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I'm 38 years old, living in the Chicago Heights region.
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Straight
Looking for, ages 50-90.
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I want him to become my best friend and support in everything and everywhere. It would be great to get much from my future husband but be sure that I am able to give much more.
Straight
Looking for, ages 46-83.
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Looking for, ages 50-90.
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I am an open lady who never hides my feelings and emotions; I believe any conflict can be solved through sincere discussion. Also I think any successful relationship needs efforts, so we all have as much as we contribute. I prefer to live "now and here"; concentrating on things that give me positive emotions and make me happier and healthier. My partner can always count on me; my love, support, devotion and loyalty, any time and any place.
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Straight
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Interests, Couples

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I’m very outgoing, just like to have fun. I’m new to this.
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Looking for, ages 43-90.
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Interests, BDSM, Dom, Fetish, Roleplay, S&M

I like naughty and passionate man. I'm hoping I can find a man who is much older than me.
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Looking for, ages 50-90.
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I have a wide range of interests including shopping, music, art, dancing and fashion
Straight
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Looking for, ages 50-78.
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I am Dominant BBW Goddess who enjoys training men on how to be a loyal and submissive man, ready to please his partner and how to live the alternate BDSM lifestyle. I've led the BDSM lifestyle for years now, I am not into blood or any form of permanent markings or bruises, I am not into much pain at all, rather, I like the kinky role play, bondage play, pussy worship, foot worship, and other special ways at pleasuring one's partner. My main aim is to derive pleasure in ways unexplained. There's so much to this lifestyle I want to show to my potential submissive. All I want is your obedience and loyalty, and above all, your submission to me as your mistress.
Straight
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Straight
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Calm and good person looking for love and sex………..
Straight
Looking for, ages 45-90.
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Interests, Oral, Sexual Massage

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