Browse our members in Victoria
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Meeting likeminded people in your area is what this site is all about. We connect open minded adults all over Australia looking for some NSA sex or some harmless online flirting. Adult dating sites offer many benefits over traditional dating sites.
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My Bed Or Yours Members Around Victoria
My wife and I are at the stage where we are looking to experience some fantasies
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 22-35.
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Interests, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction
I'm 30 years old, living in the Melbourne region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 40 and 75.
Straight
Looking for, ages 50-90.
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Interests, BDSM, Dirty Talk, Fetish, Group Sex, Mature, Sex Talk, Sub
In the world of BDSM, I thrive on discipline, embrace power dynamics, and find excitement in objectification. Privately, there's a deep dive into the intricacies of humiliation. At my core, it's all about authentic service without getting caught up in clichés.
Bisexual
Looking for, ages 35-90.
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Interests, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys, Sub
We looking for couples and Male or Female for threesome
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 21-60.
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Interests, Couples, Full Swap, Soft Swap, Threesomes
I'm willing to teach my sub everything about this lifestyle. You must be loyal and able to satisfy all mistress fantastic
Straight
Looking for, ages 56-83.
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Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys
I am a loving caring lady that has a wild mind
I love a kinky lifestyle
Straight
Looking for, ages 33-81.
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Interests, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, Sex Toys
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Straight
Looking for, ages 28-90.
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Interests, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Sex Toys
We are looking for females or couples to enjoy some fun with. My husband is new to this so I would like to start of slow with him as he has never experienced much in his life till he meet me. Im a very adventurous women and love experimenting in the bedroom. Happy to travel no meet will be at our home. Happy to meet for a drink and see what happens. My husband is very nervous so please be kind
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 29-49.
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Interests, BDSM, Couples, Discreet Meets, Full Swap, Soft Swap, Threesomes, Webcam
I'm a Mistress looking for sissy to own and train under my humiliating control
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-39.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests,
Everyone gets along and gets looked after. Sharing all
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 33-43.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests,
I'm not sure yet I'm new to this but I want to be loved and I would love to be spolit I'm easy going and am up for most things but plz don't send me nude pics as they are a turn off for myself especially when it is the first time talking to you
Straight
Looking for, ages 40-62.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests,
traveling, cooking, camping , sailing , reading .. all these make me happy
i am open to new adventures too .
Straight
Looking for, ages 40-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests,
Playing with slut while they suck me and erotic play
Straight
Looking for, ages 64-90.
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Interests, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, Sex Toys
I really enjoy life in all its manifestations. But do you know how incomplete life is without second half
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-90.
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Interests, Age Gap, Age play, Anal, BDSM, Body Hair, Bondage, Couples, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Dom, Feet, Fetish, Group Sex, Leather / Latex, LGBTQIA+, Lingerie, Mature, MILF, Oral, Outdoor Fun, Pegging, Petite, Roleplay, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Threesomes
I’m in need of a loyal, honest and obedient sub. Must be willing to travel.
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age play, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Roleplay, S&M
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Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 37-60.
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Interests, Dom, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, Sex Toys, Sub
I'm 49 years old, living in the South Carver region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 44 and 99.
Straight
Looking for, ages 44-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age Gap, BBW / BHM, Curves, Dirty Talk, Dom, Edging, Mature, Nylons, Oral, Roleplay, Sex Games, Temperature Play, Tickle Play
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Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 18-65.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Cuckold, Discreet Meets, Dom, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys, Sub, Webcam
Looking for excitement and fun to spice things up.
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 35-55.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Couples, Full Swap, Soft Swap, Threesomes
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Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 31-51.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Dirty Talk, Oral, Sex Toys
True servitude, loyalty, following of my instructions
Straight
Looking for, ages 40-80.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys
Let's explore our deepest desires subbie and have that fun we crave for so badly
Straight
Looking for, ages 42-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, Sex Toys
I am a dominant woman who enjoys training men the true OK ways of BDSM relationship
Straight
Looking for, ages 40-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age play, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Roleplay, S&M
I love to train those that are willing to learn and also willing to travel.
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys
Be bold to Ask me and I’ll tell you more about myself and my policies
Straight
Looking for, ages 20-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BBW / BHM, BDSM, Bondage, Crossdress, Curves, Dirty Talk, Dom, Edging, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Fetish, Impact Play, Leather / Latex, Pegging, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Webcam
Active member locations
- Ararat /
- Wallan /
- Narre Warren North /
- Wheelers Hill /
- Marong /
- Lilydale /
- Tarneit /
- Saint Kilda /
- Boronia /
- Fitzroy /
- Moonee Ponds /
- Healesville /
- Mordialloc /
- Glenroy /
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