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My Bed Or Yours Members Around Sydney
Hey!Looking for someone that shares the same mindset as me. I love the power exc.. Female 37 from Albion Park, Australia

I’m interested in finding someone that can challenge me both physically and mentally. I love rough and gentle play and mind games. I’m into bondage, spankings, humiliation, degradation , and exhibitionisism.I’m looking for someone that is heavily into bdsm and wants a regular play date once a week or fortnight. I would like a regular play partner so we can learn each other and get really deep into this kind of play and push limits.


Straight

Looking for, ages 35-52. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Roleplay, Sex Toys, Sub

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Hi, Im not sure what to say yet. Female 44 from Wollongong, Australia

I'm 43 years old, living in the Wollongong region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 38 and 58.


Straight

Looking for, ages 38-58. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Roleplay, Sub

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Im 39 years old, living in the Queanbeyan region. Female 40 from Queanbeyan, Australia

I was looking for the love of my life for so long that fate brought me to Thailand. I think the fact that you see me here means that my search was not very successful, but I think it's okay, we all have to go a certain way to be in the arms of our soulmate in the end. To be honest, the monks taught me in a small temple I found here that this year the love of my life is waiting for me, and I hope they are right. On this path, I have made every effort to become a better version of myself and to make sure that I do not want to repeat the mistakes that my parents made, but to build a family where love reigns, where everyone is happy and motivated. I don't want my efforts to go nowhere, so I'm very serious about starting a family.


Straight

Looking for, ages 46-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Couples

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I am a very feminine, energetic lady with a good heart. Female 28 from Sydney, Australia

I never sit in one place, I develop, attend concerts, and exhibitions, travel a lot, play sports, and so I try to make my lonely life more interesting.


Bisexual

Looking for, ages 18-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Discreet Meets, Fetish, Soft Swap

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Lets get a room at the same place so after a few drinks we head back to the mot.. Couple 37, 37 from Wallsend, Australia

I'm 36 years old, living in the Wallsend region.
I'm interested in meeting a transgender person or a couple or a woman or a man aged between 29 and 54.
I'm  with a A few extra pounds body shape
I drink socially I don't smoke


Straight, Bisexual

Looking for, ages 29-54. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Full Swap, Soft Swap

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Hi, I am Chinese , l am looking for lady to enjoy the life. Couple 51, 42 from Taren Point, Australia

I like good body, and sexy beautiful lady , open mind fashion.


Straight, Straight

Looking for, ages 18-40. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Threesomes

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Dont know much about this life style hoping to know more Female 36 from Blacktown, Australia

Like the out doors also like to stay home cuddling and watching movies with the right person


Straight

Looking for, ages 38-54. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Discreet Meets, Roleplay, Sub

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Lets try new things new adventures Female 55 from Bookham, Australia

If you want an uninhibited adventurous compassionate and honest lady then look no further...I am drug and disease free..


Straight

Looking for, ages 57-86. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Body Hair, Bondage, Discreet Meets, Lingerie, Sex Talk

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I am a girl who may be very different. But on another side love to be alone some.. Female 26 from Sydney, Australia

am very honest and I hate lie. I like clever conversations, enjoy spending time outdoors and I am fond of sports. I am passionate with everything I do


Straight

Looking for, ages 51-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, ASMR, Dirty Talk, Erotic Fiction, Outdoor Fun, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sexual Massage

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Young couple seeking bull to fulfill fantasy Couple 35, 36 from Mudgee, Australia

Young couple looking to fulfill a fantasy. Looking for a well hung guy between 20 and 35 to help with this, single men only. Must be drug and disease free and respectful. No strings attached fun.


Straight, Straight

Looking for, ages 18-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Discreet Meets, Threesomes

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Im a sub.super bbw. Shy. Curious about things Couple 44, 44 from Northmead, Australia

Im plus size female. I can host. I also have dble shower. My situation has changed its only me now single female. Iv never had a 3some but am curious.


Straight, Bicurious

Looking for, ages 30-59. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Threesomes

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Chasing dreams and capturing moments Female 26 from Sydney, Australia

I'm all about creativity, fun, and connecting with awesome people like you.


