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The best way to see if we're the dating site for you is to try us out for free. The form up ☝️there only takes a moment to complete and is completely free. If you're not ready for that, then browse some of our current Victoria based members here. We've collected a selection of our users to make it easier for you to see who you could be meeting and what they are interested in.

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Just some fun in the bedroom (or wherever you like it). That's what we want to find for you. We know not everyone wants a relationship, but pretty much everyone wants a good time in bed. My Bed or Yours matches you up with people in Victoria who are just looking for bedroom playmates. You both get to enjoy yourselves without worrying about the "where is this going" question.

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My Bed Or Yours Members Around Victoria
Very comfortable in a pair of jeans and love to have fun at the pool side . Love.. Female 39 from Vermont, Australia

Am very comfortable in a pair of jeans and go out on a  normal day . I like indoors tho but with the company of my fantasy.. am like open minded and mature whom is very loyal and have a great sense of humor ..


Straight

Looking for, ages 42-86. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Couples, Discreet Meets, Fetish, Outdoor Fun, Soft Swap

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Im 29 years old, living in the Acheron region. Female 30 from Acheron, Australia

I'm 29 years old, living in the Acheron region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 20 and 40.


Straight

Looking for, ages 20-40. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Sex Toys

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We are couple, looking for some erotic fun. We do not judge, if all goes well th.. Couple 35, 35 from Cranbourne, Australia

We are excited about other couples, swinging, threesome and kinky play.


Straight, Straight

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Hot friends, male & female seeking another female for some funn Couple 38, 37 from Langwarrin, Australia

I love turning the guy on until he can’t handle it anymore


Straight, Straight

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Very sensual/ sexual. . . Looking for sweet doms, male or female short term/ cas.. Female 26 from Wyndham, Australia

I'm 26 years old, living in the Wyndham region.
I'm interested in meeting a woman or a man aged between 18 and 37.


Bisexual

Looking for, ages 18-37. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Sub

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Couple looking to have some fun. Open to most things. Maybe start with swapping .. Couple 40, 40 from Melbourne, Australia

We enjoy sharing photos and dirty talk. Once there is a level of trust she loves 2 cocks at the same time I’m happy to help and when it’s my turn to pick she loves to eat pussy while I play with it


Straight, Straight

Looking for, ages 20-51. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Couples, Cuckold, Discreet Meets, Full Swap, Threesomes, Webcam

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I have no idea what to write better off messaging me and we can discuss it more .. Couple 30, 30 from Melbourne, Australia

my partner is female and 28 Im male I'm 29 ive just started exploring new things with my partner but now we are now looking to explore more and other things too


Bicurious, Bisexual

Looking for, ages 18-39. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Dirty talk to me, Full Swap, Group Sex, Roleplay, Send naked pics, Sexual Massage, Soft Swap, Tell naughty stories, Threesomes

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Hi it’s mistress Melanie,48 years old mistress i live in Melbourne Australia Female 40 from Melbourne, Australia

I’m in need of a loyal, honest and obedient sub. Must be willing to travel.


Straight

Looking for, ages 18-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Roleplay, S&M

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Bi female single Open minded loves a beer or 5 Female 41 from Melbourne, Australia

Hi Mel here am bi female 40 single
Am open minded and looking for like minded people
Will come back to this


Bisexual

Looking for, ages 25-55. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Erotic Fiction, Sex Toys, Sub

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Domination has been a lifestyle for me, and many at times misunderstood by other.. Female 37 from Melbourne, Australia

Like a sailor, I’m on a voyage of discovery, so if you think you possess what I’m after, you can reach out. Don’t be shy, I don’t bite!


Straight

Looking for, ages 40-85. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys, Sub

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Looking for a third for a few drinks and a night of fun Couple 53, 53 from Glenroy, Australia

Happy married couple who enjoy life and going away
Love a long night of a few drinks getting to know someone and then hopefully some fun times


Straight, Straight

Looking for, ages 35-55. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Cuckold, Group Sex, Sex Toys, Threesomes

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im happy to be here and im looking for a nice person Female 58 from Melbourne, Australia

i'm a nice person looking a nice man who will  be my


Straight

Looking for, ages 18-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests,

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I’m looking for something discreet and someone special am turned on by the submi.. Female 36 from Melbourne, Australia

I’m sexy Goddess seeking for a honest caring and truthful submissive to own and collar


Straight

Looking for, ages 35-75. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Anal, BBW / BHM, BDSM, Bukkake, Couples, Cuckold, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Feet, Group Sex, LGBTQIA+, Oral, Outdoor Fun, Roleplay, Sexual Massage, Threesomes, Voyeurism

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Young looking girl looking for long term or short term RS Or Fun , Kindly messag.. Female 30 from Melbourne, Australia

Petite 5.7 got tattoes brown eyes easy funny girl looking for some fun , what ever it takes , im bored ! message me lol


Straight

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I am dominant, superior and kinky. Im intrigued to find a submissive sub to ful.. Female 29 from Swan Hill, Australia

Please be aware of what you are signing up for before messaging me, I wouldn't want to see unpleasant messages. Lastly if your intentions ain't real don't bother to message me.


