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The best way to see if we're the dating site for you is to try us out for free. The form up ☝️there only takes a moment to complete and is completely free. If you're not ready for that, then browse some of our current Victoria based members here. We've collected a selection of our users to make it easier for you to see who you could be meeting and what they are interested in.

Adult dating and casual encounters in Victoria, Australia

Fancy some no strings fun or maybe a bit on the side? Adult dating is the quickest and most convenient way to meet other people with a similar outlook on life, who enjoy sex and the thrill that comes from meeting strangers online. Mybedoryours.com is an adult dating communities with satisfied members.

Adult dating is the same concept as "conventional" online dating. The only difference is what the users aim to get out of the relationships they form. Our members generally do not want to be tied down (tied up, maybe) or restricted to one sexual partner. Our members are generally looking for more casual relationships or one night stands. Often these casual rendezvous turn into a fuck buddy type arrangement but if you are here looking for the love of your life, romance and flowers, you are definitely in the wrong place. If you are easily offended, you are also probably in the wrong place. Many of our members posts and share some pretty explicit photos and videos which are not censored in any way so if you think you will be offended by content of this nature, please leave now.

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My Bed Or Yours Members Around Victoria
Im a dominant mistress who has lived this lifestyle for years, and looking for .. Female 51 from Melbourne, Australia

I'm willing to teach my sub everything about this lifestyle. You must be loyal and able to satisfy all mistress fantastic


Straight

Looking for, ages 56-83. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

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I’m a Dominant woman I’m looking for a discreet relationship with a  loyal and .. Female 34 from Melbourne, Australia

I am a perfect trainer, and I intend to give my sissy the basic needs that makes him a real sissy. I practice what I preach and answer to no man nor do I depend on one. When I allow you to serve, it's not because I need you to, it's because I enjoy having you do it.


Bisexual

Looking for, ages 46-89. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

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Hi guys how are you on a 50-year-old blonde slim good looking down to earth old .. Female 50 from Frankston, Australia

I like to pamping my my man and I love to give them nice massage and I love to just pleasure him and go out and have fun and meet and greet and enjoy each other's company like best friends no s*** no two timing


Straight

Looking for, ages 41-66. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Couples, Discreet Meets, Full Swap, Soft Swap

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Looking for a man to join couple for threesome. Gotta know what you are doing an.. Couple 39, 34 from Mildura, Australia

We are open minded couple looking for fun. I'm 32 and my man is 36. We are keen for men or couple only who want serious meets not people who want pics we want hard sex or man to join husband fuck his wife


Straight, Straight

Looking for, ages 18-41. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Couples, Cuckold, Discreet Meets, Full Swap, Outdoor Fun, Send naked pics, Soft Swap, Threesomes

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I am a don,looking for sub who would be submissive Female 37 from Melbourne, Australia

If you find me attractive,and you’re willing to be sub,let’s have fun


Straight

Looking for, ages 44-70. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

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Welcome to my world of sensual domination, divine bondage, discipline and fetish.. Female 40 from Melbourne, Australia

Looking for LTR, of fun, chills, ecstasy, wildness and more.  I love to explore with my Sub, and I’m excited to meet a real loyal submissive, must be very energetic and hygienic, and daring.
Love Light bondage, pegging, Ass worshipping, pussy worshipping, role plays, impact plays, collaring,whipping, and mistress loves being served by a clean and hygienic Sub. Looking for a naughty Sub for discreet meets.


Straight

Looking for, ages 40-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Discreet Meets, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Feet, Fetish, Roleplay, S&M

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My godliness what should I say when I to get someone to join me for a chat and p.. Female 43 from Wodonga, Australia

Be the best of Dom to see if I like it or will suit me being sub? I am very keen to improve this one and practice the new experience I am stepping out in the future of bedroom and all my holes and I'm going to guess I will be outside too sometimes ey I will be   cool for you to enjoy your time in me.


Bisexual

Looking for, ages 18-80. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Anal, BBW / BHM, BDSM, Cuckold, Dirty Talk, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, LGBTQIA+, Oral, Roleplay, Sexual Massage, Threesomes, Voyeurism

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Hi, looking for casual fun times Female 50 from Geelong, Australia

I like to socalize and have fun. I have never been with a girl before, but I do prefer men but it just depends on the situation I guess.


Bisexual

Looking for, ages 41-61. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Discreet Meets

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Im a mistress looking for a male sub to explore all my kinky and fetish prefere.. Female 28 from Melbourne, Australia

I'm a simple lady interesting in exploring all my kinky preferences. If I find you intriguing I would invite you to my dungeon.


Straight

Looking for, ages 60-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Cuckold, Fetish, Threesomes

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Hi, its Mistress Amelia. Im 48 years mistress, I live in Sydney, Australia. Female 48 from Parramatta, Australia

I'm in need of a loyal,honest and obedient Sub, must be willing to travel.


Straight

Looking for, ages 18-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Discreet Meets, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Feet, Fetish, Roleplay, S&M, Webcam

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Hey guys just feeling the site out see if it’s for us come say hi make us feel w.. Couple 45, 44 from Frankston, Australia

Both love sex if it were a Olympic event we’d be pick with out hesitation not our first rodeo and hopefully more fun to be had come say hi see if we click.


