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Adult dating is the same concept as "conventional" online dating. The only difference is what the users aim to get out of the relationships they form. Our members generally do not want to be tied down (tied up, maybe) or restricted to one sexual partner. Our members are generally looking for more casual relationships or one night stands. Often these casual rendezvous turn into a fuck buddy type arrangement but if you are here looking for the love of your life, romance and flowers, you are definitely in the wrong place. If you are easily offended, you are also probably in the wrong place. Many of our members posts and share some pretty explicit photos and videos which are not censored in any way so if you think you will be offended by content of this nature, please leave now.

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My Bed Or Yours Members Around Victoria
Single , seeking for a long term relationship and more .. Get to know more about.. Female 63 from Melbourne, Australia

Fair in complexion , caring , loving and sharing ..


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DOM SEEKING FOR A SUB TO OWN AND TRAIN INTO BDSM LIFESTYLE DEPENDING ON YOUR FET.. Female 30 from Syndal, Australia

I like feminization, bondage , pussy worship, ass sitting, sissy slut, anal, pegging, roleplay and many more
Don't like blood, faeces or extremely pain


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Just a happy couple looking to bring a bi male in for some occasional fun, we ar.. Couple 40, 40 from Phillip, Australia

My partner wants to watch me fuck an get fucked this goes both ways we are up for an experience with all people envolved  having a pleasurable time


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Im 35 years old, living in the Melbourne region. Female 35 from Melbourne, Australia

I'm 35 years old, living in the Melbourne region.
I'm interested in meeting a couple or a man aged between 18 and 80.


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Hi, Im Mistress Charlotte Im 49 years of age Female 50 from Melbourne, Australia

I love to train those that are willing to learn and also willing to travel.


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I’m here for serious relationship not for a joke Female 39 from Geelong, Australia

I'm 39 years old, living in the Geelong region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 49 and 99.


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Seduction, a captivating and empowering woman who is unafraid to embrace her dom.. Female 37 from Bendigo, Australia

True servitude, loyalty, following of my instructions


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Hi! Look for a secondary relationship or a play partner. I’m pretty new to the p.. Female 26 from Corio, Australia

Outside of my interest in the poly and kink lifestyle and I’m a partnered milf with an interest in fun nights out dancing and cosy nights in with music and a puzzle


Bisexual

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a gentle loving dom seeking a sub who wants to experience his fantasies and k.. Female 25 from Mernda, Australia

looking for a devoted sub who is willing  to  do what it takes  to please


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I LOVE TO TRY NEW THINGS CAN YOU BE WITH ME Female 26 from Melbourne, Australia

IM SIMPLE BUT LOVELY WOMAN IF YOU WANNA KNOW  WHAT IS IT MESSAGE ME NOW


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I am ray of light in the dark room Female 39 from Melbourne, Australia

I am very positive person and believe positive thinking will lead me to the aim that i have setup for myself


Bisexual

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Im a Legitimate Sovereign Mistress Female 36 from Melbourne, Australia

I'm looking for that older someone who will rekindle the flame of passion and desire that seems to have been lost in my past relationship. Someone willing to assist me and ready to live the alternate BDSM kinky lifestyle with me secretly. I am kinky, I am dominant, I am superior, I am demanding and will not have it any other way. I will only accept true servitude with integrity.


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Im single funny looking for a friend with benefits Female 45 from Moe, Australia

I need a forever partner with a sense of humour, honist, romantic and loyalty is a must


Bisexual

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I am very fun and outgoing, and very easy to get to know! I love staying active .. Female 26 from Melbourne, Australia

I am a young woman that is looking to try some new things this summer. I am very diverse and I enjoy all the things most people do...travel, good food and even better sex. I am trying this because I figured anyone that is able to be so open in regards to sex may have the capabilities to be drama free.


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Im 40 years old, living in the Port Melbourne region. Female 40 from Port Melbourne, Australia

I'm 40 years old, living in the Port Melbourne region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 48 and 90.


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I’m here to own and control you for my satisfaction Female 34 from Port Melbourne, Australia

I love anal and oral sex, pegging and whipping, bondage and degradation, medical play and and role play, I like naughty and crazy people.


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Im 38 years old, a dominant woman living in the Sunshine region. Female 38 from Sunshine, Australia

I'm 38 years old, living in the Sunshine region. I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 30 to 70 who is willing to be my sub, relinquishing absolute control to me as his mistress and him my sub


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lam a mistress looking for an obedient sub willing to serve to my feet Female 22 from Syndal, Australia

lam a mistress looking for an obedient sub willing to serve to my feet


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Im looking forward to meet my soulmate..! Female 49 from Melbourne, Australia

Would love for us to talk and know more about each other better


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Im a young lady with potential Female 32 from Melbourne, Australia

I'm a dominant lady with potential and looking for a genuine good sub to explore this lifestyle together


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honest , caring and lovely to be with . i am looking to meet new friends and see.. Female 38 from Elsternwick, Australia

kindnesss , love , money and like to travel , like to party . beach , restaurant


Bisexual

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Loving couple looking to have some fun sexually. Looking to add another man/coup.. Couple 47, 48 from Melbourne, Australia

Loving couple looking to have some fun sexually. Looking to add another man or couple for a fun sensual sexy night.


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Hi a dom but will swich lol hardcore Female 59 from Carrum Downs, Australia

Iam an educated man retired and into bdsm are you it's a pleasure so will swich if that's what you want


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Life its self need fun . Zoe will teach you want she knows how to do best. try... Female 32 from Melbourne, Australia

Always want to be alright just come plain. We can end up been contacted I'm actually a new person to be with.


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Im a sincere dominant woman who enjoys training older men on how to become bett.. Female 30 from Melbourne, Australia

So discreet and communicative, especially under my dominanion of endless sexual exploration


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Looking for, ages 31-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

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