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We enjoy the company of Bi guys or girls to head out and have some fun with. Enjoy drinks, plenty of flirting and some hot fun if the vibe is right.
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 18-45.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests,
I'm appealing and very sexy and very good at what I do
Straight
Looking for, ages 24-44.
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Interests, Age play, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Roleplay, S&M
What gets me excited is confidence & experience. I also have to be attracted to the person
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-32.
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Interests, Roleplay, Sub
I am a soft kind bear of lady, a bit shy till you know me. I love to smile laugh and share in what I do, eat n drink, a good companion and conversationalist, passionate, tactile, love to hug and be passionate.
Straight
Looking for, ages 35-65.
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Interests, BDSM, Bondage, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Erotic Fiction, Feet, Fetish, Lingerie, Oral, Outdoor Fun, Pegging, Roleplay, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub
I will do anything to make you be happy with me as I cant stand the guilt of having you upset or disappointed in me. I will do anything to be told I'm a good girl. Feeling unworthy and unlovable can consume me so you would need to treat me like you own me. I would be your property. As an overthinker I crave the comfort that comes from leadership, rules and boundaries. Tell me what to do and how to be and I will submit and obey. Take control of me so I can take care of you.Bpd can cause me to become depressed, defiant and distant. You will either be patient with me in this time or strong enough to discipline me back into submission where I feel most comfortable and safe.I don't like praise or compliments. But I'll take all the head pats and forehead kisses you gift me.Make me feel safe and wanted and Im yours. Brand me, collar me, cover me in your scent as a daily reminder that I belong to you more than I belong to me. Please....
Straight
Looking for, ages 38-58.
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Interests, Roleplay, Sex Toys, Sub
Hello future submissive, You need a mistress that is well experienced, plays her kinky safe and have more than 9 years experience with a great lifestyle
Straight
Looking for, ages 25-87.
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Interests, Anal, BDSM, Cuckold, Discreet Meets, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Lingerie, Oral, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Tickle Play
Looking for someone comfortable in teaching me, can be long term, open to exploring new kinks
Bicurious
Looking for, ages 18-39.
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Interests, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Roleplay, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub
I am an open person with a warm and attractive smile. My eyes are bright and full of charm. I am an active person. I'd like to spend my free time positively. I have no reason to be sad, so I always prefer to smile. Think, life likes smiling people). I am a sociable, communicative, cheer and smart woman, who also has a good sense of humor. My greatest happiness is my little daughter. am very cheerful and I have a positive! I am honest, smart and beautiful! I have a romantic nature and I enjoy being active with my close people. I am a normal lady, who is in search of love. I like to develop myself and learn something new. I do not like to stand in one place. As a mother I can tell that I am caring and loving. In a relationship with my man I will be also a caring, loving, understanding, romantic and even passionate woman!
In my free time, I like reading. I like going to the gym, and walking. I also like to cook. Listening to music calms me down and puts me a good mood.
Straight
Looking for, ages 41-89.
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Interests, Outdoor Fun, Sexual Massage, Sub, Threesomes
I’m outgoing, caring and dependable and someone who could really be your rock. I enjoy going on drives, concerts, movies and catching up with friends for a cocktail and dinner.
Straight
Looking for, ages 40-90.
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Interests,
I am a thoughtful, caring and very loving romantic woman I am honest, very positive person who enjoys each moment of every day. I have a great sense of humor and love to laugh, and to keep a relationship fun and refreshing, open minded, to create rich meaningful conversation. I enjoy reading, listening music, working out, hiking, fine cuisine, and movies. I love to travel and always enjoy experiencing other cultures and people.
Straight
Looking for, ages 52-84.
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Interests, Outdoor Fun, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub
just being good in dominating the new side of you to explore your kinky side
Straight
Looking for, ages 24-90.
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Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, Sex Toys
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Straight
Looking for, ages 45-75.
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Interests, Age play, Anal, BDSM, Body Hair, Bondage, Curves, Dirty Talk, Dom, Electro Play, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, LGBTQIA+, Mature, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Tickle Play, Voyeurism
I find fulfillment in making people happy, I can fulfill your desires if you're honest and loyal. I just want everybody to be happy.
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-25.
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Interests, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Sex Toys
i m a smart women, funny, calm, and extrovert, my passion is gym, food, books
Straight
Looking for, ages 30-50.
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Interests,
I love to be Pampered, Adored by my submissive , having him tied in bondage under my reins while my whip and Paddle gives off a taste of pain and pleasure
Straight
Looking for, ages 54-90.
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Interests, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Roleplay, Sex Toys
Having awesome times with my partner.. like to wear sexy outfits
Straight
Looking for, ages 30-45.
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Interests, Anal, Lingerie, Outdoor Fun, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Threesomes
My fiancé and I like to try new things and want to have casual hookups with men/woman
Bisexual, Bisexual
Looking for, ages 18-29.
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Interests, Roleplay, Send naked pics, Sex Toys, Tell naughty stories, Threesomes
I'm feeling devious
You're looking glamorous
Let's get mischievous
And polyamorous
Wine and women and wonderful vices
Welcome to the cult of Dionysus
Straight
Looking for, ages 25-45.
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Interests,
I’m seeking for a long term relationship and a honest person as well To spend the rest of my life with…
Straight
Looking for, ages 46-90.
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Interests, Age Gap, BBW / BHM, Dom, Electro Play, Lingerie, Roleplay
Someone who is real and is true looking for a real Dom not someone who just read 50 shades of gray and thing they can just control you.
Straight
Looking for, ages 43-63.
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Interests, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys, Sub
Loving and caring about someone,wants romantic sub
Straight
Looking for, ages 19-90.
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Interests, Age play, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Sex Toys
I love to travel and learn from others culture, I love to prepare my favorite meal with my friends and shopping after having nice time from home
Straight
Looking for, ages 50-85.
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Interests, Discreet Meets, Impact Play, Lingerie, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Temperature Play, Webcam
Challenge and explore us we will surprise you and pleasure u
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 18-90.
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Interests, Dom, Fetish, Roleplay, Sex Toys, Sub
I'm easy to turn on hard to turn off love the tease
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-42.
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Interests, BDSM, Discreet Meets, Fetish
We are a mixed couple looking to explore our dark/fun side. She wants to experience BDSM dungeon and domination ( light )
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 30-90.
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Interests, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Roleplay, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub
Active member locations
- Bowral /
- Campbell /
- Picton /
- Weston Creek /
- Canberra Australia /
- Talmalmo /
- Canberra /
- Batemans Bay /
- Michelago /
- Narooma /
- Goulburn /
- Braidwood /
- Bargo /
- Tomerong /
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