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40 ish.. Fetish.... Sexy, Single ( I like to be with someone that wants the same.. Couple 49, 49 from Parramatta, Australia

curious about another female fucking me with a strap on,;  love toys, sex swings, love dressing up sexy, seductive,  well groomed, smick on hygiene !!! Big on swinger clubs, love a talented oral pleaser


Straight, Bisexual

Looking for, ages 37-57. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Cuckold, Discreet Meets, Sex Toys, Soft Swap, Threesomes, Voyeurism

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My passion for life is reflected in my various hobbies.. Female 41 from Sydney, Australia

I am a girl who has set a clear goal for herself : to become happy next to her beloved man. My charm, intelligence, talents and cheerfulness are combined with my wonderful sense of humor, thanks to which I am always ready to help and support at any time. I am not looking for games or intrigues, I am looking for a sincere and trusting relationship with a man who seeks to appreciate, love and respect me. For me, it doesn't matter about age or other external characteristics the heart and true feelings are key. My passion and energy need a decent response, and I believe that together we will become an unbreakable couple, two halves of the same whole. My home is always filled with the aromas of delicious dishes that I cook with love. I believe that here, on this dating site, waiting for the man who together with me will feel the same shine in the heart and tenderness of feelings that I so long for.


Straight

Looking for, ages 43-85. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Sub

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We are looking to have some fun with a female.. we are a fun loving couple just.. Couple 35, 36 from Canberra, Australia

We are 3t and 35, both love camping and 4wd love the nrl and having a few drinks and enjoying life


Straight, Straight

Looking for, ages 26-38. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests,

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Am Mandy and am looking for a man and read more of me Female 24 from Ultimo, Australia

Am Mandy and am looking for a man and read more of me the food i like best is Chips and Gravy.


Straight

Looking for, ages 50-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Group Sex, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage

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I am looking for a serious relationship with someone who won’t cheat on me in li.. Female 49 from Sydney, Australia

I am looking for a serious relationship with someone who won’t cheat on me in life


Straight

Looking for, ages 40-60. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests,

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30 year old female 35 year old male looking to meet peoples or sum1 we are new t.. Couple 38, 38 from Penrith, Australia

Down to earth. Easy going
More like to just chill at home
Be ourselves


Straight, Straight

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This Dom is seeking a loyal sub for punishment, pleasure and training to be a go.. Female 38 from Sydney, Australia

I want to meet a true sub. True doms and subs know age, experience and appearance are secondary. Submissiveness is what matters.
If you are sub and want to be pampered and obedient, treated and disciplined and want to live your wildest fantasies, let's talk.


Straight

Looking for, ages 35-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

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Long term couple deeply in love, but both naturally submissive. He has a cuckold.. Couple 34, 34 from Sydney, Australia

Excitement and fun and being made to feel wanted. Alternatively making sure my partner is happy makes me cum


Straight, Straight

Looking for, ages 18-41. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age Gap, Age play, BBW / BHM, BDSM, Bondage, Bukkake, Couples, Crossdress, Cuckold, Curves, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Dom, Edging, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Fetish, Group Sex, Lace, LGBTQIA+, Lingerie, Oral, Outdoor Fun, Pegging, Petite, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Threesomes, Voyeurism, Webcam

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Seeking knowledge on how to care intensively Female 38 from Pyrmont, Australia

Ready to explore more fantasies life has out there to offer


Straight

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Im 37 years old, living in the Melbourne region. Female 37 from Fitzroy Falls, Australia

I'm 37 years old, living in the Melbourne region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 18 and 90.


Straight

Looking for, ages 47-80. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Dirty Talk, Impact Play, Sex Talk, Voyeurism

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Good looking couple. Wanting to try new experiences come check us respect and co.. Couple 43, 43 from Penrith, Australia

We are a couple that are in an amazing relationship just wanting to find the right vibe for more experiences.


Straight, Straight

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I love poetry, books, walks on the beach and cozy candlelight dinners. I enjoy m.. Female 32 from Canberra, Australia

I am serious here and distance or relocation can never be a barrier for in due time we shall meet if we are serious and determined to make it happen and Work, Fate will put as through and i believe in the saying, 'When we get to the Bridge, We'll cross it ' Sure it will be nice to visit you some day..


Straight

Looking for, ages 50-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Bukkake, Couples, Discreet Meets, Full Swap, Soft Swap, Threesomes

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New to the scene, looking for a possible third for a bit of fun every now and th.. Couple 29, 29 from Revesby, Australia

Considering we are pretty new to it, this is what excites us, getting to find out what we both like more by trying out new things like this, both pretty open minded, happy to hear suggestions and try most things ☺️


Straight, Straight

Looking for, ages 25-40. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Cuckold, Discreet Meets, Threesomes

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Time flies when youre having fun! ⏰ Enjoy every moment and make the most of it.. Female 26 from Canberra, Australia

Ultimate Queen Diva. Looking for a sub playmate! Apply within ❤️ let’s have some fun ❤️Read on what a sub is required to do to worship their Queen - don’t waste my time ‍♀️ I won’t reply to “can we date” - I don’t date, sweetheart . When you approac..


Straight

Looking for, ages 59-89. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Anal, BDSM, Cuckold, Discreet Meets, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Leather / Latex, Mature, Pegging, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sub, Temperature Play

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I am a maried lady, stuck in a boring marriage, and looking for fun :) Female 40 from Sydney, Australia

I can say I live an active lifestyle, enjoy going to the gym, love to workout, travel, hike, etc...love all kinds of sport, especially bedroom sports, LOL


Straight

Looking for, ages 38-80. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Discreet Meets, Outdoor Fun

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Looking for fun lots of pussy n cock Female 43 from Liverpool, Australia

Fun  n down 4 anything  pnp  3dun guy n girl 2 guys 2 girls so hit me up n let's. fuck


Bisexual

Looking for, ages 18-49. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Discreet Meets

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am single looking for something Female 36 from Sydney, Australia

am honest open to chat and see what can come out of nit


Straight

Looking for, ages 47-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Dom, LGBTQIA+, Lingerie, Outdoor Fun, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Voyeurism

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Im open to anything. Lets explore Female 40 from Sydney, Australia

I enjoy anything outdoor and fun, I love good sex with orgasm. You love Oral it a plus.


