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I'm 36 years old, living in the Minnesota Lake region.
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Im Looking for a simplistic man with a serious sense of Humor, A Loving, Car.. Female 40 from Saint Paul Minnesota, USA

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Don’t feel shy to say hi I’m sweet Female 43 from Junction City Kansas, USA

I’m a down to earth person when you get to know me,I’m real ,open-minded, i don’t hide my feeling when it comes to the matters of the heart..I want to share my life with someone who will love me for what I am and want the same in return.


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The most important quality I have; Ill tell you when we meet. I can say for sur.. Female 41 from Kansas City Missouri, USA

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Hoping to find someone to help me discover my fantasies Female 37 from Nevada Iowa, USA

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i am happy soul.. hope you are? Female 55 from Iowa City Iowa, USA

i like coffee ... do you have a favorites plants.
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not for the faint of heart ⛓️ Female 31 from Des Moines Iowa, USA

La dominatrix and loves camping, fishing, hiking, skiing and swimming… no sex talks please


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I’m just a honest and trustworthy mistress Female 38 from Nebraska City Nebraska, USA

I am a DOMINANT woman, who enjoys training men on how to be a loyal and submissive man, ready to please his partner and how to live the alternate BDSM lifestyle. I've led the BDSM lifestyle for years now, i am not into blood  or any form of permanent markings or bruises, i am not into much pain at all, rather, i like the kinky role play, bondage play, pussy worship, foot worship, and other special ways at pleasuring one's partner. My main aim is to derive pleasure in ways unexplainable. There's so much to this lifestyle i want to show to my potential sub. All i want is your obedience and loyalty, and above all, your submission to me as your mistress.


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Im 45 years old, living in the Kennesaw region. Female 45 from Iowa Falls Iowa, USA

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Im 45 years old, living in the Minneapolis region. Female 45 from Minneapolis Minnesota, USA

I'm 45 years old, living in the Minneapolis region.
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come and lets cum together for my cum is yours and yours is mine. Couple 59, 59 from Sioux Falls South Dakota, USA

Older man (no trans or non-binary, sorry.) 50-89 range, experienced, employed, dad-bod or in-shape -- not super picky about looks, but I do at minimum want to be initially attracted, taller than me, good hygiene, employed, okay with going slow when needed and teaching, fun personality, okay with a friendship/rapport outside of sex, able to host or open to hotels (i am unable to host).


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I am a dominant mistress. I have enjoyed this lifestyle ever since I bullied my .. Female 32 from Mission Kansas, USA

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Hello good day everyone, how are you doing today, nice meeting you i am Maria 32.. Female 40 from Minnesota Lake Minnesota, USA

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