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We are are couple looking for another bi couple, bi male or trans female. Not l.. Couple 49, 49 from Charleston Illinois, USA

We are family oriented. Enjoy reading, live music, traveling, playing cards, and sports.


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Active recreation, sports . This is what brings me pleasure and what I like . It.. Female 40 from Michigan City Indiana, USA

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I’M LOOKING FOR A PERSON TO DOMINATE Female 31 from Chicago Illinois, USA

I like feminization, bondage,  chastity,  shemales,  panties/lingerie,  humiliation,  pegging,  anal,  alot of things really.
Don't like blood, or pain


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Want love and affection and I’m not a racist all races are welcome Female 25 from Chicago Illinois, USA

Love to play games spend time with lives ones.traveling


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Im 27 years old, living in the Cincinnati region. Female 27 from Louisville Kentucky, USA

I'm 27 years old, living in the Cincinnati region.
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Hi , Looking for LTR or DOM. Care to check me out Female 47 from Nashua Iowa, USA

I'm 47 years old, living in the Providence region.
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Looking for strict fair master Female 62 from Kokomo Indiana, USA

Looking for strict master I have no experience want to learn to please him


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I am kinky, I am dominant, I am superior, I am demanding and will not have it an.. Female 34 from Chicago Illinois, USA

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Im 42 years old, living in the Louisville region. Female 42 from Louisville Kentucky, USA

I'm 42 years old, living in the Louisville region.
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Im 28 years old, living in the Ohio region. You can text me Female 28 from Ohio Illinois, USA

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Despite the fact that I am a lawyer, I come here to commit a crime and steal the.. Female 37 from Atlanta Indiana, USA

I see myself as an intelligent, sensitive woman with a big kind heart and a bright young soul. I am successful enough not to worry about and just live enjoying simple things and moments. I love nature and take care of the environment as much as I can.


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Well am here looking for a real love Female 39 from Chicago Illinois, USA

I'm 39 years old, living in the Chicago region.
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IM A DOMINANT MISTRESS SEEKING FOR A OBEDIENT SUBMISSIVE TO TRAIN Female 34 from Elk Grove Village Illinois, USA

I like feminization, bondage,  chastity,  shemales,  panties/lingerie,  humiliation,  pegging,  anal,  alot of things really.
Don't like blood,  or pain.


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Hello to everyone there I am new Female 50 from Ohio Illinois, USA

I am generally an optimistic person with a sense of humor, fairly easy-going, and I don't think that I'm too critical about things, but I also believe that it takes two people contributing to a relationship to make it work right.


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Im 31 years old, living in the Denver region. Female 31 from Iowa City Iowa, USA

I'm 31 years old, living in the Denver region.
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Looking to explore with you. Are you ready? Lol Female 42 from Indianapolis Indiana, USA

I am honest, easygoing, caring, compassionate, passionate romantic, with a great sense of humor. I love to be spontaneous, and often love to just pick up and do trips to absolutely nowhere. Since I am very naughty at all  times, adds a mischievous streak in me..all in fun. It's all about living life to the fullest


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Im 38 years old, living in the Chicago region. Female 38 from Chicago Illinois, USA

I'm 38 years old, living in the Chicago region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 45 and 90.


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Im looking to have a kinky and submissive experience here! Female 27 from Madison Wisconsin, USA

I'm completely dominant and would like to explore and meet new people here.


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I am an honest heart thats looking for a stable relationship. I understand it i.. Female 37 from Chicago Illinois, USA

looking to find a conscious man to build monogamous relationship and also share good & bad together.


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I am ready to meet new people. Female 47 from Paris Illinois, USA

I'm more than ready to have a little fun. I need something new in my life , the same old same old everyday tends to get boring after a certain point.


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Im me and wont change who I am for no one Im sort of new to the scene I have .. Female 40 from Clinton Iowa, USA

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I’m kinda shy, but I love being told what to do Female 25 from Seymour Indiana, USA

Pleasing you sir, duh being told I’m a good girl


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Im 46 years old, living in the Orland Park region. Female 46 from Orland Park Illinois, USA

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Hi dear let’s make some fun memories specify-how best to reach one another if yo.. Female 39 from Iowa City Iowa, USA

I’m a very jovial one that enjoys the naughty talks and love cuddles


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