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I am looking for that special older one who will rekindle the flame of passion a.. Female 31 from Bronx New York, USA

1 am a dominant woman, and I'll be training you on how to be a loyal and submissive sub, ready to please his goddess and how to live the alternate lifestyle.


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Am a submissive woman looking for a dom I can serve and treat right Female 36 from Cape May New Jersey, USA

Am easy going and am looking for an easy going person that can be my dom


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Hi, were new to this. Come say hi :) Couple 38, 32 from Ludlow Massachusetts, USA

We love the outdoors and traveling around New England. Ask us whatever you'd like


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Im open to anything positive and interesting Female 45 from New York New York, USA

I am an experienced b*sm mistress, and sub trainer


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I am a romantic and cheerful girl with whom you will never be bored. I love an a.. Female 49 from Philadelphia Pennsylvania, USA

I love music and thematic musical performances. I also love theatre, opera, visiting art galleries and exhibitions. I enjoy travelling, especially to historical places. My relaxation is often active - swimming, walking, camping. But I will not refuse reading a good book or watching an interesting movie. And my one more passion is cooking and baking


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No perfectionist but been real all that matter, just show you worthy of me Female 40 from Boston Massachusetts, USA

Romantic, Lover, Foreplay, Jokes, kindness and lot of loyalty


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Im 45 years old, living in the Elizabeth region. Female 46 from Elizabeth New Jersey, USA

I'm 45 years old, living in the Elizabeth region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 44 and 87.


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I am a seductive and alluring woman in search of a devoted sub ready to explore .. Female 52 from Annapolis Maryland, USA

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Worthy to try, I like the BDSM Lifestyle Female 34 from Albany New York, USA

A Lifestyle  preponderant Pro who loves to train, teach and give amateurs introduction and meaning to the BDSM Lifestyle, A sub who bows loves and stays faithful to his owner no matter the cause. Put forth your neck for your Lifestyle Mistress.


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I am a strict and dominant Mistress i am looking for a sub thats ready to be ta.. Female 33 from Manchester New Hampshire, USA

If you are a professional and have been handling training, you will leave your ideas behind and live under my total dominant reign of terror. Terror in the sense that I am not ready for excuses!!! I want to use my sub as a slut, low life and object of degradation. If you have to come under me, you have to make up your mind to be TOTALLY dedicated to me, to one wn and use  you as my property ,heart ,body and soul. You should have it ringing in your head constantly that serving me is an opportunity to have a life under my SUPREME DOMINATION because my knowledge of you and your body is perfect and my use for it is DOUBLE what you can ever imagine, . you will enjoy every moment IF I TAKE THE LEAD with no complaints and no arguments. To my amusement, I will sexually tease you, train you and pamper you depending on your response to my SUPREME power.


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Are you looking for the love of your life? Female 32 from Atlantic City New Jersey, USA

i am always super excited anytime i see the sunrise.  becuz i believe today will be a good day. i like to be active and tend to find the humor in life. it's my feeling that people need adventure laughter and passion.... let's talk and see where life take us.


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Im open to anything let take a chance if you dont mind.. Female 40 from Worcester Massachusetts, USA

I don't need a perfect man. I want to be near someone who can be trusted, who can protect me and with whom I can be real. I dream of meeting a strong man and it's not about muscles.


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My limit is anything I don’t like Female 28 from Florida New York, USA

Being in the lifestyle off and on for close to 20 years has afforded me much in the way of finally being comfortable with the fact I am a Sadist. For a long time I ignored that part of me; I no longer do. Mind you, I am not a hardcore Sadist, more on the lines of sensual sadism. Exquisite pain is damn erotic. Sadism is not a defining factor. There are many layers to unfold and enjoy; to sensually working you up to the precipice of an orgasm, only to deny you that privilege, to Queening you. I can be loving.


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I’m mistress Kate and I need a serious submissive sissy for long training and l.. Female 41 from Pennsburg Pennsylvania, USA

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I am a mistress looking for a dedicated sub willing to sub Female 38 from California Maryland, USA

I am a mistress looking for a dedicated sub willing to sub


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Looking for an ideal slutboy ❤️ Female 27 from New York New York, USA

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A dog lover, and a fun lover.. my full session includes erotic, lick-eat, & GFE,.. Female 28 from Newark New Jersey, USA

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I am a kind, gentle, nice, very active, purposeful, cheerful woman. I have a goo.. Female 36 from Pennsburg Pennsylvania, USA

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Hello there, mistress Lammy is seeking sub to train Female 53 from Jersey City New Jersey, USA

The role of the submissive appears to be somewhat simpler, but in actuality, the sub plays a large role in shaping the B&D relationship. The sub’s primary role is to follow her Mistress directions and to please the Mistress Being submissive does not mean that the sub is a doormat for the Mistress The sub is the Mistress companion, his student, and his lover.


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I’m down to earth , I dont like to argue, fight or confrontations. I believe th.. Female 41 from Bronx New York, USA

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looking for my new handsome pay pig! Female 21 from Philadelphia Pennsylvania, USA

i love money and making it! im
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I love it naughty and fantastic Female 25 from California Maryland, USA

I'm 25 years old, living in the California region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 44 and 82.


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Looking for right man to share with Female 46 from Providence Rhode Island, USA

I'm Janice i am new on this dating site looking for the right man to share my feelings with and see where it leads to for good, i like cooking, going to beach, fishing, camping, traveling, watching movies, listen to music and love dancing


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Mujer de 51 años en busca de una relacion estable Female 51 from Florida New York, USA

Me gustaria encontrar un hombre sincero, que sea bueno, que me quiera y me respete


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I’m an independent woman looking,living alone in my self owned world Female 34 from New York New York, USA

I’m a Dominant woman and I get excited whenever my sub or slut serves and worship me in a loyal and submissive way


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