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Mike, 56 from Portishead, Somerset

Adventurous and not bound by the rules of what others consider "Normal". I have recently moved to Bristol with a new job and would like to make a new friend for evenings on the town and evenings by the fire. I like to exercise and keep in shape, also I'm a passionate photographer and have a creative side I like to indulge. The Vampire photo is an edited selfie. It's the kind of thing I do when I don't get out much ;) Update, apparently you can't post photos with special effects and it got rejected. That will have...

Nemesis, 34 from Barons Court, London

No matter what you may have heard, size matters. Problem with nudes? Old folks say...you should know better than to buy a pig in a poke... Cock pictures required! You only get one chance to make a first impression! NO gym -mirror selfies / fitness maniacs allowed- NO WAY... ABS -workout- muscle -fitness-type....no thanks, not my cup of tea... - Tell your boyfriend , if he says he's got beef... That I'm a vegetarian and I'm f***ing scared of him.... NO PICTURES =IGNORED ...and... I don't care what other ladies say to that.. ( innocent virgins and saint, pure...

Francesca, 44 from Mawdlam, Mid Glamorgan

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Fiz, 37 from Kirkstall, West Yorkshire

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