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I am kinky, I am dominant, I am superior, I am demanding and will not have it an.. Female 33 from Minneapolis Minnesota, USA

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Im 48 years old, living in the Baltimore region. Female 48 from Wisconsin Dells Wisconsin, USA

I'm 48 years old, living in the Baltimore region.
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Im Sharon Seeking for some kinda fun thatll possibly end up in a long term re.. Female 35 from Minnetonka Minnesota, USA

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I like outdoor camping, seafood and luxury Female 32 from Chippewa Falls Wisconsin, USA

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Im Looking for a simplistic man with a serious sense of Humor, A Loving, Car.. Female 40 from Saint Paul Minnesota, USA

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I have strong opinions, big ideas, and an articulate tongue. My special skills.. Female 39 from Minneapolis Minnesota, USA

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Im ready to offer strict, yet sensual domination to all submissives and I genui.. Female 38 from Des Moines Iowa, USA

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Im experienced Dom been into this  lifestyle for many years looking for somethi.. Female 23 from Minneapolis Minnesota, USA

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I’m very understanding, open minded with a heart of forgiving, loving and carin.. Female 47 from Indianola Iowa, USA

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I’m a dominant mistress seeking a submissive sub to worship me and lick my pussy.. Female 36 from Kansas City Missouri, USA

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lm a single seeking a couples or female friend or a gentle man. My top priori.. Female 25 from Illinois City Illinois, USA

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I am a mistress seeking for a sub to train as my personal pet for my own persona.. Female 33 from Wisconsin Rapids Wisconsin, USA

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Hello who’s readying this am Nina by name am 32 years old single never been marr.. Female 36 from Tennessee Illinois, USA

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Kind, adequate and fair. I get very attached to people and consider this my weak.. Female 36 from Nevada Iowa, USA

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I want to close my eyes while I rest my head on your chest and breathe in your s.. Female 26 from Indianola Iowa, USA

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I am a sexy mistress, naughty and wild enof to satisfy the fantasies of a ver l.. Female 31 from Minneapolis Minnesota, USA

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Im 38 years old, living in the Sacramento region. Female 38 from Nevada Iowa, USA

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I seek a lil kinky sub that will serve and obey me. Female 56 from Minnetonka Minnesota, USA

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