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I’m a legitimate sovereign goddess Female 26 from Sydney, Australia

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I'm 42 years old, living in the Newcastle region.
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I’m an Alpha Female,A Dominant Queen who loves her subs to be submissive and Loy.. Female 37 from Sydenham, Australia

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Sexing queen who like *** Im here to share that fun with the rightful person wh.. Female 33 from Sydney, Australia

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hi! subby bunny with masochistic tendencies :3 Female 18 from Penrith, Australia

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Dont know much about this life style hoping to know more Female 36 from Blacktown, Australia

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Hey everyone! i need dick on my pussy right now Female 29 from Sydney, Australia

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Looking for a sl*ve, to call my own! Female 29 from Wollongong, Australia

Im fairly new to BDSM so i want to learn more of it and wanting to own someone.


Bisexual

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Why not?? Stayed loyal to an unloyal for the last 8+ years and it got me nothing.. Female 46 from Nowra, Australia

Not much of either lately but I'm trying to change that


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I’m lovely, single shy woman, . Ask me more later in our conversation Female 34 from Newcastle, Australia

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Hi looking for a serious relationship Female 19 from Canberra, Australia

Looking for a serious relationship with a good man


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