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Gay couple open ready to meet new people and friends Couple 53, 53 from Drouin, Australia

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Ari here ready to meet new people Female 35 from Toronto, Australia

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Looking for someone who likes the idea of being warmed up & de-stressed with a f.. Female 29 from Sydney, Australia

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friendly women, looking for new friends Female 41 from Sydney, Australia

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I am a very feminine, energetic lady with a good heart. Female 28 from Sydney, Australia

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Im mistresses Becky, Im 40 years old and based in Sydney Australia Female 53 from Sydney, Australia

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I hate envy, betrayal, I can put almost anyone on their feet and motivate them, Female 30 from Wollombi, Australia

Despite my age, I am an open, active woman, free in thoughts and judgments. There is no taboo for me, but freedom, sincerity, feelings, emotions are very valuable. I am straightforward and confident in the goals that I set myself.. I do not have any ideal or high expectations, but I would like to meet a man with whom I will be myself, like he is with me, the man who will tell me yes if I invite him to go on a trip around the world.


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I get it because Ive been there. Female 33 from Sydney, Australia

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Hi there, Living life and being out amongst it is what I love to do I enjoy tra.. Female 49 from Narara, Australia

Organising a holiday gets me excited
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Though I havent had the best of time or experience up here but I still think it.. Female 28 from Sydney, Australia

I think exploring your kinks or even hidden fantasies you thought you never even had starts from truely connecting with a partner. It just makes it unique even though its a short term thing


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Sexy and keen couple (stunning redhead (f) and tanned, toned fit guy) looking to.. Couple 49, 33 from Sydney, Australia

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A passionate, experienced Dominant woman looking for a single submissive partner.. Female 41 from Sydney, Australia

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We are a married couple I am older 20 years I am impotent she needs some loving Couple 47, 47 from Newcastle, Australia

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I am a goddess looking for male who is willing to serve me and be diligent in al.. Female 26 from Canberra, Australia

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Looking to explore BDSM both as a dom. I will train you to be owned by me.  True.. Female 34 from Sydenham, Australia

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Spontaneous, adventurous, open-minded Female 56 from Canberra, Australia

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Very comfortable in a pair of jeans and love to have fun at the pool side . Love.. Female 39 from Vermont, Australia

Am very comfortable in a pair of jeans and go out on a  normal day . I like indoors tho but with the company of my fantasy.. am like open minded and mature whom is very loyal and have a great sense of humor ..


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Subl bi male and female partner need to find a release . Experienced and good fu.. Couple 52, 52 from Smithfield, Australia

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I’m 21 years old, I love singing and dancing, K-pop and cuddles Female 21 from Albury, Australia

I’m a singer and dancer, I live my music and I love doing makeup on myself, I love walks into a park and eating at small cafes


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Fun couple looking to play with others Couple 35, 30 from Clyde, Australia

We are younger couple married and looking for more fun


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I still have have lots of life to live. If you can give me a good laugh, love to.. Female 60 from Canberra, Australia

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