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My Bed Or Yours Members Around Victoria
Domination has been a lifestyle for me, and many at times misunderstood by other.. Female 37 from Melbourne, Australia

Like a sailor, I’m on a voyage of discovery, so if you think you possess what I’m after, you can reach out. Don’t be shy, I don’t bite!


Straight

Looking for, ages 40-85. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys, Sub

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Im looking to meet a newbie to explore my dominant side. Female 36 from Melbourne, Australia

I'm an experienced Dominant mistress seeking a good submissive partner to explore my dominant side. I'm sure my experience in this lifestyle will guarantee a sufficient and successful training of my submissive partner to become a good sub for himself and desirable to any Dominant Mistress who wishes to own him. I'm beautiful, strict and all my fluids taste good for those brave enough to enter their sub space in my cruel and dictatorial presence. Interested, Intelligent and handsome subs who desire full attention to all their fetishes must apply. Feel free to write me a message if you're interested to explore your submissive side under my servitude as I will be glad to discuss a possible meeting with you.


Straight

Looking for, ages 20-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, Sex Toys

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Bi female single Open minded loves a beer or 5 Female 41 from Melbourne, Australia

Hi Mel here am bi female 40 single
Am open minded and looking for like minded people
Will come back to this


Bisexual

Looking for, ages 25-55. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Erotic Fiction, Sex Toys, Sub

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Couple. Trying stuff in a safe space and commutative way for all parties is our .. Couple 33, 33 from Melbourne, Australia

We are gamers, love food, pretty chill, and geek nerds, y'all should see our nerd wall. Anime lovers. Also we have food and animals, they like hugs.
We are from the country side nsw and new to Melbourne.

Looking for hook ups, would prefer a long term partner/s but if not and a one of rocket ship is what you want it's all up to you.
F is a switch M is a gentle Dom. The safe word is pineapple.
I have never done this before but the partner has plenty of experience (there's a reason I married this one)
F is shy around women they find attractive, so if I muddle my words or fail to flirt until I'm atleast 3 shots in, it's because your smile is enough to move mountains and your eyes are enough to outshine stars and I don't know how to tell you.


Straight, Pansexual

Looking for, ages 18-44. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Couples, Discreet Meets, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Full Swap, Roleplay, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Threesomes

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im happy to be here and im looking for a nice person Female 58 from Melbourne, Australia

i'm a nice person looking a nice man who will  be my


Straight

Looking for, ages 18-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests,

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Keen to meet fun couples for friendship or more Couple 44, 42 from Kilsyth, Australia

Would like to attend events or meet privately with other couples.
Open to most things.


Straight, Straight

Looking for, ages 18-55. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Couples, Cuckold, Discreet Meets, Fetish, Full Swap, Outdoor Fun, Soft Swap, Threesomes

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Need a domain yo cone in and take over mak3 him do as told and make me be quiet .. Couple 50, 53 from Hallam, Australia

I l9ve to watch m on m anal girls  on me fun kinky different sexualising adventures


Straight, Straight

Looking for, ages 37-60. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Dom, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, Sex Toys, Sub

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Into kink and bdsm, want to explore and make regular tantalising experiences. Female 29 from Melbourne, Australia

Wow I really have no idea what I should put here. My deepest darkest fetishes? The things that give me so much pleasure they will never be spoken of? My favourite movies? My favourite thing to do for my partner sexually?


Bisexual

Looking for, ages 28-38. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Roleplay, S&M, Sub

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Hi me and my partner are very new to this looking to spice things up Couple 28, 25 from Lakes Entrance, Australia

Im a 26 year old man love my  family time and work time away for rest open to any questions very new to this all my parents is 23 year old female


Straight, Straight

Looking for, ages 18-29. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Dirty talk to me, Group Sex, Roleplay, Send naked pics, Sexual Massage, Soft Swap, Strip on webcam, Tell naughty stories, Threesomes, Video themselves

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We are a happily married couple that are sexually open and adventurous Couple 52, 52 from Derrinallum, Australia

Spontaneous sexual encounters
Like minded people looking for some fun


Straight, Straight

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New to this site but not new in the lifestyle,i am 24/7 sub seeking for the righ.. Female 28 from Melbourne, Australia

I am singlr,mentally stable, physically fit, a bunch of laughs, warm, caring, honest, good listener, and a positive person.I am a woman who is not afraid of her sexuality and the wonderful sensations that my body,mind and spirit can produce..I have a good sense of humor and a willingness to explore not only what life has to offer but what am capable of experiencing both physically and mentally..


