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Looking for a big boy because It’s cuffing season. I don’t want to be a sub, sor.. Female 27 from Kent, UK

I need someone willing to give themself to me 100%. I wanna be the sexiest person in your life.

5’3 or 5’4. Now I’m about medium size, not skinny anymore


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I am a strict female disciplinarian. I am a totally non sexual sadistic female .. Female 65 from Kent, UK

I have been in the BDSM lifestyle for over 40 years.I cannot answer messages.I enjoy reading, photography, listening to music, walking my dog, cooking, baking and writing erotica


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Not much to talk about it could be better on phone Female 36 from Chatham, UK

I would like to meet a good friend, a kind man. Who would love to travel, share new emotions and new experiences with me. And who would like to sit near the fireplace, drink tea, hold hands and talk about everything or stay silent and feel the moment).


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Looking for fun, come have some fun with me. Female 51 from Maidstone, UK

Being a mummy, love to find an anr relationship, loving the abdl fetish at the moment, so if you looking for a mummy come and find me.


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am looking for that special one who will rekindle the flame of passion and desir.. Female 25 from Kent, UK

I an DOMINANT woman, who enjoys training men on how to be a loyal and submissive man, ready to please his partner and how to live the alternate BDSM lifestyle. I've led the BDSM lifestyle for years now, i am not into blood or any form of permanent markings or bruises, i am not into much pain at all, rather, i like the kinky role play, bondage play, pussy worship, foot worship, and other special ways at pleasuring one's partner


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Professional mistress looking for a male or female to spank Female 29 from Kent, UK

Hi am Sandra who love to be spanked I take all implements including the dreaded cane but my favorite


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If you want a laugh and a great time, we are the ones for you Couple 58, 52 from Faversham, UK

We're who we say we are, we don't make plans & leave you hanging, we'll always let you know if change/cancel is needed PLEASE don't plan something with us & then disappear whilst we wait. We're fully aware, sometimes a meet could end up not further, either side, it's part of this lifestyle but don't waste people's time/ get them excited about a meet & then not having the decency to update. We're good looking (our mothers said it) fun & open to new things/ideas. Committed couple, married with a joy of life and the experiences it brings. Please don't approach us as individuals, we have open attitudes, but only play as a couple with total acceptance of the situation. NOT strangers to hard swap but only when together and enjoying a night, a day or a weekend. We are looking for a person/people to include in our life, so we want to connect as people as well as enjoy each other.We will call you out if you play us


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Do you fantasize about being made to dress like a woman, look like a woman, thin.. Female 36 from Chatham, UK

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Am here for serious relationship Female 32 from Kent, UK

I like dancing and singing and going out like being happy


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Explore and fill in all the missing parts of life Female 53 from Canterbury, UK

Enjoying my company and training a worthy partner if found on how to Enjoy the adventures of life (kinks


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Looking for men I can entertain… but mostly ones who can entertain me Female 27 from Bearsted, UK

Hi guys. Trying to figure this thing out, never been on here before. DM Me if you like what you see


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Open to exploring some filthy kinks Im a super, experienced dom looking for a s.. Female 33 from Maidstone, UK

Clean and super pretty mistress and more... have a very passionate, but firm and genuine personality. I live according my own ideas and convictions. I never judge others and respect any life's position. I am very sympathetic, many-sided, purposeful, easy-going, cheerful and I am really willing to accept certain risks to make a strong commitmentCalls and notifications will vibrate


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I am an attentive lover, always looking to satisfy all of my partner’s needs, so.. Female 27 from Southend-on-sea, UK

I'm 27 years old, living in the Southend-on-sea region.
I'm interested in meeting a couple or a man aged between 18 and 99.


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Let’s have a conversation about how to proceed Female 29 from Bredhurst, UK

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Hello, I am looking for someone special, someone who can surprise me every day a.. Female 39 from Kent, UK

I am looking for love on a dating site. I am always open to something new and I like learning new things, new cultures and get acquainted with new people. I have an adult daughter and now I am free to find love and change in a relationship. I can just say that I am a very caring, sophisticated, sensual, intelligent and emotional woman.


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Heyy i am a sub looking for a dom Female 19 from Kent, UK

I’m 19 from the uk
I am a student
And I can be whatever you want


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Couple seeking fun, enjoyment, sexual pleasure. Easy going love banter. Couple 57, 37 from Maidstone, UK

Been together 6 years. Want to put some into our sexual relationship. Happy to go with the flow.


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Hi dear, ive been anticipating the day a loyal sub will come my way and please .. Female 43 from Canterbury, UK

A dominate young lady looking for a loyal sub, age is not a limit


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Looking for someone to drain Female 25 from Kent, UK

Female dominator looking for my next sub to drain. I haven’t found someone yet that can keep up or handle it - Specialise in Findom


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Im 40 years old, living in the Kent region. Female 40 from Kent, UK

I'm 40 years old, living in the Kent region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 43 and 99.


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Couple in our 30s looking for some extra curricular activities. Both clean heal.. Couple 37, 37 from Kent, UK

We like to watch, join and swap. Don't really have and boundaries apart from being discreet and respectful.


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Straight but curious mistress.clean and discreet and looking for a submissive sw.. Female 34 from Bearsted, UK

Sweet loyal and caring Mistress looking for a fit mature man,that has a high sex drive and isn't scared to discuss your fantasies or mine as well.


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Disciplinarian and bondage Mistress. Dominant lady with a dungeon Multi skille.. Female 37 from Kent, UK

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Heyyyy interested in new things, Female 39 from Southend-on-sea, UK

I'm 39 years old, living in the Southend-on-sea region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 30 and 50.


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Hello, I’m a happy go lucky 55 year old lady, I’m looking for a dom to try new .. Female 56 from Great Burstead, UK

I love porn, toys and watching people enjoying and having sex .


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