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I’m interested in a man who can laugh, be playful and light hearted, one who is .. Female 48 from Minnesota Lake Minnesota, USA

Am very understanding, open minded with a heart of forgiving,  loving and caring with sense of humor,  hard working with cheerful character, honest, sincere, kind,  warm and intelligent with good look .


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l am ready to to dominate who ever is willing to submit to me , lets explore an.. Female 46 from Illinois City Illinois, USA

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Unicorn search, dinner dancing chill Couple 42, 40 from Illinois City Illinois, USA

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I am looking for something real Female 49 from Des Moines Iowa, USA

I am a sub looking for a 24/7 TPE where I serve you and obey you. Yes, I understand what that means. Yes, I understand how it works. However, I am looking for a relationship with a partner that understands this type of relationship is still a give and take for both parties.


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are your eyes trying to strip me off my clothes?? Female 37 from Wisconsin Dells Wisconsin, USA

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Llooking for some BDSM and Fetish and have fun , hit me up if you’re interested Female 41 from Ohio Illinois, USA

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Im 25 years old, living in the Garden Grove region. Female 25 from Garden Grove Iowa, USA

I'm 25 years old, living in the Garden Grove region.
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As to my personality, I am proud of the following trait of character, like being.. Female 48 from Missouri Valley Iowa, USA

I am an energetic, lucky and purposeful lady. I strongly believe that if I really want something, I'll definitely get it. Now I dream to find my soulmate and share my life with him. You must be sure I am positive and kind person, it is easy for me to find common language with different kinds of people. I am honest and frank. I am perfect hostess and I adore cooking.


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I’m new here looking for friends Female 43 from Minnesota Lake Minnesota, USA

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Im 35 years old, living in the Coralville region. Female 35 from Coralville Iowa, USA

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We are roommates looking to date someone together as well as separately Couple 45, 32 from Kansas City Missouri, USA

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If you don’t live within a 50 mile radius of Kansas City, we appreciate the thought however we will not respond.


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Skilled and experience DOM seeking a long time relationship with ONE submissive .. Female 33 from Kasson Minnesota, USA

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Im 37 years old, living in the Wisconsin Rapids region. Female 37 from Wisconsin Rapids Wisconsin, USA

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I seek a lil kinky sub that will serve and obey me. Female 56 from Minnetonka Minnesota, USA

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Am new here ready to makes new Female 37 from Ohio Illinois, USA

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Im 31 years old, living in the Denver region. Female 31 from Iowa City Iowa, USA

I'm 31 years old, living in the Denver region.
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