Straight, Straight

Looking for, ages 30-55. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Couples, Discreet Meets, Full Swap, Soft Swap, Threesomes

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I am a strict mistress looking for a loyal sub to serve me in real life Female 36 from Melbourne, Australia

Hello future submissive, You need a mistress that is well experienced, plays her kinky safe and have more than 9 years experience with a great lifestyle and I have crazy fun ideas


Straight

Looking for, ages 43-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, Anal, BDSM, Bondage, Discreet Meets, Dom, Edging, Feet, Fetish, Impact Play, Leather / Latex, Lingerie, Oral, Pegging, S&M, Sex Toys

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Im 34 years old, living in the Warragul region. Female 34 from Warragul, Australia

I'm 34 years old, living in the Warragul region.
I'm interested in meeting a woman or a man aged between 18 and 39.
I'm White / Caucasian with a Big and beautiful body shape Red hair
I drink regularly I don't smoke


Bicurious

Looking for, ages 18-39. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub

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I am a very sweet, gentle, easy-going and passionate woman. I am well-educated a.. Female 49 from Melbourne, Australia

I am easygoing, positive, kind, caring and sincere person. My character is nice and open. I am sociable and have a good sense of humor. But I am a woman and need a strong man next to me, a strong shoulder and in return I will give him all my love, I will surround him with care and comfort. I am a decent and faithful woman, trust is very important for me and distance should not be any barrier to a long lasting relationship.


Straight

Looking for, ages 48-87. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Couples, Fetish, Outdoor Fun, Threesomes

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Very open to fun, but really like men who are obedient and willing to explore al.. Female 38 from Sunshine, Australia

I’m sexy Goddess seeking for a honest caring and truthful submissive to own and collar


Straight

Looking for, ages 55-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Anal, BDSM, Bondage, Crossdress, Cuckold, Discreet Meets, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Feet, Fetish, Lace, Oral, Pegging, Roleplay, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub

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We are couple, we wanted to try out the lifestyle. We do not judge. If we match .. Couple 35, 32 from Cranbourne, Australia

We love to try out swinging, threesome and some kinky play


Straight, Straight

Looking for, ages 20-60. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Couples, Full Swap, Soft Swap, Threesomes

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Plunged up! ! ! Fun Easy going Young Disireable Ready to have a good time and.. Female 37 from Melbourne, Australia

Having fun enjoying myself and being pleasured beyond my belief


Bisexual

Looking for, ages 27-47. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Couples, Sexual Massage, Threesomes

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Couple looking to have some fun. Open to most things. Maybe start with swapping .. Couple 40, 40 from Melbourne, Australia

We enjoy sharing photos and dirty talk. Once there is a level of trust she loves 2 cocks at the same time I’m happy to help and when it’s my turn to pick she loves to eat pussy while I play with it


Straight, Straight

Looking for, ages 20-51. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Couples, Cuckold, Discreet Meets, Full Swap, Threesomes, Webcam

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This Dom is seeking a loyal sub for punishment, pleasure and training to be a go.. Female 38 from Melbourne, Australia

I want to meet a true sub. True doms and subs know age, experience and appearance are secondary. Submissiveness is what matters.
If you are sub and want to be pampered and obedient, treated and disciplined and want to live your wildest fantasies, let's talk.


Straight

Looking for, ages 39-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

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Having a special attraction for certain objects and clothing has been a normal p.. Female 38 from Melbourne, Australia

I like to wear fancy shoes with tall heels, pants that fit snugly, and shirts that make me stand out. It gives me a happy feeling and helps me believe in myself more. This makes me feel like I am in control and sure of myself, which is really important to me.


Straight

Looking for, ages 34-62. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Roleplay, Sex Toys, Sub

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We are fun caring couple, bisexual and erotic experiences we wish to enjoy Couple 42, 42 from Wangaratta, Australia

Like minded people that find bi couples like us erotic and enjoy sexual pleasures


Straight, Straight

Looking for, ages 31-51. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Couples, Discreet Meets, Threesomes

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We are couple, looking for some erotic fun. We do not judge, if all goes well th.. Couple 35, 35 from Cranbourne, Australia

We are excited about other couples, swinging, threesome and kinky play.


Straight, Straight

Looking for, ages 20-60. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Couples, Full Swap, Soft Swap, Threesomes

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Gay couple open ready to meet new people and friends Couple 53, 53 from Drouin, Australia

Having fun discreet enjoy the moment and to explore


Gay, Gay

Looking for, ages 45-56. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Anal, Dirty Talk, Oral, Sex Toys

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Greek Goddess from Melbourne. Fun, curious, adventurous, 61 year old. Female 61 from Carrum Downs, Australia

writing Erotica, sailing the seas pretending to be a mermaid, meeting new people.


Straight

Looking for, ages 45-59. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Sub

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Im 46 years old, living in the Melbourne region. Female 46 from Melbourne, Australia

I'm 46 years old, living in the Melbourne region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 41 and 90.


Straight

Looking for, ages 41-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Erotic Fiction

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We have members of all shapes, sizes, races and persuasions right across Australia looking for someone to share some naughty time with. Most of our members are simply busy people with no time for a serious relationship and need a convenient way to find sexual satisfaction without the hassles that come with a relationship. Others are married people looking for some extra-marital excitement or couples seeking other couples for swinging fun. Everyone is welcome here, all we ask is that you are open and honest about your marital status to avoid any confusion.

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