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1 am a dominant woman, and I'll be training you on how to be a loyal and submissive sub, ready to please his goddess and how to live the alternate lifestyle.
Straight
Looking for, ages 48-88.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age play, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, S&M, Sex Toys, Sub

Am easy going and am looking for an easy going person that can be my dom
Straight
Looking for, ages 32-90.
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Interests, BDSM, Fetish, Sex Toys, Sub

We love the outdoors and traveling around New England. Ask us whatever you'd like
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 18-62.
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Interests, Cuckold, Full Swap, Threesomes

I am an experienced b*sm mistress, and sub trainer
Straight
Looking for, ages 49-88.
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Interests, BDSM

I love music and thematic musical performances. I also love theatre, opera, visiting art galleries and exhibitions. I enjoy travelling, especially to historical places. My relaxation is often active - swimming, walking, camping. But I will not refuse reading a good book or watching an interesting movie. And my one more passion is cooking and baking
Straight
Looking for, ages 42-89.
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Interests, Outdoor Fun

Romantic, Lover, Foreplay, Jokes, kindness and lot of loyalty
Bisexual
Looking for, ages 41-90.
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Interests, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Roleplay, S&M

I'm 45 years old, living in the Elizabeth region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 44 and 87.
Straight
Looking for, ages 44-87.
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Interests, Age play, BBW / BHM, Couples, Crossdress, Dom, Feet, Group Sex, Impact Play, Leather / Latex, LGBTQIA+, Roleplay, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Temperature Play, Tickle Play, Webcam

I am here to satisfy your deepest cravings; simply pledge your devotion to me and surrender yourself to gratifying me, allowing me to transform your fantasies into blissful reality.
Straight
Looking for, ages 43-90.
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Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

A Lifestyle preponderant Pro who loves to train, teach and give amateurs introduction and meaning to the BDSM Lifestyle, A sub who bows loves and stays faithful to his owner no matter the cause. Put forth your neck for your Lifestyle Mistress.
Straight
Looking for, ages 35-80.
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Interests, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish

If you are a professional and have been handling training, you will leave your ideas behind and live under my total dominant reign of terror. Terror in the sense that I am not ready for excuses!!! I want to use my sub as a slut, low life and object of degradation. If you have to come under me, you have to make up your mind to be TOTALLY dedicated to me, to one wn and use you as my property ,heart ,body and soul. You should have it ringing in your head constantly that serving me is an opportunity to have a life under my SUPREME DOMINATION because my knowledge of you and your body is perfect and my use for it is DOUBLE what you can ever imagine, . you will enjoy every moment IF I TAKE THE LEAD with no complaints and no arguments. To my amusement, I will sexually tease you, train you and pamper you depending on your response to my SUPREME power.
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-74.
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Interests, Anal, BDSM, Bondage, Dom, Fetish, Leather / Latex, Pegging, Sub

i am always super excited anytime i see the sunrise. becuz i believe today will be a good day. i like to be active and tend to find the humor in life. it's my feeling that people need adventure laughter and passion.... let's talk and see where life take us.
Straight
Looking for, ages 42-85.
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Interests, BDSM, Dirty Talk, Outdoor Fun, Petite, Sex Talk

I don't need a perfect man. I want to be near someone who can be trusted, who can protect me and with whom I can be real. I dream of meeting a strong man and it's not about muscles.
Straight
Looking for, ages 39-71.
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Interests, BDSM, Couples, Fetish, Webcam

Being in the lifestyle off and on for close to 20 years has afforded me much in the way of finally being comfortable with the fact I am a Sadist. For a long time I ignored that part of me; I no longer do. Mind you, I am not a hardcore Sadist, more on the lines of sensual sadism. Exquisite pain is damn erotic. Sadism is not a defining factor. There are many layers to unfold and enjoy; to sensually working you up to the precipice of an orgasm, only to deny you that privilege, to Queening you. I can be loving.
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-85.
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Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, Sex Toys

I seek a lil lost kinky SUB who will love honor worship serve & obey me that¡¯s in need of training discipline punishment pleasure love guidance control protection!
Straight
Looking for, ages 45-90.
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Interests, BDSM, Discreet Meets, Sex Talk, Sexual Massage

I am a mistress looking for a dedicated sub willing to sub
Straight
Looking for, ages 29-90.
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Interests, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, S&M, Sex Toys

I am ready to to dominate who ever is willing to submit to me , let’s explore and enjoy the kinky side of this lifestyle, bondage and submission is the dream but I choose to dominate.I’m a honest and trustworthy woman not in for games.
Straight
Looking for, ages 25-60.
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Interests, Age play, BDSM, Dom, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, Sex Toys

I'm goofy and kinky.. let's have fun on discreet agreement
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-85.
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I like to have an active life. I go to the gym, swim, travel. I also like to make my house very nice and comfortable, clean, cozy.
Straight
Looking for, ages 37-90.
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Interests, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Sex Toys, Sub

The role of the submissive appears to be somewhat simpler, but in actuality, the sub plays a large role in shaping the B&D relationship. The sub’s primary role is to follow her Mistress directions and to please the Mistress Being submissive does not mean that the sub is a doormat for the Mistress The sub is the Mistress companion, his student, and his lover.
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-90.
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Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, Sex Toys, Sub

lol I prefer communicating with me straight is the best option
Straight
Looking for, ages 45-90.
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Interests, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage

i love money and making it! im
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Straight
Looking for, ages 40-70.
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Interests, Dom

I'm 25 years old, living in the California region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 44 and 82.
Straight
Looking for, ages 44-82.
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Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

I'm Janice i am new on this dating site looking for the right man to share my feelings with and see where it leads to for good, i like cooking, going to beach, fishing, camping, traveling, watching movies, listen to music and love dancing
Straight
Looking for, ages 29-90.
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Me gustaria encontrar un hombre sincero, que sea bueno, que me quiera y me respete
Straight
Looking for, ages 52-66.
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Interests,

I’m a Dominant woman and I get excited whenever my sub or slut serves and worship me in a loyal and submissive way
Straight
Looking for, ages 20-70.
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Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

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