Bisexual

Looking for, ages 18-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Bukkake, Couples, Cuckold, Discreet Meets, Fetish, Full Swap, Outdoor Fun, Soft Swap, Threesomes, Webcam

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First time exploring this option, would like to spice up our marriage Couple 39, 40 from Newcastle, Australia

Exploring new options in the bedroom , trying something new with my wife


Straight, Straight

Looking for, ages 30-41. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Couples, Full Swap, Webcam

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I find it humorous when I meet a submissive man how quickly he becomes erect in .. Female 36 from Caringbah, Australia

Am mistress AUDREY am fully equipped and experienced on this lifestyle, all I need is an obedient and committed sub which we can explore our wildest fantasies together


Straight

Looking for, ages 45-72. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Dom, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

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Early group experiences have stayed with me for some reason. No sex for over 5 y.. Female 51 from Glenbrook, Australia

I need to relax. I think I didn’t do that before. I like to submit. I like someone or others to take control.


Bisexual

Looking for, ages 30-61. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Bukkake, Couples, Cuckold, Fetish, Threesomes

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Im 38 years old, living in the Sydney region. Female 39 from Sydney, Australia

I'm 38 years old, living in the Sydney region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 46 and 90.


Straight

Looking for, ages 46-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Couples, Discreet Meets, Group Sex, S&M, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Threesomes

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Happy married couple looking for fun kinky awesome times we are ready to explore.. Couple 48, 48 from Forster, Australia

Married 30 years open to anything both bi sexual love playing together n with others we use toys and get full enjoyment out of having Orgasms and watching other people have them love making memories


Bicurious, Straight

Looking for, ages 18-59. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Cuckold, Dirty talk to me, Erotic Fiction, Full Swap, Group Sex, Outdoor Fun, Roleplay, Sexual Massage, Soft Swap, Threesomes

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Its such a turn on when I dominant you in bed Female 38 from Liverpool, Australia

Let's take this offline where no one else can see, and I will show you how kinky I can be ....


Straight

Looking for, ages 50-88. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Dom, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

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We are an open minded fun couple and very easy going and looking for the same, n.. Couple 53, 52 from Gosford, Australia

We like a social conversation and a few drinks and we are smoke cigarettes, love music and nude beaches.


Straight, Straight

Looking for, ages 30-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Cuckold, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Threesomes, Voyeurism

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A safe and communicative environment for submissive to explore their kinks Female 29 from Canberra, Australia

I am born dominate looking to explore my desires and fetish here


Straight

Looking for, ages 40-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Pegging, Sex Toys

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Am a Dom looking for a sub. Are you willing to be submissive Female 25 from Canberra, Australia

Can I be your mistress. I'm a Dom are you willing to be submissive


Straight

Looking for, ages 18-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Anal, BDSM, Dirty Talk, Oral, Sexual Massage, Sub

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I am careful in everything I do and I am optimistic person. I always think I mer.. Female 40 from Newcastle, Australia

I am careful in everything I do and I am optimistic person. I always think I merely exist. I like to take chances and never let fear and complacency stop me from a truly rewarding life. I pay much attention to details in life in order to keep healthy. I am a crazy lady, crazy for my life. Would you like to be crazy with me.


Straight

Looking for, ages 45-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Body Hair, Bukkake, Lace, Sex Talk, Sexual Massage

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Im a goddess looking for a dedicated sub willing to serve Female 39 from Canberra, Australia

I'm a goddess looking for a dedicated sub willing to serve


Straight

Looking for, ages 40-80. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

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Love intelligent and smart personalities Female 43 from Canberra, Australia

Love going out to parks and having fun and little bit of surprises


Straight

Looking for, ages 18-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

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Hello everyone nice to meet you all on here . Female 35 from Pyrmont, Australia

I am mature, active and goal-oriented woman who still wants to marry. I am well-educated, calm, polite and wise. Talking to me you will have a feeling of lightness and harmony. I can be a good friend and passionate wife at the same time. I am sensitive and I know how to improve your mood. I guess when you start to know me you will feel my multifaceted character.


Straight

Looking for, ages 37-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Erotic Fiction, Outdoor Fun

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Active member locations

  • Pyrmont /
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  • Riverview /
  • Warrimoo /
  • Bankstown /
  • Riverstone /
  • Gymea Bay /
  • Menai /
  • Barnsley /
  • Wyong Creek /
  • Castle Hill /
  • Moss Vale /
  • Taren Point /
  • Shellharbour /

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