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Bblue, 44 from Southfields, London

Professional lady looking for a regular casual partner rather than multiples ones. Someone who is respectful, discreet and with a sense of humour. Must be non-smoker, clean. Not into gimmicks, just don't want all the hassle of a relationship without missing out on great intimacy.

Ab, 23 from Epsom, Surrey

looking to hav some NSA fun and open to suggestion. An only message me if ur a genuine person

Suze, 51 from Morpeth, Northumberland

Funny the million dollar question... What are you looking for?? Think it depends on the person, that spark and chemistry Looking for intelligent and reasonably fit man ! Laughs and mutual respect but not looking for random stranger sex or sex texting etc , don't get it! C confident divorced and happy woman just looking for a friend and the r rest Will happen if chemistry right

Diane, 47 from Lofthouse, West Yorkshire

Hi I'm Diane I'm sexy and petite I look good for my age and are well kept I love men and I love woman I don't have many rules I just like to get down and naughty with both sexes I'm looking or wanting 2or more men for meet ups or men that don't mind performing with other men around I would also like to fulfill a long standing fantasy of mine by having sex with a lesbian couple so if you girls are reading this please come and make my dream come true so boys what you waiting...

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