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A lovely girl looking to please your fetishes while you please my wallet :) Female 20 from Jasper Indiana, USA

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I am seeking for who has my complete ribs Female 24 from Ottawa Illinois, USA

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SEEKING A SUBMISSIVE HERE FOR A MISTRESS TO SERVE Female 31 from Chicago Illinois, USA

I'm 31 years old, living in the Chicago region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 21 and 90.


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Im just a honest and trustworthy mistress Female 38 from Indianapolis Indiana, USA

A dominant mistress looking for loyal submissive obedient understanding malesub to own and coller on in the bdsm lifestyle


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Ask me if you want to know more about me Female 38 from Indianapolis Indiana, USA

I'm good to someone who understand me and easy going,sincere, trustworthy and loveable.


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I’m looking for my soulmate someone honest and ready to love again. Female 48 from Chicago Illinois, USA

I am very happy to be here, i need to let you know that i am here for something serious, a man who is ready to love again with all his heart, i do not need mind games i hope we can find what we are here for. i know this is a sex site and for that reason a lot of men miss use it. i believe that everyone has a different mindset and mine is to find true love and we can have all the sex and love life we need to, but know that i am not here for hook up but a mature relationship, please read my profile before contacting me.


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Nice to meet everyone. Looking for a partner and a relationship and someone I’ll.. Female 39 from Louisville Kentucky, USA

I’m full of life-energy and experiences. I desire food, fitness, good company and everything that makes life colored, exciting and beautiful. I am always passionate to reach my personal goals and make my life enjoyable with less drama and stress.


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I’m new to this site wanna meet new people and see where it goes from there Female 40 from Connersville Indiana, USA

I’m new to this site wanna meet new people and see where it goes from there


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I think I am a very different woman, very special! Female 41 from Louisville Kentucky, USA

I like romance and all the things that are included. I need eclectic and chivalrous man. When he likes to help me with a jacket, open doors for me and walk hand in hand. I especially enjoy going out in public with my man on his arm. I don't bite so kindly, send me an instant message or leave me a way to reach out to you xoxo


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it is all about a systematic transfer ofpower in an environment of absolute trus.. Female 51 from Ottawa Illinois, USA

This relationship is about training the sub to trustsomeone else. My interest is in training you. The moreunexperienced you are the better. The more you arelooking for someone to trust, the better.


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Im 38 years old, living in the Chicago Heights region. Female 38 from Chicago Heights Illinois, USA

I'm 38 years old, living in the Chicago Heights region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 50 and 99.


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I am looking for a good and a responsible man for a great Friends With Benefit(F.. Female 43 from Mason City Iowa, USA

I am looking for a good and a responsible man for a great Friends With Benefit(FWB) and see whether it will lead to maybe a relationship or not


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Tired of boys who play games Couple 47, 47 from Greenwood Indiana, USA

We are a married couple Stacy F 47, Jessie M, 47 wanting to bring another MAN into our bedroom for some NSA, clean, and at times real kinky fun if mood allows. We would like it to be an on-going situation. First time no pressure just meet and see how everyone feels, if it goes further great if not and more time is needed fine. We will be respectful and honest and expect the same. If you would like to know more, hit me up and ask.


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I’M A DOM SEEKING FOR A SUB TO OWN AND COLLAR AS MINE Female 30 from Aurora Illinois, USA

I like feminization, bondage,  chastity,  shemales,  panties/lingerie,  humiliation,  pegging,  anal,  alot of things really.
Don't like blood or pain.


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Seeking playful BDSM Experienced lifestyle friendships. Really sorry that I am n.. Female 70 from Elizabethtown Kentucky, USA

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Am honest and single looking for my right man to spend the rest of my life with Female 57 from Nebo Kentucky, USA

Looking forward to meet my man and be in is arms always holding each other tight


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I’m just being myself and I would always be Female 31 from Cincinnati Iowa, USA

I’m seeking for something serious or maybe some fun and we will see how it goes


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i’m looking for a loyal and kinky sub that will serve and obey me. Only serious .. Female 34 from Ohio Illinois, USA

As for my fetishes, I am into most of them, bondage, humiliation, toys just to name a few. However a big fantasy of mine is to sort of control a sub from a distance. Be the unseen Master so to speak. That's not to say you will never see or speak to me in person but its just the fantasy I have. want to be able to text you orders of slutty things I want you to do, and you send me back, pic or videos or even live evidence that you did what I told you. Hope that doesn't sound too crazy to you.


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How about sitting on your face for multiple orgasms.. i believe that in true fri.. Female 40 from Mequon Wisconsin, USA

A partner. Someone to fill that lonely space in my heart. Someone to enjoy very good casual sex with 5 times a week . Are you interested…!!!


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IM A DOMINANT MISTRESS SEEKING FOR A OBEDIENT SUBMISSIVE TO TRAIN Female 34 from Elk Grove Village Illinois, USA

I like feminization, bondage,  chastity,  shemales,  panties/lingerie,  humiliation,  pegging,  anal,  alot of things really.
Don't like blood,  or pain.


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I am looking for a nice man and God-fearing man Female 51 from Ohio Illinois, USA

Ok very easy going and God fearing woman in search of a lifetime partner who serious and ready to settle for one woman


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Pretty Dom is here. I’m pretty and a Mistress Female 49 from Hawaii National Park Hawaii, USA

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I am looking for that special older one who will rekindle the flame of passion a.. Female 29 from Chicago Illinois, USA

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