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I LOVE TO TRY NEW THINGS CAN YOU BE WITH ME Female 26 from Melbourne, Australia

IM SIMPLE BUT LOVELY WOMAN IF YOU WANNA KNOW  WHAT IS IT MESSAGE ME NOW


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Looking for, ages 18-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Bukkake, Couples, Cuckold, Discreet Meets, Fetish, Outdoor Fun, Soft Swap, Threesomes

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Im a dominant woman in search of a loyal submissive for a long term of ecstasy,.. Female 36 from Melbourne, Australia

I'm Bell but you have no choice but to call me Mistress. I'm a professional Dominatrix of six years practicing. I prefer an organic and genuine encounter over providing you with a menu to choose from, however here is a shortened list of my skilled abilities: Latex fetish & worship, Bondage (chains, ropes, leather, plastic etc) Foot fetish/Foot worship etc.


Straight

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seeking for romantic and sweet man... let get it yummy yummy Female 40 from Port Melbourne, Australia

You can call me GIgi, A friend describe me as sexy easy going lady, is she right or pulling my legs.haha, anyway I'm single woman, hard working passionate and compassionate looking for someone caring and romantic to enjoy life together


Straight

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Voyage of Discovery: The next step Couple 61, 61 from Melbourne, Australia

We have been looking at polyamory and all these 'new', 'modern' ideas and we like them.


Straight, Straight

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simple girl seeks a complicated relationship. . . hahahha Female 38 from Melbourne, Australia

simple girl seeks a complicated relationship.
if you like a friendly ,kind hearted beautiful soul hit me up


Bisexual

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Im 54 years old, living in the Shepparton region. Couple 54, 44 from Shepparton, Australia

I'm 54 years old, living in the Shepparton region.
I'm interested in meeting a couple or a woman or a man aged between 18 and 58.


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Just looking for a quick time. Nothing serious. Couple 24, 24 from Melton, Australia

Enjoy threeways
Girl on girl
And getting blowjobs.


Straight, Straight

Looking for, ages 25-37. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Group Sex, Send naked pics, Threesomes

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Ill keep things discreet so that we can still get in touch Female 28 from Melbourne, Australia

After things go well I'm only one call away just tell me where and when.


Bisexual

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Seeking for a long term relationship Female 37 from Melbourne, Australia

Seeking for live and a tasty love  … looking for a good man


Straight

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Attractive and hung bi men for threesome fun Couple 36, 36 from Melbourne, Australia

Attractive and adventurous couple looking for fun times.


Straight, Straight

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Ill make it short and sweet, Im kind, generous, genuine what you see is what y.. Female 44 from Bendigo, Australia

I have an amazing personality and I love life. I'm here to see if I can find my prince charming.


Straight

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A gentle loving dom seeking a sub who wants to experience his fantasies and k.. Female 28 from Mernda, Australia

looking for a devoted sub who is willing  to  do what it takes  to please


Straight

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Fun loving bi man looking 4 another bi man to do some curious things with me an.. Couple 40, 40 from Craigieburn, Australia

Watching my  gal getting screwed by someone else's huge monster. I think its horneyas fuck.


Straight, Straight

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Hi there, Im here for fun and hookup... Female 31 from Melbourne, Australia

Im ready to do whatever you want and it's depends on your price and I will make you comfortable


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I’m a passionate and caring person who is always looking for new experience I’m .. Female 27 from Melbourne, Australia

I love cooking, dancing, playing video games and music. My Favorite place to be is the beach


Straight

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looking to rekindle my lost flame in the glorious bdsm lifestyle Female 34 from Melbourne, Australia

Spontaneous,open minded,kinky and looking forward to explore more


Straight

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Cum FAP with me! ...and ON me! Couple 37, 37 from Lavington, Australia

30-something, M/M long term partnership, wanting to explore sexually with other men, women, couples or groups


Bisexual, Bicurious

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Irish Professional Dominatrix visiting Melbs for a short time only. Female 37 from Melbourne, Australia

I’m a saposexual, don’t bore me with basic introductions!


Bisexual

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Hello just love life looking for a bit of fun in life Couple 67, 67 from Echuca, Australia

What makes me happy.meeting people. Travelling all parts of the world


Straight, Straight

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Looking for a partner to explore my sexy naughty and kinky intentions with Female 43 from Hoppers Crossing, Australia

I want to explore my kinky thoughts with someone responsible and naughty at the same time ,badassmistress you'll ever find ,I got everything you need and I'll give what it takes to get what I want from my submissive man let's explore in my fantasy kinky world


Straight

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Shy but filthy bi curious female seeking double the love Female 43 from Melbourne, Australia

I am looking for my first three way to indulge in. I'm getting very bored with just hooking up with only one person, very interested to see where this goes. Also, i'm single just got out of a long term relationship.


Straight

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A dominant mistress seeking a submissive partner for a long term BDSM serious re.. Female 29 from Melbourne, Australia

I’m not insearch of a perfect partner as long as you can obey me and worship my body, I’m willing to accept you as mime. If you’re a first times who wish to be dominated by me you should message me away


Straight

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Hi me and my partner are very new to this looking to spice things up Couple 28, 25 from Lakes Entrance, Australia

Im a 26 year old man love my  family time and work time away for rest open to any questions very new to this all my parents is 23 year old female


Straight, Straight

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Looking for threesome fun go with flow Couple 41, 41 from Mernda, Australia

I love having a good time and being very satisfied


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Hi were a easy going couple keen for good fun times Couple 42, 40 from Box Hill, Australia

Group sex watching a big cock fuck my wife while I fuck his wife


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