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Middle aged m/f couple here we just love sex and to experiment and just the exci.. Couple 52, 52 from Peoria Heights Illinois, USA

Watching and cuckhold turns us on,my girlfriend loves to watch


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I love dogs and everything they do… Female 36 from Ohio Illinois, USA

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I am an experienced dom seeking submissive who ready to explore their fantasies Female 41 from Des Moines Iowa, USA

As a dominant mistress, I am looking to explore my kinks with submissive male who ready to explore the lifestyle


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i am happy soul.. hope you are? Female 55 from Iowa City Iowa, USA

i like coffee ... do you have a favorites plants.
looking for my submissive


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I promise i wil do anything to make you happy, I promise i will never let you do.. Female 53 from Saint Paul Minnesota, USA

I feel like I have never truly made love because I have never had someone who has truly loved me


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Adventure seeker Looking for fun and connection Female 34 from Minneapolis Minnesota, USA

Hey there! I'm a fun-loving adventurer who enjoys exploring new experiences and meeting like-minded people. In my free time, you can find me hiking, trying out new recipes in the kitchen, or dancing the night away. I'm looking for genuine connections and exciting encounters with open-minded individuals who embrace their desires. Let's create unforgettable memories together!


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Hello there I live in the Atlanta area Female 32 from Manhattan Kansas, USA

I’m looking for long term fun relationship , I would love to meet new people on here


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Looking for someone with a big cock. 7 inches or bigger, preferably girthy and c.. Couple 28, 28 from Cedar Falls Iowa, USA

I'm a huge pervert open to many fantasies and am very recently exploring cuckold stuff (which I'm very surprised i want to try), which is why I'm here.


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I enjoy the small moments. I love to be in the present. I value and appreciate t.. Female 39 from Ohio Illinois, USA

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Am here looking for some serious relationship with happiness Female 61 from Ohio Illinois, USA

I will be very happy to meet the right man who is very honest


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I seek a lil kinky sub that will serve and obey me. Female 56 from Minnetonka Minnesota, USA

I go by Yolanda Walker , and addressing me as Mistress is non-negotiable. With few year of expertise as a professional Dominatrix in Brisbane, I prioritize authentic encounterover predefined menus. Although I prefer the organic experience, here's a brief overview of my expertise, including Latex fetish and worship, Bondage using various materials (chains, ropes, leather, plastic, etc.), and indulging in Foot fetish and worship, among other skills. The unholy trinity of My wit, skill and ferocity will have you on your hands an knees at my disposal. I am the Succubus of your wet Nightmart.


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I’m open for anything but I want someone honest Female 35 from Minneapolis Minnesota, USA

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How would you feel submitting to a well-experience d Mistress? Female 35 from Ohio Illinois, USA

I'm seeking a loyal and ready sub to
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WISH I COULD COLLAR A SUBMISSIVE TO TRAIN AND COLLAR AS MINE Female 32 from Minneapolis Minnesota, USA

I like feminization, bondage,  chastity,  shemales,  panties/lingerie,  humiliation,  pegging,  anal,  alot of things really.
Don't like blood,  or pain.


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I am a faithful woman looking for a man with dignity to share my love with.. I a.. Female 52 from Nevada Iowa, USA

I enjoy the outdoors, Cooking, watching movies and listening to music..


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The very first criterion in choosing a man will be his attitude towards me. I un.. Female 38 from Ohio Illinois, USA

Hi my name is Jasmine very friendly, open, smiling, you will want to talk to me and ask me something. I love and really appreciate people who are constantly developing. I love very much to speak on interesting topics, to think over the meaning of life. In a relationship, it is important for me to be one with my man, to have common views on life, to be interesting to each other, and want to start a family one day ?


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Embracing life journey with grace and determination. Female 49 from Ohio Illinois, USA

include meaningful relationships, pursuing personal goals and passions, feeling appreciated and valued, maintaining good physical and mental health, experiencing moments of joy and fulfillment,


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am here looking for the rightman online here dont mind what it will lead to Female 52 from Minnesota Lake Minnesota, USA

am danielle by name a widow am here looking for the rightman of my choice so we can spend the rest of my life as couples


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Looking for a long term 24/7 TPE Female 49 from Des Moines Iowa, USA

Hi! I am a submissive with a few hard limits, that has lived a life of leadership. I am tired and ready to make my soul happy, and in turn make someone else's soul happy too. I want to serve and obey at your feet knowing I am cherished and respected for what I give. I crave your guidance, structure, and discipline.


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A healthy BDSM relationship is a healthy mixture of fantasy and reality. So, you.. Female 31 from Minneapolis Minnesota, USA

As you may have seen on My profile on the site, I am kinky, I am dominant, I am superior, I am demanding and will not have it any other way.


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Optimism, love of life and joy of life is my second self! Female 40 from Denver Iowa, USA

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I am straight dominant, strict, possessive and also a loving mistress who seeks .. Female 39 from Oregon Wisconsin, USA

I am straight dominant, strict, possessive and also a loving mistress who seeks a sub for total domination. i am interested in owning a sub as my personal and private property to have sub, worship me in the dungeon.


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Enveloped within the captivating allure of the feminine,an irresistible magnetis.. Female 34 from Nebraska City Nebraska, USA

I am an amazing Dom searching for a loyal Sub to share my kinky ways with....  Who knows It might be you if we're both lucky...


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Im 73 years old, living in the Ohio region. Female 73 from Ohio Illinois, USA

I'm 73 years old, living in the Ohio region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 41 and 99.


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Can you make me laugh and explore Female 58 from Coon Rapids Iowa, USA

I am a cheerful and positive woman who sees silver lining under any circumstances. I am tender, sensitive, faithful and kind. I have much love and tenderness to give. This is who i am in general terms but i hope it can give some image of my personality. I will advice you to get to know me bette. If you are looking for live and energetic woman, here I am. My credo - is being active, positive, optimistic and light person.


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