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I am a dom looking for a sub with same or similar features as me Female 35 from Newcastle, Australia

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Money and material possessions do not define me; my aspirations lie in the embra.. Female 44 from Canberra, Australia

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I'm 36 years old, living in the Wallsend region.
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I drink socially I don't smoke


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Love intelligent and smart personalities Female 43 from Canberra, Australia

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I am single and ready to mingle Female 38 from Sydney, Australia

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variety is the spice of life ! Female 46 from Newcastle, Australia

i believe variety is the spice of life & i am wanting to tick things of my bucket list, some of my favourite things are handcuffs & whips
my age limit is between 29 - 45 & i am up for most things but mostly looking for a single female or couple to help fulfil my bucket list, someone or couple to put more than a smile on more than my dial


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I am here for anything that goes Female 43 from Sydney, Australia

You have not met such a calm girl like me! You can talk to me for hours.  I really think that every person should be listened to and supported. I do not think that this is a very good trait of my character. And I hope that this will be one big plus in communication here! If you want to get to know me better, write to me and I will tell you.


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A wonder lady seeking for a sub to tame and see what he has to offer in the game.. Female 56 from Sydney, Australia

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Let take things easy and get to know each other off here and see what happens Female 37 from Sydney, Australia

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New to the scene, looking for a possible third for a bit of fun every now and th.. Couple 29, 29 from Revesby, Australia

Considering we are pretty new to it, this is what excites us, getting to find out what we both like more by trying out new things like this, both pretty open minded, happy to hear suggestions and try most things ☺️


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Looking for Long term dean more. Female 41 from Syndal, Australia

I'm 40 years old, living in the Syndal region.
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