Straight

Looking for, ages 47-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Couples, Discreet Meets, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Group Sex, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Threesomes, Webcam

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Looking for MTF pre-op or male. Female 31 from Newcastle, Australia

I would like to gain experience in MTF. I classify myself as non-binary


Bisexual

Looking for, ages 18-39. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Sexual Massage

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I want a honest, very eloquent and clean inside and out person that will treat m.. Female 28 from Sydney, Australia

I’m 5’7ft, I weigh 55kg, I’m a vegetarian and I’m all natural. I take good care of myself and I invest a lot on my myself. i am maximum fun. I love all kinds of s** and I’m open to anything at all.


Bisexual

Looking for, ages 18-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Dom, Pegging, Sex Toys

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I am a pretty Goddess looking for a loyal sub who will obey me and serve me well Female 26 from Canberra, Australia

I am a pretty goddess looking for a sub who will serve me well


Straight

Looking for, ages 38-75. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, Cuckold, Dom, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M

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Seeking for FWF to a long term relationship Female 39 from Sydney, Australia

I can say a little about me, i go by Michelle im single and I’m here seeking for Friends with benefits some one who is serious to go forward to a long term relationship.. I’m not here for games.


Straight

Looking for, ages 50-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BBW / BHM, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets

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I believe in love . Do you ? I’m a very active and positive person. I enjoy ever.. Female 42 from Austinmer, Australia

I am a thoughtful, caring and very loving romantic woman I am honest, very positive person who enjoys each moment of every day. I have a great sense of humor and love to laugh, and to keep a relationship fun and refreshing, open minded, to create rich meaningful conversation. I enjoy reading, listening music, working out, hiking, fine cuisine, and movies. I love to travel and always enjoy experiencing other cultures and people.


Straight

Looking for, ages 52-84. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Outdoor Fun, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub

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I’m lovely, single shy woman, . Ask me more later in our conversation Female 34 from Newcastle, Australia

I love Reading cooking swimming at the beach more I love watching movies late night and I love music as well


Straight

Looking for, ages 45-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, S&M, Sex Toys, Sub

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Single gal looking to meet couples or single straight males for a threesome Female 39 from Ettalong Beach, Australia

Foreplay gets me that excited and everything else after this.


Straight

Looking for, ages 32-45. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Discreet Meets, Threesomes

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Single guy or girl in Sydney looking for some no strings fun or possibly an open minded couple looking to expand their horizons?

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Sydney’s casual dating scene is full of possibilities, offering a vibrant mix of opportunities for those looking to connect without commitment. Whether you’re after a spontaneous fling or just some lighthearted fun, Sydney is the place to be. Here’s how to make the most of it and where to find your next hookup.

Tips for Success in Sydney’s Casual Dating Scene

  • Be Confident and Direct: Confidence is attractive, especially in the casual dating world. Be clear about what you’re looking for, whether it’s a one-night stand, a friends-with-benefits arrangement, or something else. Honesty about your intentions will save you time and help you connect with like-minded individuals.
  • Keep It Casual: The key to successful casual dating is maintaining healthy boundaries. If you’re not looking for anything serious, make sure that’s clear from the start. This helps avoid misunderstandings and keeps the relationship enjoyable and stress-free for both parties.
  • Respect and Communication: Even in a no-strings-attached setup, mutual respect and clear communication are crucial. Make sure both you and your partner are on the same page about what you want, and always be respectful of their time and boundaries.
  • Stay Safe: Safety should always be a priority. Whether you’re meeting someone new or heading to a private location, take precautions to ensure your well-being. Let someone know where you’ll be, and trust your instincts if something doesn’t feel right.

Where to Meet in Sydney

Sydney is packed with great spots for meeting new people, whether you’re looking for a quick flirt or a casual encounter.

  • Music Festivals: Sydney’s music festivals, like Lost Paradise and Electric Gardens, are ideal for meeting like-minded people in a relaxed, fun environment. These events attract a lively crowd, making them perfect for spontaneous connections.
  • Harbor Cruises: For something a bit different, try a harbor cruise from Circular Bay. These cruises are a great way to meet locals and tourists alike, with plenty of opportunities for casual flirts amidst the stunning views.
  • Darling Harbor: This bustling waterfront area is always full of life, with restaurants, shops, and entertainment options that draw both locals and visitors. It’s a prime spot for spontaneous encounters and casual conversations that could lead to more.
  • Bondi Beach: One of Sydney’s most iconic locations, Bondi Beach is more than just a place to catch some sun. The vibrant beach scene, combined with nearby cafes and bars, makes it an excellent spot for meeting new people in a laid-back setting.

Advantages of Casual Dating in Sydney

  • Diverse Social Scene: Sydney offers a diverse and dynamic social scene, providing endless opportunities to meet new people. From bustling urban spots to serene beaches, the city caters to all types of casual encounters.
  • Flexibility: Casual dating is all about flexibility—whether you’re meeting someone for a quick drink after work or planning a fun night out, you can tailor your experiences to fit your lifestyle.
  • Freedom from Commitment: One of the main attractions of casual dating is the freedom it offers. You can enjoy the excitement of meeting new people without the pressures of a traditional relationship.

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