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Fiona, 41 from London

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Sally, 29 from Great Burstead, Essex

One new pic, hopefully better then the white top one everyone seems to light so much! Well after being kicked off for some unknown reason I'm back! But seem to have lost all my favourite's, what's a girl to do! I have asked a few guys to help me out and this is what they said; I'm kind, lovely to talk to, truthful, beautiful, know what I want, kinky and curvy Although I say I have lumps and bumps (I have been told I can't say that!!!)

Mark, 47 from Caister-On-Sea, Norfolk

im a single old geezer, lookin for laughs fun & love ?

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