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Im a dominant mistress who has lived this lifestyle for years, and looking for .. Female 51 from Melbourne, Australia

I'm willing to teach my sub everything about this lifestyle. You must be loyal and able to satisfy all mistress fantastic


Straight

Looking for, ages 56-83. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

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Looking for a hottie to join my husband and I. Couple 34, 40 from Pakenham, Australia

Big boobs threesomes
Dom preferred
I'm definitely a sub


Straight, Straight

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I am a dominant woman looking for that one devoted sub that is ready that is rea.. Female 37 from Melbourne, Australia

I am a loving caring lady that has a wild mind
I love a kinky lifestyle


Straight

Looking for, ages 33-81. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, Sex Toys

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I am a person who is always in a good mood, has a positive mindset, and is funny.. Female 56 from Melbourne, Australia

I'm looking for a man who knows how to love, protect, and provide for his family. A man whose words nurture, instead of hurt. Even if we have fights and misunderstandings, he won't lay a finger on me because he respects me despite our differences. I appreciate someone who always has time to be with his kids. I can offer him my unconditional love and understanding and assure


Straight

Looking for, ages 48-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Discreet Meets, Full Swap, Soft Swap

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DOM looking for a submissive sub to explore the lifestyle with, Im 43years old .. Female 23 from Melton, Australia

Let's delve into the lifestyle and I will train and teach you how to be a good sub. Looking for something special and LT


Straight

Looking for, ages 40-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Discreet Meets, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Feet, Fetish, Roleplay

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Im very open than the open book Female 44 from Melbourne, Australia

I'm loyal, open to communication, jovial and honest with so much intergerity as well.


Straight

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Young playful couple wanting a third or couple to share with Xx Couple 30, 28 from Yarraville, Australia

Wanting to be shared, teased and try something new


Straight, Straight

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Im 44 years old, living in the Melton South region. Female 44 from Melton South, Australia

I'm 44 years old, living in the Melton South region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 25 and 93.


Straight

Looking for, ages 25-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Cuckold, Dom, Sex Toys

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Beautiful, sexy, looking for a humble and obedient sub that is ready and willing.. Female 36 from Bendigo, Australia

Goddess with plenty of spice to add to your life ✨️


Straight

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Looking for a female for my husband and I Couple 54, 60 from Melbourne, Australia

I am bi-sexual and my husband is straight. We are looking for a lady for both of us to play with together or by ourselves

PLEASE NO MALES OR YOU WILL BE BLOCKED


Straight, Bisexual

Looking for, ages 50-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Group Sex, Roleplay, Send naked pics, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Threesomes

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Am good and lovely to be with hmu Female 27 from Melbourne, Australia

Am here for fun and lovely to be with available for meet up and ready to do anything


Straight

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Im 63 years old, living in the Yutan region. Female 64 from Vermont, Australia

I'm 63 years old, living in the Yutan region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 49 and 59.


Straight

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Happy couple looking for extra person Couple 34, 34 from Pakenham, Australia

Looking for male or chick to join our kinky night no strings


Straight, Straight

Looking for, ages 25-45. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Bondage, Couples, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Group Sex, Outdoor Fun, Roleplay, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Threesomes

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Mistress is not here for games. Serious people only. Female 50 from Melbourne, Australia

I am a dominant woman who enjoys training men the true OK ways of BDSM relationship


Straight

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Im 24 years old, living in the Melbourne region. Female 24 from Melbourne, Australia

I'm 24 years old, living in the Melbourne region.
I'm interested in meeting a woman or a man aged between 23 and 35.


Bisexual

Looking for, ages 23-35. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, S&M, Sex Toys, Sub

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Horny couple loving our BDSM journey and seeking to take it to the next level, m.. Couple 48, 48 from Melbourne, Australia

READ THIS - Only interested in genuine people who are here to share good times FREELY. No prostitues or pimps should waste your time and ours asking us to pay for anything, we’re verified! OMFG - Saints and Sinners, so fucking  We’re dipping our toes, fingers and tongues and more into you, because sometimes one tongue, hole or hard cock just isn’t enough. Add some extra brains, toys, ropes, clamps, slapping, flogs etc. and it just goes to the euphoria and ecstasy level. Seeking a fun submissive for safe BDSM adventures. We both love squirting!


Straight, Straight

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Committed couple wanting some extra players Couple 52, 42 from Melbourne, Australia

Mixed couple with professional & conservative public life, but behind closed doors we're up for all sorts of fun. She wants to see h*bby pounding another woman. We had a few MMF 3some, wifey loved them, excited now about MFF or foursome. (but the guy/s have to be fit and good looking.)

No smokers unless you can guarantee you'll stay away from cigarettes the whole day before you meet us & arrive smelling minty fresh.

Wifey wants guys under 45. She's happy for h*bby to have MMF threesome without her, in which case the male requirements are not such a big deal.


Straight, Bicurious

Looking for, ages 27-53. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Couples, Full Swap, Threesomes

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Hi! Look for a secondary relationship or a play partner. I’m pretty new to the p.. Female 26 from Corio, Australia

Outside of my interest in the poly and kink lifestyle and I’m a partnered milf with an interest in fun nights out dancing and cosy nights in with music and a puzzle


Bisexual

Looking for, ages 18-36. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Outdoor Fun

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New year, new adventures looking to make 2024 the biggest year full of fun and l.. Female 46 from Bendigo, Australia

Open to trying new games, long form play and really want to experience life like never before


Straight

Looking for, ages 36-56. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Couples, Outdoor Fun, Soft Swap, Threesomes

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Meeting new friends could change alot of things Female 37 from Melbourne, Australia

I love affection and cuddling and then traveling all around the world


Straight

Looking for, ages 29-81. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Dom

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Hi there... looking for good friends and fun along the way Couple 45, 44 from Melbourne, Australia

Lankan couple living In Melbourne and Need some help to get wife in the lifestyle. She’s so shy to express her feelings.


Straight, Straight

Looking for, ages 18-45. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Couples, Cuckold, Discreet Meets, Soft Swap, Threesomes

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Im 39 years old, living in the Doncaster region. Female 39 from Doncaster, Australia

I'm 39 years old, living in the Doncaster region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 42 and 79.


Straight

Looking for, ages 42-79. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Anal, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Dom, Mature, Oral, Outdoor Fun, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Webcam

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I’m a bi tall female looking for funSo Let me lick you all over Female 44 from Doreen, Australia

I’m tall and love to laugh and party live life to the fullest


Bisexual

Looking for, ages 18-50. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Dirty talk to me, Discreet Meets, Erotic Fiction, Outdoor Fun, Roleplay, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Threesomes, Voyeurism

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honest , caring and lovely to be with . i am looking to meet new friends and see.. Female 38 from Elsternwick, Australia

kindnesss , love , money and like to travel , like to party . beach , restaurant


Bisexual

Looking for, ages 29-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, Anal, Bondage, Couples, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Mature, Oral, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Threesomes

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We are a couple looking for no guys or girls that would like to join us Couple 49, 49 from Melbourne, Australia

Looking for someone that is chilled out and easy going willing to go with the flow


Straight, Straight

Looking for, ages 30-49. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Threesomes

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Single guy or girl in Victoria looking for some no strings fun or possibly an open minded couple looking to expand their horizons?

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