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Im 46 years old, living in the Minnesota Lake region. Female 46 from Minnesota Lake Minnesota, USA

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please be real and honest. . Female 43 from Saint Paul Minnesota, USA

I’m not sure how to start this. I am pretty active this days. I walk a mile and run a mile 3 to 4 times a week . I love hiking, I haven’t had anyone to hike with the last few years. I love pretty much anything outdoors.I also like going out for a movie, hanging out with friends , a nice dinner , a museum .
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Skilled and experience DOM seeking a long time relationship with ONE submissive .. Female 33 from Kasson Minnesota, USA

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