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considerate lovers who understand the importance of mutual respect and consent. .. Couple 27, 43 from Rio Linda California, USA

We’re looking for couples who share our perspective on intimacy and are open to exploring a variety of sexual styles. We appreciate partners who prioritize taking care of themselves physically and emotionally and value open communication. We’re drawn to gentle and considerate lovers who understand the importance of mutual respect and consent. If you enjoy a diverse approach to sex and are open to exploring new experiences, we’d love to hear from you.


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Looking for, ages 18-38. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Threesomes

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Hi Im looking for a friend first and maybe more later. I want to laugh, dance ex.. Female 61 from Alviso California, USA

Hi Im looking for a friend first and maybe more later. I want to laugh, dance explore this world-just looking for someone to join me


Bisexual

Looking for, ages 55-70. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Dirty Talk

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Looking for a connection and someone to enjoy my time with. Female 39 from Campbell California, USA

Looking to explore and have some fun with someone.


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My name is Traci, I am new to all of this and Im hoping to be able to enjoy my .. Female 42 from Sacramento California, USA

Erotic texting, and foreplay are fascinating to me, I would love to try out and learn new things and try to awaken the longing of passion and pleasure. I would love to be able to have multiple orgasms, I have never had that before.


Bisexual

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Hola somos una pareja amistosa y sencillos buena onda no nos gustan los farsante.. Couple 48, 48 from Stockton California, USA

Quisiéramos hacer un trío con un hombre ya que nunca lo hemos hecho y que sea duradero


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Looking for, ages 47-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Discreet Meets

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I am a very simple person, hope to find a simple man. You dont have to be rich,.. Female 42 from Sacramento California, USA

I am looking for a humble, kind, and traditional man who values love, family, and mutual respect. A man who believes in the power of partnership and cherishes the little moments we can share together. I appreciate someone who is supportive, understanding, and has a strong sense of loyalty. If you're a man with a good heart and a warm smile, who enjoys life's simple pleasures and can appreciate the effort and love that goes into building a relationship, then I would be thrilled to get to know you better. Together, we can explore the world, learn from each other, and create a beautiful, lasting bond.


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Im Juliet im hungry wanna fuck Female 35 from Santa Clara California, USA

want a man who will fuck me and love me like the way i do


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Looking forward to find someone serious Female 38 from San Jose California, USA

I’m a one man type of lady, hoping to find something serious on here.. Build a better life together


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Dominant Lady Seeking a Worthy Submissive Greetings, potential admirers! I am a .. Female 33 from San Francisco California, USA

I am a mistress of value and deserve your total devotion


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I am a very fit academic, bisexual. I am in an open marriage. I do cycling, weig.. Couple 78, 78 from San Francisco California, USA

I like people who like to socialize (conversation, dinner, perhaps going to a gallery or concert together, etc.). I am a bisexual male, vers. My wife is straight, but 'bi-comfy'. We usually play singly, sometimes as a couple. If we play as a couple, the man should be bi/bicurious, the woman either bi or straight. I am not particularly kinky. I'm a fairly avid cyclist. I love to walk. I read sci-fi to relax. I prefer people in fairly good to very good shape. I'm not comfortable with someone who is deceiving their partner, e.g., 'single' men on the 'down-low' (or the reverse, for that matter). Also, please do not bother to answer if you are a straight single man or a couple with a straight man uncomfortable being around a male bisexual. *I AM NOT "GENEROUS"!!*


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Looking for, ages 40-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests,

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I am a Dom in search of a submissive male to explore our sex preferences. Female 37 from Davis California, USA

I want to meet a sub who is willing to submit to me as his mistress play with my body and satisfy me xxxly. Matured minds


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I will really like to see where this leads Female 36 from Atherton California, USA

soft and tender lady who likes adventure and loves to explore new things


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Of course Im not 18 years old, but do you know why women of my age are better?!.. Female 40 from Atherton California, USA

My main hobby is my work, because it not only gives me income, but also pleasure. In my free time, I go in for sports, as well as dancing "High heels" and "Twerk". During the dance, I forget about everything and completely dissolve in them, discovering more femininity and sexuality in myself. Intrigued? .Maybe in the future I will dance just for you, who knows?) I like to travel, watch light erotic films, spend time with people close to me.


Straight

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Smut books have led me here Female 31 from Lodi California, USA

I’ve recently opened the door to all this from all of my smut books. I’m still very new but very open


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Real looking to find fun let’s get it together Female 31 from San Francisco California, USA

I love having fun making new friends serious minded people here


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Always have faith in you and never give up in life Female 36 from Fremont California, USA

I'm single looking for my soulmate i mean someone who's honest and ready to love me for who i am. Am not here for any head games so if you know that's what you're here for please don't message me. Thanks !!!


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Looking to find that one freaky man i can spend the rest of my life with. Female 44 from Santa Clara California, USA

Im a single woman with no partner and very passionate and erotic I enjoy having as much fun as I can and i want to meet the same person


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Seduction served with simplicity and smiles :) Female 33 from Burlingame California, USA

Direct and honest communication stemming from genuine understanding and confidence in one's self.


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I’m a mistress and i give training to submissive male who is ready to submit to .. Female 28 from Campbell California, USA

Will only see experienced subs that are willing and able to please and do anything I said as her MISTRESS.. yes of course


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Hello there I’m Elizabeth Schmitt. I’m looking for a serious relationship, and d.. Female 40 from San Francisco California, USA

I like going to beach,picking the shells of the beach. I smile and laugh a lot, I really enjoy a fun night out, I like go out for dinner, I have excellent taste in restaurants, I like cinemas, and I love nature. I love taking care of my body,


Straight

Looking for, ages 40-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play

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I have been in the lifestyle for 6 years,its something i practice outside my va.. Female 33 from Santa Clara California, USA

when i have my sub for myself alone and he's obeying me the right way i asked him to


Straight

Looking for, ages 40-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys, Sub

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Hello I am new to scene and hope to find a friend who I can trust. Possibly for .. Female 55 from San Francisco California, USA

Nice people and music. I want to explore possibly  being sub to a stable and good hearted man/ disciplinarian .


Straight

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Caring Mummy Dom looking for a healthy and clean sub who is ready to have his de.. Female 47 from San Francisco California, USA

For those submissives out there that truly understand…you are the rarest form of human beings. You are the most beautiful creatures God has placed on this earth. It's in complete submission that you find total freedom. I love the whole psychological element of BDSM. I don't want to have to make you to submit, I want you to submit because you know that you're safe with me. Because you know there is nothing I won't do for you. Because you know that I will walk through fire for you. It is the most beautiful thing in this world. A sub who loves his mistress enough to fully and completely surrender to Her.


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Im a legitimate sovereign goddess Female 25 from American Canyon California, USA

Looking for  that  special older one, who will rekindle the flame of passion and desire that seems to have been lost in my past relationship. Someone willing to assist me and ready to live the alternate kinky BDSM lifestyle with me secretly


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Im 35 years old, living in the Los Angeles region. Female 36 from San Jose California, USA

I'm 35 years old, living in the Los Angeles region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 52 and 97.


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