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Im 18 years old, living in the Michigan City region. Female 18 from Michigan City Indiana, USA

I'm 18 years old, living in the Michigan City region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 18 and 68.


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Let make our future bright together Female 42 from Michigan City Indiana, USA

I'm single interested in a LTR with the right man who  is going to love me till end of time and will never let me down. I'm looking for my ride or die


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seeking for a loyal and obedient sub Female 37 from Ohio Illinois, USA

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Im 32 years old, living in the Chicago region. Female 32 from Chicago Illinois, USA

I'm 32 years old, living in the Chicago region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 20 and 90.


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Im single looking for friends with benefits and many more Female 40 from South Carrollton Kentucky, USA

I'm down to earth with good moral values, single and never been married i would love to explore and have fun for real


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bring you pleasure beyond your wildest dreams. Trust in me to guide you on this .. Female 20 from Indianapolis, Indiana

happy when sub demonstrates obedience, respect, and a willingness to please them. Clear communication, trust, and mutual understanding of boundaries and fulfilling dom-sub relationship. Ultimately, the happiness of a dom is dependent on their specific desires and needs, which can vary from individual to individual.


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Here to find a loyal submissive Female 35 from Iowa City Iowa, USA

I need someone that is ready to put my pleasure first and treat me like a goddess


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Hey there let’s talk more privately Female 43 from Michigan City Indiana, USA

I am looking for love on a dating site. I am always open to something new and I like learning new things, new cultures and get acquainted with new people. I have an adult daughter and now I am free to find love and change in a relationship. I can just say that I am a very caring, sophisticated, sensual, intelligent and emotional woman. I win your heart with my loyalty, reliability and unlimited tenderness. You must discover everything else about me yourself! I want to open like a rosebud to my man!


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Im 54 years old, living in the Saint Louis region. Female 54 from Saint Louis Missouri, USA

I'm 54 years old, living in the Saint Louis region.
I'm interested in meeting a transgender person or a couple or a woman or a man aged between 27 and 99.


Bisexual

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I’m a fun to be with dominate who wants to be pleased and served by her own make.. Female 58 from Iowa City Iowa, USA

I’m a very energetic, sexy, well experienced and calm person.. Born into the lifestyle and want to train someone from what I’ve learned from my parents


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My interest are deep and sensual and include anal play, fisting, nipple play, fo.. Female 38 from Evansville Indiana, USA

What's interesting about me is me.
I'm a funny, happy, intelligent, empathic,  adventurous, and kinky mistress. Looking for a submissive slut to serve me and looking to have some good clean kinky fun.


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Looking for a sub ready to please mistress Female 45 from Louisville Kentucky, USA

Is there someone out there that is ready to please and make me happy


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My name is Tracy and am single female never married . Don’t you mind meeting me Female 57 from Atlanta Indiana, USA

My name is Tracy and am single female never married . I am willing to meet the right man who i can spend the rest of my life with him


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Im 38 years old, living in the Chicago Heights region. Female 38 from Chicago Heights Illinois, USA

I'm 38 years old, living in the Chicago Heights region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 50 and 99.


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Im 42 years old, living in the Louisville region. Female 42 from Louisville Kentucky, USA

I'm 42 years old, living in the Louisville region.
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fun easy going couple looking for friends for fun Couple 57, 51 from Farmington Missouri, USA

she likes to use strapons
My ass is her target lets have fun we are looking for a bi couple, male or female to explore our bisexuality. She really wants to see me with another man.
And she wants to see about enjoying another woman as well


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I’m looking for serious relationship here Female 36 from Rockford Illinois, USA

I’m here too fine new soul mate here that will lead too married
I know that there is a lot of scammer here please don’t bother to come closer


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Im honest and trustworthy Im here looking for something serious and some fun Female 26 from Aurora Illinois, USA

I'm actually looking for someone to train and
own me
I'm new to the lifestyle


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I am a sweet, ambitious and thoughtful lady. I’m Seeking for an adventurous and .. Female 52 from Plainfield Indiana, USA

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Just a couple looking for fun. We have been in the lifestyle for a long time and.. Couple 53, 53 from O Fallon Missouri, USA

Being outdoors, being with fun people, pretty simple really.


Bisexual, Bicurious

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Im 43 years old, living in the Michigan City region. Female 43 from Michigan City Indiana, USA

I'm 43 years old, living in the Michigan City region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 48 and 77.


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At the moment I am running my sessions in a well equipped attic “Dungeon” set up.. Female 24 from Chicago Illinois, USA

As a Professional , I am focused on providing services with the highest level of customer satisfaction and I will do My best to meet clients expectations. With a variety of offerings to choose from, I’m sure there’s something for everyone, whatever your level of experience. However I work only with submissive, switch or unsure clients.


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Looking to meet for a real relationship Female 30 from Muskegon Michigan, USA

The first sentence is always the hardest. Now that I have it out of the way...I am someone who is looking to enjoy everyday...I have been single for few months now, I am extremely shy..I am a really sweet girl - honest! I am looking for a "partner in crime...possibly for life" - I am not interested in players who wants to play games. I am an intelligent, creative, funny, adventurous woman who needs a match...I am very very open-minded about many things...I have strong opinons as well...I love to travel & I honestly don't know where I will end up in my life (which is great, I think!) I can be spontaneous & crazy too - believe me! Basically, I am looking for a man who will sexually dominate me..i enjoy Anal, bondage, spanks, ropes, cuffs, nipple clamp, gags, breath play,, choking, blindfolds and more


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Looking for true love and more Female 47 from Ohio Illinois, USA

Looking for true love and more


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Would like to get into connection to see if chemistry reveals. Female 54 from Michigan City Indiana, USA

Would like to get into connection to see if chemistry reveals. I would truly want to build something with you so we see how things go. There is no harm in trying I guess. What do you think? I will like us to find a better place so that we can be able to chat and get to know more about each other


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