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Im 20 years old, living in the Stillwater region. Female 20 from Stillwater Minnesota, USA

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I am a creative person, romantic and independent. I work hard, have strong ambit.. Female 63 from Missouri Valley Iowa, USA

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I am looking for a 24/7 long term relationship. Female 53 from Madison Wisconsin, USA

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I am a DOMINANT woman, who enjoys training men on how to be a loyal and submissi.. Female 35 from Illinois City Illinois, USA

I am a DOMINANT woman,  who enjoys    Face sitting feminization, bondage, Chasity,
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Don’t like blood, faeces or pain


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Love and understanding , I’m actually down to earth I’m seeking for love and und.. Female 39 from Minneapolis Minnesota, USA

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I have a lot of kindness, tenderness, love, and care to give.


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Im here looking for a submissive partner Female 25 from Wisconsin Rapids Wisconsin, USA

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Im 65 years old, living in the Riverside region. Female 66 from Riverside Iowa, USA

I'm 65 years old, living in the Riverside region.
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I like to be licked from side to side, I hope to find a submissive who can be that person, I’m new in the neighborhood..


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I’m looking to meet that special person for me Female 40 from Cedar Falls Iowa, USA

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I am easy going and supportive . i value life and people in my life. I m tender .. Female 36 from Iowa City Iowa, USA

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