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I’m an adventurous and natural lady seeking for her other half Female 53 from Michigantown Indiana, USA

i Like a Man who have a Good sense of Humor..A Man who is always with His Own words..a Man who who never misjudges..i Like Most people with Good sense of Humor..i Like to Play and be played with But when It regards Something soo precious about Our lives Together..even Though games leads astray or nowhere,i still Thinks You can't be serious all day.a saying Goes "ALL WORK AND NO PLAY MAKES JACK A DULL BOY" i Think Jack Would have Much fame here cos his name has always been used in such important sayings.


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Playful with a bad habit of not listening or so I’ve been told. Female 35 from Owensboro Kentucky, USA

Strong and independent outside the bedroom. Like to be put in my place in it. Spanking, biting, hair pulling, choking are all must haves.


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I’m new to this site wanna meet new people and see where it goes from there Female 40 from Connersville Indiana, USA

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Im single seeking for a friends fun and also as serious relationship that may l.. Female 38 from Masonic Home Kentucky, USA

If there can be someone more active than me, then show me this person. Ha-ha. I don't like to spend time idly, I try to optimize my free time. A workaholic, a life lover, a smiling person, a pacifist, with a lot of life experience - this can all be said about me.


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Looking for a dom who is willing to show me the way Female 30 from Rockville Indiana, USA

New to being a sub and want to learn more about what i like and what i don't like


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Am kind, simple and caring fun to be with and message me if youre interested in.. Female 58 from Chicago Illinois, USA

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I am dominant mistress seeking for a malesub to train and own is collar as mine Female 38 from Solsberry Indiana, USA

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Love At Large “ Take Your Time Female 40 from Terre Haute Indiana, USA

I am Loving, caring , honest and romantic person, take your time to know me


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I am a nice lady seeking for a caring faithful and honest man  to spend the rest.. Female 47 from Wentzville Missouri, USA

I’m a fabulous catch and looking for the same. I know who I am and am comfortable in my skin and being myself. thats ok but  just give me true love and never hurt me that is what I am looking for.


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Mistress is willing to teach you everything you need to know about this lifestyl.. Female 28 from Illinois City Illinois, USA

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Kneel before the one and only Goddess!! Female 41 from Brownsburg Indiana, USA

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Im 43 years old, living in the Chicago region. Female 43 from Chicago Illinois, USA

I'm 43 years old, living in the Chicago region.
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lam a fun loving lady who loves to explore new things. I am looking for a fun lo.. Female 44 from Chicago Illinois, USA

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Hi there am new here and very shy .. friendly and opened to anything Female 39 from Dawson Springs Kentucky, USA

I am shy as I said , quite and most important I really do believe more in cations .. I hate lies and very quite type


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Im the monster they warned you about!. Come and have an adventure of getting pe.. Female 52 from Tennessee Illinois, USA

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I’m an anime freak, love to bake when I can and want to, love animals.


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I am here for something casual adult fun, playmate partner who only one mature w.. Female 38 from Hawaii National Park Hawaii, USA

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Im 51 years old, living in the Washington region. Female 51 from Washington Indiana, USA

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Im 22 years old, living in the Migrate region. Female 22 from Migrate Kentucky, USA

I'm 22 years old, living in the Migrate region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 18 and 90.


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I’m here for serious relationship Female 38 from Alexandria Indiana, USA

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I am a girl looking for a master Female 27 from Plainfield Illinois, USA

I am into everything BDSM and I love to worship feet


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