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Looking for, ages 44-64.
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Shy hypersexual looking for the S to my M. I have a thing for big and beardy, but it's more about your mind. If you're f***ed in the head then I'm yours.
Straight
Looking for, ages 30-65.
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Interests, BDSM, S&M, Sub

Hi there am new here and am here for a man to satisfy me
Straight
Looking for, ages 62-90.
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I am an easy going person who loves to spend time with family, friends, and the people I care more about
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Looking for, ages 50-90.
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Looking for, ages 39-90.
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Interests, Anal, BDSM, Couples, Outdoor Fun, Sexual Massage

I a DOMINANT woman, who enjoys training men on how to be a loyal and submissive man, ready to please his partner and how to live the alternate BDSM lifestyle. I've led the BDSM lifestyle for years now, i am not into blood or scat or any form of permanent markings or bruises, i am not into much pain at all, rather, i like the kinky role play, bondage play, pussy worship, foot worship, and other special ways at pleasuring one's partner. My main aim is to derive pleasure in ways unexplainable. There's so much to this lifestyle i want to show to my potential sub/slave. All i want is your obedience and loyalty, and above all, your submission to me as your mistress.
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Looking for, ages 43-90.
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I'm 38 years old, living in the Hothfield region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 45 and 99.
Straight
Looking for, ages 45-90.
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Interests, Anal, ASMR, BBW / BHM, BDSM, Body Hair, Bondage, Bukkake, Crossdress, Cuckold, Curves, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Dom, Edging, Electro Play, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Feet, Fetish, Impact Play, Lace, Leather / Latex, LGBTQIA+, Lingerie, Mature, MILF, Nylons, Oral, Pegging, Petite, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Temperature Play, Tickle Play, Voyeurism, Webcam

I like dancing and singing and going out like being happy
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Looking for, ages 28-90.
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Are you into Bdsm social lifestyle looking for a sub to explore with
Straight
Looking for, ages 40-85.
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The most important features of my character are sexuality, kindness, honesty. In any life situation, I remain optimistic. I am happy that I have a large number of hobbies. I like to take care of my body - I go to the gym and do yoga. I also do not forget about my intellectual development, I like to develop myself and do it in all different ways. This includes visiting exhibitions, seminars, webinars and all kinds of events. You can discuss any topic with me, because I'm pretty well-read and I can support any conversation, hee hee. So feel free to bring up various topics in conversations. I believe that I will meet a decent person here who needs love and support. I will give all my tenderness and care to the man I love. And I'll show him what true love is!
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Looking for, ages 37-90.
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Hi there love ones, Kindly text me let’s chat and get to know more and see where it goes from there xxxx
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Looking for, ages 65-90.
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Interests, BBW / BHM, Couples, Dom, Electro Play, Lingerie, Pegging, Roleplay

Having fun when playing naked.
I love cuddles I rough play
Straight
Looking for, ages 32-61.
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Interests, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Sex Toys, Sub

Both new to the site and exploring our fantasies. We only want to explore these together as a couple so not looking for extra marital hookups. Some things we are interested in exploring: - Mrs C being ‘decorated’ and pleasured by Mr C and other by others. - being a plaything for Mr C and others.- being watched via webcam or watched in person.Mrs C prefers to be submissive and restrained so this may feature in meet-ups.
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Looking for, ages 30-59.
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Interests, Discreet Meets, Exhibitionism, Outdoor Fun, Voyeurism, Webcam

I need someone willing to give themself to me 100%. I wanna be the sexiest person in your life.
5’3 or 5’4. Now I’m about medium size, not skinny anymore
Straight
Looking for, ages 40-90.
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Interests, BDSM, Discreet Meets, Fetish, Roleplay, Sexual Massage

Sweet loyal and caring Mistress looking for a fit mature man,that has a high sex drive and isn't scared to discuss your fantasies or mine as well.
Straight
Looking for, ages 30-60.
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Interests, BDSM, Discreet Meets, Roleplay, Sex Toys

I am here to train you in the act of BDSM online for people ready to be my sub
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-90.
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Interests, BDSM, Couples, Discreet Meets, Outdoor Fun, Roleplay, Sexual Massage

i am not into much pain at all, rather, i like the kinky role play, bondage play, pussy worship, foot worship, and other special ways at pleasuring one's partner
Straight
Looking for, ages 39-81.
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Interests, Discreet Meets, Outdoor Fun, Sexual Massage

I'm a simple lady interested in exploring all my kinky preferences
Straight
Looking for, ages 44-83.
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Interests, BDSM, Fetish, Threesomes

I’m a submissive girl I love to be tied up with a next collar on that you can tighten to punish me I love deep throat so I can’t breath in till you let me I would love to have 2 maybe 3 men fuck me at once I love vibrating toys on my clit I like my pussy smacked and teased the roughly you are with me the more I get turned on I like my hair pull and my ass smacked xx
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Looking for, ages 34-54.
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Interests, Age play, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Roleplay, Sex Toys, Sub

I have been in the BDSM lifestyle for over 40 years.I cannot answer messages.I enjoy reading, photography, listening to music, walking my dog, cooking, baking and writing erotica
Straight
Looking for, ages 50-59.
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Interests, Dom, Erotic Fiction

I’m a very sexuall person looking to have lots of fun
Bisexual
Looking for, ages 18-39.
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We are a couple, living in the Maidstone region. We are new into this looking to explore our fantasy's. Me Bexxx is 53 yrs old. We're interested in meeting an attractive man aged up to 55. For threesome or Bull duties. No strings attached, discreet arrangement. Would prefer someone close to us or if they are willing to travel to us.
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 18-55.
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Interests, Discreet Meets, Sub

I'm 21 years old, living in the Headcorn region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 18 and 90.
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 18-90.
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Interests, Cuckold, Discreet Meets

Outdoor girl looking to explore sexually with someone local. toys, ropes, bum slapping, handcuffs, edging, teasing, being sensual, outdoors all turn me on. Size 16/18
Straight
Looking for, ages 38-50.
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Interests, BDSM, Discreet Meets

Looking for an authentic and brave man who shares my passions and challenges. I am fascinated by the strength of a man who is not afraid to show his true self and pursue his dreams. I long for a deep and sincere connection, where open communication and mutual acceptance are the foundations of our relationship.
Straight
Looking for, ages 50-90.
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Interests, Dirty Talk

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