Mybedoryours woman header
Find casual encounters and NSA sex nearby
Sign up helper
Let's get started
Mybedoryours featured

Browse our members in Act

The best way to see if we're the dating site for you is to try us out for free. The form up ☝️there only takes a moment to complete and is completely free. If you're not ready for that, then browse some of our current Act based members here. We've collected a selection of our users to make it easier for you to see who you could be meeting and what they are interested in.

Casual encounters in Act

Finding sex in Act is so easy thanks to My Bed or Yours and our new mobile app. Search by sexual preference, age, location, online now and loads of other options or let our system do the work for you.

We offer matching algorithms to find our perfect casual partner or if you prefer a more hands on approach we give you advanced searching and filtering. So you can really narrow down your needs, so if you're only looking for older women in Act they're just a click and a scroll away.

Search our members. It's easy to get started and find your match.

My Bed Or Yours Members Around Act
Im 25 years old, living in the Wamberal North region. Female 25 from Wamberal North, Australia

I'm 25 years old, living in the Wamberal North region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 26 and 57.


Straight

Looking for, ages 26-57. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Roleplay, Sex Toys, Sub

Member profile image
Looking for: Male
Open minded and discreet, looking forward in exploring our desires together. Female 30 from Sydney, Australia

keen for love, keen for discreet, keen for fun, keen for anything that wants domination.


Straight

Looking for, ages 40-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

Member profile image
Looking for: Male
Horny sexy playful couple looking for fun times Couple 50, 50 from Revesby, Australia

Fit fun tattooed honest descrete looking to party with u


Straight, Straight

Looking for, ages 18-86. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Bukkake, Couples, Cuckold, Discreet Meets, Fetish, Full Swap, Outdoor Fun, Soft Swap, Threesomes

Member profile image
Looking for: Male, Female
I am outgoing and open minded, to give total bliss will make your fantasies com.. Female 34 from Sydney, Australia

I'm into kinky desires, ass and pussy worship, pegging, spanking, blindfold, bondage, armpits, foot worship, financial dominance and  I make Dangerous look beautiful.


Straight

Looking for, ages 50-85. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Roleplay, Sex Toys

Member profile image
Looking for: Male, Someone Else
New, but informed. Looking to find peace. Female 25 from Cranbourne, Australia

Bubbly, love books, Disney and crafts. Uhm not too sure what else to write. If you'd like to know anything in particular, please feel free to ask. Specifically looking for an experienced Daddy Dom who can help me with being a Little


Bisexual

Looking for, ages 33-40. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, Discreet Meets, Erotic Fiction, Roleplay, Sub

Member profile image
Looking for: Male, Female, Couple, Someone Else
Looking to spead my wings after divorce. Im new to this scene, open minded. No.. Female 50 from Blacktown, Australia

Love the thought of being dominant and the feeling of confidence and power. I have only been with men, but I am interested interested exploring women, and adventures with multiple people.  I am happy to start off slow to learn..


Bicurious

Looking for, ages 40-65. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Discreet Meets, Erotic Fiction, Roleplay

Member profile image
Looking for: Male, Female, Couple
Im 26 years old, living in the Sydney region. Female 27 from Sydney, Australia

I'm 26 years old, living in the Sydney region . I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 18 and 30


Straight

Looking for, ages 18-24. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Sex Toys

Member profile image
Looking for: Male, Someone Else
I find it humorous when I meet a submissive man how quickly he becomes erect in .. Female 36 from Caringbah, Australia

Am mistress AUDREY am fully equipped and experienced on this lifestyle, all I need is an obedient and committed sub which we can explore our wildest fantasies together


Straight

Looking for, ages 45-72. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Dom, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

Member profile image
Looking for: Male
99% Angel BUT OH that 1% Adventurous spontaneous Female 46 from East Gosford, Australia

Open minded free spirited bi sexual looking to meet new people for fun & good times


Straight

Looking for, ages 18-55. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys, Sub

Member profile image
Looking for: Male, Couple
I am optimistic and generous. Thats what I appreciate in people. I do not like .. Female 37 from Wollongong, Australia

My life makes me who I am, and I am proud of being such a nice person. I am kind and have a warm heart. I am purposeful and know what I want. I am an easy-going person. I like to smile, laugh and make people happy. No matter what happens in life, I always believe that everything will be good, and I am ready to support anyone who needs my support. I am honest and loyal as I think it is very important quality for every person. I dislike liars, and I never try to be someone else, I am who I am.


