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Im 38 years old, living in the Newark region. Female 38 from New York New York, USA

I'm 38 years old, living in the Newark region.
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I’m a good lady good person good woman strict but fair with firm hand great kiss.. Female 27 from Wellesley Massachusetts, USA

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I am looking for that special one who will rekindle the flame of passion and des.. Female 30 from Philadelphia Pennsylvania, USA

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I am a very open, cheerful, good woman. I hope to find here a serious man with w.. Female 33 from New York New York, USA

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Single lady searching for a serious and long lasting relationship Female 40 from Boston Massachusetts, USA

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I will not accept anything less than your absolute submission and trust, which I.. Female 39 from Wilmington Delaware, USA

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I like honest people with whom I can laugh heartily and just talk for hours with.. Female 39 from North Bergen New Jersey, USA

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There a lot of fish in the river but the Golden one is the best Female 33 from Florida New York, USA

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Hi how are you doing dear friends Female 42 from Florida New York, USA

Looking for someone real to give a try with and see


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am looking for that special older one who will rekindle the flame of passion and.. Female 33 from Califon New Jersey, USA

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Just two baked taters looking for ongoing fun with another spud couple Couple 35, 35 from Washington Maine, USA

We are a new couple to this lifestyle. Very excited to take the next steps. We are a goofy 4:20 couple who enjoy the outdoors,but we are equally as happy playing borderlands on the Xbox at home. We have children so respect and understanding is a must. We are a private couple and don't want the entire state to know our business hahaha. We want to go slow. We want another couple, preferably a more our size(thiick) lol.we want friends to go camping hiking, fishing swimming, etc. We want to have a bond with this couple. Female is bicurious and eager to try being with another woman, male is straight. We want a couple thay is into gaming and outdoors, into mmf,mff, mffm. We just want to find another couple who enjoys smoke video games, outdoors, camping respectful and hopeful it turns into a long term thing and we grow and become somthing nice once we are all comfortable then wife can take other husband out on dates and adventures husband can take other wife out on dates and adventures lol.


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hello there am Carolina and new here Female 48 from Piscataway New Jersey, USA

I'm 48 years old, living in the Piscataway region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 40 and 90.


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Am a dominant mistress seeking for a submissive male who is up for erotic advent.. Female 33 from California Maryland, USA

Mistress enjoy pussy worship, ass licking, deep Pegging, body worship and  kinky role play.


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I’m just a honest and trustworthy mistress Female 35 from Pennsburg Pennsylvania, USA

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Hey handsome don’t feel shy to hit the message box let’s talk more Female 40 from Hillsborough New Jersey, USA

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I am a dominant mistress seeking for a submissive Female 31 from New York New York, USA

like feminization,   boy,    shemales,   panties/linger ie,    humiliation,    pegging,    anal,    alot of things really.   
Don't like blood,   or pain


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I’m very naughty and looking for the right man to spend my life with Female 47 from Pennsburg Pennsylvania, USA

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I’M A DOM SEEKING FOR A SUBMISSIVE TO OWN AND TRAIN AS MINE Female 29 from Bridgeport Connecticut, USA

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