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Im a good communicator and believe that trust and respect are essential in any .. Female 40 from Oakland California, USA

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I’m here alway!!! Approach me correct. Female 25 from Turlock California, USA

Taking care of my subs. Loyalty, honesty, trust…
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I’m a supreme dominant mistress who seek a lil kinky sub Female 40 from San Jose California, USA

have been mistress for more than 12 years now and I am an active member of a group of dominant women in the city and all over the world.


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I am a bright, cheerful and successful woman. I am now at a happy age, because m.. Female 34 from California Hot Springs California, USA

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I’m an experienced Beautiful Mistress open to all kinds of kinks sexual activiti.. Female 30 from San Francisco California, USA

I'm 30 years old, living in the San Francisco region.
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Im 32 years old, living in the Oakland region. Couple 33, 33 from Oakland California, USA

I'm 32 years old, living in the Oakland region.
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I am exactly the kind of person who wants to make my other half happy, but I exp.. Female 39 from Union City California, USA

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considerate lovers who understand the importance of mutual respect and consent. .. Couple 27, 43 from Rio Linda California, USA

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Single hoping to meet my dream man on here and i also know that nothing good com.. Female 45 from Atherton California, USA

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Send me a message and maybe we’ll meet up for some under-cover work. Female 35 from Santa Rosa California, USA

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Im 34 years old, living in the Santa Cruz CA Female 50 from Santa Cruz California, USA

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I am searching for someone special and adventurous who would love this type of B.. Female 31 from Fremont California, USA

I'm a dom and I train subs to serve, i am searching for a submissive kinky sub to serve me in a serious long/ short term permanent M/s D/s relationship and he must have a good heart, open minded, truthful, caring, honest, loyal, obedient, respectful, straight, kinky, listens, submissive, etc. Someone special and adventurous who would love this type of BDSM scenario.


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Im here to meeting new people and exploring Female 27 from San Francisco California, USA

I'm very inquisitive and love to explore,what can I say learning never ends


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I am a very fit academic, bisexual. I am in an open marriage. I do cycling, weig.. Couple 78, 78 from San Francisco California, USA

I like people who like to socialize (conversation, dinner, perhaps going to a gallery or concert together, etc.). I am a bisexual male, vers. My wife is straight, but 'bi-comfy'. We usually play singly, sometimes as a couple. If we play as a couple, the man should be bi/bicurious, the woman either bi or straight. I am not particularly kinky. I'm a fairly avid cyclist. I love to walk. I read sci-fi to relax. I prefer people in fairly good to very good shape. I'm not comfortable with someone who is deceiving their partner, e.g., 'single' men on the 'down-low' (or the reverse, for that matter). Also, please do not bother to answer if you are a straight single man or a couple with a straight man uncomfortable being around a male bisexual. *I AM NOT "GENEROUS"!!*


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Sometimes our balance has to be upset and our course reset in order to help us n.. Female 28 from San Jose California, USA

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I am a very gentle, feminine, caring woman who is able to make you believe that .. Female 36 from Livermore California, USA

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Im 38 years old, living in the Plant City region. Female 38 from Talmage California, USA

I'm 38 years old, living in the Plant City region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 23 and 99.


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Im 38 years old, living in the San Jose region. Female 38 from San Jose California, USA

I'm 38 years old, living in the San Jose region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 41 and 93.


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Am young and strong lady who is ready to settle with someone who is ready to set.. Female 50 from Fremont California, USA

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Dominant Lady Seeking a Worthy Submissive Greetings, potential admirers! I am a .. Female 33 from San Francisco California, USA

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Im looking for long term relationship Im Angela new on here, just signed up in.. Female 48 from Santa Clara California, USA

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