Straight

Looking for, ages 50-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Discreet Meets

Member profile image
Looking for: Male
I am a seperated 39yrold single mum, looking for some fun Female 39 from Kurri Kurri, Australia

I can be obedient but also like pushing boundaries occasionally.


Straight

Looking for, ages 35-46. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Fetish, Sub

Member profile image
Looking for: Male
Couple looking for a male partner for threesomes both fit and healthy...she is i.. Couple 73, 73 from Sydney, Australia

We are a healthy fit couple looking for the right guy/guys to join us for a hot night or day get together. . . cleanliness and discretion a must


Straight, Straight

Looking for, ages 35-50. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Sex Toys, Threesomes

Member profile image
Looking for: Male
I like to lead an active lifestyle, do sports, yoga, stretching and love active .. Female 31 from Pyrmont, Australia

I'm 31 years old, living in the Pyrmont region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 45 and 94.


Straight

Looking for, ages 45-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Lingerie, Mature, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage

Member profile image
Looking for: Male
Safer than safe. all I want is peace and fun for everyone Female 25 from Sydney, Australia

Want to try explore something new and getting have fun with everyone


Straight

Looking for, ages 18-80. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Bukkake, Cuckold, Discreet Meets, Full Swap, Outdoor Fun, Threesomes

Member profile image
Looking for: Male, Couple
I enjoy romantic walks on beach, candle light dinners, love to travel very much .. Female 31 from Sydney, Australia

My heart is full of love and I want to share it with a lover man, I want to give all my tenderness, care and affection! Look at my photos and tell me, am I your type of lady? I hope to meet a man who will appreciate not only my external attractiveness, but also my inner beauty. I am sure that you will like my thoughts and it will be pleasant for you to talk to me.


Bisexual

Looking for, ages 18-83. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Couples, Cuckold, Discreet Meets, Fetish, Full Swap, Outdoor Fun, Threesomes

Member profile image
Looking for: Male, Couple
l’m a nice person and l like smiling l’m very kind Female 24 from Toronto, Australia

l’m Emily and l’m new on here… l’m looking for a long term relationship someone who is kindness and respectful… l will be glad if l found that’s type of person and share good  things and bad things


Straight

Looking for, ages 51-68. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Lingerie

Member profile image
Looking for: Male
Im 45 years old, living in the Gosford region. Female 46 from Gosford, Australia

I'm 45 years old, living in the Gosford region.
I'm interested in meeting a couple or a man aged between 18 and 56.


Straight

Looking for, ages 18-56. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Erotic Fiction, Full Swap, Sex Toys, Threesomes, Voyeurism

Member profile image
Looking for: Male, Couple
I am an intelligent and interesting woman. I have an easy and calm character. I .. Female 40 from Sydney, Australia

I lead a healthy lifestyle. I go in for sports. I really love to cook and read books. I am very interested in communicating with people, making new acquaintances, getting to know people and learning something new from them.


Straight

Looking for, ages 52-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests,

Member profile image
Looking for: Male
Single subby mum looking for a patient and respectful dom Female 39 from Kurri Kurri, Australia

I am new to the lifestyle,
I have always had a submissive personality and. People pleaser.
I m looking for a Dom to please and hand control over to


Straight

Looking for, ages 35-45. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Fetish, Sex Toys, Sub

Member profile image
Looking for: Male
Couple looking to play solo or together Couple 35, 36 from Warragul, Australia

Looking to always have fun with other open minded people


Straight, Straight

Looking for, ages 20-45. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Bukkake, Couples, Cuckold, Full Swap, LGBTQIA+, Oral, Roleplay, Sex Games, Sex Toys, Soft Swap, Threesomes

Member profile image
Looking for: Male, Female, Couple, Someone Else
Couple seeking a third :) we’d like either a male or female, and want to experie.. Couple 36, 36 from Noble Park, Australia

We enjoy some light BDSM, nothing crazy, more fifty shades of grey style, lol.


