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A kinky devil in a sexy hot body willing to bring the wildest experience to you Female 38 from Melbourne, Australia

I'm a kinky Devil looking for a like minded sub to explore his kinky side


Straight

Looking for, ages 55-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Discreet Meets, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, Sex Toys

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Looking for a hottie to join my husband and I. Couple 34, 40 from Pakenham, Australia

Big boobs threesomes
Dom preferred
I'm definitely a sub


Straight, Straight

Looking for, ages 25-45. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests,

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We are a happily married couple that are sexually open and adventurous Couple 52, 52 from Derrinallum, Australia

Spontaneous sexual encounters
Like minded people looking for some fun


Straight, Straight

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New to BDSM but extremely open minded Couple 31, 31 from Melbourne, Australia

Both 31. Both extremely sexually inclined.
Interests in bed: fisting, threesomes (MMF, FFM) trans.


Straight, Straight

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Hi im 29 single finding someone who have patient XX Female 29 from Melbourne, Australia

i am very open minded person love to meet an older men and maybe someone to explore XX


Straight

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Happy go lucky women looking for some fun with a guy, while husband watches Couple 53, 53 from Portland, Australia

We are looking for a male for fun with me while my husband watches and sometimes might like to join in


Straight, Bicurious

Looking for, ages 32-60. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Threesomes

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Mistress Ava seeking a loyal submissive Female 30 from Melbourne, Australia

Traveler, loves hiking, seeking for a loyal sub to train in the bdsm lifestyle


Straight

Looking for, ages 21-75. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Dom, Fetish, Sex Toys

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Looking for an adventurous man willing to embrace my dominance Female 49 from Melbourne, Australia

I love weekend trips
I love swimming
I love to keep a sub with a good sense of humor


Straight

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Hey, looking for someone to have fun with. Preferably online or app first and se.. Couple 32, 32 from Bendigo, Australia

Happy married couple looking for guy for wife to flirt/play with


Straight, Straight

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I’m here for serious relationship not for a joke Female 39 from Geelong, Australia

I'm 39 years old, living in the Geelong region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 49 and 99.


Straight

Looking for, ages 49-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Couples

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I am very fun and outgoing, and very easy to get to know! I love staying active .. Female 26 from Melbourne, Australia

I am a young woman that is looking to try some new things this summer. I am very diverse and I enjoy all the things most people do...travel, good food and even better sex. I am trying this because I figured anyone that is able to be so open in regards to sex may have the capabilities to be drama free.


Straight

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Im 35 years old, living in the Melbourne region. Female 36 from Melbourne, Australia

I'm 35 years old, living in the Melbourne region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 49 and 87.


Straight

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Looking for a daddy to help educate and discipline me. A daddy to help me grow t.. Female 39 from Preston, Australia

I’m a submissive. I believe in polygamy and experienceing everything you ever wanted too.
I’m truthful honest and strait up.
I’m a little submissive slut at heart and I want to feel spoken for


Bisexual

Looking for, ages 50-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Dom, Webcam

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Am a legitimate sovereign goddess Female 34 from Camberwell, Australia

Looking for  that  special older one, who will rekindle the flame of passion and desire that seems to have been lost in my past relationship. Someone willing to assist me and ready to live the alternate kinky BDSM lifestyle with me secretly


Straight

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Hello lovely people I’m single and I’m here Female 43 from Melbourne, Australia

I’m a loving person who can take care of my partner


Straight

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Couple. Trying stuff in a safe space and commutative way for all parties is our .. Couple 33, 33 from Melbourne, Australia

We are gamers, love food, pretty chill, and geek nerds, y'all should see our nerd wall. Anime lovers. Also we have food and animals, they like hugs.
We are from the country side nsw and new to Melbourne.

Looking for hook ups, would prefer a long term partner/s but if not and a one of rocket ship is what you want it's all up to you.
F is a switch M is a gentle Dom. The safe word is pineapple.
I have never done this before but the partner has plenty of experience (there's a reason I married this one)
F is shy around women they find attractive, so if I muddle my words or fail to flirt until I'm atleast 3 shots in, it's because your smile is enough to move mountains and your eyes are enough to outshine stars and I don't know how to tell you.


Straight, Pansexual

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Lets come together and make the best out of this encounter. Female 49 from Pakenham, Australia

The lady in front of you is the sweetest person you've ever met. I'm friendly, smiling, very open, and positive..


Straight

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Hi we are new to the swinging thing we are very out going I’m 35 and my partner .. Couple 35, 43 from Maddingley, Australia

Hello we are enjoying the swinging and cuckold scene


Straight, Straight

Looking for, ages 25-45. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Cuckold, Full Swap, Soft Swap, Threesomes

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I’m Sue I’m 57 years old l really enjoy sex and would like to explore my wilder .. Female 57 from Bairnsdale, Australia

I love to be touched I’m a curvy woman hoping this may help me overcome my shy side


Straight

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Looking for multiple partners to enjoy life Couple 38, 22 from Drysdale, Australia

Everyone gets along and gets looked after. Sharing all


Straight, Straight

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Hey Im a respectful handsome stocky 39yo bi Male from the Mernda area looking t.. Couple 39, 54 from Mernda, Australia

I'm very open minded and willing to try anything at least once :-)


Bisexual, Bisexual

Looking for, ages 18-69. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Bukkake, Couples, Cuckold, Discreet Meets, Fetish, Full Swap, Outdoor Fun, Soft Swap, Threesomes

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seeking for romantic and sweet man... let get it yummy yummy Female 40 from Port Melbourne, Australia

You can call me GIgi, A friend describe me as sexy easy going lady, is she right or pulling my legs.haha, anyway I'm single woman, hard working passionate and compassionate looking for someone caring and romantic to enjoy life together


Straight

Looking for, ages 45-85. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BBW / BHM, BDSM, Body Hair, Bukkake, Couples, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Electro Play, Mature, Oral, Outdoor Fun, Sex Talk, Tickle Play

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Beautiful, sexy, looking for a humble and obedient sub that is ready and willing.. Female 36 from Bendigo, Australia

Goddess with plenty of spice to add to your life ✨️


Straight

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Unicorn So I’ve Been Told...?? Female 42 from Melbourne, Australia

Just looking for some fun! Interested in Guys, Girls and Couples!


Bisexual

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Easy going and fun to interact with Female 52 from Melbourne, Australia

Exploring all adventures and kinks best I can and seeking more


Straight

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