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Im just a honest and trustworthy mistress that want to spanked Female 37 from Kansas City Kansas, USA

I'm a dominant mistress looking for loyal submissive obedient understanding malesub to own and collar on 247 in the bdsm lifestyle


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Looking for, ages 25-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

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Hi there, new here and ready to meet new people Female 27 from Wichita Kansas, USA

I’m happy, calm, warm, honest, independent woman, positive outlook on life, highly respectful to myself and others, sincere and kindhearted.


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She is the perfect woman. Polite, honest and kind... but with a very dirty mind Female 33 from Dearing Kansas, USA

Let's explore our deepest desires subbie and have that fun we crave for so badly


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Im looking for a love, hookup and long term relationship Female 39 from Cheney Kansas, USA

I'm looking for love, long term relationship and hookup too and am new on here if your interested in it you just message me and see where it's will lead us to right.?


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Looking for my soul mate and lover Female 45 from Oklahoma City Oklahoma, USA

My most important weapon is my playfulness, sexuality, kindness, and honesty. I understand that it's hard for people to trust each other lately. It was hard for me to do that. But I decided to be honest and open, and you won't believe me. I began to be surrounded by good, open and sympathetic people. I am a family man and I have a very friendly relationship with my family. For me, my family is the main treasure. I am a romantic, gentle woman. I always see only the best in people. is this my advantage or disadvantage? My friends often say that I have eyes like a cat. Do you think there is a chance to find love on this dating site? I never lie, and I can't live with someone who does.


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Looking for new like-minded friends to join in our playful adventures. so& Couple 46, 46 from Kansas City Missouri, USA

We both enjoy the other being turned on and will do anything to fullfill each other’s desires. We have dabbled in ENM and are ready to explore more!


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i am seeking for fun i promise to summit my self Female 35 from Wichita Kansas, USA

i am easy going person  i hate to lie or feel hurt


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Don’t feel shy to say hi I’m sweet Female 43 from Junction City Kansas, USA

I’m a down to earth person when you get to know me,I’m real ,open-minded, i don’t hide my feeling when it comes to the matters of the heart..I want to share my life with someone who will love me for what I am and want the same in return.


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I am proud of who I am and have become in our community. I live and breath the l.. Female 33 from Arkansas City Kansas, USA

I hope that this open and honest insight into my life has piqued your interest and after reviewing, you would like to enjoy a session with me , we will be able to discuss your interests, limitations and tribute fully.


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Im 36 years old, living in the Kingman region. Female 36 from Kingman Kansas, USA

Heyy guys is Vanessa if you are interested in me let’s chat


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Im a sweet single lady, Im open, caring and sample. Im also have good heart w.. Female 34 from Dearing Kansas, USA

I'm 34 years old, living in the Dearing region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 55 and 88.


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The majority of women judge men by their achievements and financial success. But.. Female 40 from Wichita Kansas, USA

I’m good person and loving. I work hard and like to meeting new people, I am ambitious and very kind lady with good sense humor. I am ready for a serious relationship. I am active and a smart lady. .if you like what you see try look for Cthrismth on something that looks like q ee male ..I hope you don’t only see my beauty side but also trust my words that I am kind, polite with family values. Yes, I love family and family is my priority right now, but at the same time I have ambitions and do not want to be just a housewife with whom my future husband will feel bored.


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My goal is to start a new page in my life by giving happiness and finding it for.. Female 36 from Arkansas City Kansas, USA

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Looking for a one night stand only Female 59 from Goddard Kansas, USA

Getting screwed while hubby watches. Feeling it going in and out of me


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Im 33 years old, living in the Idaho City region. Female 33 from Hutchinson Kansas, USA

I'm 33 years old, living in the Hutchison Kansas region. I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 30 and 90.


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I Never take anyone for granted especially the one who put trust on me I Just co.. Female 25 from Kansas City Missouri, USA

Hey Guys, I’m anne ! I’m a very CLEAN & sweet girl, & Very Straight Foward & To The Point! I love having FUN, I enjoying playing around


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Medusa seeking a loyal sub and sissy for punishment, pleasure and training to be.. Female 38 from Manhattan Kansas, USA

This Queen wants to meet a true sub. True doms and subs know age, experience and appearance are secondary. Submissiveness is what matters.
If you are sub and want to be pampered and obedient, treated and disciplined and want to live your wildest fantasies, let's talk.


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I am a Dominant mistress looking for a serious, submissive and committed to serv.. Female 40 from Wichita Kansas, USA

I like feminization, bondage,  chastity,  pussy You worship, Ass face sitting, Role play, Ass licking, panties/lingerie,  humiliation,  pegging,  anal,  alot of things really.
Don't like blood, or pain


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i need and Good, Honest, caring and Loving man. Female 59 from Cheney Kansas, USA

I am Confident, Serious, Responsible. Humble and Decent with so much love to give to the right man


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I believe that a man can make a woman happy with simple things, giving her warmt.. Female 57 from Cheney Kansas, USA

Age does matter! A man should be open and not hide something from his companion. This is the foundation of happiness, isn't it?


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I can be described as a kind gentle girl Female 38 from Cheney Kansas, USA

am looking for a peaceful man here. I am an active and passionate woman with my dreams and thoughts. My friends say that I am communicative, kind, honest, and reliable, and I agree with these characteristics. I am also an outgoing person - I like to meet new people and I make friends easily.


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I am very nice to talk to and feel free to text me Female 63 from Kansas City Missouri, USA

I love everything that life can offer. I am an optimistic person who always tries to see the sun in the clouds. I am easy-going and supportive. I am tender, sweet, feminine and very sensitive. I want to be a little bit mysterious for my beloved man and constantly open something new for him. My friends say that I have a good sense of humor. I love to make surprises, give and receive gifts and flowers. I will always help my closest people in need what ever happened. Helping others is a true pleasure for me. I feel best when everyone else is smiling.


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Im 47 years old, living in the Bartlesville region. Female 47 from Bartlesville Oklahoma, USA

I'm 47 years old, living in the Bartlesville region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 50 and 85.


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I like romance and all the things that are included. I need eclectic and chivalr.. Female 42 from Cheney Kansas, USA

I like romance and all the things that are included. I need eclectic and chivalrous man. When he likes to help me with a jacket, open doors for me and walk hand in hand. I especially enjoy going out in public with my man on his arm.


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Brown eyed submissive looking for an experienced Dominant Female 40 from Wichita Kansas, USA

I am a submissive that is looking for a Dominant that is experienced and will help me fully embrace and grow in my role. I was a submissive for 3 years and during that time I learned many things about myself and would like to continue learning and experiencing new things. I thrive on rules, tasks, punishments and pleasing my Dominant.


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