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Hello am a single woman who seeks to engage into a long term relationship Female 40 from Oregon Wisconsin, USA

I am an honest and good Christian who loves being surrounded, by friends and holidays. I am ready for a serious relationship and I really look forward to starting that with the right person... I am an honest, loyal,


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lm a single seeking a couples or female friend or a gentle man. My top priori.. Female 25 from Illinois City Illinois, USA

Everything about sex gets me happy.  So enjoy each other this time.


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id like to find someone whos open , honest , easy going, a sense of humor is a.. Female 69 from Ohio Illinois, USA

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Im 39 years old, living in the Saint Paul region. Female 40 from Saint Paul Minnesota, USA

I'm 39 years old, living in the Saint Paul region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 30 and 99.


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Never look down on anyone except you like their shoes Female 38 from Kansas City Missouri, USA

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I am here taking mine to find someone who I will spend the rest of my life with .. Female 52 from Ohio Illinois, USA

I identify myself as a responsible, optimistic, cheerful woman, who gives a lot of affection. I enjoy spending time at home, making plans. I am a working woman, that every day works to be a better person and to be able to achieve all her goals.


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I’m hoping to meet new people and try new things I’m new on here Female 37 from Iowa City Iowa, USA

I’m new on here would love to text elsewhere privately


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Am single never married with no ki,but I have been in a bad relationship before .. Female 38 from Mason City Iowa, USA

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Im 35 years old, living in the Des Moines region. Female 35 from Des Moines Iowa, USA

I'm 35 years old, living in the Des Moines region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 40 and 85.


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Im 45 years old, living in the Peoria region. Female 46 from Peoria Illinois, USA

I’m still learning what turns me on & what I like. So I hope to meet someone to show me.


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I am looking for a man who has a sincere heart but passion for love also. Female 58 from Dallas Iowa, USA

I am a very mature and independent woman. I live by myself and run a company on my own. I am a sexy exotic lady. What do you think of my photos in my profile? I have a lot of love to give and I have a lot of desire to bust out. But I hope I can give all of me to a right man. I hope to find the one who I can't live without, but not the one who I can live with


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Im 39 years old, living in the Vesper region. Female 39 from Vesper Wisconsin, USA

I'm 39 years old, living in the Vesper region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 50 and 81.


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Im a switch woman that gets excited training subs and also a good girl for dadd.. Female 45 from Des Moines Iowa, USA

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looking for fun and open for swinging and soft swapping Female 43 from Wisconsin Dells Wisconsin, USA

I am very understanding,  open minded with a heart of forgiving,  loving and caring with sense of humor,  hard working with cheerful character, honest, sincere, kind,  warm and intelligent with good looks


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Am here for a something serious and see where it lead Female 38 from Ohio Illinois, USA

I love a man that can trust is woman and that is not here for games


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Im looking hit me up with your. Female 43 from Nevada Iowa, USA

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I enjoy the small moments. I love to be in the present. I value and appreciate t.. Female 39 from Ohio Illinois, USA

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I have a tender, caring and loving heart who dreams of happy and strong family! .. Female 48 from Madison Wisconsin, USA

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am looking for something discreet and someone special and maybe some as possible.. Female 37 from Waterloo Iowa, USA

I will push your limit,but never cross your boundaries and I will use your body in a way that will make you continue yearn for me. My rapport with my partners is very important. Whether you choose to meet with me only once or reoccurring,I assure you that you will experience a discreet and safe encounter while you are in my presence and play space


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I am Felicia, i am new here just today and i was just looking at the profiles on.. Female 58 from Oregon Wisconsin, USA

I am Felicia, i am new here just today and i was just looking at the profiles on site. I am must i am impressed with your profile and will like to get to know more about you, i am interested in knowing more about you and also you to get to know about me. I will like us to be friends first, get to know each other and see where it might lead us to


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My journey as a Professional Dominatrix has spanned over Twenty one years. I lov.. Female 41 from Illinois City Illinois, USA

I am very fortunate that many of my submissives have served me for years. Even though I find one-time sessions pleasurable, I feel the hottest play happens over time.


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Im 31 years old, living in the Saint Paul region. Female 31 from Saint Paul Minnesota, USA

I'm 31 years old, living in the Saint Paul region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 18 and 39.


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I’m Sandra nice lady just want have some fun here and give it a try Female 55 from Ohio Illinois, USA

I'm 55 years old, living in the Ohio region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 45 and 99.


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I’m Fun to chat with I hope to explore my fantasies with the right person on her.. Female 27 from Iowa City Iowa, USA

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Knowing that you are on my side makes any hard day easier my perfect match, and .. Female 28 from Wisconsin Dells Wisconsin, USA

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