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am looking for that special older one who will rekindle the flame of passion and.. Female 27 from Kent, UK

I a DOMINANT woman, who enjoys training men on how to be a loyal and submissive man, ready to please his partner and how to live the alternate BDSM lifestyle. I've led the BDSM lifestyle for years now, i am not into blood or scat or any form of permanent markings or bruises, i am not into much pain at all, rather, i like the kinky role play, bondage play, pussy worship, foot worship, and other special ways at pleasuring one's partner. My main aim is to derive pleasure in ways unexplainable. There's so much to this lifestyle i want to show to my potential sub/slave.  All i want is your obedience and loyalty, and above all, your submission to me as your mistress.


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Welcome, seekers of pleasure and power! Step into my world, where fantasies beco.. Female 38 from Chatham, UK

Strict,  yet loving.
Sadist.
Love objectifying others as use them as I see fit.
Restraints.
CBT.
More extreme side of sadism.  Impact play is my forte.
Sissy/maid training.
Sensory deprivation.
Breath play.
Etc. . .


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Looking for, ages 44-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, S&M, Sex Toys, Sub

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Open to exploring some filthy kinks Im a super, experienced dom looking for a s.. Female 33 from Maidstone, UK

Clean and super pretty mistress and more... have a very passionate, but firm and genuine personality. I live according my own ideas and convictions. I never judge others and respect any life's position. I am very sympathetic, many-sided, purposeful, easy-going, cheerful and I am really willing to accept certain risks to make a strong commitmentCalls and notifications will vibrate


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i am seeking for a long term relationship thats leads to marriage and other thin.. Female 39 from Bexleyheath, UK

My name translates as " pleasure", and that's what I would say about myself. I enjoy life, I love sincerity, honesty, and most of all I appreciate humor, joie de vivre, and frankness in people. I try to live by the laws of karma.


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Im 36 years old, living in Chatham Female 36 from Chatham, UK

I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 30 and 45.There is a lot more to me but u will have to message me to find out


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I am looking for an older man near me Female 66 from Rochester, UK

I came on here to find guys who like fun with older women. I may be 66 but I have not lost any of my sexual urges, in fact I think they are stronger than ever. I prefer younger guys 30-45 but that is not set in stone so if you like my profile, just say hi.


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Bratty Sub, semi-new the lifestyle. . . want to explore more Female 22 from Kent, UK

I'm 22. Been into the lifestyle for nearly 6 years. In the bedroom and in daily life. Looking for a Dom/Rigger with experience who can tame me, guide me and teach me new things. Bondage/rope play is a big part, I'm a huge rope bunny. I'm also big on sensation play, I want to feel it all. I like a Dom who can be gentle but also be extremely rough, need to be kept on my toes! I do like the occasional romance every now and again tho  BDSM gives me a sense of freedom and peace from the stresses of life.


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Looking for a serious relationship Female 38 from Kent, UK

Serious,looking to meet and I’m honest and caring..I’m a very happy person


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i am not into much pain at all, rather, i like the kinky role play, bondage play.. Female 38 from Kent, UK

i am not into much pain at all, rather, i like the kinky role play, bondage play, pussy worship, foot worship, and other special ways at pleasuring one's partner


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Alpha Submissive Seeking A Powerful Dynamic. Female 36 from Kent, UK

*** SUBMISSIVE DOES NOT EQUAL PROMISCUOUS EASY WOMAN. GENUINE DOMINANTS ONLY NEED GET IN TOUCH***It’s been a while since my last submission, I’m ready for a new adventure. I’m constantly being referred to as an Alpha sub because of my strong, confident nature, so this is what I class myself as. You will need to earn my full submission, but any true Dominant will know how to do this. * I am not interested in 1 time hook ups. . You need a reasonable level of intelligence to play with my mind.


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My dream is to connect my life with an older man, because with him I will feel s.. Female 32 from Longfield, UK

I'm flexible in relationship, reliable and will do all my best myself for my family. I think family always comes on the first place. I do love children and do want to have my own. They're the sun rays in life. Our life is not full without them. Do you agree? I am too young for that maybe but my desire still big about it, on this dating site I wanna find man who will think the same and we can built family together!


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We are a straight couple looking for a male to join us in having a bit of fun. W.. Couple 32, 35 from Chatham, UK

A couple looking for a male 3rd to join us in some fun.
New to this


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A dom looking for a serious sub to serve me in real life Female 27 from Chatham, UK

I have urge to train your submissive mind, body and soul.


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I identify as a sparky dome , looking for my boys! Come find me. I dont like to.. Female 35 from Rochester, UK

I'm  a Dom, come serve me to bring some extra colors to your life


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Inspired by erotica/vintage erotic, I am a submissive seeking a connection with .. Female 43 from Greenhithe, UK

I am a free spirit/open minded/attracted to unique characters.    I am seeking  a physical and mental attraction/connectio n    I am NOT seeking casual FUN one off encounters.     I am NOT a mistress/dominatrix.   If I show any interest in you,   I will make correspondence.  NO I.  D pic NO chat.


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I’m attractive fun spontaneous great sense of humour Female 55 from Maidstone, UK

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Hi inexperienced submissive hoping to find the right man.. Female 38 from Chatham, UK

I’m very willing and wanting to learn and please someone I will give my whole self to you


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We are a couple looking for a male to join us for some fun Couple 47, 47 from Gillingham, UK

New to this . The idea of someone joining us is a big turn on for us both


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Prodom mistress looking for a sub to worship and adore her Female 38 from Crayford, UK

Fun, easy good, love adventure and  full control..


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Looking for fun, come have some fun with me. Female 51 from Maidstone, UK

Being a mummy, love to find an anr relationship, loving the abdl fetish at the moment, so if you looking for a mummy come and find me.


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Unbroken. Make me submit I’m an alpha submissive. Not looking for hook up look.. Female 40 from Snodland, UK

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Never been made to submit never trusted anyone enough. I’ll try most things I have a few hard limits. But I’ll have a conversation about anything.


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I am looking for that special older one who will rekindle the flame of passion a.. Female 38 from Maidstone, UK

DOMINANT woman, who enjoys training men on how to be a loyal and submissive man, ready to please his partner and how to live the alternate BDSM lifestyle. I've led the BDSM lifestyle for years now, i am not into blood or any form of permanent markings or bruises, i am not into much pain at all, rather, i like the kinky role play, bondage play, pussy worship, foot worship, and other special ways at pleasuring one's partner


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i am easy oing person i like to laugh and treat everyone with respect. i am hone.. Female 58 from Gillingham, UK

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Professional mistress looking for a male or female to spank Female 29 from Kent, UK

Hi am Sandra who love to be spanked I take all implements including the dreaded cane but my favorite


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