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experienced dom looking for an occasional BDSM playmate. Female 46 from San Francisco California, USA

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Am here seeking for serious relationship Female 28 from Vallejo California, USA

I am Laura and i am here seeking for serious relationship


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Real looking to find fun let’s get it together Female 31 from San Francisco California, USA

I love having fun making new friends serious minded people here


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Looking for a sub to fund our lifestyle Couple 23, 23 from Oakland California, USA

What gets us excited is Being in control, taking trips, and having fun with our subs.


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As a female dominant on this BDSM site, I am a confident and experienced individ.. Female 52 from Santa Clara California, USA

I’m blonde and powerful, with a commanding presence that demands attention. My voice can be both soothing and demanding, and I know how to use it to get what I want. I have a penchant for dressing in black and purple leather and lace, and I take great pride in my appearance as a woman


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Im mistress Kimberly looking for serious relationship with Sissy Female 33 from San Francisco California, USA

I'm from San Francisco also I make and sell herbal cosmetics


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Yo what’s good? Xoxo I’m new show me around Female 28 from San Francisco California, USA

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The unholy trinity of My wit, skill and ferocity will have you on your hands and.. Female 38 from San Jose California, USA

I go by SanJose Goddess, and addressing me as Mistress is non-negotiable. With few years of expertise as a professional Dominatrix in San Jose, I prioritize authentic encounters over predefined menus. Although I prefer the organic experience, here's a brief overview of my expertise, including Latex fetish and worship, Bondage using various materials (chains, ropes, leather, plastic, etc.), and indulging in Foot fetish and worship, among other skills.


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Married and looking for hookups outside marriage. Female 33 from Sacramento California, USA

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I am a very gentle, feminine, caring woman who is able to make you believe that .. Female 36 from Livermore California, USA

I never initiate conflicts, always try to find a compromise in difficult situations. I realize the value of attending to other people's feelings, I put myself on other's place easily, I never become overly critical and sarcastic with others and I always try to help to my close people. I place much appreciation of traditional family values such as faithfulness, reliability, trust, honesty, consent, sensitiveness, love, respect, security. I am a good listener and interloc! Utor.


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Lonelyheart need some fun and love Female 37 from San Jose California, USA

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Be a good one at whatever you do Female 27 from San Francisco California, USA

Just an exciting lady looking to have some fun and explore


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Hey slave, you found me.Im Exploring boundaries, seeking a submissive connectio.. Female 34 from Sacramento California, USA

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I just want to be adored and spoiled. Female 25 from San Francisco California, USA

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I’m new here to meet new friends and lovers to get to know more Female 37 from Union City California, USA

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I’m a lovely lady with a pure heart ❤️it’s all love Female 33 from Union City California, USA

I’m happy when I make people happy, I do like to have fun as well. I love to draw, and paint. design clothes, sing, play the guitar, drums, bass, violin, and piano. I've been playing music since I was five years old. so music's been a part of My life... forever.


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I get very attached to people and consider this my weakness. Mutual and fulfilli.. Female 49 from Union City California, USA

adequate and fair. I get very attached to people and consider this my weakness. Mutual and fulfilling relationships are important to me. I am ready to change if it makes me a better person than before. Friends are just as important to me, but I am modest and not the life of the party; I don't always feel comfortable in an unfamiliar group. I am very friendly and sweet if I feel positive energy from a person. I love outdoor activities: trekking, hiking, and I dream of climbing mountains. I try to develop diversified, watch documentaries about economics, history, read world news. I have a good understanding of fine art, the nature of French impressionism, one of my favorite artists is Toulouse-Lautrec. I want to develop an environmental project. I like to organize interesting trips. I don't like parties, I lead a healthy lifestyle. I don't smoke or drink alcohol.


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Single lady ready to mingle with a caring man and also i am looking for a long t.. Female 39 from Fremont California, USA

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Every Relationship Is Based On Understanding And I Will Want To Experience Somet.. Female 38 from San Francisco California, USA

Despite my age, I am an open, active woman, free in thoughts and judgments. There is no taboo for me, but freedom, sincerity, feelings, emotions are very valuable. I am straightforward and confident in the goals that I set myself


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I am a professional dominatrix, lifestyle Mistress, and one of the most naturall.. Female 35 from San Francisco California, USA

Authenticity is an essential part of my sessions. My lust for control and my naturally seductive nature equate to intensely atmospheric experiences for everyone involved. I am a firm believer that I should enjoy my time spent with my submissives just as much as they enjoy their time with me, their mistress.
Nothing makes my pulse race quite like having a submissive at my feet; willing to endure whatever I have in store for them for my enjoyment, for my pleasure.
When in my presence, rest assured that you’ll be in safe hands in a judgement-free environment, you are encouraged to discuss your interests in an open and honest manner. I am well-educated, intelligent and understand the complex psychological notions behind the yearning to visit a professional mistress.
This is not simply a job to me, it’s a lifestyle. I am and energetic and caring mistress, and have the necessary experience in order to lead you safely to a place where you can explore your submission without judgement.


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Looking 4 Fun Friends with benefits Female 74 from Oakley California, USA

Anyone wants to play, can be discreet, just looking to have safe fun. Male bi here.


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Im here for you as you are for me .. if Im what you are lookin for send me a p.. Female 40 from Lathrop California, USA

I am divorced (3years ago) a happy single mother of a lovely little baby girl age 4. I am a White Caucasian, I have a light blonde hair, I have a  Hazel eyes, 5' 9", trim 155 lbs. A healthy gentlewoman.


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Looking for fun. I am interested in being a sub, but new to the community Female 33 from Stockton California, USA

33 yo female, Naive but looking for fun, wants to be submissive and follow commands


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Caring Pet looking to take care of Sir Female 47 from Folsom California, USA

Fairly obedient pet with a bad girl streak looking for experienced Dom to mutually push each other’s limits .


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Smut books have led me here Female 31 from Lodi California, USA

I’ve recently opened the door to all this from all of my smut books. I’m still very new but very open


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