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I'm 43 years old, living in the Southampton region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 50 and 89.

I'm 34 years old, living in the Havant region.
I'm interested in meeting a couple or a man aged between 25 and 45.

I'm 58 years old, living in the Southampton region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 56 and 90.

We are a happily married couple, but we would like to find a guy between 25 and 50 who we could socialise with and have regular contact with, so we can then explore weekend breaks, nights out etc and become good friends. If you are after a one off please don't message as this is not what we are looking for.
There has to be a mutual connection both ways.
Dishy does not like to be controlled in the bedroom, and can be a little rough with her nails and maybe a little biting, she likes passion but is also very open minded
Dave is straight. Oh and a dick pic sent straight to my inbox does not impress me!
If you think this is you, please get in touch.

Hi there this is Ben and kerry we would love to get to know you we like too have fun go to the gym go for long walks with our dog we are laid back and up for anything all you have to do is ask

I mainly enjoy a mixture of obedience and punishment (IE sometimes I want to be a good sub to make my Dom happy and other times I want to play up or be cheeky to get a punishment).
I have a lot of kinks but not a lot of experience (most of the experimentation has been solo but ofc you can only get so far by yourself and ideally I’d like someone who I can figuratively or literally hand the reigns over to and be completely under their control for a while- or whatever the session may bring).
Obviously a build up of trust is needed to slowly increase to more kinky things/harder impact play/whatever it may be etc but I’d love to see how far I can push myself (within the safety of my Dom, safe words etc).
When I drop I tend to get clingy/needy until I’m out of the fog/given aftercare so if that’s not for you keep that in mind.
Hope this all makes sense and feel free to ask any questions or if you want a more detailed list of the kind of things I’m into I’m happy to have a chat.

I would like to meet a man who is caring, loving, kind and romantic.

A mistress always ready to guide and direct her subs.

No pressure just see where it leads. O jave done this few times neforw but she is new to the world of this.

I'm 29 years old, living in the Portsmouth region.
I'm interested in meeting a couple or a woman or a man aged between 18 and 90.

I am a dominant and independent woman i seek a wild and pleasurable sub to make my submission contact me on whats app

I'm 32 years old, living in the Southampton region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 27 and 53.

Tattoos and piercings are a big thing for us looking for four play and sexual experimentation. we are a couple we do things as a couple. We are not looking for anything serious with anyone else just some fun together .

We are so open ask me im message ! Really would like the nice 'play' and just enjoy the time but together !!

I'm an honest and loyal lady. I'm a hardworking and understanding person. I love traveling anywhere I can be happy, especially with a man whom I would love to be with. I'm just a simple and kind lady.

In my world, you’ll discover a side of Femdom where affection is blended with control, where my playful nature dances with my love of inspiring surrender, where the rules of daily life can slip away into a blissful, hedonistic experience.

Ask me, I will let’s you know more about you and see where it’s lead us too

Completely letting go is what makes me happy, I dislike making decisions so the ability to relax and give over control is what relaxes me.

I'm a simple lady with the quest to explore all my sexual fantasies, I'm open to anything.

I'm 27 years old, living in the Southampton region.
I'm interested in meeting a couple or a man aged between 24 and 55.

Findom, welcoming those whom shall worship my feet, from Winchester and beyond.

Opened minded, looking forward in exploring fun together.

I’m here looking for fun and if possible a relationship so if you’re interested message me and let’s get to know each other better

Good sense of humour is essential ♡
Gym lover.
No snowflakes

I'm looking for my soulmate. We are on the same frequency and we have the same three views. I need you to be patient, tolerant, responsible, and financially have an economic basis. Then it'll be easier for us to be together. And I hope you have a sunny personality and like sports as much as I do. So we two cheerful people together to live a happy life.

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