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I'm 18 years old, living in the Rio Linda region.
I'm interested in meeting a couple or a man aged between 18 and 40.

I'm 49 years old, living in the Fremont region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 40 and 80.

I am a difficult woman to conquer, I like a man educated and of good taste, I have to be kind and respectful, I have to be chivalrous and romantic, I think I am looking for my Romeo haha. I hope you are captivated by me and want to meet me.

I am outgoing, Inquisitive and independent. I am a lover of a good conversation, Good drinks and long walks on the beach. Laugther is a priority. My humor is some mix of nerdy and sarcastic. I

Hi Im looking for a friend first and maybe more later. I want to laugh, dance explore this world-just looking for someone to join me

Am just ready to explore with the respectful submissive that is willing to serve I goddess

I love fun a lot and love to party and dance and I also love hicking

I’m Dominant and ready to take this to higher level

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I’ve recently opened the door to all this from all of my smut books. I’m still very new but very open

I'm always ready to share my jokes and make people smile. In general, I am a bright and enthusiastic girl, ready to conquer the world with my interests and enthusiasm! You can watch the whole movie about me after you write to me.

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Authenticity is an essential part of my sessions. My lust for control and my naturally seductive nature equate to intensely atmospheric experiences for everyone involved. I am a firm believer that I should enjoy my time spent with my submissives just as much as they enjoy their time with me, their mistress.
Nothing makes my pulse race quite like having a submissive at my feet; willing to endure whatever I have in store for them for my enjoyment, for my pleasure.
When in my presence, rest assured that you’ll be in safe hands in a judgement-free environment, you are encouraged to discuss your interests in an open and honest manner. I am well-educated, intelligent and understand the complex psychological notions behind the yearning to visit a professional mistress.
This is not simply a job to me, it’s a lifestyle. I am and energetic and caring mistress, and have the necessary experience in order to lead you safely to a place where you can explore your submission without judgement.

Physically I am blind yet powerful with a commanding presence that demands attention. My soft voice can be both soothing and demanding, and I know how to use it to get what I want. I have a penchant for dressing in black leather and lace, and I take great pride in my appearance as a dominant woman.
Mentally, I am intelligent and analytical, with a deep understanding of the psychology of power exchange. I am skilled at reading my partner's body language and non-verbal cues, and I am always looking for ways to push their boundaries and challenge their limits.
In terms of my BDSM interests, I have a wide range of kinks and fetishes that I enjoy exploring with my submissives. From bondage and impact play to humiliation and worship, I know how to create a safe and consensual environment where we can both explore our deepest desires.

My main hobby is my work, because it not only gives me income, but also pleasure. In my free time, I go in for sports, as well as dancing "High heels" and "Twerk". During the dance, I forget about everything and completely dissolve in them, discovering more femininity and sexuality in myself. Intrigued? .Maybe in the future I will dance just for you, who knows?) I like to travel, watch light erotic films, spend time with people close to me.

Am truthful and honest lover like to meet same as I am

But the road,
The road is my mistress.
Devious and open,
Harsh and nurturing,
She seduces me with love
And dares me with death
In equal measure.
Just like any good woman.

I’m a one man type of lady, hoping to find something serious on here.. Build a better life together

I’m interested in ongoing FWBs 2-3x/mo on wkends w people who r fit n physically active outdoors, n into pleasurable, safe sexual exploring. Sound like a match for you? My pics are from past 2 yrs. I value kindness, respect n honesty. Some of my interests are horseback riding; hiking (4-6 mi); kayaking; billiards; grilling/cooking; sensual, erotic, sexual n kink explorations. (Gender Neutral means I can be both receptive n proactive. I enjoy wearing sexy, accessible clothing n I also enjoy initiating and/or guiding pleasurable experiences.)

I will push your limits, but never cross your boundaries and I will use your body in a way that will make you continue to yearn for Me,My rapport with my sub is VERY important. Whether you choose to meet with Me only once or reoccurring, I assure you that you will experience a discreet and safe encounter while you are in My presence and play space,my expertise is incomparable; I will take you into My world and allow you to experience Domination in its purest from, you will feel exhilarated and renewed when I am done with you. &

Sexual and family-oriented lady. I like to bring home comfort and hospitality. I prefer romantic atmosphere more. I am a very positive person, cheerful and I look forward to a new day, giving thanks to God. I do believe in a real love and I genuinely believe, that I can meet my love here, on this site. I am very active person. I am interested in everything that gives me pleasure.

Having fun gets me excited. My dog is what makes me happy

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I'm 29 years old, living in the Sacramento region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 28 and 99.

I am very tender, caring, sociable and easygoing woman who is looking for a true love. And if I love a person I belong him totally and can bring for my man a pure bliss. I want my relations to be harmonious. I adore white long roses, chocolates and serenades during the first months of our relations and I know how to escape the argues and misunderstandings during the rest of the time. I know that romance is an essential part of any relations but there is life itself that shows the real face of the person.

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