center of attention MMF also veryy interested in experiencing with a female. We are a clean fun couple & want to have a good time.

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Just a fun couple looking for some kinky fun ! Reno Nevada, USA , 67, 67

Sex with others is always hot ! I really like eating a fresh cream pie out of her!

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Im 39 years old, living in the San Jose region. San Jose California, USA , 39

I'm 39 years old, living in the San Jose region.
I'm interested in meeting a transgender person or a couple or a woman or a man aged between 18 and 50.

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I am joyful and optimistic, and I have an ability to make my man feel better no .. California City California, USA , 44

I am not looking for a rich man, I am looking for my beloved with whom I can reach all our goals! And we will do it together, hand in hand, in perfect harmony. I want to find a man who will understand and accept me for who I am. In turn, I will do the same. We will understand and support each other in all endeavors. The victory of one is the victory of the other. And our home will be our fortress

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I am adventurous and full of life. Hi.. I love working and playing fair... easy to relate with and be with (smile), I am verily interested in experiencing life. I love going for picnics and traveling, I like cooking, music and movies.

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