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Lonelyheart need some fun and love Female 37 from San Jose California, USA

Being treated right, and being cherished and loved


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Looking for, ages 39-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Dom, Sub

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I am a dominant woman So are you here now to submit yourself to me, to serve me?.. Female 37 from California Hot Springs California, USA

I'm into feet fetish. I'm basically into a lot of kinks. Very open minded


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Looking for, ages 24-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Discreet Meets, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Feet, Fetish, Roleplay, S&M, Webcam

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Hello there I’m Elizabeth Schmitt. I’m looking for a serious relationship, and d.. Female 40 from San Francisco California, USA

I like going to beach,picking the shells of the beach. I smile and laugh a lot, I really enjoy a fun night out, I like go out for dinner, I have excellent taste in restaurants, I like cinemas, and I love nature. I love taking care of my body,


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Looking for, ages 40-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play

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I am a very fit academic, bisexual. I am in an open marriage. I do cycling, weig.. Couple 78, 78 from San Francisco California, USA

I like people who like to socialize (conversation, dinner, perhaps going to a gallery or concert together, etc.). I am a bisexual male, vers. My wife is straight, but 'bi-comfy'. We usually play singly, sometimes as a couple. If we play as a couple, the man should be bi/bicurious, the woman either bi or straight. I am not particularly kinky. I'm a fairly avid cyclist. I love to walk. I read sci-fi to relax. I prefer people in fairly good to very good shape. I'm not comfortable with someone who is deceiving their partner, e.g., 'single' men on the 'down-low' (or the reverse, for that matter). Also, please do not bother to answer if you are a straight single man or a couple with a straight man uncomfortable being around a male bisexual. *I AM NOT "GENEROUS"!!*


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Looking for, ages 40-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests,

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Im ready to offer strict, yet sensual domination to all submissives and I genui.. Female 38 from Sacramento California, USA

I am very open and really interested in serious and worthy person who knows that their rightful place is under my feet, to worship my body, ass and feet.


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Im a dominant woman who derives pleasure beyond imagination with sub. Female 35 from San Francisco California, USA

I'm looking for that distinct older one who will relight the blaze of passion and desire that have been quenched, someone i can confide in and ready to live the bdsm kinky Lifestyle with


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I’m looking forward to meet a honest and caring sissy to serve, trained and plea.. Female 31 from San Francisco California, USA

consider my self as a strict but also a loving mistress, To me, A male/sub as the case may be has to be 'malleable'  You have to be capable of adjusting your self to satisfy  your mistress wants , It could mean a different things to peoples  depending on the situation, As a good sub, you have to be ready to relinquish your WILL and CONTROL into the hands of your mistress


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Hey there everyone! I am new here. i am a sound and open minded woman, i am qui.. Female 35 from Sheridan California, USA

I love to go for walks on the beach. I have quite a few likes. I am open to dinner nights and movies as well. I love reading too.


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Hello... My name is Mistress Sarai and I am a sensual, elegant dominant who enjo.. Female 41 from Sacramento California, USA

Fun loving and cheerful personality, I generally stay positive and try to encourage and support the people I care about.  I tend to get along well with most people. As far as relationships go,  I separated more than a year ago after a very LTR, and I am getting back out there slowly now. I am honest, confident, creative, caring and kinky. Open minded and here for the discovery of meaningful play, that may lead to a more with the right person. I am happily single and really love my life, but I know from experience that I really prefer a relationship with someone special. I am seeking an honest and open minded personality. Someone who has qualities that  extend beyond just sexuality. I enjoy good conversation and a good sense of humor. I also hope to find someone who would enjoy fun outdoor activities, beach, boating, hiking, fitness, music, entertainment,  good food and travel. That being said, I want someone who matches my desires and passion for pleasure.


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Im 40 years old, living in the San Francisco region. Female 40 from San Francisco California, USA

I like being outdoors. I like people around me and life in general.


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LOOKING FOR A SUB TO DOMINATE? Female 30 from Santa Clara California, USA

I like feminization, bondage,  chastity,  shemales,  panties/lingerie,  humiliation,  pegging,  anal,  alot of things really. 
Don't like blood, or pain.


