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Looking for love in all the wrong places... Female 36 from New York New York, USA

Nice girl with a naughty streak. Looking for real and right; not just right now. This is the last place I'd expect to find that, but you never know unless you try. Kindness, intellect, a sense of humor, and the ability to hold a conversation beyond the sexual are a must. Chivalry and sarcasm are a bonus.

A bit of a nerd, introvert and book worm, I am slow to warm up,  but all the best things in life are worth waiting for. I'm not the life of any parties, but looking for someone who makes me want to go to some. I love the theatre (and sometimes come late), travel, exploration, animals, amusement parks, arcades and board games and a plethora of other things... many of which covid has sadly done a number on.

My interest in the world of BDSM, and particularly submission and control, is confined to the bedroom and other such parameters. I otherwise very much enjoy freedom.


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Looking for, ages 30-49. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Roleplay, Sub

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am a switch i can be submissive and dominate depending on who i am with ...i lov.. Female 38 from New York New York, USA

submissive Kind loving and Hard-working lady looking to meet new friends. Please note that you will have to pay for my travels am not into splitting bills or meeting halfway if you want to see me and meet me, we must have an Agreement.


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I am looking for that special older one who will rekindle the flame of passion a.. Female 31 from Bronx New York, USA

1 am a dominant woman, and I'll be training you on how to be a loyal and submissive sub, ready to please his goddess and how to live the alternate lifestyle.


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Am a professional dominatrix seeking a submissive sub Female 32 from Boston Massachusetts, USA

All submissive sub come to mommy let proceed and get your kinky done subs slut


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Ready or Not? here i come, you cant hide Female 42 from Newburgh New York, USA

I am loving, honest, kind and i would like to meet some one like me


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Exploring Lifes Mysteries and Seeking My Partner in Crime. Female 43 from Providence Rhode Island, USA

Free- spirited adventurer seeking a partner for thrilling escapades. Passionate about exploring new horizons, indulging in diverse cuisines, and engaging in deep conversations. If you're open-minded, adventurous, and ready for unforgettable experiences, let's embark on this exciting journey together.


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I’m looking forward to meeting someone Female 43 from Wiscasset Maine, USA

I’m looking for a serious relationship who can meet up


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I am new to this internet stuff and i would love to explore and see what is out .. Female 40 from Newark New Jersey, USA

I am new to this internet stuff and i would love to explore and see what is out there,,I  an looking for some adult fun and some sex..I am tired of being single course life life is too short and we need to have an affair now..?


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just wanna be happy again with the true love of my life Female 47 from Medford Massachusetts, USA

I am self-sufficient, independent, passionate and honest, family friends are very important to me. They would describe me as sweet, sensitive and compassionate.


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I am a cheerful woman with a good sense of humor who can and wants to love. I kn.. Female 42 from New York New York, USA

I am looking for a man who knows how to appreciate a woman as a person and has wisdom in life. I believe that a real man will never shout at a woman. I sincerely believe that any problem can be solved simply by discussing it in a calm tone. I am looking for a man who just wants to be happy, honest and sincere. It would be so nice to laugh together at funny things, that is why his sense of humor will be a good present for me


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Im Kate, a very kinky and dominant woman seeking submissive ones Female 36 from Jersey City New Jersey, USA

I'm open to lots of fantasies which include taking new submissive ones... Introducing you to a new world will be my pleasure


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Greeting, Looking for a companion.. Female 41 from Foxboro Massachusetts, USA

I need serious, responsible, self-sufficient, confident and knows what he wants in life man. what would I feel like a stone wall, protected.


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Widowed, health and laid back woman ,I live alone except for my pet. Say Hi I do.. Female 40 from Basking Ridge New Jersey, USA

very productive during weekdays and some netflix and chill with a happy ending after


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Am a very sweet person . Hard working vans love to enjoy life. Life is always be.. Female 28 from New York New York, USA

Am very easy going person. Very respectful. Caring. Understanding. Honest . Sweet and love to love and be loved


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Single angel looking for my guidance Female 41 from Newark New Jersey, USA

Single lady looking for happiness Let’s flirt together ! Hit me up


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I am a Dom that believes in love Female 54 from New Haven Connecticut, USA

I am a DOMINANT woman, who enjoys training  men on how to be a loyal and submissive man, ready to please his partner and how to live the alternate BDSM lifestyle. I've led the BDSM lifestyle for years now, i am not into blood or any form of permanent markings or bruises, i am not into much pain at all, rather, I like the kinky role play, bondage play, pussy worship, foot worship, and other special ways at pleasuring one's partner. My main aim is to derive pleasure in ways unexplainable. There's so much to this lifestyle I want to show to my potential Sub/Slave. All I want is your obedience and loyalty, and above all, your submission to me as your mistress.


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Im 47 years old, living in the Florida region. Female 47 from Florida New York, USA

I'm 47 years old, living in the Florida region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 50 and 90.


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Descobridora de coisas novas. Aproveitar esse mundo Female 47 from Boston Massachusetts, USA

O controle o domínio a servidão o poder de estar nas mãos sem poder decidir


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Im very lovely, intelligent, cheerful and thoughtful girl. Sometimes I can be s.. Female 56 from Woonsocket Rhode Island, USA

I spend time interesting, fun and helpful. I love sports and travel, pleasant leisure and photographing new beautiful places. I like to know new places and new people


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Looking for a sexy man to keep me cum and wet Female 50 from New Haven Connecticut, USA

Looking for a man to stay with me fucking me as he own my pussy you can hit me up if you’re interested to exchange pictures with me aside from here


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IM A DOMINANT GODDESS SEEKING FOR A SUBMISSIVE TO OWN AND TRAIN AND EXPLORE WIT.. Female 30 from Concord New Hampshire, USA

I’m into  feminization, bondage,  chastity,  pussy worship, Ass face sitting, Role play, Ass licking, panties/lingerie,  humiliation,  pegging,  crossdresser, trampling,  cuckold submissive alot of things real
My limit are like blood,  faeces ,  or extreme pain.


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Mistress Juana looking for obedience sub for training Female 33 from Florida New York, USA

Mistress love obedient sub that will obey me and make me happy


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Love making new friends Lets have fun Female 23 from Lakehurst New Jersey, USA

I've got sweet vibes
And also fun to be with


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Dominant seeking for a submissive sub Female 28 from Pleasantville New Jersey, USA

I'm a dominate mistress looking for loyal submissive obedient understand sub to own and coller on


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Me and my husband would like to try new things Couple 50, 53 from Scarsdale New York, USA

We are down for wat ever with the right people amd


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