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Im a jovial and kind person seeking happiness... Female 44 from Illinois City Illinois, USA

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I amOnly Dominant when in Bed and I always want My sub to do every single thing .. Female 31 from Minnesota Lake Minnesota, USA

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Im 54 years old, living in the Iowa Falls region. Female 54 from Iowa Falls Iowa, USA

I'm 54 years old, living in the Iowa Falls region.
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I am an up going lady ready for a new adventure Female 42 from Oregon Wisconsin, USA

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Dom/sub relationships consist of two or more people who fall into the categories.. Female 40 from Saint Paul Minnesota, USA

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I am experienced and mature woman who still desire to be happy. I am like a fire.. Female 36 from Tennessee Illinois, USA

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Im 39 years old, living in the Maiden Rock region. Female 39 from Maiden Rock Wisconsin, USA

I'm 39 years old, living in the Maiden Rock region.
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A healthy BDSM relationship is a healthy mixture of fantasy and reality Female 28 from Wisconsin Dells Wisconsin, USA

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Im 43 years old, living in the Iowa Falls region. Female 43 from Iowa Falls Iowa, USA

I'm 43 years old, living in the Iowa Falls region.
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I like a lot of things Open to explore Female 27 from Illinois City Illinois, USA

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You don’t want to get on my last nerve, be prepared for what you’re getting into.. Female 43 from Oregon Wisconsin, USA

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I'm Sarah but you have no choice but to call me Mistress. I'm a professional Dominatrix of six years practicing My craft in "Brisbane". I prefer an organic and genuine encounter over providing you with a menu to choose from, however here is a shortened list of my skilled abilities: Latex fetish & worship, Bondage (chains, ropes, leather, plastic etc) Foot fetish/Foot worship etc.


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Hello Im looking for a companion. Someone with a big personality but able to gi.. Female 33 from Arizona Mexico, USA

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I’m new on here seeking for anything serious but I ain’t here for games or drama.. Female 41 from Dakota City Iowa, USA

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A calm cool woman looking to find a relationship Female 52 from Menomonie Wisconsin, USA

Looking to find a relationship with a man who is ever ready to communicate with his woman


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I like to be adventurous and active. Female 40 from Iowa Falls Iowa, USA

I am a simple lady, energetic lover and passionate about what and who I want! Not here for granted or to get some games being played on


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Im 35 years old, living in the Oregon region. Female 35 from Oregon Illinois, USA

I'm 35 years old, living in the Oregon region.
I'm interested in meeting a transgender person or a man aged between 32 and 95.


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Somos pareja en busca de una fantasía un trío con un hombre maduro Couple 22, 29 from Des Moines Iowa, USA

Somos alegre nos gusta el sexo abierto somos  liberal nos gusta bailar nos gusta conose personas amistosas esperemos conose a alguien para salir de la rutina


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Im ready to offer strict, yet sensual domination to all submissives and I genui.. Female 38 from Des Moines Iowa, USA

I am very open and really interested in serious and worthy person who knows that their rightful place is under my feet, to worship my body, ass and feet.


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Im experienced Dom been into this  lifestyle for many years looking for somethi.. Female 28 from Lafayette Minnesota, USA

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Im 42 years old, living in the Missouri Valley region. Female 42 from Missouri Valley Iowa, USA

I'm 42 years old, living in the Missouri Valley region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 50 and 90.


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