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Looking for men I can entertain… but mostly ones who can entertain me Female 27 from Bearsted, UK

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Welcome, seekers of pleasure and power! Step into my world, where fantasies beco.. Female 38 from Chatham, UK

Strict,  yet loving.
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Looking for something serious and fun Female 36 from Benfleet, UK

I like naughty and passionate man. I'm hoping I can find a man who is much older than me.


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I am a strict female disciplinarian. I am a totally non sexual sadistic female .. Female 65 from Kent, UK

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A couple, we would like to make one of our fantasies come true. We have no exper.. Couple 50, 49 from Dartford, UK

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Hi Nice to meet you ☺️ be kind I’m new to this! Female 45 from Chatham, UK

I’m 45,   5ft 1, slim/average buildI wonder how many of you will read past this ‍♀️I work and also have my own little business, I’m intelligent, kind and caring I am looking for a Dom who knows how to look after his Sub, not into hookups thank you ☺️


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Am here to explore more fun and training my sub for more sex and erotic pleasure Female 33 from Maidstone, UK

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To shine your brightest light is to be who you are Female 25 from Upminster, UK

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New to cuckolding, seeking experienced domme Couple 56, 50 from Offham, UK

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i am looking for a long term relationship that leads to marriage and also FWB an.. Female 37 from Bexleyheath, UK

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Inspired by erotica/vintage erotic, I am a submissive seeking a connection with .. Female 43 from Greenhithe, UK

I am a free spirit/open minded/attracted to unique characters.    I am seeking  a physical and mental attraction/connectio n    I am NOT seeking casual FUN one off encounters.     I am NOT a mistress/dominatrix.   If I show any interest in you,   I will make correspondence.  NO I.  D pic NO chat.


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Hi there am new here and am here for a man to satisfy me Female 48 from Kent, UK

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I am looking for that special older one who will rekindle the flame of passion a.. Female 34 from Kent, UK

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I hope to find something serious and meaningful. Female 42 from Kent, UK

skeptical about this online dating but keeping my fingers crossed, hoping to find someone who wants to spoil me, I'm a good cook, hate dirt, over a good cup of coffee, like nice perfumes, healthy, i do have a sense of humor and enjoy life as it is.


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I’m here to dominate, who wants to be my sub Female 27 from Romford, UK

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We are a straight couple looking for a male to join us in having a bit of fun. W.. Couple 32, 35 from Chatham, UK

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I identify as a sparky dome , looking for my boys! Come find me. I dont like to.. Female 35 from Rochester, UK

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I am New to this and I hope we can each contact Female 43 from Kent, UK

I am looking for a future man who has a good heart, a good sense of humor, and who values loyalty, love and equal relationships. I don't care about material values or appearance.


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I am looking for that special older one who is rekindled with the aflame of pass.. Female 35 from Kent, UK

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