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Im a sado submissive; primarily a submissive but can switch to sadism. I like b.. Female 43 from Chelmsford, UK

I like a strong man that knows what he's doing in bed with a great imagination. He's got a good body, strength and looks to match. He is opinionated and takes thd lead. He is good company, knowledgeable and humorous.


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I’m interested in meeting a man between 35 and 45. There is a lot more to learn .. Female 36 from Chatham, UK

Message me if you would like to know more about me and the secrets I hide away in the bedroom


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Love bi sex....watching each other... Bj Couple 64, 62 from Southend-on-sea, UK

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Looking for someone casually to go out with and have fun Female 48 from Southend-on-sea, UK

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A dom looking for a serious sub to serve me in real life Female 29 from Chatham, UK

I have urge to train your submissive mind, body and soul.


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Im 52 years old, living in the Rayleigh region. Female 52 from Rayleigh, UK

I'm 52 years old, living in the Rayleigh region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 36 and 77.


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Im 26 years old, living in the Southend-on-sea region. Female 26 from Southend-on-sea, UK

I'm 26 years old, living in the Southend-on-sea region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 47 and 91.


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Looking for something extra, message as, we would love to get to know you. Couple 40, 42 from Dartford, UK

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I’m a dom looking for subI always like to be in control Female 24 from Chelmsford, UK

I'm 24 years old, living in the Chelmsford region.
I'm interested in meeting a transgender person or a man aged between 18 and 80.


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Im 31 years old, living in the Chelmsford region. Female 31 from Chelmsford, UK

I'm 31 years old, living in the Chelmsford region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 18 and 99.


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Couple.f 33.m 43.looking for lady to join us for fun in kent or croydon Couple 43, 31 from Gillingham, UK

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Not new to the BDSM scene, also Bi. Love when a person abdicates their will and .. Female 29 from Southend-on-sea, UK

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To meet women who like sex with men. Female 70 from Latchingdon, UK

Hi, my name is Liz, I would love to meet women, who like me enjoy sex with men as well as other women.  I like to dress up, use sex  toys. Would love to meet women of the same mind set.  Perhaps having a relationship with the right lady, but who knows what can happen.


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Inspired by erotica/vintage erotic, I am a submissive seeking a connection with .. Female 43 from Greenhithe, UK

I am a free spirit/open minded/attracted to unique characters.    I am seeking  a physical and mental attraction/connectio n    I am NOT seeking casual FUN one off encounters.     I am NOT a mistress/dominatrix.   If I show any interest in you,   I will make correspondence.  NO I.  D pic NO chat.


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A couple, we would like to make one of our fantasies come true. We have no exper.. Couple 50, 49 from Dartford, UK

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Hi inexperienced submissive hoping to find the right man.. Female 38 from Chatham, UK

I’m very willing and wanting to learn and please someone I will give my whole self to you


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Im 28 years old, living in the Chelmsford region. Female 28 from Chelmsford, UK

I'm 28 years old, living in the Chelmsford region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 19 and 90.


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Hi me and my bf would like to do an MMF combination Couple 30, 34 from Woodham Ferrers, UK

A guy who takes care of himself and is confident and open minded I havent done this b4 so a bit nervous but has always been my fantasy to be with 2 guys


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I am looking for a serious relationship involve honesty, trust, respect and open.. Female 65 from Southend-on-sea, UK

A partner who is open-minded and conscientious shows us that they are willing to work hard to see our perspective and put effort into a relationship, showing us that we matter and are accepted for who we are. With someone who is emotionally stable, we can feel safe.


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I am an experienced female sadistic Pro Dominant Female 65 from Sheerness, UK

I am experienced in pain and humiliation but am non sexual. I do not switch. I am not looking for nsa or anything else. Please do not message me if you are a Dom or looking for sexual encounters I am not interestedLooking to expand the boundaries of your pain threshold, I am not a submissive so you Doms out there stop messaging me. I have been in this lifestyle for over 40 years and not interested in any form of sexual encounter.


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Welcome, seekers of pleasure and power! Step into my world, where fantasies beco.. Female 38 from Chatham, UK

Strict,  yet loving.
Sadist.
Love objectifying others as use them as I see fit.
Restraints.
CBT.
More extreme side of sadism.  Impact play is my forte.
Sissy/maid training.
Sensory deprivation.
Breath play.
Etc. . .


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Im 36 years old, living in Chatham Female 36 from Chatham, UK

I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 30 and 45.There is a lot more to me but u will have to message me to find out


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Anyone in Chelmsford area want to meet up with me? Couple 64, 23 from Chelmsford, UK

Sub bi smooth chastity looking for eme..


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Hi Nice to meet you ☺️ be kind I’m new to this! Female 45 from Chatham, UK

I’m 45,   5ft 1, slim/average buildI wonder how many of you will read past this ‍♀️I work and also have my own little business, I’m intelligent, kind and caring I am looking for a Dom who knows how to look after his Sub, not into hookups thank you ☺️


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i am easy oing person i like to laugh and treat everyone with respect. i am hone.. Female 58 from Gillingham, UK

i am can cook, i can polay teniss ball. i like to go swiming.if you want to know more about me just ask me and i am open book


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