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looking for my heart desire to love Female 39 from New York New York, USA

I am a person who is positive about every aspect of life. There are many things I like to do, to see, and to experience. I like to read, I like to write; I like to think, I like to dream; I like to talk, I like to listen. I like to see the sunrise in the morning, I like to see the moonlight at night; I like to feel the music flowing on my face, I like to smell the wind coming from the ocean. I like to look at the clouds in the sky with a blank mind, I like to do thought experiment when I cannot sleep in the middle of the night. I like flowers in spring, rain in summer, leaves in autumn, and snow in winter. I like to sleep early, I like to get up late; I like to be alone, I


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Looking for love and Romance Female 40 from New York New York, USA

I am kind and honest and fun to be with and very active and ambitious. I hang around people who are respectful of others that can be trusted and enjoy helping people through difficult times. I am known as a hard worker but I also play hard and have a good sense of humor. I am a romantic person who enjoys going to the movies or having dinner next to the beach as I love to travel.


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I am a bright blonde with a wonderful sense of humor. I hope that you like to sm.. Female 39 from Utica New York, USA

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All I am doing in life, I am doing with great passion. I believe that life is a .. Female 46 from Washington New Jersey, USA

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A woman who values both beauty and open-mindedness is looking for a fun and exci.. Female 44 from Plymouth Massachusetts, USA

An experienced mistress who is actively searching for a male partner who shares a genuine enthusiasm for exploring our shared fetish preferences. This journey of exploration is not only an opportunity for us to indulge in their desires but also a chance to forge a deep, trusting connection with a like-minded individual.


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As a female dominant on this BDSM dating site, I am a confident and experienced .. Female 40 from Florida New York, USA

Physically, I am blonde yet powerful, with a commanding presence that demands attention.
My soft voice can be both soothing and demanding, and I know how to use it to get what I want. I have a penchant for dressing in black leather and lace, and I take great pride in my appearance as a dominant woman.


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Mujer de 51 años en busca de una relacion estable Female 51 from Florida New York, USA

Me gustaria encontrar un hombre sincero, que sea bueno, que me quiera y me respete


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Dominant Female seeking a submissive sub ready to obey and serve mistress at her.. Female 40 from Pennsburg Pennsylvania, USA

Hoping to get a satisfying encounter here. Only serious sub are wanted. Excited to see where it leads newbies are also free to interact with mistress for a training section


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Am here my name is Cindy and want to get a match Female 45 from Philadelphia Pennsylvania, USA

Hi there am new on here my name is Cindy and here for a matured man


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I am a strict and dominant Mistress i am looking for a sub thats ready to be ta.. Female 33 from Manchester New Hampshire, USA

If you are a professional and have been handling training, you will leave your ideas behind and live under my total dominant reign of terror. Terror in the sense that I am not ready for excuses!!! I want to use my sub as a slut, low life and object of degradation. If you have to come under me, you have to make up your mind to be TOTALLY dedicated to me, to one wn and use  you as my property ,heart ,body and soul. You should have it ringing in your head constantly that serving me is an opportunity to have a life under my SUPREME DOMINATION because my knowledge of you and your body is perfect and my use for it is DOUBLE what you can ever imagine, . you will enjoy every moment IF I TAKE THE LEAD with no complaints and no arguments. To my amusement, I will sexually tease you, train you and pamper you depending on your response to my SUPREME power.


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Looking for a sexy man to keep me cum and wet Female 50 from New Haven Connecticut, USA

Looking for a man to stay with me fucking me as he own my pussy you can hit me up if you’re interested to exchange pictures with me aside from here


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I am a passionate woman and l love to be affectionate. Female 48 from Philadelphia Pennsylvania, USA

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Hi, Im laura, am new here and Im happy to be here. Female 34 from Milford, Pennsylvania

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IM A DOM SEEKING FOR A SUBMISSIVE TO OWN AND TRAIN AS MINE Female 29 from Providence Rhode Island, USA

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I am looking for a submissive whose desire to yield control mirrors my own desir.. Female 29 from Newark New Jersey, USA

I am looking for a submissive whose desire to yield control mirrors my own desire
to have control


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Bright appearance and temperament - yes, its about me! Life is beautiful and am.. Female 54 from Philadelphia Pennsylvania, USA

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I am looking for that special older one who will rekindle the flame of passion a.. Female 50 from Trenton New Jersey, USA

I’m a Dominant woman, who is looking for a submissive grow into a 24/7 with deep mental and physical domination. A1950’s household dynamic. I don't have time to waste and I have simple and logical transition, which I'd be happy to share. it is reasonable and cuts out the BS. My ideal sub is 50 and older yrs, mature, articulate, and needs to submit. You must be 100% enthusiastic and engaged. Training includes poses, positions, kneeling, commands, servitude, rules, and daily expectations.

I fundlementaly expect to achieve deep Trust, Communication, Safety, Commitment, and Growth (personally, professionally, sexually and more). All fetishes, desires and fantasies are welcomed. Some of mine are listed but this is an evergreen process between two partners.

THIS IS NOT A SHORT-TERM COMMITMENT


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I enjoy kinks, fetish, and making you feel worthless. I want a completely devote.. Female 45 from Bayville New Jersey, USA

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Looking for awesome vibes and friendship and fun fun. Couple 46, 46 from Browns Mills New Jersey, USA

I'm thick with a high sex drive and a squirter hehe   hubby dad bod shy at first. But very respectful man.


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I urge you all today, especially today during these times of chaos and war, to l.. Female 28 from Newark New Jersey, USA

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Let’s explore get mild and wild Female 45 from Pennsville New Jersey, USA

Well i love going out for camping... swimming , fishing , boats, hunting ,nice  music , movies , love to cook , love taking a longs walk on the lake, I’m a mistress and looking for a honest sub and sometimes been a switch when I find a good DOm master . Let’s explore


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Im cool and honest person Im new on here can I meet a honest person here Female 33 from New York New York, USA

I'm Anna I'm cool I do interior design I'm 32 single


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Im 39 years old, living in the Providence region. Female 39 from Providence Rhode Island, USA

Anything fun get me excited , going to the movies hiking etc


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Miss Laura is open and ready to teach willing subs the way of BDSM Female 50 from New Haven Connecticut, USA

Miss Laura is strict but yet loving Don that knows how to discipline and love her sub


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Im 41 years old, living in the Union City region. Female 41 from Union City New Jersey, USA

I'm 41 years old, living in the Union City region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 44 and 78.


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