Straight

Looking for, ages 40-80. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

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Erotic, sexy, sweaty porn sex is whats on order. Female 46 from Seaford, Australia

Good ppl with a gd vibe only. I'm into trying new things, hot boys and girls, soft BDSM, rope play and pretty much go with the flow.


Bisexual

Looking for, ages 18-39. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Bondage, Couples, Dirty Talk, Dirty talk to me, Discreet Meets, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Full Swap, Lingerie, MILF, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Threesomes, Voyeurism

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I am looking for someone to have fun are you down for it Female 26 from Melbourne, Australia

I just recently got out of a long term relationship. so I am looking for wild fun and just to meet someone nice and have a good time are you cool with it?


Bisexual

Looking for, ages 18-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Bukkake, Couples, Cuckold, Discreet Meets, Fetish, Full Swap, Outdoor Fun, Soft Swap, Threesomes

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Am cool one to know love Making new vibes Female 31 from Syndal, Australia

Keen to love keen to fun keen to vibes keen to explore desires


Straight

Looking for, ages 40-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

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Shy but filthy bi curious female seeking double the love Female 43 from Melbourne, Australia

I am looking for my first three way to indulge in. I'm getting very bored with just hooking up with only one person, very interested to see where this goes. Also, i'm single just got out of a long term relationship.


Straight

Looking for, ages 46-60. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Fetish, Lingerie, Threesomes

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Gorgeous Dom looking for Committed Sub Female 21 from Melbourne, Australia

I'm 21 years old, living in the Melbourne region.
I'm interested in meeting a transgender person or a couple or a woman or a man aged between 18 and 90.


Bisexual

Looking for, ages 18-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Dom, Fetish, Webcam

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Hi! Look for a secondary relationship or a play partner. I’m pretty new to the p.. Female 26 from Corio, Australia

Outside of my interest in the poly and kink lifestyle and I’m a partnered milf with an interest in fun nights out dancing and cosy nights in with music and a puzzle


Bisexual

Looking for, ages 18-36. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Outdoor Fun

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Im honest and easy going person Female 58 from Melbourne, Australia

I love reading books, beach, and going to the movies


Straight

Looking for, ages 60-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Body Hair, Crossdress, Curves, Discreet Meets, Erotic Fiction, Mature, Outdoor Fun, Pegging, Roleplay, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sexual Massage, Sub

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Couple looking free swimming Gumtree family for fun swinging couple to have some.. Couple 50, 50 from Frankston, Australia

We like my things in life we're down to earth easy-going very easy to talk to and lots of fun


Straight, Straight

Looking for, ages 30-49. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Cuckold, Full Swap, Group Sex, Outdoor Fun, Roleplay, Send naked pics, Sexual Massage, Soft Swap, Threesomes

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I enjoy the eroticism of BDSM, the power exchange and the control I command over.. Female 36 from Melbourne, Australia

Whether you seek a sensual Fetish Session or an intense Domination experience, you will find Me extremely versatile and open-minded.


Straight

Looking for, ages 45-62. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Discreet Meets, Dom, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

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Looking for a daddy to help educate and discipline me. A daddy to help me grow t.. Female 39 from Preston, Australia

I’m a submissive. I believe in polygamy and experienceing everything you ever wanted too.
I’m truthful honest and strait up.
I’m a little submissive slut at heart and I want to feel spoken for


Bisexual

Looking for, ages 50-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Dom, Webcam

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Taking the first steps

It's pretty much guaranteed that we all have a fantasy of a wild no string encounter or inviting someone else to join our partner. But how do you meet someone or bring it up in polite conversation? It's difficult and that's probably why for most people it stays a fantasy.

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If you like what you see you can upgrade your account to get access to all of the features to meet even more people. We offer full searching across all of our members profiles so you can find the right people or couples for you, private messages so you don't need to give out any personal details, staff verified profiles so you can be sure about who you're talking to.

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