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I’m a model, also a great mistress. Just want to meet subs and have fun Female 31 from Bakersfield California, USA

Happy exploring and learning new things. Let’s go on unrivaled BDSM journey’s together


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I think life can never be without a relationship Female 28 from Union City California, USA

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Mistress is here and hopefully to meet a loyal submissive Female 32 from San Jose California, USA

Mistress is special, dominant and hot awaiting her first loyal submissive online.


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As a female dominance on this BDSM dating site I am a confident and experienced .. Female 40 from San Francisco California, USA

Physically I am blind yet powerful with a commanding presence that demands attention. My soft voice can be both soothing and demanding, and I know how to use it to get what I want. I have a penchant for dressing in black leather and lace, and I take great pride in my appearance as a dominant woman.

Mentally, I am intelligent and analytical, with a deep understanding of the psychology of power exchange. I am skilled at reading my partner's body language and non-verbal cues, and I am always looking for ways to push their boundaries and challenge their limits.

In terms of my BDSM interests, I have a wide range of kinks and fetishes that I enjoy exploring with my submissives. From bondage and impact play to humiliation and worship, I know how to create a safe and consensual environment where we can both explore our deepest desires.


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Looking to explore and reconnect with this part of my identity. Female 40 from San Jose California, USA

Hello! Thanks for checking out my profile. I recently separated from my husband who was very vanilla and am looking to reconnect with this side of my identity. Feeling safe is important, please don’t message asking for a random meetup. I need a human connection before meeting. Also, please don’t message me if you live in another state. Only local people, thank you. I look forward to hearing from you!


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Dominance is a trait I find amusing, it is often times misunderstood but if you’.. Female 43 from American Canyon California, USA

I am a dominant woman, and with me you’ll derive pleasure in ways unimaginable, we’ll explore ever there’s to explore..I’m talking to you, yes you.


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Hi handsome how are you doing today my name is Alisa looking for serious relatio.. Female 38 from Union City California, USA

Looking for a long term relationship or soulmate am also here for friends with benefits


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I am a very fit academic, bisexual. I am in an open marriage. I do cycling, weig.. Couple 78, 78 from San Francisco California, USA

I like people who like to socialize (conversation, dinner, perhaps going to a gallery or concert together, etc.). I am a bisexual male, vers. My wife is straight, but 'bi-comfy'. We usually play singly, sometimes as a couple. If we play as a couple, the man should be bi/bicurious, the woman either bi or straight. I am not particularly kinky. I'm a fairly avid cyclist. I love to walk. I read sci-fi to relax. I prefer people in fairly good to very good shape. I'm not comfortable with someone who is deceiving their partner, e.g., 'single' men on the 'down-low' (or the reverse, for that matter). Also, please do not bother to answer if you are a straight single man or a couple with a straight man uncomfortable being around a male bisexual. *I AM NOT "GENEROUS"!!*


Bisexual, Bicurious

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Down to earth for fun ❤️❤️❤️ indoor and outdoor fun Female 26 from Fresno California, USA

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I will really like to see where this leads Female 36 from Atherton California, USA

soft and tender lady who likes adventure and loves to explore new things


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heyyy im Erin and im always kinky Female 18 from San Francisco California, USA

im always horny and kinky ;) You can use me whenever


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Im 43 years old, living in the Tampa region. Female 43 from Atherton California, USA

I'm 43 years old, living in the Tampa region. I'm interested in meeting a submissive sub aged between 40 and 90.


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Let’s embark on an electrifying adventure where pleasure and pain come together,.. Female 44 from San Francisco California, USA

I’m gonna keep it brief. I’ve been kink for quite a while with experiences in a good number of kinks. Right now I crave entering into a kinky routine relationship with a mature mind.


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We can love each other and try new thing with each other I know a mature person .. Female 53 from Red Bluff California, USA

I'm 53 years old, living in the Red Bluff region. I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 55 and 90.


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Im 37 years old, living in the Universal City region. Female 37 from San Jose California, USA

I'm 37 years old, living in the Universal City region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 43 and 85.
I'm White / Caucasian  


Straight

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Wanna be a dominant and have control Female 31 from San Francisco California, USA

Need a loyal and humble sub to have control and willing to serve me all of his life


Straight

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I love to be close to somebody whether it is in the bed on the couch or wherever Female 31 from Santa Clara California, USA

I guess my dreams would be is to be happy and have a family my goals in life I want to have a firm for my family one day but that will be a while from now. I guess I want to work on my love life and be happy first.


Straight

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Im in need of a man that wants to spank me and dominate me Female 64 from Sacramento California, USA

Im fun i have big tits im 5"2 average built. Im looking for an older gentleman who likes to be in control. I want a man that will turn me over his knee and spank me when I talk back or when I'm out of line. I always want to be in control and I need a man to take my control away. I need a good hard spanking


Bisexual

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I’m an experienced Beautiful Mistress open to all kinds of kinks sexual activiti.. Female 30 from San Francisco California, USA

I'm 30 years old, living in the San Francisco region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 60 and 90.


Straight

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We want a unicorn in napa, CA. Couple 29, 36 from Napa California, USA

I want to watch my bf have his way with you then I'll join in


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Just trying to have some freak nasty fun Female 36 from Fairfield California, USA

If I could meet a freak like me I’d die a happy woman


Bisexual

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Looking for fun. I am interested in being a sub, but new to the community Female 33 from Stockton California, USA

33 yo female, Naive but looking for fun, wants to be submissive and follow commands


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I’m a really fun loving lady who loves to explore new things. I am looking for a.. Female 43 from San Francisco California, USA

I love traveling, swimming reading and most importantly the bds world. I love to be with a sub who see's me as his goddess. Who would love to be with me always and love to travel the world with me.


Straight

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I was born and raise in Canada and when i was at the age of 18years old i lost .. Female 31 from San Francisco California, USA

I am not looking for a perfect man, because he will be the BEST for me. He


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I am looking for an older special one who will rekindle the flame of passion and.. Female 30 from San Francisco California, USA

BDSM is my passion and carrier and it colors my entire worldview. I believe in taking rewarding, measured risks and connecting deeply and authentically with people


Straight

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