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Just here having a window shop Female 36 from Helensburgh, Australia

I am just here having a window shop to see all the pretty things


Straight

Looking for, ages 36-46. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Cuckold, Discreet Meets, Outdoor Fun, Soft Swap, Threesomes, Webcam

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From the Flintstones to the Future: Lets Rock and Roll Together! Female 21 from Sydney, Australia

Hey there, summing up who I am feels like trying to capture lightning in a bottle - My name is irish, it's a tall order! Yet, I'm all about the journey of getting to know someone organically. I'm a firm believer that true understanding takes time and genuine interaction.That said, here's a glimpse into the enigma that is me: Firstly, I see myself as a rare gem, each facet reflecting a different dimension of my personality. How I connect with others is like a dance; it can be harmonious or discordant depending on the steps we take together. Respect and kindness are my currency, and they reveal the depth of who I am.On a lighter note, there's a mischievous streak within me that adds spice to life's recipe. Think of me as a playful spirit, always ready to stir things up in the name of fun.


Straight

Looking for, ages 18-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age Gap, Age play, Anal, BDSM, Body Hair, Couples, Curves, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Exhibitionism, Feet, Fetish, Lingerie, Oral, Outdoor Fun, Pegging, Petite, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage

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Sexing queen who like *** Im here to share that fun with the rightful person wh.. Female 33 from Sydney, Australia

I'm a dominant woman especially in bed and life hold nothing but for us enjoy and live it to the fullest with the right person


Straight

Looking for, ages 51-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Discreet Meets, Fetish, Outdoor Fun, Threesomes

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Single subby mum looking for a patient and respectful dom Female 39 from Kurri Kurri, Australia

I am new to the lifestyle,
I have always had a submissive personality and. People pleaser.
I m looking for a Dom to please and hand control over to


Straight

Looking for, ages 35-45. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Fetish, Sex Toys, Sub

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Hello dears nice to meet you i am actually new here...I am Ryan single with no k.. Female 44 from Toronto, Australia

when i get a date with the man i want to spend the rest of my life with..


Straight

Looking for, ages 47-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests,

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I am a girl who may be very different. But on another side love to be alone some.. Female 26 from Sydney, Australia

am very honest and I hate lie. I like clever conversations, enjoy spending time outdoors and I am fond of sports. I am passionate with everything I do


Straight

Looking for, ages 51-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, ASMR, Dirty Talk, Erotic Fiction, Outdoor Fun, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sexual Massage

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I am a mistress looking for a male submissive to train on this journey of bdsm s.. Female 38 from Sydney, Australia

A loyal and submissive male who is ready and willing to worship beneath my feet.


Straight

Looking for, ages 50-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Dom, Fetish

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Looking for wild times and up gir anything Couple 33, 34 from Belconnen, Australia

32 hes 33 and love to fuck and new to this keeen asf


Straight, Straight

Looking for, ages 18-39. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Bukkake, Cuckold, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Full Swap, Group Sex, Roleplay, Sexual Massage, Soft Swap, Threesomes, Voyeurism

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Im 34 years old, living in the Canberra region. Female 34 from Canberra, Australia

I'm 34 years old, living in the Canberra region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 55 and 93.


Straight

Looking for, ages 69-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, Sex Toys

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Let’s make a deal: I bring the charm, you bring the responses. Fair enough? Female 27 from Sydney, Australia

Hope you like bad jokes because I’ve got a ton. Let’s create some laugh lines together.


Bisexual

Looking for, ages 18-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Couples, Discreet Meets, Outdoor Fun, Soft Swap, Threesomes

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Looking to spead my wings after divorce. Im new to this scene, open minded. No.. Female 50 from Blacktown, Australia

Love the thought of being dominant and the feeling of confidence and power. I have only been with men, but I am interested interested exploring women, and adventures with multiple people.  I am happy to start off slow to learn..


Bicurious

Looking for, ages 40-65. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Discreet Meets, Erotic Fiction, Roleplay

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Horny young couple looking for an extra person to join us on our night of fun Couple 38, 26 from Terrigal, Australia

My fiancé and I like to try new things and want  to have casual hookups with men/woman


Bisexual, Bisexual

Looking for, ages 18-29. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Roleplay, Send naked pics, Sex Toys, Tell naughty stories, Threesomes

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Funny, vivacious, down to earth, caring, kind, lovable and honest thats me. Female 57 from Pakenham, Australia

I Love to be romanced and waited on, you must be funny, kind , honest, sexy, caring, with a gorgeous hard male body physic Mmmm, yumm..


