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Adult dating and casual encounters in Victoria, Australia

Fancy some no strings fun or maybe a bit on the side? Adult dating is the quickest and most convenient way to meet other people with a similar outlook on life, who enjoy sex and the thrill that comes from meeting strangers online. Mybedoryours.com is an adult dating communities with satisfied members.

Adult dating is the same concept as "conventional" online dating. The only difference is what the users aim to get out of the relationships they form. Our members generally do not want to be tied down (tied up, maybe) or restricted to one sexual partner. Our members are generally looking for more casual relationships or one night stands. Often these casual rendezvous turn into a fuck buddy type arrangement but if you are here looking for the love of your life, romance and flowers, you are definitely in the wrong place. If you are easily offended, you are also probably in the wrong place. Many of our members posts and share some pretty explicit photos and videos which are not censored in any way so if you think you will be offended by content of this nature, please leave now.

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My Bed Or Yours Members Around Victoria
Newby...looking for exciting experiences. Female 42 from Ararat, Australia

Brand new to this so I'm not completely sure. I like the idea of group action and I love watching. I also want to share an experience with a woman...


Bisexual

Looking for, ages 28-55. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Couples, Dirty talk to me, Full Swap, Group Sex, Roleplay, Tell naughty stories, Threesomes, Voyeurism

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I am your Queen, your serious Lady, your one and only! Female 35 from Somerville, Australia

You will always find me approachable and understanding. I live my life embracing sensuality, which naturally brought to to this exceptional world of companionship, passion, intimacy, and adventure. The idea of having subs really turns me on. I love what I do and who I am.


Straight

Looking for, ages 21-65. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Dom, Fetish, Pegging, S&M, Sex Toys

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Oh yes I’m a pretty, glorious Mistress in search of a Sub. Mistress will train .. Female 50 from Geelong, Australia

I’m a Pretty Goddess seeking for a Sub, We’ll practice the BDSM Lifestyle discreetly and have our Sexual Fantasies fulfilled.


Straight

Looking for, ages 47-87. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Discreet Meets, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Roleplay

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Im Mistress looking for sissy to own and train under my humiliating control Female 28 from Melbourne, Australia

I'm a Mistress looking for sissy to own and train under my humiliating control


Straight

Looking for, ages 18-39. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests,

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A very quite woman with a sincere heart who wanted to fulfill her fantasies Female 51 from Melbourne, Australia

Anywhere around water is my escape. unwind and medicate at the same time


Straight

Looking for, ages 41-73. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Couples, Threesomes

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She is the perfect woman. Polite, honest and kind... but with a very dirty mind Female 35 from Lethbridge, Australia

Let's explore our deepest desires subbie and have that fun we crave for so badly


Straight

Looking for, ages 42-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, Sex Toys

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Couple seeking other couples or play partner for fun and exploration Couple 38, 48 from Geelong, Australia

Looking for someone with an open mind and the freedom to play without insecurity


Straight, Straight

Looking for, ages 41-48. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests,

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I’m a high priestess with good qualities looking for a sub with same qualities a.. Female 28 from Melbourne, Australia

I’m a mistress looking for an obedient sub to make a lifestyle with


Bisexual

Looking for, ages 18-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Dom, Fetish, Sex Toys

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Looking for harmless sexy fun and to make good friends Couple 43, 43 from Camberwell, Australia

We are a energetic couple that enjoy the swinging and outdoor fun lifestyle, we think we are of average looks and shape if any of you guys are looking for super models your in the wrong place we look after ourselves but are in no way super models so please continue your dream elsewhere as we are serious and here to meet


Bisexual, Bisexual

Looking for, ages 18-59. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Couples, Cuckold, Dirty talk to me, Discreet Meets, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Full Swap, Group Sex, Outdoor Fun, Send naked pics, Sexual Massage, Soft Swap, Threesomes, Video themselves, Voyeurism, Webcam

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I’m a passionate and caring person who is always looking for new experience I’m .. Female 27 from Melbourne, Australia

I love cooking, dancing, playing video games and music. My Favorite place to be is the beach


Straight

Looking for, ages 21-71. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Dirty Talk, Mature, Sex Toys, Sub

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Hello my dear my name is cecili i just registered bako.com am looking for a so.. Female 43 from Port Melbourne, Australia

Hello my dear
my name is cecili i just registered bako.com
am looking for a soul mate
for a serious relationship


Straight

Looking for, ages 55-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age Gap, Bondage, Electro Play, Petite, Sub, Voyeurism

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Ready to find someone I can truly submit to again. Female 46 from Melton, Australia

I am submissive to my core but only to one. I am a pleasure-seeking, service submissive with an out-of-control oral obsession. I love rope and the freedom it gives me and thrive under rules and rituals that please and serve a Master.
I have been Owned by Sadistic humans.  I never sort them out and am not a lover of pain but a lover of pleasing and caring for someone else's needs.


