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A dom looking for a serious sub to serve me in real life Female 27 from Chatham, UK

I have urge to train your submissive mind, body and soul.


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am looking for that special one who will rekindle the flame of passion and desir.. Female 25 from Kent, UK

I an DOMINANT woman, who enjoys training men on how to be a loyal and submissive man, ready to please his partner and how to live the alternate BDSM lifestyle. I've led the BDSM lifestyle for years now, i am not into blood or any form of permanent markings or bruises, i am not into much pain at all, rather, i like the kinky role play, bondage play, pussy worship, foot worship, and other special ways at pleasuring one's partner


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Looking for, ages 37-66. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Dom, Fetish, Sex Toys

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Im an honest, caring, loving romantic and fun to be with Female 36 from Croydon, UK

I'm down to earth loving lady with good heart and always fun to be with , I like camping, dancing, swimming cooking and Adventures


Straight

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I dont know...just up for exploring some things -_-; Female 30 from Rochester, UK

Being dominated, tied up, told what to do, but pleasing me too


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Kinky couple seeks like minded couples and bi males for bedroom adventures Couple 45, 45 from Tonbridge, UK

I love getting pegged but would love the feel of a real cock and I love the idea of watching a guy ploughing my misses after we've both sucked him off. We like to dress up in sexy lingerie and use lots of sex toys


Straight, Straight

Looking for, ages 31-47. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Anal, Crossdress, Erotic Fiction, Oral, Pegging, Roleplay, Sex Toys

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I’m interested in meeting a man between 35 and 45. There is a lot more to learn .. Female 36 from Chatham, UK

Message me if you would like to know more about me and the secrets I hide away in the bedroom


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tall thin chinese lady sub looking for mature dominant man Female 35 from Bromley, UK

looking for a mature dom man in south london for meets


Straight

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Couple seeking man. Interested in exploring sexual curiosity for mutual casual f.. Couple 51, 51 from Tonbridge, UK

We are a fun-loving, sociable couple with an interest in socialising, dress-up, boudoir sexual fun, and would like to enhance this experience by involving another man for naughty, sexy, flirty times. Relaxed and open. Personality and sense of humour is also important.


Straight, Straight

Looking for, ages 29-45. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests,

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Looking for someone to join him and I for fun Couple 47, 54 from Gravesend, UK

Lots of fun no strings .
He has lots of ideas ,I just love sex.


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Looking for, ages 38-58. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Cuckold

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Looking for a long-term primary relationship with someone who loves laughing and.. Female 56 from Sanderstead, UK

NO HOOK UP REQUESTS. I have been described as an active, creative, fun-loving nerd who loves animals. And I'm okay with this! I love Sci-Fi & fantasy books, movies, and shows. I'm an avid reader, and a writer in an MFA programme. My Mini Goldendoodle,, Indy, is my best friend in the entire world, and he keeps me laughing with his antics and personality. I love camping, riding motorcycles, live-action roleplay (LARPing), travel, and getting lost in old bookstores on rainy days. I'm verbally and physically affectionate, and LOVE all kinds of sensual, kinky adventures.I'm looking for a long-term primary partner, someone who loves dogs and shares the world view that being inclusive and empathetic and kind is good, and being bigoted and hateful and exclusionary is a horrible, hurtful way to go through life.


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Looking for, ages 45-70. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Outdoor Fun

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We have been a couple for 5 years, he is cuckold and I am HotWife, we are open t.. Couple 26, 26 from Rochester, UK

We are excited to meet new people who are open-minded and want to have a good time.


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I am nice and fun to be with ready to learn new things and explore kinky fantasi.. Female 38 from Otford, UK

I am nice and fun to be with ready to learn new things and explore kinky fantasies with others.


Straight

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am looking for that special older one who will rekindle the flame of passion and.. Female 35 from Kent, UK

My ideal man should be older, Must be within the state, and must know that all meetings and sessions will take place at my private dungeon, Must know that this is an alternate lifestyle and not everyone is cool with it, and as such, should be willing to live this life with me discreetly


Straight

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New to the lifestyle and want to explore Couple 37, 46 from Northfleet, UK

Totally new to this . My partner prefers to watch me having some Casual fun rather the join in.

Looking for age range of 25-40

Our first time so looking for someone to show us the way .

We’re very busy people so can’t meet at the drop of a hat and needs to be localish

Please only message if your within our criteria


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Am here to explore more fun and training my sub for more sex and erotic pleasure Female 33 from Maidstone, UK

Am a dominant woman looking to train her submissive  oral sex pleasure


Straight

Looking for, ages 49-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Sex Toys

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Professional mistress looking for a male or female to spank Female 29 from Kent, UK

Hi am Sandra who love to be spanked I take all implements including the dreaded cane but my favorite


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Black heart… Just like my soul Female 31 from Kent, UK

I am happy when I am getting presents, having lovely dinners and drinks.


Straight

Looking for, ages 22-60. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Dom

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I am looking for an older man near me Female 66 from Rochester, UK

I came on here to find guys who like fun with older women. I may be 66 but I have not lost any of my sexual urges, in fact I think they are stronger than ever. I prefer younger guys 30-45 but that is not set in stone so if you like my profile, just say hi.


Straight

Looking for, ages 46-76. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests,

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Looking for good company and a fun time Female 25 from Croydon, UK

I like someone who treats me like I’m special because I am.  I like wearing stockings and having my feet rubbed


Straight

Looking for, ages 18-59. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Feet, Lingerie, Nylons, Oral, Outdoor Fun, Sexual Massage

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Hi Nice to meet you ☺️ be kind I’m new to this! Female 45 from Chatham, UK

I’m 45,   5ft 1, slim/average buildI wonder how many of you will read past this ‍♀️I work and also have my own little business, I’m intelligent, kind and caring I am looking for a Dom who knows how to look after his Sub, not into hookups thank you ☺️


Straight

Looking for, ages 35-55. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Roleplay, Sub

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We are a straight couple looking for a male to join us in having a bit of fun. W.. Couple 32, 35 from Chatham, UK

A couple looking for a male 3rd to join us in some fun.
New to this


Straight, Straight

Looking for, ages 18-39. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Roleplay, Send naked pics, Sex Toys, Threesomes

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44 years old woman and here to find a partner left the bdsm lifestyle about a ye.. Female 34 from Horsmonden, UK

Travels
Swimming
 Outings
Driving.
Vacations .


Straight

Looking for, ages 39-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Anal, BDSM, Couples, Outdoor Fun, Sexual Massage

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Hello, I am looking for someone special, someone who can surprise me every day a.. Female 39 from Kent, UK

I am looking for love on a dating site. I am always open to something new and I like learning new things, new cultures and get acquainted with new people. I have an adult daughter and now I am free to find love and change in a relationship. I can just say that I am a very caring, sophisticated, sensual, intelligent and emotional woman.


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Looking for, ages 50-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Body Hair, Bondage, Dom, Sexual Massage

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Im 39 years old, living in the Kent region. Female 39 from Kent, UK

I'm 39 years old, living in the Kent region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 39 and 81.


Straight

Looking for, ages 39-81. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish

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Naturally submissive looking to explore in East Sussex Female 40 from Heathfield, UK

Outdoor girl looking to explore sexually with someone local. toys, ropes, bum slapping, handcuffs, edging, teasing, being sensual, outdoors all turn me on.  Size 16/18


Straight

Looking for, ages 38-50. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Discreet Meets

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