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Im cool, easy going sexy beast Female 34 from Oregon Illinois, USA

I'm me myself, no one can be me. I'm here to make friends


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Looking for, ages 25-70. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Roleplay, S&M

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Im 41 years old, living in the Iowa Falls region. Female 41 from Iowa Falls Iowa, USA

I'm 41 years old, living in the Iowa Falls region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 32 and 86.


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Im 38 years old, living in the Nevada region. Female 38 from Nevada Iowa, USA

I'm 38 years old, living in the Nevada region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 28 and 75.


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I am here looking for a serious relationship that will lead me to married Female 25 from Ohio Illinois, USA

I jokes a lot and i hates lies
I’m here to chat with people


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I want someone calm both inside and outside, an honest, loving, caring, trustwor.. Female 35 from Garretson South Dakota, USA

I am sweet, thoughtful, kind, intelligent, and have a great sense of humor. I am very easy going and laid back. I am often told that I am very easy to talk with and I never get angry also not interested in someone that is. Having past events shape your life is one thing, carrying the past as a burden that sits heavily upon your shoulders is not the way i view life.


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I am a simple woman who lives a simple life as long as I am happy with the peopl.. Female 64 from Truman Minnesota, USA

Making other people happy makes me happy too ..Walking at the beach and holding hands with someone special makes me happier .


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Hello there how are doing hope you are doing... Female 38 from Iowa Falls Iowa, USA

i love camping and i love music too i like shopping as well


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Looking for some good love and affection?? Female 32 from Arkansaw Wisconsin, USA

I am an easy going woman, down to earth but very much fun to be with, feel free to send me a message let’s see where it goes.


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Im a Strict Mistress So kindly read my bio and kinks before texting me Female 46 from Illinois City Illinois, USA

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We are a horny couple that are looking for some fun Couple 50, 33 from Kansas City Missouri, USA

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Straight, Bisexual

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Hello there! Thanks for checking out my profile! I am a vibrant and independent .. Female 40 from Shawnee Kansas, USA

I'm a girl who loves expressing herself through various mediums. Drawing is my passion; it allows me to bring my imagination to life on a canvas. When I'm not creating art, I find solace in music. It uplifts my spirit and resonates with my emotions. Taking care of myself is essential to me.


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Hello everyone, Im looking for a companion. someone with a big personality but .. Female 37 from Manhattan Kansas, USA

I'm young energetic women ,honest ,respectful and friendly


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seeking for a loyal and obedient sub Female 37 from Ohio Illinois, USA

Fun ,loving and open minded and love to be adventurous


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I’m a mistress who needs sissy to be mine , loyal and honest sub Female 40 from Minneapolis Minnesota, USA

All I desire is a loyal sissy to make my best sub and ready to serve mistress.


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New to the scene and looking to explore more. Female 51 from Des Moines Iowa, USA

I like my hair being pulled. Being spanked. I have enjoyed lit bondage. Looking to explore more.


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I’m a Dom mistress! seeking for a commitment sub to worship my pussy and ass al.. Female 63 from Minneapolis Minnesota, USA

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We are a much in love by couple looking to have fun with bimail or bi couple Couple 46, 46 from Macon Missouri, USA

We love making n have great exotic loving
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Bisexual, Bisexual

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As a dominant mistress, it’s my duty to keep and train my submissive in perfecti.. Female 46 from Eau Claire Wisconsin, USA

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im jovial honest and im here to find serious relationship Female 52 from Wisconsin Dells Wisconsin, USA

The best way to describe myself is rock and roll with a dash of soul and jazz. I believe in living life, not just being a spectator. I work to live, not live to work. I take each day as it comes and try to make the absolute most of it. Nothing makes me happier at the end of the day feeling like, "Wow, that was great!" and looking forward to making the next day even better.
I am a quality, positive, creative, caring, classy, fun-loving woman t! I have a big heart almost to a fault and am a good listener. I'm simplistic, yet I do like to enjoy the finer things in life from time to time, provided they are within my means.I am like a bottle of good champagne, bubbly and sweet. I have a good sense of humor, spontaneous at times and young at heart. I am a person of integrity and honesty. I love to live life to the full at life's mom-


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I’m a Dom seeking a submissive sub Female 35 from Ohio Illinois, USA

I'm seeking that sub submale i can use and control,Be it sexually and domestically... I will be interested in making my sub serve and worship my whole body with his tongue,I have this experiences below and i will be ready to train and practice and do new things with my sub...


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Nature is Amazing let’s get to see where it goes from here Female 39 from Iowa City Iowa, USA

I'm 39 years old, living in the Iowa City region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 46 and 99.


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Hey there! I hope you’re doing well! Female 18 from Boone Iowa, USA

I am a very bubbly person who loves anything craft related, reading, nature, and going on adventures!


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I would love to know more about you and find time to know more about each other Female 39 from Des Moines Iowa, USA

Willing to me am caring and lovely find me anywhere you whiny asap ???


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Looking for, ages 50-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Fetish, Sub

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Im 39 years old, living in the Saint Paul region. Female 40 from Saint Paul Minnesota, USA

I'm 39 years old, living in the Saint Paul region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 30 and 99.


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Looking for, ages 30-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

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If my profile content seems to interest you and you would love to know me and I .. Female 27 from Arkansaw Wisconsin, USA

I’m someone  who is cultured, passionate, open minded, kind,  funny,  positive, responsible,  mature, driven,  and loyal


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