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Julie, 37 from York, North Yorkshire

I am interligent,hardworking, trustworthy lady. I have respect for others and searching to find the same. I enjoy cycling,travelling, passion for cooking and I love keeping fit. I am looking to meet a respetable gentleman, who we will get to spend time to get know each other better...Please note I am (NOT) interested in one night stand. Thank you for reading my profile.

Sue, 49 from Lympstone, Devon

Horny , sexy single lady looking for NSA encounters

Justhere, 54 from Colchester, Essex

Back here but was recently on as justlooking. So just to be clear, my profile picture was taken in the last momth, the dress is PVC so does hold one in a little. I am a size 12-14 in real clothes. I do consider myself as a slight sapiosexual but not exclusively. Im normal, sane, scrub up nicely and will expect the same from you. I am happy being single but sometimes its nice to see how it is on the other side. PS you have to be single too!!

James, 29 from Belfast, County Antrim

What to say? Where to start? I suppose everyone is here for different variations of the same thing, and im no different. Im very genuine, no bs, if im interested i'll tell you likewise if not (the same in return would be good). Im well-mannered, athletic, hygenic, groomed, yada yada yada. Just looking some good, hard, satisfying (for both) sex. Nothing more. If you're interested to find out/ see more, you know where to find me ;)

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