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My Bed Or Yours Members Around Victoria
We are couple, we wanted to try out the lifestyle. We do not judge. If we match .. Couple 35, 32 from Cranbourne, Australia

We love to try out swinging, threesome and some kinky play


Straight, Straight

Looking for, ages 20-60. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Couples, Full Swap, Soft Swap, Threesomes

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Simple girl just wants sex and fuck buddy Female 27 from Melbourne, Australia

Dm let’s have fun I’ll be your fuck buddy let’s get to know each other better


Straight

Looking for, ages 18-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Sub

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Hi Im Taylor looking for something real and long term. Female 29 from Laverton, Australia

I'm looking for something long term...if that's not you please move along


Bisexual

Looking for, ages 18-29. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Erotic Fiction

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I AM A GODDESS WAITING FOR YOU TO PLEASE ME Female 33 from Geelong, Australia

Im looking for a worthy sub who is ready to commit to My control for real time


Straight

Looking for, ages 18-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Dom, S&M

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Im 43 years old, living in the Mornington region. Couple 43, 33 from Mornington, Australia

I'm 43 years old, living in the Mornington region.
I'm interested in meeting a couple or a woman or a man aged between 18 and 67.


Straight, Straight

Looking for, ages 18-67. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests,

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I’m looking for my soulmate. Anything goes Female 43 from Melbourne, Australia

I am flexible, kind, generous, responsive, humorous, ambitious, sociable, emotional, sensitive. I want to create a family with a like-minded person with whom we have common goals and interests,I am very outgoing male,get in touch and  we can start to get each other known.


Straight

Looking for, ages 50-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests,

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’m a Dominant woman I’m looking for a discreet relationship with a  loyal and h.. Female 38 from Melbourne, Australia

I am a perfect trainer, and I intend to give my sissy the basic needs that makes him a real sissy. I practice what I preach and answer to no man nor do I depend on one. When I allow you to serve, it's not because I need you to, it's because I enjoy having you do it.


Bisexual

Looking for, ages 40-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, Sex Toys

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Im looking for someone to build great time together. do you like coffee? cats? .. Female 29 from Wodonga, Australia

I'm a strong independent woman, has a job and still single and has no family despite the age, but still looking for someone to be with. I'm not so strong if I'm alone. I'm open to  a lot of ideas and willing to explore a lot of stuffs for fun. Ain't a time waster please so do you.


Straight

Looking for, ages 18-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, ASMR, BDSM, Bondage, Couples, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Group Sex, LGBTQIA+, Outdoor Fun, Pegging, Petite, Roleplay, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Threesomes, Voyeurism

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I’m a single and kinky lady who intends on enjoying and discovering new pleasure.. Female 34 from Melbourne, Australia

I’m a dominant woman in search of a kinky man I can enjoy lots of pleasure with.


Straight

Looking for, ages 25-78. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Dom, Roleplay, S&M

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Looking to expand my horizons, ready to try hot and new things Female 28 from Melbourne, Australia

Seeking for anyone who's interested to have intense fun. dont mind the age


Bisexual

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give you the spark you need to make it a reality in your life XX Female 26 from Melbourne, Australia

give you a different perspective on what love and sex should look like XX


Bisexual

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Looking for a bit of extra fun. Couple 45, 53 from Lovely Banks, Australia

Exploring and trying new things. Would like to explore with another couple.


Straight, Straight

Looking for, ages 35-55. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Couples, Discreet Meets, Outdoor Fun, Threesomes

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Im married so Im looking for some discreet fun, NSA, ONS, FWB :) Female 38 from Melbourne, Australia

Outgoing and a bit wild with piercings. I feel like I have a pretty nice body. I love watching movies and TV shows. Love to chat/flirt so if you are interested, write :P


Straight

Looking for, ages 35-65. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, Anal, BDSM, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Dom, Fetish, Lingerie, MILF, Oral, Outdoor Fun, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sexual Massage, Sub

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Bi couple looking for orgies and parties… Couple 45, 45 from Warragul, Australia

Cocks are so much fun!
Long term couple, not new to the scene, very much in Love, Open minded & fun loving, looking to push some boundaries and satisfy some curiosities. We understand what it’s like to want to explore more, experience with mmf bi not always necessary. You have to start somewhere …
Please be patient, it can take some time for us to message back, life and work commitments keep us very busy.

