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a woman submits to a man, its the most precious gift she can give. Herself. Unr.. Female 31 from Adelaide Lead, Australia

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Want to meet the right persons Female 33 from Albury, Australia

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Hi, its mistress stacy, Im a 54 year old based in Melbourne Australia Female 53 from Melbourne, Australia

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Im 35 years old, living in the Melbourne region. Female 36 from Melbourne, Australia

I'm 35 years old, living in the Melbourne region.
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I am your gorgeous mistress seeking worthy sub to make him serve his mistress in.. Female 25 from Ballarat, Australia

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Serious and matured people only. Here for fun Female 53 from Melbourne, Australia

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I am looking for a serious relationship Female 49 from Nathalia, Australia

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Looking to expand my horizons, ready to try hot and new things Female 28 from Melbourne, Australia

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Im here to bring all your fantasies to reality and trust me youd be thrilled a.. Female 39 from Melbourne, Australia

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Ill keep things discreet so that we can still get in touch Female 28 from Melbourne, Australia

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Bring the heat and I will me you there. Partner with me for a life of passionat.. Female 40 from Melbourne, Australia

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Newbies, looking to have fun and explore Couple 45, 48 from Melbourne, Australia

Looking for excitement and fun to spice things up.


Straight, Straight

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Hi I’m up for good time.. I want someone hot muscled to give m a good time, im n.. Couple 44, 44 from Melbourne, Australia

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We are a happily married straight male & bi sexual female couple, We are very m.. Couple 36, 39 from Clyde North, Australia

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Straight, Bisexual

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Hey I name Chloe I am bbw I want to be used Female 34 from Warragul, Australia

I love my job I want a master to own me all over  thank


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Communication is key! Let’s have some fun! Female 36 from Geelong, Australia

Lover of dirty literature and lazy Sundays. Great sense of humour and even better banter. Want to connect both physically and mentally so if you not in for more then one night, move on please.

Lets start out with a bit of fun and if the connection is there, see where it goes.

If relationship status is complicated or married please don’t message me!


Straight

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A dominant mistress seeking a submissive partner for a long term BDSM serious re.. Female 29 from Melbourne, Australia

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Hello Dom/sub x message if interested Female 23 from Mulgrave, Australia

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