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A loving woman looking for that special man Female 46 from Edinburgh, UK

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Am Experienced Mistress Seeking mature main sub that is capable to commit to me .. Female 35 from Edinburgh UK, USA

Welcome to my world of sensual domination, divine bondage, discipline and fetishes, I will give you the opportunity to escape your everyday life and let yourself be fascinated and revitalized by my divine dominant, sensual eroticism. I'm an experienced dominant mistress who have lead this lifestyle for a very long time and also a loving mistress who seek a loyal sub/slav,e. that is ready to live the alternate  BDSM lifestyle with me for a long term relationship, I am not into much pain at all, rather, I like the kinky role play, bondage play, foot worship, pussy worship, nipple play and lost more, With all this side are you ready and willing to be trained and dominanted by me as your MISTRESS!? IF YES, GET IN TOUCH MAINLY HERE FOR MATURE MINDS ONLY!! loyal submissive sub whom if faithful and always tells the truth ready to serve so I can train


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Im 25 years old, living in the Bonnyrigg region. Female 25 from Bonnyrigg, UK

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Im 36 years old, living in the North Berwick region. Female 36 from North Berwick, UK

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Hi,Im here to love,Laugh and have fun Female 57 from Edinburgh, UK

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16yrs into the lifestyle and earned been a Pro Dom. Loyalty, commitment, obedien.. Female 45 from Edinburgh, UK

Dom looking to find only willing and ready subs and newbies who know exactly what they want to train and own. I hate to waste my time, I believe you know exactly what you want and how/what's be done and demanded from you as a sub. I won't waste my time once you begin to complain and argue. My sub must be willing to obey my orders at all times. Pass if this isn't what you seek for but if it is exactly what you desire,lets talk more and see how it goes from here. Sissy subs are more preferred.


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Hey guys, I’m just looking to explore new things Female 21 from Edinburgh, UK

I’m a 21yo student, been single since last summer but now looking for some fun


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I am looking for someone who understands intrinsic values and values authenticit.. Female 38 from Edinburgh, UK

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Hey, I am Sophia in Edinburgh I am a Dom, always been and I love to have a lot o.. Female 31 from Edinburgh, UK

I love to have fun, and I love men who know what they want, I also love to keep things discreet, I am hoping I can find a serious, discreet sub here to have some fun with, l will be lucky hopefully


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Am Kendra Williams beautiful lady Female 39 from Livingston, UK

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Active member locations

  • Bonnyrigg /
  • Edinburgh /
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  • Colinton /
  • Liberton /
  • Leith /
  • Edinburgh UK /
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