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Gianna, 49 from Rutherglen, Borders

Hi. I'm a professional lady with a taste for the excitement of younger men. I'm totally discrete and expect the same but won't meet married or those in long term relationships. I have a younger friend at the moment... would you like to join us? Got a few fantasies I'd like to try out. If you are interested, get in touch for a chat. x

Dave, 39 from Burnt Oak, London

I'm a guy with a high sex drive love almost anything to do with sex. I'm looking for genuine NSA fun and frolics.

Shelley, 49 from Bow Road, London

Hiya , I'm a single mum so can't accommodate,a working single mum I may add. I work nights so don't get much me time, anyway I'm looking for one night stands , I had a FWB who went and got himself a girlfriend so I'm back to square one, must be single x I don't need your either, been burnt on here before ain't gonna fall for it no more

Lr, 40 from Goswell Road, London

We are a couple sometimes want to be invited in a nice place for a party and fun

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