Bicurious, Straight

Looking for, ages 25-35. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Cuckold, Erotic Fiction, Sex Toys, Threesomes

Member profile image
Looking for: Male
Love to watch my missus Michelles put cock in her mouth and cum in her mouth se.. Couple 54, 38 from Sydney, Australia

I'm 50 and I love watching my missus Michelle suck cock if your keen to let her she will


Straight, Straight

Looking for, ages 18-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests,

Member profile image
Looking for: Male, Female, Couple, Someone Else
Im a legitimate sovereign goddess Female 34 from Toronto, Australia

Looking for  that  special older one, who will rekindle the flame of passion and desire that seems to have been lost in my past relationship. Someone willing to assist me and ready to live the alternate kinky BDSM lifestyle with me secretly


Straight

Looking for, ages 50-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Anal, BDSM, Oral, Roleplay, Sexual Massage

Member profile image
Looking for: Male
Im a dominate woman who enjoys training men on how to be better submissive to t.. Female 31 from Sydney, Australia

Communicative and  secretive to that lucky submissive


Straight

Looking for, ages 35-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, Sex Toys

Member profile image
Looking for: Male, Someone Else
I have borderline personality disorder. Not the best opening line but its a sho.. Female 44 from Wollongong, Australia

I will do anything to make you be happy with me as I cant stand the guilt of having you upset or disappointed in me. I will do anything to be told I'm a good girl. Feeling unworthy and unlovable can consume me so you would need to treat me like you own me. I would be your property. As an overthinker I crave the comfort that comes from leadership, rules and boundaries. Tell me what to do and how to be and I will submit and obey. Take control of me so I can take care of you.Bpd can cause me to become depressed, defiant and distant. You will either be patient with me in this time or strong enough to discipline me back into submission where I feel most comfortable and safe.I don't like praise or compliments. But I'll take all the head pats and forehead kisses you gift me.Make me feel safe and wanted and Im yours. Brand me, collar me, cover me in your scent as a daily reminder that I belong to you more than I belong to me. Please....


Straight

Looking for, ages 38-58. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Roleplay, Sex Toys, Sub

Member profile image
Looking for: Male

Active member locations

  • Queanbeyan /
  • Canberra Australia /
  • Hall /
  • Bomaderry /
  • Fitzroy Falls /
  • Fyshwick /
  • Yass /
  • Batemans Bay /
  • Bargo /
  • Talmalmo /
  • Picton /
  • Belconnen /
  • Wagga Wagga /
  • Turlinjah /

Browse profiles now. We're one of the countries largest adult dating sites. As a member you get access to every profile to find the partners you want to meet. Older, younger? Slimmer, larger? Dom, sub? Couple, single? Whatever get's you excited we're certain we have members that want to meet up with you. You can get a sneak peek at all our members with the FREE account, so go and have a peek now.

We don't want to sound like your dad but we do want you to feel safe while using our service. We try our best to make sure all of our members are just looking for fun and not out to cause trouble. We have a full time staff team that constantly monitors the site to remove troublesome members - if you find anyone suspicious please let us know. Before you arrange to meet someone talk to them first on the site. We provide messaging tools so you can connect with people without revealing any personal details. If you get on, arrange a phone call or Skype chat and take it from there. Keep your personal details private until you feel you can trust someone.

Start finding local swingers in [area] today by signing up for your FREE account. Once you experience the simplicity of meeting people for casual sex online, you will wonder why you ever wasted your time with bars and clubs again. Sign up now and check out horny guys and girls online every day looking for sex.

Why should you join My Bed of Yours?

At My Bed or Yours, we prioritize your safety and enjoyment above all else. We understand that in the world of online dating, it's important to feel secure and comfortable. That's why we've taken every step to ensure that your experience with us is both safe and enjoyable.

Verified Profiles for Peace of Mind

We know that authenticity matters. That's why we've implemented a robust member verification system. Our members can rest assured that the profiles they're interacting with are genuine and trustworthy. Whether it's through member approval or other verification methods, you can feel confident connecting with others on our platform.

Discreet & Safe Sex Dating

Privacy is paramount to us. We understand the importance of discretion, especially when it comes to intimate connections. Our commitment to anonymity means that your personal information is always kept confidential. Our in-house security team works tirelessly to ensure that your privacy is protected.

Security & Data Protection

Your safety is our top priority. That's why we've invested in robust security measures to safeguard your data. There aren't any apps to download and install so your membership can remain private.

At My Bed or Yours, we're dedicated to providing you with a safe and enjoyable online dating experience. Join us today and discover a community where you can connect with confidence.

Looking for something different?

Free sign up - no credit card required

Play the game - Who would you like to meet?