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Dan, 38 from Mirfield, West Yorkshire

I'm looking for NSA fun.... no commitment needed, sense of humour would be a plus x

Angie, 59 from Pudsey, West Yorkshire

Hi guys just to say you do need to be in the yorkshire area no good at the other end of the country unless yr carlisle/lakes way sorry. Im looking for regular guy so we can find out what we enjoy who loves fun sexiness with intelligent conversation and not just sex and no the flowers werent bought for me which is a shame but one never knows ever hopeful haha x

J, 33 from New Alyth, Tayside

I am looking for some good fun in the bedroom or where ever lol, wouldn't mind finding someone else who wants regular meets for sex then back to our own lives

Jade, 25 from Thames Ditton, London

Looking for NSA with someone localish regular meets would b good as I have a high sex drive im always up for trying new things. Please no time wasters if ur profile is empty don't expect a reply

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