Straight

Looking for, ages 45-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Fetish, Sub

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Let me be your sexy submissive . I love to tease & please, obey & play & to be .. Female 43 from Mount Martha, Australia

I havnt watch tv in 8 yrs instead I listen to music it’s so good for the soul .
Music is life .


Bisexual

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Am very good and responsible lady. Female 38 from Melbourne, Australia

I am a simple lady. Who is ready to meet any open person? Looking forward to meet good people who are honest and kind


Straight

Looking for, ages 61-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Dirty Talk, Feet, Pegging, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sex Toys

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’m a Dominant woman I’m looking for a discreet relationship with a  loyal and h.. Female 38 from Melbourne, Australia

I am a perfect trainer, and I intend to give my sissy the basic needs that makes him a real sissy. I practice what I preach and answer to no man nor do I depend on one. When I allow you to serve, it's not because I need you to, it's because I enjoy having you do it.


Bisexual

Looking for, ages 40-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, Sex Toys

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Cum FAP with me! ...and ON me! Couple 37, 37 from Lavington, Australia

30-something, M/M long term partnership, wanting to explore sexually with other men, women, couples or groups


Bisexual, Bicurious

Looking for, ages 18-49. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Roleplay, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Voyeurism

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A dominant mistress seeking a submissive partner for a long term BDSM serious re.. Female 29 from Melbourne, Australia

I’m not insearch of a perfect partner as long as you can obey me and worship my body, I’m willing to accept you as mime. If you’re a first times who wish to be dominated by me you should message me away


Straight

Looking for, ages 28-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

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Im looking for a straight man or a cross dresser to train as My sub Female 39 from Melbourne, Australia

I'm a Mistress looking for a willing sub whom I can utilize my skills effectively with


Straight

Looking for, ages 36-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Discreet Meets, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

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Looking for guys to help my man Dp me and gangbang me Couple 45, 45 from Korumburra, Australia

We are a very open minded kinky couple, we would do/try anything


Straight, Straight

Looking for, ages 27-55. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Erotic Fiction, Group Sex, Sex Toys

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I am an ordinary girl who would like to become a loving woman in the future, and.. Female 24 from Melbourne, Australia

Watching Netflix, Hangout with friends, Shopping Camping, Hiking, Ice Skating, Travel


Straight

Looking for, ages 18-80. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Cuckold, Outdoor Fun, Webcam

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We are new and wanting to explore Couple 43, 43 from Melton, Australia

Whisky fun happiness play getting to know new people


Straight, Straight

Looking for, ages 18-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Couples, Dirty Talk, Fetish, Group Sex, Lingerie, Oral, Pegging, Sex Toys, Threesomes

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We are new here. Want to explore new boundaries. Couple 35, 32 from Cranbourne, Australia

We looking for couples and Male or Female for threesome


Straight, Straight

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My Non-verbal commands dictate your fate; I will lure you to the brink of human .. Female 38 from Frankston, Australia

My watchful gaze penetrates your comforts and your fears, studying the way in which your muscles contract and relax, your pulse quickens and breaths become short.


Straight

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Trust me, I’m someone you will love to be with Female 39 from Melbourne, Australia

I’m a loving, and understanding mistress that is always available for you


Straight

Looking for, ages 43-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Fetish, Sex Toys

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I’m here to own and control you for my satisfaction Female 34 from Port Melbourne, Australia

I love anal and oral sex, pegging and whipping, bondage and degradation, medical play and and role play, I like naughty and crazy people.


Straight

Looking for, ages 40-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Roleplay, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage

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Im 34 years old, living in the Melbourne region. Female 34 from Melbourne, Australia

I'm 34 years old, living in the Melbourne region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 35 and 99.


Straight

Looking for, ages 35-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age Gap, Age play, ASMR, BBW / BHM, BDSM, Body Hair, Bondage, Bukkake, Couples, Crossdress, Cuckold, Curves, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Dom, Edging, Electro Play, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Fetish, Group Sex, Impact Play, Lace, Leather / Latex, LGBTQIA+, Lingerie, Mature, MILF, Nylons, Oral, Pegging, Petite, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Temperature Play, Threesomes, Tickle Play, Voyeurism, Webcam

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