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Im 28 years old, living in the Melbourne region. Female 28 from Melbourne, Australia

I'm 28 years old, living in the Melbourne region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 18 and 38.


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Looking for, ages 18-38. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Dom, Fetish

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Curvy Goddess looking for someone to give a little pleasure and little pain, I’.. Female 32 from Melbourne, Australia

I’m a Demi Pan, so looks never bother me. I’m pretty open to ideas on hook ups (short and long term), friends, something serious, a play toy (if your into that sort of thing).
Likes leather, toys, a little pleasure and a little pain


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Looking for a hottie to join my husband and I. Couple 34, 40 from Pakenham, Australia

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Dom preferred
I'm definitely a sub


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Im very open than the open book Female 44 from Melbourne, Australia

I'm loyal, open to communication, jovial and honest with so much intergerity as well.


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We are a happily married straight male & bi sexual female couple, We are very m.. Couple 36, 39 from Clyde North, Australia

What makes us happy is quality time together, road trips, laughing and being silly, meeting and getting to know new people, Family time.


Straight, Bisexual

Looking for, ages 27-53. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Couples, Full Swap, Outdoor Fun, Soft Swap, Threesomes

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I am looking for that special older one who will rekindle the flame of passion a.. Female 29 from Wallan East, Australia

Someone i can confide in and someone ready to live the alternate BDSM kinky lifestyle with me secretly.

My main aim is to derive pleasure in ways unexplainable. There's so much to this lifestyle i want to show to my potential sub. All i want is your obedience and loyalty, and above all, your submission to me as your mistress.


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Looking for, ages 18-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Roleplay, Sex Toys

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Looking for someone to hang out with cuddles random adventures Couple 38, 39 from Gumly Gumly, Australia

Going away day trips random drives dirtbikes camping and 4x4


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Looking for, ages 23-49. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Outdoor Fun

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I am a strict mistress looking for a loyal sub to serve me in real life Female 40 from Adelaide Lead, Australia

I’m a well experienced mistress and lover of bdsm, I can get you to your next sense of pleasure


Straight

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Im 40 years old, living in the Port Melbourne region. Female 40 from Port Melbourne, Australia

I'm 40 years old, living in the Port Melbourne region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 48 and 90.


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New here! Ready to meet someone Female 44 from Melbourne, Australia

I like to hike and visit the tourist sites to explore and also learn new things. I enjoy walking by the beach side as well but just have not found anyone to walk hand in hand with.


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Dominatrix, Producer and Studio Owner Simply put, I am the Lady you have been dr.. Female 39 from Melbourne, Australia

I embody the finer things in this world. I possess stimulating conversation and, of course, a devious, highly sexed mind and a fabulous playspace that I have lovingly crafted. I am a BDSM specialist, a pioneer in the realm of kink and a hedonist of the naughtiest order.


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Just make a move and lets see what happen Female 47 from Melbourne, Australia

Oh, about me! What more can i say, I think i have said so much on my profile so i do not know what else to add. Anyway, I am a simple lady, a positive person and a good listener to be with and there is more, but it would be better for you to find some things out for yourself.


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Looking for, ages 40-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests,

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Open minded and discreet, looking forward in exploring our desires together. Female 32 from Melbourne, Australia

keen for love, keen for discreet, keen for fun, keen for anything that wants domination.


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Looking for, ages 40-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

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I AM LOOKING A MAN WHO WANTS TO MEET UP Female 35 from Melton, Australia

I  WOULD OPEN ANYTHING FOR YOU SO YOU WILL MAKE HAPPY


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Im 42 years old, living in the NSW I region. Female 42 from Melbourne, Australia

I'm 42 years old, living in the Sydney region. I'm interested in meeting a transgender person or a couple or a woman or a man aged between 32 and 90.


Bisexual

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Playful and adventurous. Keen to explore new experiences! Female 50 from Ballarat, Australia

Easygoing and adventurous. Patient, kind and honest.Love couples play and exploring all things kink. Ultimately my heart and soul is with submission. Willing to please and serve my Dom, I'm still learning....I love the power exchange and psychology of the D/s dynamic.


Bisexual

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I am very single. I am not seeing anyone at the moment. I am one man woman and a.. Female 61 from Syndal, Australia

I find  the right person it's a possibility. There is nothing more fantastic than having your best friend as a partner to lean on, love, admire, and share everything with. I am in no rush


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Im 55 years old, living in the Melbourne region. Female 55 from Melbourne, Australia

I'm 55 years old, living in the Melbourne region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 55 and 90.


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Am here looking for a life partner for a long term relationship and first we hav.. Female 36 from Melbourne, Australia

I am single. i am honest, loyal, respectful, faithful, loving and caring. I don’t cheat and I hate cheaters


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Hi, its Mistress Amelia. Im 48 years mistress, I live in Sydney, Australia. Female 48 from Parramatta, Australia

I'm in need of a loyal,honest and obedient Sub, must be willing to travel.


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Looking for, ages 18-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Discreet Meets, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Feet, Fetish, Roleplay, S&M, Webcam

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New year, new adventures looking to make 2024 the biggest year full of fun and l.. Female 46 from Bendigo, Australia

Open to trying new games, long form play and really want to experience life like never before


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Looking for, ages 36-56. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Couples, Outdoor Fun, Soft Swap, Threesomes

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Hit me up with your best introduction Female 44 from Melbourne, Australia

Too much to tell you here message me and we can chat about it


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Looking for, ages 42-52. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Roleplay

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Fun loving bi man looking 4 another bi man to do some curious things with me an.. Couple 40, 40 from Craigieburn, Australia

Watching my  gal getting screwed by someone else's huge monster. I think its horneyas fuck.


Straight, Straight

Looking for, ages 31-51. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Dirty Talk, Oral, Sex Toys

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New to this site but not new in the lifestyle,i am 24/7 sub seeking for the righ.. Female 28 from Melbourne, Australia

I am singlr,mentally stable, physically fit, a bunch of laughs, warm, caring, honest, good listener, and a positive person.I am a woman who is not afraid of her sexuality and the wonderful sensations that my body,mind and spirit can produce..I have a good sense of humor and a willingness to explore not only what life has to offer but what am capable of experiencing both physically and mentally..


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Looking for, ages 45-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Fetish, Sub

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Professional couple looking for discrete adult fun, with non pushy people. D&D f.. Couple 53, 46 from Fawkner, Australia

We are not newbies nor are we hardcore but we will never meet and play on the same night, so if you are looking for a quickie we would not be able to satisfy your wish. We prefer to chat first to see if we will get along and then agree to meet up for a drink and if all agree proceed from there to a time when we are all available.


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Looking for, ages 29-65. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Couples, Discreet Meets, Full Swap, Threesomes

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