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I am looking for a serious man Female 39 from New York New York, USA

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Looking for a man who can complete my life someone whos always be there with me.. Female 38 from Maryland Line Maryland, USA

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Am looking for a Responsible man, who is Honest, Kind, Learned, Beautiful at Hea.. Female 42 from Rhodesdale Maryland, USA

I do want to go on with my life and I’ve asked God to bring someone into my life who will want me for me and be good to me because I know that there has to be someone out there for me because his never does anything without a reason even if we can’t figure it out. I know just because the lord has someone else in mind for me to share the rest of my life with because he doesn’t want us to be alone or lonely.I think showing affection in public is part of the acceptance of a relationship, Public intimacy is my thing. I miss that though. I like to held and to walk while holding my hand still, it's fun I guess.


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I am a pretty silly girl, so a lot of people are surprised Female 42 from New York New York, USA

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My experience in the Domination scene started at the age of 19 for Me, I had alw.. Female 30 from Trenton New Jersey, USA

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I’m single lovely, romantic, caring and understanding. Female 40 from Maryland Line Maryland, USA

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Im 39 years old, living in the New York region. Female 40 from New York New York, USA

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Am easy going black African American single mom . Have good sense of humor Female 40 from Bronx New York, USA

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I am ready to dominate who ever is willing to submit to me, let’s explore and en.. Female 41 from New York New York, USA

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BBW submissive Limited experience, have put my toe in the water. Have limited tr.. Female 63 from Penns Grove New Jersey, USA

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Hi lydia here looking for a serious relationship Female 43 from Cherry Hill New Jersey, USA

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