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I am a person who really knows what she wants, and who is ready for a real meeti.. Female 41 from Galesburg Kansas, USA

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Im 35 years old, living in the California City region. Female 35 from Tampa Kansas, USA

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Im 35 years old, living in the Wichita ks Female 35 from Wichita Kansas, USA

I'm 35 years old, living in the Wichita ksI'm interested in meeting a man aged between 36 and 90.


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I am a big tease so all your buttons will be pushed until I find the things that.. Female 31 from Oklahoma City Oklahoma, USA

I enjoy kinks, fetish, and making you feel worthless. I want a completely devoted sub who is only interested in making me happy as his dominant and willing to get committed to his fantasy.


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I just want to be happy, life is simple if you understand that, I am a kind and .. Female 51 from Wichita Kansas, USA

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I’m new on here and hoping for the best Female 42 from Dearing Kansas, USA

I’m easy going, friendly, a lover and free person. I’m honest and straightforward, a devoted Christian also.


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We are a horny couple that are looking for some fun Couple 50, 33 from Kansas City Missouri, USA

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I’m just a honest and trustworthy mistress Female 38 from Nebraska City Nebraska, USA

I am a DOMINANT woman, who enjoys training men on how to be a loyal and submissive man, ready to please his partner and how to live the alternate BDSM lifestyle. I've led the BDSM lifestyle for years now, i am not into blood  or any form of permanent markings or bruises, i am not into much pain at all, rather, i like the kinky role play, bondage play, pussy worship, foot worship, and other special ways at pleasuring one's partner. My main aim is to derive pleasure in ways unexplainable. There's so much to this lifestyle i want to show to my potential sub. All i want is your obedience and loyalty, and above all, your submission to me as your mistress.


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Well am single and never been married.whiles  looking to find a concious man to .. Female 31 from Wichita Kansas, USA

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Hello there I live in the Atlanta area Female 32 from Manhattan Kansas, USA

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I am experienced and mature woman who still desire to be happy. I am like a fire.. Female 38 from Cheney Kansas, USA

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I’m single with no kids never been married looking forward to meet someone very .. Female 32 from Arkansas City Kansas, USA

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Servitude is a choice and not a thing you were ask to do, so act alright when yo.. Female 53 from Dearing Kansas, USA

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Seeking to be owned,used and dominated Female 39 from Wichita Kansas, USA

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I need a dom to provide me a home and stable peace of mind Female 25 from Wichita Kansas, USA

I love go crochet and do puzzles I am more of a home body. 420
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Im 36 years old, living in the Arkansas City region. Female 36 from Arkansas City Kansas, USA

I'm 36 years old, living in the Arkansas City region.
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Fun loving and caring very sensual Female 43 from Wichita Kansas, USA

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As to my personality, I am proud of the following trait of character, like being.. Female 48 from Missouri Valley Iowa, USA

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Im 30 years old, living in the Kansas City region. Female 30 from Kansas City Kansas, USA

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