Bisexual

Looking for, ages 18-50. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Erotic Fiction, Voyeurism

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Im 48 years old, living in the Sydney region. Female 48 from Sydney, Australia

I'm 48 years old, living in the Sydney region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 42 and 90.


Straight

Looking for, ages 42-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Erotic Fiction

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Authentic, respectful Goddess on a quest for respectful, mutually satisfying exp.. Female 51 from Canberra, Australia

I find it difficult to define myself. As soon as I do, I want to experience the opposite! I am on a journey of discovery, looking for experiences of all kinds.


Straight

Looking for, ages 41-61. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Pegging, Roleplay, Sex Toys

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Lets explore our deepest desires subbie and have that fun we crave for so badly Female 35 from Fairfield, Australia

She is the perfect woman. Polite, honest and kind... but with a very dirty mind


Straight

Looking for, ages 24-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, Sex Toys

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Welcome to My World - not just a fantasy but a theatrical dreamscape. Its the e.. Female 37 from Canberra, Australia

You've reached where you are through hard work and smart decisions. Now, it's about investing time in yourself, seeking those meaningful connections and deeper human bonds.


Straight

Looking for, ages 27-80. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age Gap, Age play, Anal, BBW / BHM, BDSM, Bondage, Curves, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Dom, Edging, Erotic Fiction, Feet, Fetish, Lace, Leather / Latex, Lingerie, Mature, MILF, Nylons, Oral, Outdoor Fun, Pegging, Petite, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub

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Seeking for FWF to a long term relationship Female 39 from Sydney, Australia

I can say a little about me, i go by Michelle im single and I’m here seeking for Friends with benefits some one who is serious to go forward to a long term relationship.. I’m not here for games.


Straight

Looking for, ages 50-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BBW / BHM, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets

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Just looking for now. Not sure Couple 46, 40 from Lake Illawarra, Australia

Wife wants husband to fuck around. Wife gets all the attention though


Straight, Straight

Looking for, ages 18-57. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Outdoor Fun

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I’m new to this but want to experiment Female 36 from Bundeena, Australia

Experimenting and trying new techniques with others


Straight

Looking for, ages 25-49. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Bukkake, Discreet Meets, Outdoor Fun, Threesomes

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Horny slut that craves attention… Loves giving oral on both genders. Love being .. Female 24 from Rutherford, Australia

Receiving sexual attention, giving head, exhibitionism, bondage, training


Straight

Looking for, ages 25-50. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Cuckold, Exhibitionism, Full Swap, Group Sex, Outdoor Fun, Roleplay, Soft Swap, Threesomes, Voyeurism

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Mf fwb looking for fun don’t hesitate to hit us up Couple 31, 31 from Raymond Terrace, Australia

Mf couple looking for fun very adventurous up for a good time down to earth


Straight, Straight

Looking for, ages 18-44. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Couples, Full Swap, Outdoor Fun, Threesomes, Webcam

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Easy going been together for some yrs and we want to play we new to this so if i.. Couple 48, 48 from Sydney, Australia

People being naked while they watch us fuck and when we r
Comfortable and relaxed we r happy getting turned on and fucking


Straight, Straight

Looking for, ages 18-40. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Couples, Full Swap, Outdoor Fun, Soft Swap, Threesomes, Webcam

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Time to fall in love again forever Female 33 from Sydney, Australia

I'm 32 years old, living in the Sydney region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 46 and 93.


Straight

Looking for, ages 46-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Couples, Discreet Meets, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Group Sex, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Temperature Play, Threesomes, Voyeurism

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Im a 44yr old female who feels young and wants a gal who feels the same!, to ha.. Female 44 from Chipping Norton, Australia

I'm happy when I'm loving someone and being loved back!  While going out together to beaches, restaurants, party's, pubs, clubs, cafes, shopping together, being pamered or pampering each other!  To me, , , money I'd not every thing!  It helps, , , but it doesn't keep me warm at night! ! ! !


Bisexual

Looking for, ages 34-54. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Oral, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage

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