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Im 25 years old, living in the San Francisco region. Female 26 from San Francisco California, USA

I'm 25 years old, living in the San Francisco region.
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LA lady, Midwest baby with time also spent on the East Coast. I have a career, l.. Female 37 from Los Gatos California, USA

My animal rescue work is what nourishes my heart and soul. I’m very passionate about animal rescue and rights, if money didn’t matter, I’d “work” in rescue full time.

I love being active, learning new things, and spending as much time outside in the sun!


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Am seeking a long term relationship Female 45 from California Hot Springs California, USA

I enjoy reading listening to music and watching movies


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I am joyful and optimistic, and I have an ability to make my man feel better no .. Female 44 from California City California, USA

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am here to find fun and peace looking to find someone who will be special in my .. Female 48 from Santa Clara California, USA

My family owns a cable company. Growing up, my life was full of celebrities, fancy parties. I was never interested in any of that. I believe you do not get the inner peace and happiness from the material things. Since I graduated college, I started helping my family with the investing. I've made quite a lot for my family and myself. As for personalities, I am honest, kind, hardworking, easy-going and cheerful. In relationships I can be really loving and giving and romantic!


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I’m down to anything my duty is to serve you right Female 26 from Sacramento California, USA

I'm 26 years old, living in the Dallas region.
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Looking for my life partner, someone to spend the rest of my life with Female 40 from Santa Clara California, USA

First of all I am looking for a true honest and faithful GENTLEMAN, you never have to impress me with a LIE, never start a relationship out with dishonesty it will not go far. Just be true to yourself and then you will be truthful with me. (yes I have been lied to and cheated on continuously throughout my previous relationship) therefore I am not giving up on finding true love and honesty from a true GENTLEMAN. I have closed that chapter in my life, looking to start my final chapter of love.


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I am Nesha Mewara want to meet a God fearing man here. Female 45 from Walnut Creek California, USA

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Looking for a very specific type of man. If you need to let control go to a wome.. Female 35 from Santa Clara California, USA

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Hey, Lets chat and see where this will lead too Female 34 from San Francisco California, USA

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Im 27 years old, living in the California City region. Female 27 from California City California, USA

I'm 27 years old, living in the California City region.
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Let’s explore that part of you that needs to be explored Female 28 from San Francisco California, USA

I’m a dominant female seeking a submissive male to dominate


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I am a kind and debonair person. There is always a smile on my face. Female 40 from San Jose California, USA

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Im 32 years old, living in the Richmond region. Female 32 from Richmond California, USA

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nothing good comes easy so I always kept looking since I will one day find a man.. Female 49 from California City California, USA

I think my goal in this life is to make people happy and enjoy life. I really enjoy helping others and feeling their gratitude. I am as delicate as a flower, but I need a man who will help this flower grow and bloom. In a relationship, I like to share love and passion and get it from man. I am a kind, easygoing, feminine, lovely woman. I am a very optimistic person and always try to keep calm. I hope we will never argue with my future husband. I am a very cheerful person. I love life and this world. I consider myself as a positive, smiling, attentive, passionate, caring, family-oriented and affectionate woman. I am looking for a partner with whom we can enjoy this life together.


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I am looking for someone who is honest and not into head games. Female 29 from San Francisco California, USA

I'm 29 years old, living in the San Francisco region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 40 and 85.


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Am here for a serious relationship with marriage Female 31 from Union City California, USA

Am kind and caring and like to play with my cat and dog


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Looking for my soulmate and hope you are here? Female 45 from Atherton California, USA

The most important quality I have; I'll tell you when we meet. I can say for sure, I am an optimist. I feel like I'm at the stage in my life when everything should be fine. I am not afraid to make discoveries, to explore something new and unknown for me in feelings and a relationship. I don't want to spend my life alone, I am a cheerful and loving woman, I want to give love and affection! I want and can prove it in real action, perhaps you'll notice it first. Our happiness is in our hands, agree? Less words, more action!


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considerate lovers who understand the importance of mutual respect and consent. .. Couple 27, 43 from Rio Linda California, USA

We’re looking for couples who share our perspective on intimacy and are open to exploring a variety of sexual styles. We appreciate partners who prioritize taking care of themselves physically and emotionally and value open communication. We’re drawn to gentle and considerate lovers who understand the importance of mutual respect and consent. If you enjoy a diverse approach to sex and are open to exploring new experiences, we’d love to hear from you.


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Im 32 years old, living in the Oakland region. Couple 33, 33 from Oakland California, USA

I'm 32 years old, living in the Oakland region.
I'm interested in meeting a transgender person or a man aged between 50 and 90.


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crazy outta this world kinda bitch Female 28 from California Hot Springs California, USA

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I am looking for a right man to love for the rest of my life Female 38 from California City California, USA

What am I looking for? Looks, background and age are not as important as finding someone who is honest, kind and tender, who is full of life and loves to smile and laugh. I am looking for someone who can be an equal partner in a life together. With an equal partner, the joys are twice as good, and the sorrows half as bad!!


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