We are down to earth people, looking for easy going, respectful, discreet, men to meet up over a drink and help us to explore our kinks. We are patient, genuine & ready to play. Happy to message to get to know each other, happy to meet promptly with the right person.

Don’t be shy, reach out if you’d like to chat.


Bisexual, Pansexual

Looking for, ages 20-52. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Couples, Discreet Meets, Full Swap, Soft Swap, Threesomes

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Sweet wet dom looking for a nice time Female 29 from Carlton, Australia

Playing with slut while they suck me and erotic play


Straight

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Come to your mistress ,Im here to bondage and discipline Female 24 from Geelong West, Australia

I love my client discipline, submissive and bondage


Bisexual

Looking for, ages 22-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Dom, Fetish

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something fun x i wanna have fun and have good talk and swing all the way Female 30 from Melbourne, Australia

I love to travel and make some good food for good mood


Bisexual

Looking for, ages 20-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Cuckold, Discreet Meets, Fetish, Threesomes

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Gorgeous Dom looking for Committed Sub Female 21 from Melbourne, Australia

I'm 21 years old, living in the Melbourne region.
I'm interested in meeting a transgender person or a couple or a woman or a man aged between 18 and 90.


Bisexual

Looking for, ages 18-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Dom, Fetish, Webcam

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Hi a dom but will swich lol hardcore Female 59 from Carrum Downs, Australia

Iam an educated man retired and into bdsm are you it's a pleasure so will swich if that's what you want


Straight

Looking for, ages 49-69. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Cuckold, Outdoor Fun, Roleplay, Video themselves

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Im young mistress Nichole. Im 49 year old sexy mistress, I will never break a p.. Female 50 from Melbourne, Australia

I'm in need of a loyal and obedient sub. Must be willing to travel.


Straight

Looking for, ages 18-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Discreet Meets, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Feet, Fetish, Roleplay, S&M, Webcam

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Couple looking to have some fun. Open to most things. Maybe start with swapping .. Couple 40, 40 from Melbourne, Australia

We enjoy sharing photos and dirty talk. Once there is a level of trust she loves 2 cocks at the same time I’m happy to help and when it’s my turn to pick she loves to eat pussy while I play with it


Straight, Straight

Looking for, ages 20-51. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Couples, Cuckold, Discreet Meets, Full Swap, Threesomes, Webcam

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Seduction, a captivating and empowering woman who is unafraid to embrace her dom.. Female 39 from Bendigo, Australia

True servitude, loyalty, following of my instructions


Straight

Looking for, ages 40-80. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

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Am very good and responsible lady. Female 38 from Melbourne, Australia

I am a simple lady. Who is ready to meet any open person? Looking forward to meet good people who are honest and kind


Straight

Looking for, ages 61-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Dirty Talk, Feet, Pegging, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sex Toys

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I am ray of light in the dark room Female 39 from Melbourne, Australia

I am very positive person and believe positive thinking will lead me to the aim that i have setup for myself


Bisexual

Looking for, ages 40-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Discreet Meets

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Curvy Goddess looking for someone to give a little pleasure and little pain, I’.. Female 32 from Melbourne, Australia

I’m a Demi Pan, so looks never bother me. I’m pretty open to ideas on hook ups (short and long term), friends, something serious, a play toy (if your into that sort of thing).
Likes leather, toys, a little pleasure and a little pain


Straight

Looking for, ages 18-49. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Roleplay, Sex Toys

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Active member locations

  • Cremorne /
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  • Ararat /
  • South Melbourne /
  • Wesburn /
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  • Diamond Creek /
  • Langwarrin /
  • Cranbourne /
  • Laverton /
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