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My wit, skill, and ferocity form a formidable trio that will leave you at my mer.. Female 28 from Oregon Wisconsin, USA

I go by Angela, and addressing me as Mistress is non-negotiable. With few years of expertise as a professional Dominatrix in Brisbane, I prioritize authentic encounters over predefined menus. Although I prefer the organic experience, here's a brief overview of my expertise, including Latex fetish and worship, Bondage using various materials (chains, ropes, leather, plastic, etc.), and indulging in Foot fetish and worship, among other skills.


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Im Looking for a simplistic man with a serious sense of Humor, A Loving, Car.. Female 40 from Saint Paul Minnesota, USA

I enjoy the outdoors, especially. the beach. Walking on the beach at night, waves crashing restlessly, a million stars in the sky, ahhh perfect for me. I also like dining out, plays, movies, art (another of my passions). I'm pretty flexible as far as activities goes,like to be listening to music movies,playing basketball and going to gym


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Hello, I’m new to the world of bdsm and looking to explore and learn more about .. Female 26 from Saint Paul Minnesota, USA

I love the bond of being able to give complete control and trust to my dom. I’ve only explored wax play a couple of times but it is one of my favorite things to do.


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I need a loyal one to serve and treat me nice for a long time Female 31 from Oregon Wisconsin, USA

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am a romantic young woman and it is not that difficult to evoke a smile on my fa.. Female 46 from Minneapolis Minnesota, USA

I know there are no ideal people in this world. But I always see the best in every person. I believe that the main thing we need in this life is love. Life without love will never give us such amazing experience, you will never open all the aspects of happiness and feelings in yourself, if you won't open it in your partner. I am risky and decisive woman and I am ready to change my life and start it from the very beginning with my future husband. I have a lot of friends, though not many of them are close people. I am very loyal and devoted to the people I love, my family, my true friends and my future beloved. I am a romantic young woman and it is not that difficult to evoke a smile on my face.


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Looking for my next pig...you know your like it. Female 39 from Saint Paul Minnesota, USA

I wanted some man who gets off on giving me money or what I want.


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Im 35 years old, living in the Des Moines region. Female 35 from Des Moines Iowa, USA

I'm 35 years old, living in the Des Moines region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 40 and 85.


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Hello kinksters , You can call me Princess Loshe I’m here to explore the world o.. Female 34 from Minneapolis Minnesota, USA

Please don’t add me as a friend unless we’ve had some kind of interaction here. Feel free to follow to keep up with me


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Hi !! I am Karina, a strict corporal dominatrix seeking for a male BDSM partner,.. Female 32 from Kansas City Kansas, USA

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This is not just a want in my life its a must I am wanting a 24/7 Dominant/Dad.. Female 53 from Eden Prairie Minnesota, USA

A bratt that needs to be controlled and collared basically stripped of thoughts and clothes and built the way someone wants


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Im 35 years old, living in the Oregon region. Female 35 from Oregon Illinois, USA

I'm 35 years old, living in the Oregon region.
I'm interested in meeting a transgender person or a man aged between 32 and 95.


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I am new here looking for a soulmate and someone to spend the rest of our lives .. Female 38 from Des Moines Iowa, USA

I am Maria from North Carolina single hoping one day I will be a mother let chat and know more about each other


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Im 39 years old, living in the Saint Paul region. Female 40 from Saint Paul Minnesota, USA

I'm 39 years old, living in the Saint Paul region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 30 and 99.


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I’m here searching for a soulmate to spend the rest of my life with Female 40 from Ohio Illinois, USA

I’m a woman who lives life as it comes to me. I don’t worry  about tomorrow, for it will be here no matter what I do.The best days of my life are yet to come and i am looking for someone who will love ❤️ and care about me for a long time relationship that can lead to marriage.


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are your eyes trying to strip me off my clothes?? Female 37 from Wisconsin Dells Wisconsin, USA

looking for sub to train to serve this mistress pussy with loyalty


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please be real and honest. . Female 43 from Saint Paul Minnesota, USA

I’m not sure how to start this. I am pretty active this days. I walk a mile and run a mile 3 to 4 times a week . I love hiking, I haven’t had anyone to hike with the last few years. I love pretty much anything outdoors.I also like going out for a movie, hanging out with friends , a nice dinner , a museum .
I’m just a simple woman with a simple lifestyle. I’m not just looking for true love , I’m looking for my last love. Have a great day and  a better life time


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Im 34 years old, living in the Minnetonka region. Female 34 from Minnetonka Minnesota, USA

I'm 34 years old, living in the Minnetonka region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 18 and 99.


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LOOKING TO DOMINATE A SUBMISSIVE IN THIS WEBSITE Female 32 from Minneapolis Minnesota, USA

I like feminization, bondage,  chastity,  shemales,  panties/lingerie,  humiliation,  pegging,  anal,  alot of things really.
Don't like blood,  or pain.


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Looking for my Netflix and Chill Female 52 from Minneapolis Minnesota, USA

I love to plan my trips and go out on mini-adventures once I feel comfortable there. You can say I'm an organized free-spirit. I love to try out new food, immerse myself in the beautiful culture of other places, and meet locals. I'm excited to meet you so we can plan our next adventure together


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Looking for a gentleman who is freaky and have fun with, Gg chat is same as user.. Female 41 from Saint Paul Minnesota, USA

I want to have fun and more , ask me anything and remember to inbox me here with your contacts..


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I’ve never had BDSM. All I want is a partner to try it out with. Female 35 from Iowa City Iowa, USA

What makes me happy is seeing those around me happy and knowing I put those happiness on their faces


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I am here taking mine to find someone who I will spend the rest of my life with .. Female 52 from Ohio Illinois, USA

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Looking forward to exploring my dominant sexual desires. Feel free to let me kno.. Female 50 from Ames Iowa, USA

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There is pleasure in pain, small but mighty. Female 33 from Illinois City Illinois, USA

An obedient sub is better than 5 unworthy ones, let’s play


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