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Babyjade, 30 from St James, London

Are there any vegans on here?! Why is compassion for non-human animals so hard to find? I am VEGAN. I mention this in caps because it is a huge part of who I am and I'm currently working out how to help save the world. Yes, seriously. Please consider veganism, it saves animals, humans, the environment, and is basically the only way to save humanity at this point. I don't want an argument about it though, and stupid messages will be automatically deleted, thanks :) Moving on, if you care to... Right, I don't have a lot of experience,...

Chloe, 21 from Brighton, East Sussex

21 year old university student studying Anthropology and with a passion for travel. I enjoy experimenting and would love to meet a guy who can open my eyes to the endless possibilities. And hopefully I can show you what I'm all about. Feel free to leave me a message :) I don't bite, well sometimes. Unless you have dick pics on your profile, then please don't.

Flower, 26 from Stratford, London

PLEASE ATTACH A FACE PIC WHEN YOU CONTACT ME. NO PICS NO REPLY! Hi guys, I am a very feminine and sensual oriental t girl who is based in east London. i am submissive/ passive and I am looking for a dominant/active fit and handsome man who is based in London and who wants to have some hot and horny no strings fun or maybe someone who wants to be my passionate regular lover and special friend. Not interested in time-wasters, cybersex, phone sex or cam sex, I am looking to meet up for real. NO WINKS PLEASE! I...

Masum, 38 from Barkingside, London

Honestly I'm here to find out someone who can give me a chance to be a best partner... I want a baby..if someone want to be my friend or partner or wife please reply me..I'll be happy if someone contact me straight ...age doesn't matter. We can talk about it when we meet..Thanks

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