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I am looking for that special older one who will rekindle the flame of passion a.. Female 30 from Melbourne, Australia

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Right when I finish a workout, I feel pretty sexy. Female 42 from Melbourne, Australia

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Straight

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Hey I name Chloe I am bbw I want to be used Female 34 from Warragul, Australia

I love my job I want a master to own me all over  thank


Bicurious

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Live and learn to be me Explore Female 55 from Frankston, Australia

To be desired and feel cherished,
I am a submissive female
I search for a naturally dominant male
Please single men only
No pic no play, you see me, I want to see you. Looks for me are not important but feeling a connection is everything.  
Attraction desire chemistry with the possibility of a relationship is what I seek
NO MARRIED MEN OR MEN WITH SIGNIFICANT OTHERS


Straight

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Looking for someone to explore new place with.. and too share a cold on with! Female 29 from Melbourne, Australia

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Just looking for some fun and good sex Female 63 from Colac, Australia

Love having my pussy licked and a good root. I'm not looking for a permanent thing just wanting to have some fun and get to no new people


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Hi Im Mistress Ashley. Im a 44 years old mistress, I leave in Melbourne Austra.. Female 44 from Melbourne, Australia

I'm in need of a honest and obedient sub and must be willing to travel.


Straight

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sunny hearted with a touch of moon light Female 35 from Melbourne, Australia

If you are interested in communicating with me, then I just want to say that I don't want endless conversations, I believe that this site is just the first step of getting to know each other, and the best way to get to know each other is a real meeting, I hope you understand me.


Straight

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I am a dominant woman,who Enjoys training men in bdsm lifestyle and Hookups Female 49 from Melbourne, Australia

Mistress is not here for games,Serious people only


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I am dominant, superior and kinky. Im intrigued to find a submissive sub to ful.. Female 29 from Swan Hill, Australia

Please be aware of what you are signing up for before messaging me, I wouldn't want to see unpleasant messages. Lastly if your intentions ain't real don't bother to message me.


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Hey Boo, where are all the realMen in the building, let hit it off and vibes tog.. Female 43 from Australia Plains, Australia

Simple calm, sexy stunning pretty lady, newly here and new to the lifestyle, here to explore the fun and beauty of this lifestyle


Straight

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Seeking someone serious and honest Female 39 from Melbourne, Australia

I am a fun loving lady who is easy going. I love the simplest things of life and i try as much as I can to be an optimist no matter what life throws at me. I am looking forward to meet like me.


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Randomly found this sight so unsure of it’s purpose especially after the questio.. Female 38 from Melbourne, Australia

I am active lady, kind, sympathetic, open, cheerful and purposeful


Straight

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Hi Im Taylor looking for something real and long term. Female 29 from Laverton, Australia

I'm looking for something long term...if that's not you please move along


Bisexual

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Looking for Long term dean more. Female 41 from Syndal, Australia

I'm 40 years old, living in the Syndal region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 42 and 90.


Straight

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I’m 21 years old, I love singing and dancing, K-pop and cuddles Female 21 from Albury, Australia

I’m a singer and dancer, I live my music and I love doing makeup on myself, I love walks into a park and eating at small cafes


Straight

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We are a couple that are looking to bring some fun in the bedroom we are looking.. Couple 25, 26 from Drouin, Australia

We are just wanting to explore and try things out we hope we can find someone on here to match our needs


Straight, Straight

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I’m a bi tall female looking for funSo Let me lick you all over Female 44 from Doreen, Australia

I’m tall and love to laugh and party live life to the fullest


Bisexual

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Looking for threesome fun go with flow Couple 41, 41 from Mernda, Australia

I love having a good time and being very satisfied


Straight, Straight

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Hi it’s mistress Melanie,48 years old mistress i live in Melbourne Australia Female 40 from Melbourne, Australia

I’m in need of a loyal, honest and obedient sub. Must be willing to travel.


Straight

Looking for, ages 18-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Roleplay, S&M

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I have no idea what to write better off messaging me and we can discuss it more .. Couple 30, 30 from Melbourne, Australia

my partner is female and 28 Im male I'm 29 ive just started exploring new things with my partner but now we are now looking to explore more and other things too


Bicurious, Bisexual

Looking for, ages 18-39. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Dirty talk to me, Full Swap, Group Sex, Roleplay, Send naked pics, Sexual Massage, Soft Swap, Tell naughty stories, Threesomes

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44 and 42 year old she is bi looking for male or couples for some fun Couple 44, 44 from Mildura, Australia

Happy married couple looking to meet for some fun times


Straight, Bicurious

Looking for, ages 18-49. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Couples, Cuckold, Discreet Meets, Full Swap, Soft Swap, Threesomes

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Gay couple open ready to meet new people and friends Couple 53, 53 from Drouin, Australia

Having fun discreet enjoy the moment and to explore


Gay, Gay

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Beeekind couple seeking female Couple 44, 48 from Clayton, Australia

Bubbly hugs fun happy giggles I’m one of the lucky people who love what they do.. I wake up and can’t wait for my day and hopefully I can share my  infectious fun and have a laugh
.., I love new shiny people.. lm now with an exciting partner to double the fun.. I love eating both sex’s ..I’m adventurous loves to play and watch sexual partners let go and enjoy .. My partner loves giving to women and wants me to have a girlfriend to satisfy my sexual choices. . let me play with you and explore your turn ons .. or just have a drink and talk about it I’m cruisey  either way .. or a little dirty talk if it flows and we’ll go with the flow lol Do you want to be played with ? Or want to be played with with the focus on you? send a message if you want to explore what I or we can do.. no pressure just fun and laughs I don’t take life to serious or sweat the small stuff x


Bisexual, Straight

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Only seeking for hook up, friends with benefits Female 28 from Melbourne, Australia

I’m only seeking for hook up, friends with benefits and casual dating


Straight

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