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I'm 18 years old, living in the Michigan City region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 18 and 68.
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-68.
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Interests, Erotic Fiction, Roleplay, Sex Toys
I'm single interested in a LTR with the right man who is going to love me till end of time and will never let me down. I'm looking for my ride or die
Straight
Looking for, ages 50-90.
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Interests, Body Hair, Outdoor Fun, S&M, Sex Talk
Fun ,loving and open minded and love to be adventurous
Straight
Looking for, ages 45-82.
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Interests, BDSM, Fetish, Sex Toys
I'm 32 years old, living in the Chicago region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 20 and 90.
Straight
Looking for, ages 20-90.
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Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Sex Toys
I'm down to earth with good moral values, single and never been married i would love to explore and have fun for real
Straight
Looking for, ages 40-77.
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Interests, BDSM, Bukkake, Couples, Cuckold, Discreet Meets, Fetish, Full Swap, Outdoor Fun, Soft Swap, Threesomes, Webcam
happy when sub demonstrates obedience, respect, and a willingness to please them. Clear communication, trust, and mutual understanding of boundaries and fulfilling dom-sub relationship. Ultimately, the happiness of a dom is dependent on their specific desires and needs, which can vary from individual to individual.
Straight
Looking for, ages 50-89.
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Interests, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Pegging, S&M, Sex Toys
I need someone that is ready to put my pleasure first and treat me like a goddess
Straight
Looking for, ages 21-90.
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Interests, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Sex Toys
I am looking for love on a dating site. I am always open to something new and I like learning new things, new cultures and get acquainted with new people. I have an adult daughter and now I am free to find love and change in a relationship. I can just say that I am a very caring, sophisticated, sensual, intelligent and emotional woman. I win your heart with my loyalty, reliability and unlimited tenderness. You must discover everything else about me yourself! I want to open like a rosebud to my man!
Straight
Looking for, ages 50-86.
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Interests, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Pegging, S&M, Sex Toys, Sub
I'm 54 years old, living in the Saint Louis region.
I'm interested in meeting a transgender person or a couple or a woman or a man aged between 27 and 99.
Bisexual
Looking for, ages 27-90.
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I’m a very energetic, sexy, well experienced and calm person.. Born into the lifestyle and want to train someone from what I’ve learned from my parents
Straight
Looking for, ages 40-68.
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Interests, BDSM, Dom, Fetish, Pegging, S&M
What's interesting about me is me.
I'm a funny, happy, intelligent, empathic, adventurous, and kinky mistress. Looking for a submissive slut to serve me and looking to have some good clean kinky fun.
Straight
Looking for, ages 60-90.
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Interests, BDSM, Discreet Meets, Fetish
Is there someone out there that is ready to please and make me happy
Straight
Looking for, ages 45-90.
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Interests, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Sex Toys
My name is Tracy and am single female never married . I am willing to meet the right man who i can spend the rest of my life with him
Straight
Looking for, ages 43-88.
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Interests, Anal, BBW / BHM, Sex Talk, Webcam
I'm 38 years old, living in the Chicago Heights region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 50 and 99.
Straight
Looking for, ages 50-90.
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Interests, ASMR, BBW / BHM, BDSM, Curves, Dirty Talk, Exhibitionism, Leather / Latex, S&M, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Tickle Play
I'm 42 years old, living in the Louisville region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 49 and 77.
Straight
Looking for, ages 49-77.
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Interests,
she likes to use strapons
My ass is her target lets have fun we are looking for a bi couple, male or female to explore our bisexuality. She really wants to see me with another man.
And she wants to see about enjoying another woman as well
Bisexual, Bicurious
Looking for, ages 18-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Couples, Cuckold, Dirty talk to me, Discreet Meets, Erotic Fiction, Full Swap, Roleplay, Send naked pics, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Tell naughty stories, Threesomes, Video themselves, Voyeurism
I’m here too fine new soul mate here that will lead too married
I know that there is a lot of scammer here please don’t bother to come closer
Straight
Looking for, ages 40-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Pegging, Roleplay, Sex Toys
I'm actually looking for someone to train and
own me
I'm new to the lifestyle
Straight
Looking for, ages 22-90.
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Interests, BDSM, Fetish, Pegging, S&M, Sex Toys, Sub
A lot of chit-chat. Sweet and funny moments. Shoot a message and take a chance!
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Dom, Fetish, Pegging, Sex Toys
Being outdoors, being with fun people, pretty simple really.
Bisexual, Bicurious
Looking for, ages 30-60.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests,
I'm 43 years old, living in the Michigan City region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 48 and 77.
Straight
Looking for, ages 48-77.
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Interests,
As a Professional , I am focused on providing services with the highest level of customer satisfaction and I will do My best to meet clients expectations. With a variety of offerings to choose from, I’m sure there’s something for everyone, whatever your level of experience. However I work only with submissive, switch or unsure clients.
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-60.
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Interests, BDSM, Dirty Talk, Dom, Edging, Erotic Fiction, Feet, Fetish, Leather / Latex, Lingerie, Nylons, Outdoor Fun, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Tickle Play
The first sentence is always the hardest. Now that I have it out of the way...I am someone who is looking to enjoy everyday...I have been single for few months now, I am extremely shy..I am a really sweet girl - honest! I am looking for a "partner in crime...possibly for life" - I am not interested in players who wants to play games. I am an intelligent, creative, funny, adventurous woman who needs a match...I am very very open-minded about many things...I have strong opinons as well...I love to travel & I honestly don't know where I will end up in my life (which is great, I think!) I can be spontaneous & crazy too - believe me! Basically, I am looking for a man who will sexually dominate me..i enjoy Anal, bondage, spanks, ropes, cuffs, nipple clamp, gags, breath play,, choking, blindfolds and more
Straight
Looking for, ages 49-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Erotic Fiction, Pegging, Roleplay, Sex Toys, Sub
Looking for true love and more
Straight
Looking for, ages 45-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests,
Would like to get into connection to see if chemistry reveals. I would truly want to build something with you so we see how things go. There is no harm in trying I guess. What do you think? I will like us to find a better place so that we can be able to chat and get to know more about each other
Straight
Looking for, ages 44-80.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Lingerie
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