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Im 58 years old, living in the Ohio region. Female 59 from Ohio Illinois, USA

I'm 58 years old, living in the Ohio region.
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Am dominant mistress seeking for a male submissive to own is collar as mine and .. Female 39 from Ames Iowa, USA

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i’m Findom Goddess Mistress and i seek for a real time relationship with a sub h.. Female 29 from Wisconsin Rapids Wisconsin, USA

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I am a faithful woman looking for a man with dignity to share my love with.. I a.. Female 52 from Nevada Iowa, USA

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Single momma, in love with her dominant lifestyle. But I’m only dominant sexuall.. Female 47 from Ames Iowa, USA

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i’m looking for a loyal and kinky sub that will serve and obey me. Only serious .. Female 34 from Ohio Illinois, USA

As for my fetishes, I am into most of them, bondage, humiliation, toys just to name a few. However a big fantasy of mine is to sort of control a sub from a distance. Be the unseen Master so to speak. That's not to say you will never see or speak to me in person but its just the fantasy I have. want to be able to text you orders of slutty things I want you to do, and you send me back, pic or videos or even live evidence that you did what I told you. Hope that doesn't sound too crazy to you.


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Hi .. I’m free and I’m happy to join this website Female 39 from Ohio Illinois, USA

I'm 39 years old, living in the Ohio region.
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Adventure seeker Looking for fun and connection Female 34 from Minneapolis Minnesota, USA

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I’m down for meeting up with serious people’s Female 29 from Minneapolis Minnesota, USA

I'm here and i want you to know that I'm not the types of women who usually come online just for playing games or breaking heart. I do respect myself very well, so i will not introduces myself In doing such things like that.


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Looking for a long term 24/7 TPE Female 49 from Des Moines Iowa, USA

Hi! I am a submissive with a few hard limits, that has lived a life of leadership. I am tired and ready to make my soul happy, and in turn make someone else's soul happy too. I want to serve and obey at your feet knowing I am cherished and respected for what I give. I crave your guidance, structure, and discipline.


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Good day gentleman, how are you doing?, Im Bri and I hope you dont care for a .. Female 41 from Nevada Iowa, USA

I'm a simple lady who likes going hiking, cuddling, camping, cooking and also I love sex alot but just to one man and thats my man which I'm here seeking. I love nature and I have a pet dog named Luna, I'm 156ibs and I'm 5'6ft tall. I would love to get along with my special someone and see what we can build together..


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Sunrise Chaser, Sunset Lover: Let’s Embrace Life’s Moments Together Female 31 from Minneapolis Minnesota, USA

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I’m down for fun DM ME if you’re interested Female 29 from Minneapolis Minnesota, USA

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