Straight

Looking for, ages 33-54. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, S&M, Sub

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Very open to fun, but really like men who are obedient and willing to explore al.. Female 38 from Sunshine, Australia

I’m sexy Goddess seeking for a honest caring and truthful submissive to own and collar


Straight

Looking for, ages 55-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Anal, BDSM, Bondage, Crossdress, Cuckold, Discreet Meets, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Feet, Fetish, Lace, Oral, Pegging, Roleplay, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub

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Im 28 years old, living in the Cranbourne region. Female 28 from Cranbourne, Australia

movies, music, authenticity. casual drinks.so many things.


Straight

Looking for, ages 18-37. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests,

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I am a professional mistress in search for a submissive sub to train and have fu.. Female 38 from Melbourne, Australia

I am a mistress who loves traveling, reading, swimming, and having fun with my submissive sub when right.


Straight

Looking for, ages 50-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Pegging, Roleplay, Sex Toys

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Hello there i am here looking for a serious and a long term relationship Female 41 from Bendigo, Australia

Hello there i am here looking for a serious and a long term relationship


Straight

Looking for, ages 64-89. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Couples, Dirty Talk, Exhibitionism, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Webcam

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Cum FAP with me! ...and ON me! Couple 37, 37 from Lavington, Australia

30-something, M/M long term partnership, wanting to explore sexually with other men, women, couples or groups


Bisexual, Bicurious

Looking for, ages 18-49. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Roleplay, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Voyeurism

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I don’t have a dirty mind, I have a sexy imagination. The girl was eighty perce.. Female 27 from Melbourne, Australia

"I don’t have a dirty mind, I have a sexy imagination."


Straight

Looking for, ages 44-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Sex Toys

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Only seeking for hook up, friends with benefits Female 28 from Melbourne, Australia

I’m only seeking for hook up, friends with benefits and casual dating


Straight

Looking for, ages 19-80. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age Gap, Age play, Anal, ASMR, BBW / BHM, BDSM, Body Hair, Bukkake, Couples, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Erotic Fiction, Feet, Fetish, Group Sex, Leather / Latex, LGBTQIA+, Lingerie, Mature, MILF, Oral, Outdoor Fun, Petite, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Temperature Play, Threesomes, Webcam

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Authentic Sub Seeking Genuine Connection, No Games Female 39 from Carrum, Australia

In the world of BDSM, I thrive on discipline, embrace power dynamics, and find excitement in objectification. Privately, there's a deep dive into the intricacies of humiliation. At my core, it's all about authentic service without getting caught up in clichés.


Bisexual

Looking for, ages 35-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys, Sub

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Hi guys how are you on a 50-year-old blonde slim good looking down to earth old .. Female 50 from Frankston, Australia

I like to pamping my my man and I love to give them nice massage and I love to just pleasure him and go out and have fun and meet and greet and enjoy each other's company like best friends no s*** no two timing


Straight

Looking for, ages 41-66. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Couples, Discreet Meets, Full Swap, Soft Swap

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Looking forward to exploring my desires and own experience with a great patner Female 38 from Melbourne, Australia

35 years and fit to have a patner so bdsm mad long term


Straight

Looking for, ages 35-77. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Dom, Fetish

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Hello I’m Jessica. I love exploring my mind which leads to exploiting our bodie.. Female 49 from Geelong, Australia

When I want you…. I crave you
When I crave you…. I can’t get you out of my mind


Straight

Looking for, ages 44-54. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Anal, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Lace, Leather / Latex, Lingerie, Roleplay, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage

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Hi I person who was to explode my sexual side, with male or female. With 2 men o.. Female 58 from Glen Iris, Australia

What makes me happy is doing things that make other people happy, and what’s gets me excited is when I get all the attention and watching porn all porn


Straight

Looking for, ages 49-69. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Crossdress, Dirty Talk, Oral, Outdoor Fun, Roleplay, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage

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playful and casual, Im sophisticated sexually ,, soulful touch! Im a giver .. Female 31 from Prahran, Australia

i want to indulge in the sharing of my body with another's  to experience something fucking sick :D


Bisexual

Looking for, ages 18-49. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Erotic Fiction, Roleplay, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage

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Loads of sexual experience or hardly any, it doesn't matter. We have a huge variety of members with a wide range of experiences, tastes and desires. If you are inexperienced there are loads of members here who love to corrupt young, innocent members, moulding them into sex gods for their own pleasure. While, other members like more experienced lovers to show them a trick or two. The main thing about My Bed or Yours is to be open and honest about what you want and you will find our friendly members will be very welcoming.

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