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Married couple here looking for a playmate for husband and/or couples for full s.. Couple 31, 31 from Sacramento California, USA

We enjoy the outdoors and spending time together and with family. Concerts, four-wheeling, fishing, nature walks, ocean, camping just to name a few.


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Looking for a sub to fund our lifestyle Couple 23, 23 from Oakland California, USA

What gets us excited is Being in control, taking trips, and having fun with our subs.


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Hey, I’m new here and I am open to anything.. Talk to me I want to make some new.. Female 41 from California Hot Springs California, USA

I am a calm and affectionate, very reliable and quite confident, sincere and reasonable, creative and tolerant lady. I am caring, tender, emotional but at the same time purposeful and hard-working. I enjoy my job. I'm really gentle, caring and passionate when I fall in love. I wish to find a right person, my second half to share our lives, feelings and create a loving and solid relationship.


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Hello I’m sure down for fun with a horny man.. let’s play Female 51 from Santa Clara California, USA

I’m in for fun and sure fun to be with.. let us get to play.. I only need a loving and mature one..


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Down to have a lot of fun and open to whatever Female 41 from San Francisco California, USA

Tease me dirty talks caress and romance me kiss my earlobes and make me great


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Looking for someone to have fun with , leave a contact if you’re interested Female 58 from Santa Clara California, USA

Send me a messages , I’ll catch you up .. Always free to talk


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Lifestyle Dom looking for a male sub for some extremely kinky submissive rolepla.. Female 43 from Sacramento California, USA

The opportunity to serve and be my sub will feel like the ultimate blessing for you. Serving me is a dream come true!!! Only the chosen ones can serve me


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Looking for, ages 24-80. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Discreet Meets, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Feet, Fetish, Roleplay, S&M

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I am real with many positive sides and flaws. I am here because I want to meet a.. Female 49 from San Jose California, USA

. Dreaming of sun, sand, and salty air. On a mission to find my own little piece of paradise. I'm passionate about making the most out of every moment. Let's make memories together.


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Looking for, ages 46-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM

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I love to be close to somebody whether it is in the bed on the couch or wherever Female 31 from Santa Clara California, USA

I guess my dreams would be is to be happy and have a family my goals in life I want to have a firm for my family one day but that will be a while from now. I guess I want to work on my love life and be happy first.


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Looking for, ages 30-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests,

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Rocking the fine line between “classy” and “I can chug a whole soda in 10 second.. Female 27 from San Francisco California, USA

Ever wanted to date a real-life ninja? Now’s your chance. Just kiddding. Or am I?


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Looking for, ages 18-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Couples, Discreet Meets, Dom, Leather / Latex, Outdoor Fun, Roleplay, Sexual Massage, Threesomes

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i am 52y/o dom with over 30 years in the lifestyle seeking sub for discreet hook.. Female 53 from Monterey California, USA

i am going to take you further into submission until i possess your mind, body and soul


Straight

Looking for, ages 40-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Dom, Fetish

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Seeking a wide kinky relationship with an openminded people Female 28 from Stockton California, USA

Do you craved to belong to a Mistress who will truly own you, know you, teach you, train you? Do you dream of going to the depths of subspace that only a real D/s relationship built on trust can create? Do you wish to serve, obey and be cherished for it? I am highly experienced in D/s relationships and BDSM. I lived many years as a Mistress, I have preferred to be dominant to submissive Male's. I have experience in most BDSM activities from sensual to hardcore. However, now I am ready to find a submissive Male's to train and serve me a submissive who is willing and like to be told what to do I mean one who need this in he's life. I am kind but strict, caring but sadistic, understanding but exacting. I will take the Male I accept far, perhaps farther than he knows is possible. I am only seeking for that one true submissive to get to know and train for an ongoing serious connection.  But I will play casually with those who request politely.


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Looking for, ages 30-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Discreet Meets, Dom, Feet, Fetish, S&M

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I am a gorgeous dom in search of a loyal and submissive sissy male to bring me p.. Female 33 from California City California, USA

I am a gorgeous dom in search of a loyal and submissive sissy male to bring me pleasure..
Make sure to leave a message ❤️


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I like to take control and give pain and pleasure then we can switch and have fu.. Female 25 from Sacramento California, USA

I love to be pleased & I like to take control someone who can take the pain and try new things.


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Looking for, ages 18-46. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Dom

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