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Im a legitimate sovereign goddess Female 36 from Melbourne, Australia

Look for that special older one,  who will rekindle the flame of passion and desire that seems to have been lost in my past relationship.
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Straight

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Im 27 years old, living in the Melbourne region. Female 27 from Melbourne, Australia

First, they tell you to be yourself. And, when I be myself… then they say, “You’re crazy-ass, girl.” That’s not fair.


Bisexual

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Serious and matured people only. Here for fun Female 53 from Melbourne, Australia

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Super open minded mistress here to have wilder experiences Female 45 from Mordialloc, Australia

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Straight

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Bisexual

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I am very single. I am not seeing anyone at the moment. I am one man woman and a.. Female 61 from Syndal, Australia

I find  the right person it's a possibility. There is nothing more fantastic than having your best friend as a partner to lean on, love, admire, and share everything with. I am in no rush


Straight

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Bi couple looking for orgies and parties… Couple 45, 45 from Warragul, Australia

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Long term couple, not new to the scene, very much in Love, Open minded & fun loving, looking to push some boundaries and satisfy some curiosities. We understand what it’s like to want to explore more, experience with mmf bi not always necessary. You have to start somewhere …
Please be patient, it can take some time for us to message back, life and work commitments keep us very busy.

We are down to earth people, looking for easy going, respectful, discreet, men to meet up over a drink and help us to explore our kinks. We are patient, genuine & ready to play. Happy to message to get to know each other, happy to meet promptly with the right person.

Don’t be shy, reach out if you’d like to chat.


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Looking to expand my horizons, ready to try hot and new things Female 28 from Melbourne, Australia

Seeking for anyone who's interested to have intense fun. dont mind the age


Bisexual

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Straight, Straight

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Very comfortable in a pair of jeans and love to have fun at the pool side . Love.. Female 39 from Vermont, Australia

Am very comfortable in a pair of jeans and go out on a  normal day . I like indoors tho but with the company of my fantasy.. am like open minded and mature whom is very loyal and have a great sense of humor ..


Straight

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Am here to get your pleasure to its peak Female 31 from Bendigo, Australia

Have fun with Charlie in her dun space now and be happy


Straight

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Hi everyone, Im new in this web, just want to meet new people and have fun Couple 39, 36 from Campbellfield, Australia

We are couple and want to try new things to spice up our relationship


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Come play hold sleep eat.i Ill cook breakfast,if U stay again Female 48 from Healesville, Australia

Very open minded .big heart .dirty minded and loving


Bisexual

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I love to be straight and what some one straight too Female 27 from Melbourne, Australia

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Straight

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Just looking for some fun Open to new adventures New to this have always wanted .. Female 27 from Melbourne, Australia

I’m unique and addictive in personality. Looking for someone with an amazingly funny sense of humor and up for some fun and maybe more. Open to trying pretty much anything - how you gonna know if you like it if you don’t at least try it.


Bisexual

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I’m high priestess with good qualities looking for a sub with same qualities as .. Female 46 from Melbourne, Australia

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Straight

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The unholy trinity of My wit, skill and ferocity will have you on your hands and.. Female 39 from Portland, Australia

I'm Racheal  but you have no choice but to call me Mistress. I'm a professional Dominatrix of many years practicing My craft in 'Australia '. I prefer an organic and genuine encounter over providing you with a menu to choose from, however here is a shortened list of my skilled abilities: Latex fetish & worship, Bondage (chains, ropes, leather, plastic etc) Foot fetish/Foot worship etc.


Straight

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Hello lets have fun whos next and available ? Female 35 from Melbourne, Australia

I'm 35 years old, living in the Melbourne region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 18 and 80.


Straight

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This Dom is seeking a loyal sub for punishment, pleasure and training to be a go.. Female 38 from Melbourne, Australia

I want to meet a true sub. True doms and subs know age, experience and appearance are secondary. Submissiveness is what matters.
If you are sub and want to be pampered and obedient, treated and disciplined and want to live your wildest fantasies, let's talk.


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We are a married couple in our mid 50s and are looking for a willing female to .. Couple 56, 56 from Melbourne, Australia

I'm 56 years old, living in the Melbourne region.
I'm interested in meeting a woman or a man aged between 41 and 66.


Straight, Straight

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i am me no matter what and willing to teach and be taught Female 29 from Adelaide Lead, Australia

i love adventures and willing to meet up anytime  as long as you are wanting to know me better


Straight

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A good partner that knows how to have a good time Female 31 from Bendigo, Australia

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Straight

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Looking for someone to explore new place with.. and too share a cold on with! Female 29 from Melbourne, Australia

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