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I am willing to try anything to please the other person
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-29.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Fetish, Roleplay, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage

Playful and fun
I don't bite or maybe I do xx
Xxx
Bisexual
Looking for, ages 20-70.
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Interests, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Pegging, Roleplay, Sex Toys, Sub

YA FAVORITE BBW WIT THA BUTTERFLY ON THA BOOTY AND THA BEST SLOPPY TOP
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Straight
Looking for, ages 18-90.
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Interests, Anal, BDSM, Body Hair, Couples, Cuckold, Curves, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Feet, Fetish, Group Sex, Mature, Oral, Outdoor Fun, S&M, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Temperature Play, Threesomes, Tickle Play, Webcam

I need to to explore my bi side. As I have been a good girl says I can have a female playmate x
Bisexual
Looking for, ages 35-60.
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Interests, Age play, BDSM, Discreet Meets, Roleplay, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub

I'm 43 years old, living in the Rowell region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 41 and 84.
Straight
Looking for, ages 41-84.
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Interests, Age play, BBW / BHM, BDSM, Body Hair, Couples, Crossdress, Curves, Dirty Talk, Dom, Electro Play, Erotic Fiction, Impact Play, Mature, Pegging, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Voyeurism

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Straight
Looking for, ages 30-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Fetish, Sub

I am only interested in a loyal submissive to have a long term relationship with
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-90.
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Interests, Age Gap, Age play, Anal, ASMR, BDSM, Body Hair, Bukkake, Crossdress, Cuckold, Curves, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Dom, Electro Play, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Fetish, Group Sex, Impact Play, Lace, Leather / Latex, LGBTQIA+, Lingerie, Mature, MILF, Nylons, Oral, Outdoor Fun, S&M, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Temperature Play, Voyeurism, Webcam

Am single and i will love to meet the right man and have fun as well
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 47-90.
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Interests, Sex Toys, Sub

I am submissive , ebony lady with high body drive , fetish and se3ual desires to be pleases and fulfilled , I am looking for a dominant , naughty , wild and sassy Mature male to explore , dominant and love my body
Straight
Looking for, ages 50-90.
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Interests, Age play, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Roleplay, S&M, Sub

Total honesty is key. Also being able to laugh and not take yourself too seriously
Straight
Looking for, ages 28-46.
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Interests, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Pegging, Roleplay, Sex Toys

Am seeking for a male submissive that will obey and be under my foot
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-90.
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Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

I’m 30 years old, living in England, seeking a loyal submissive
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-85.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Fetish, Threesomes

In my world, life bursts with energy and passion. From embracing sports and conquering modeling challenges to creating culinary delights and striking out in bowling alleys, every moment is an adventure. My voice finds freedom in karaoke, and my mornings bloom with invigorating exercises, laying the foundation for a vibrant and health-driven lifestyle. As a dynamic young woman, I weave together the threads of fitness, creativity, and exploration, crafting a life that exudes joy and fulfillment
Straight
Looking for, ages 21-60.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Sex Talk

I always enjoy a faithful relationship and would always prefer having one loyal and humble man to a colony of men/(sub)
Straight
Looking for, ages 39-82.
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Interests, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish

The excitement the rush and the power is what we’re after, down for a low chill meet up. Let us know how you like it in the bedroom give us that thrill
Straight, Bicurious
Looking for, ages 21-45.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Discreet Meets, Full Swap, Soft Swap, Threesomes

Hi we are shane 39 kirsty 36 we are married !.. we would like to meet mf / f who are a genuine couple who are (Not Fake) because we are NOT we just want make friends see were it leads to. we both work a normal day job like going to our local pub 3 gables! for chats play games drink
We love to try new things although that is becoming harder as we have tried quite a few pleasures :)
Looking for females or trans or couple who love to be dominated and understand that sub doesn’t mean weak. We are looking for a healthy relationship where everyone involved can get pleasure and explore their sexual boundaries
Give us a shout and we can see where things take us xxxx
Other, Bicurious
Looking for, ages 18-60.
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Interests, Couples, Cuckold, Dirty talk to me, Discreet Meets, Exhibitionism, Fetish, Full Swap, Group Sex, Outdoor Fun, Roleplay, Send naked pics, Sexual Massage, Soft Swap, Strip on webcam, Tell naughty stories, Threesomes, Video themselves, Voyeurism, Webcam

I like to wear fancy shoes with tall heels, pants that fit snugly, and shirts that make me stand out. It gives me a happy feeling and helps me believe in myself more. This makes me feel like I am in control and sure of myself, which is really important to me.
Straight
Looking for, ages 32-59.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Anal, Dirty Talk, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Mature, Roleplay, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub

I wouldn't want to waste my time with someone who isn't ready for servitude, you shouldn't reach out to me if you are here to woo ladies into your bed
Straight
Looking for, ages 33-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Dom, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, Sex Toys

Feminization, submission, bandage, discipline, chastity, domination, assworship, pussyeating and so many others
Straight
Looking for, ages 21-84.
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Interests, BDSM, Crossdress, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Mature, Roleplay, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub

My man should be devoted to me and our family values. A person with a sincere soul without lies and deception, whom I can fully trust.
Straight
Looking for, ages 41-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Sub

I'm 27 years old, living in the Peterborough region.
I'm interested in meeting a couple or a woman or a man aged between 18 and 38.
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 18-38.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests,

I’m a widow and retired nurse from Leicester. I love water colour painting, visiting art galleries and museums, the cinema, going for walks, watching tv, reading , going out for meals and drinks.
Straight
Looking for, ages 30-49.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Dom, Fetish, Roleplay, Sexual Massage

I'm 27 years old, living in the Kettering region.
I'm interested in meeting a couple or a woman or a man aged between 18 and 47.
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 18-47.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Couples, Cuckold, Discreet Meets, Full Swap, Threesomes

I’m a strong dominant woman who’s looking for a true submissive man who’s ready to be trained, help him explore all of he’s kinky sides and know more of he’s fantasy.
Straight
Looking for, ages 20-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age play, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

We are a couple who love sex and enjoy experiences. We are open minded and kind, no judgment here. We like to get to know people and have a good time.
Bisexual, Bicurious
Looking for, ages 19-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Bukkake, Couples, Discreet Meets, Fetish, Full Swap, Soft Swap, Threesomes, Webcam

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- Manton /
- Stamford /
- Melton Mowbray /
- Stretton /
- Oakham /
- Maryhill /
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