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Straight
Looking for, ages 39-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Dom, Sub

I'm into feet fetish. I'm basically into a lot of kinks. Very open minded
Straight
Looking for, ages 24-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age play, BDSM, Discreet Meets, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Feet, Fetish, Roleplay, S&M, Webcam

I like going to beach,picking the shells of the beach. I smile and laugh a lot, I really enjoy a fun night out, I like go out for dinner, I have excellent taste in restaurants, I like cinemas, and I love nature. I love taking care of my body,
Straight
Looking for, ages 40-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age play

I like people who like to socialize (conversation, dinner, perhaps going to a gallery or concert together, etc.). I am a bisexual male, vers. My wife is straight, but 'bi-comfy'. We usually play singly, sometimes as a couple. If we play as a couple, the man should be bi/bicurious, the woman either bi or straight. I am not particularly kinky. I'm a fairly avid cyclist. I love to walk. I read sci-fi to relax. I prefer people in fairly good to very good shape. I'm not comfortable with someone who is deceiving their partner, e.g., 'single' men on the 'down-low' (or the reverse, for that matter). Also, please do not bother to answer if you are a straight single man or a couple with a straight man uncomfortable being around a male bisexual. *I AM NOT "GENEROUS"!!*
Bisexual, Bicurious
Looking for, ages 40-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests,

I am very open and really interested in serious and worthy person who knows that their rightful place is under my feet, to worship my body, ass and feet.
Straight
Looking for, ages 56-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, S&M, Sex Toys

I'm looking for that distinct older one who will relight the blaze of passion and desire that have been quenched, someone i can confide in and ready to live the bdsm kinky Lifestyle with
Straight
Looking for, ages 37-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age play, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish

consider my self as a strict but also a loving mistress, To me, A male/sub as the case may be has to be 'malleable' You have to be capable of adjusting your self to satisfy your mistress wants , It could mean a different things to peoples depending on the situation, As a good sub, you have to be ready to relinquish your WILL and CONTROL into the hands of your mistress
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-80.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Fetish, Pegging, Sex Toys

I love to go for walks on the beach. I have quite a few likes. I am open to dinner nights and movies as well. I love reading too.
Straight
Looking for, ages 40-75.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Dirty Talk, Mature, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Tickle Play

Fun loving and cheerful personality, I generally stay positive and try to encourage and support the people I care about. I tend to get along well with most people. As far as relationships go, I separated more than a year ago after a very LTR, and I am getting back out there slowly now. I am honest, confident, creative, caring and kinky. Open minded and here for the discovery of meaningful play, that may lead to a more with the right person. I am happily single and really love my life, but I know from experience that I really prefer a relationship with someone special. I am seeking an honest and open minded personality. Someone who has qualities that extend beyond just sexuality. I enjoy good conversation and a good sense of humor. I also hope to find someone who would enjoy fun outdoor activities, beach, boating, hiking, fitness, music, entertainment, good food and travel. That being said, I want someone who matches my desires and passion for pleasure.
Straight
Looking for, ages 47-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

I like being outdoors. I like people around me and life in general.
Straight
Looking for, ages 41-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Discreet Meets, Threesomes, Webcam

I like feminization, bondage, chastity, shemales, panties/lingerie, humiliation, pegging, anal, alot of things really.
Don't like blood, or pain.
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay

We enjoy the outdoors and spending time together and with family. Concerts, four-wheeling, fishing, nature walks, ocean, camping just to name a few.
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 25-51.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Couples, Cuckold, Discreet Meets, Fetish, Full Swap, Soft Swap, Threesomes

What gets us excited is Being in control, taking trips, and having fun with our subs.
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 18-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Dom, Sub

I am a calm and affectionate, very reliable and quite confident, sincere and reasonable, creative and tolerant lady. I am caring, tender, emotional but at the same time purposeful and hard-working. I enjoy my job. I'm really gentle, caring and passionate when I fall in love. I wish to find a right person, my second half to share our lives, feelings and create a loving and solid relationship.
Straight
Looking for, ages 36-74.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Anal, Dirty Talk, Mature, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Threesomes, Webcam

I’m in for fun and sure fun to be with.. let us get to play.. I only need a loving and mature one..
Straight
Looking for, ages 40-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Dom, Pegging, S&M, Sex Toys

Tease me dirty talks caress and romance me kiss my earlobes and make me great
Straight
Looking for, ages 25-80.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Dirty Talk, Lingerie, Mature, Oral, Roleplay, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sexual Massage, Tickle Play

Send me a messages , I’ll catch you up .. Always free to talk
Straight
Looking for, ages 57-86.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Bukkake, Couples, Cuckold, Discreet Meets, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Group Sex, Oral, Outdoor Fun, Threesomes, Voyeurism

The opportunity to serve and be my sub will feel like the ultimate blessing for you. Serving me is a dream come true!!! Only the chosen ones can serve me
Straight
Looking for, ages 24-80.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age play, BDSM, Discreet Meets, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Feet, Fetish, Roleplay, S&M

. Dreaming of sun, sand, and salty air. On a mission to find my own little piece of paradise. I'm passionate about making the most out of every moment. Let's make memories together.
Straight
Looking for, ages 46-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM

I guess my dreams would be is to be happy and have a family my goals in life I want to have a firm for my family one day but that will be a while from now. I guess I want to work on my love life and be happy first.
Straight
Looking for, ages 30-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests,

Ever wanted to date a real-life ninja? Now’s your chance. Just kiddding. Or am I?
Bisexual
Looking for, ages 18-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Couples, Discreet Meets, Dom, Leather / Latex, Outdoor Fun, Roleplay, Sexual Massage, Threesomes

i am going to take you further into submission until i possess your mind, body and soul
Straight
Looking for, ages 40-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Dom, Fetish

Do you craved to belong to a Mistress who will truly own you, know you, teach you, train you? Do you dream of going to the depths of subspace that only a real D/s relationship built on trust can create? Do you wish to serve, obey and be cherished for it? I am highly experienced in D/s relationships and BDSM. I lived many years as a Mistress, I have preferred to be dominant to submissive Male's. I have experience in most BDSM activities from sensual to hardcore. However, now I am ready to find a submissive Male's to train and serve me a submissive who is willing and like to be told what to do I mean one who need this in he's life. I am kind but strict, caring but sadistic, understanding but exacting. I will take the Male I accept far, perhaps farther than he knows is possible. I am only seeking for that one true submissive to get to know and train for an ongoing serious connection. But I will play casually with those who request politely.
Straight
Looking for, ages 30-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Discreet Meets, Dom, Feet, Fetish, S&M

I am a gorgeous dom in search of a loyal and submissive sissy male to bring me pleasure..
Make sure to leave a message ❤️
Straight
Looking for, ages 24-89.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age Gap, Anal, BBW / BHM, BDSM, Body Hair, Bondage, Bukkake, Couples, Crossdress, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Dom, Edging, Electro Play, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Feet, Fetish, Group Sex, Impact Play, Leather / Latex, LGBTQIA+, Lingerie, Mature, MILF, Nylons, Outdoor Fun, Pegging, Petite, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sexual Massage, Temperature Play, Threesomes, Voyeurism, Webcam

I love to be pleased & I like to take control someone who can take the pain and try new things.
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-46.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Dom

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