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Am an open book ask me anything Female 50 from Emmaus Pennsylvania, USA

Am an honest woman searching for the same thing ,i dont  lie or cheat ...


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I am here for a honest man that can treat me as a queen Female 46 from Newark New Jersey, USA

You can ask me everything you want to know about me


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Seeking meaningful connections Female 49 from New York New York, USA

Oi... people please read b4 messaging Female, experienced, employed, serious, and seeking like minded others.  NOT here for casual sex, can get that anywhere. Deeper connections preferred.   Will sub to the RIGHT Dom, but seeking those who live to serve.  Don't be boring if you message me, at least TRY to get my attention. Very open minded to many forms of kink. Oh yeah, DON'T be married unless you both cum as a package  otherwise I don't play that way.  Open to POSSIBLE long-term, live ins, 24/7 lifestyle if you prove to be a potential candidate to serve this house (for this seeking those younger than me), however not holding my breath for that.  I am not needy so I can be picky. I have been wronged b4 so trust will not come easily.  I will expect to meet in person if you show promise, not into online time wasting.  Really just want to find my people I can be free and have fun with, go to bdsm parties with or just hang out and enjoy some non-vanilla life.


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52 yo female looking for male friendship & more Female 53 from Franklin New Hampshire, USA

I love the male body. Summertime.  Music. Sweat. Being active. Sex. Good food .


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Dominant female hoping to find her loyal sub Female 46 from Bronx New York, USA

I'm 47, hoping to find my submissive male. I would like a  sub in the bedroom and a vanilla man outside of the bedroom to  be  my partner. Please be respectful at all times xx


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Parejas en busca de diversión Couple 47, 49 from New York New York, USA

Una pareja hispana con deseo de encontrar diversión


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Recently realized i love being a sub to a giving and kind dom. I am in need of .. Female 35 from Newark Delaware, USA

I am 5’10”, 165lbs
I just want a man that is kind but has a firm hand when it comes to being my sexual master.  I still need more training, and i want it!   I need a man who is willing to degrade me and treat me like a lady.   Pics upon request.


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Hello, first timer here! Lets explore together Female 60 from Bronx New York, USA

Older lady seeking dom- black, retired, dreads, dimple in my left cheek!


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I am a pain sex slut. Cum play with me. I will greet you at the door completly n.. Female 60 from Enfield Connecticut, USA

I greet you at the door completly naked so you can inspect me. Than I kneel down so you can urinate or cum in my mouth.


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Im 41 years old, living in the Glasgow region. Female 41 from New York New York, USA

I'm 41 years old, living in the Glasgow region.
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Im 38 years old, living in the Tarrytown region. Female 38 from Tarrytown New York, USA

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Im 47 years old, living in the Allentown region. Couple 47, 47 from Allentown Pennsylvania, USA

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Im a switch woman that gets excited training subs and also a good girl for dadd.. Female 46 from Jersey City New Jersey, USA

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I see myself as an intelligent, sensitive woman with a big kind heart and a brig.. Female 47 from Philadelphia Pennsylvania, USA

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Im 28 years old, living in the Florida region. Female 28 from Florida New York, USA

I'm 28 years old, living in the Florida region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 18 and 99.


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Lifestyle mistress not a prodomme Female 38 from Newark New Jersey, USA

Much like a drug, I find that indulging my assertive side results in an increased compulsion to dispense domination. The more I indulge, the more I crave.I enjoy many aspects of domination, from acts of humiliation to worship and sensual torment. I am fully versed in all areas of BDSM play and I am a firm believer that I should enjoy my time spent with my sub just as much as he enjoys his time with me.Nothing makes my pulse race quite like having a submissive at my feet; willing to endure whatever I have in store for them for my enjoyment, for my pleasure.When in my presence,


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Hello , looking for me? I can be your controller. Female 35 from Florida New York, USA

I am new to all of this I am sure you can ask me anything I promise to me honest and sincere with you.  I am a single mother and I believe in love at first sight


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Naughty and fun, ready to play and be played with Female 26 from Florida New York, USA

Open minded about anything enjoyable and fun, wanna play and be played with


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Compassionate, focused, understanding and patient teacher for newbies and a firm.. Female 42 from New York New York, USA

I am a DOMINANT woman, who enjoys training men on how to be a loyal and submissive man, ready to please his partner and how to live the alternate BDSM lifestyle


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Professional dominant couple looking for submissive female for ploy relationship.. Couple 40, 41 from New York New York, USA

We are an open book, ask and we shall tell. We love adventure, traveling, dining and shopping.


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I am looking for that older special one ready to live that alternate BDSM kinkiy.. Female 25 from New York New York, USA

Smell of flowers and my lovely set of tools to keep in calm in pleasure


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Improve Your Memory in Just 5 Minutes Per Day Female 37 from Auburn Maine, USA

I enjoy exercising daily which either involves weight training or aerobics. I think it is important to exercise and eating very healthy meals.


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I’m seeking for a submissive and a loyal sub train and make him enjoy this beaut.. Female 40 from Burlington, Vermont

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SEEKING FOR A SUB TO DOMINATE? Female 30 from New York New York, USA

’t like pain too much and definitely not into gore or I like feminization, bondage,  chastity,  shemales,  panties/lingerie,  humiliation,  pegging,  anal,  alot of things really. 
Don't like blood, or pain.


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Just a girl that loves to get spoilt Female 24 from Florida New York, USA

I'm 24 years old, living in the Florida region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 20 and 30.


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