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Straight
Looking for, ages 29-86.
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I'm a dominant mistress who has lived this lifestyle for years, and looking for a new sub to explore this Lifestyle together
Straight
Looking for, ages 40-89.
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39 years, educated, articulate, tall, great shape, work out regularly, average build, safe, sane, healthy, ddf, fun.
Straight
Looking for, ages 39-71.
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Interests, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Sex Toys

I've often wondered what I can't do. The answer was simple. I could not find what my heart was looking for. My search brought me here and I hope this is the right place and the right time. I am open to dialogue with my heart and soul. I am simple and smart.
Straight
Looking for, ages 70-90.
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Interests, Couples

Let’s start with this: I’m Dominant Goddess Mistress. Very Dominant. I’m glad that’s been cleared up. Are you curious about being tied up and gagged? Let me show you how it’s done. I’m experienced Dom with toys to play withI live in Wisconsin, and yes, I’m a real person. I’m originally Swedish, and i’m a cosmetologist. If we click, expect to be tied up, gagged, and...well, whatever else we can come up with. I do tend to like older men.I’m here for a real time relationship, and marriage. I’m not here for one night stand with a sub. I’m kinky and ready to tie my sub up, gag him, spank him, choke him, and fuck him.Anyways, let Me know if you are available to learn how to be a good sub to a very passionate, kinky and dominant woman.
Straight
Looking for, ages 40-76.
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Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

I'm Jane Tapley but you have no choice but to call me Mistress. I'm a professional Dominatrix for 4 years practicing My craft in "Wisconsin ". I prefer an organic and genuine encounter over providing you with a menu to choose from, however here is a shortened list of my skilled abilities: Latex fetish & worship, Bondage (chains, ropes, leather, plastic etc) Foot fetish/Foot worship etc.
Straight
Looking for, ages 35-85.
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on the bed i will hold your lovely cock and start to suck it with all the balls and as soon as its hard i will hold it gentle and put it into my sweet pussy and we shall start to fuck each other
Straight
Looking for, ages 43-81.
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Interests, BDSM, Cuckold, Fetish, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage

Am a dominant woman seeking for a submissive to expand his horizon to different fantasies
Straight
Looking for, ages 63-90.
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I'm a quite woman, who like to make her partner happy. I need a genuine man, to love, care, be honest, be honest and loyal to me. If you're that man
Straight
Looking for, ages 45-85.
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Interests, Anal, BDSM, Body Hair, Curves, Exhibitionism, Leather / Latex, Mature, Temperature Play

Mistress looking for submissive subs for longterm meets.
Where do I begin, I am looking for someone interesting and articulate. Sane and sober,I have always had control of my environment and remain the same till this day. My flavor is strict mommy Dom. I don't bend the rules but I am fair like a mother should be. So if your looking for an erotic intense sm Bbw cum play in my sandbox.
Bisexual
Looking for, ages 50-90.
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I couldn't help touching myself yet another time. Are you ready to get kinky with me.
Straight
Looking for, ages 65-90.
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Interests, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M

single never been married and am an independent woman
Straight
Looking for, ages 50-90.
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Looking to find a relationship with a man who is ever ready to communicate with his woman
Straight
Looking for, ages 40-90.
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Interests, Age Gap, BDSM, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Dom, Group Sex, Lingerie, MILF, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Threesomes

I hope to meet the man who will change my life and let me change his. Who wants happiness and to be happy. I hope he will look in my eyes and read everything there. I don't like to talk too much. I like body language, smiles, touches, like to show how I feel. Words will fade from your memory, touches will stay with you forever.
Straight
Looking for, ages 39-90.
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Interests, BBW / BHM, MILF, Outdoor Fun, Sexual Massage

Looking for a relationship, casual hookup open to anything, bdsm
Straight
Looking for, ages 61-90.
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Interests, BDSM, Dom

I'm 38 years old, living in the Minneapolis region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 29 and 94.
Straight
Looking for, ages 29-90.
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Interests, Age Gap, Age play, Anal, ASMR, BBW / BHM, Body Hair, Bondage, Couples, Crossdress, Cuckold, Curves, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Dom, Edging, Electro Play, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Feet, Fetish, Group Sex, Impact Play, Lace, Leather / Latex, Lingerie, Mature, Nylons, Oral, Pegging, Roleplay, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Temperature Play, Voyeurism, Webcam

savoring delicious soul food at local restaurants, attending community events that celebrate her culture, or spending time outdoors enjoying Minnesota's natural beauty
Straight
Looking for, ages 47-73.
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Interests,

I’m a sexy dom, that is is looking for a submissive man
Straight
Looking for, ages 23-75.
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Interests, BDSM, Dom, Fetish, Roleplay

Be confident, don’t start a conversation if you aren’t going to keep up. I enjoy good company
Straight
Looking for, ages 25-79.
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Interests, BDSM, Dom, Fetish, Sex Toys

I have many turn-ons, will further enlighten you just how far I'll go if we seem to have the right connection. I love to be dominated/controlled , and get a deep satisfaction out of being watched and desired. Pretty new to indulging the dominatrix within myself, but there's only one way to learn If I don't respond to you, it's probable my lack of savviness with technology is showing, or site access limitations. IF SERIOUS and not just looking to bang, hit me up.
Heteroflexible
Looking for, ages 31-59.
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Interests, BDSM, Discreet Meets, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Roleplay, S&M, Sub, Webcam

The best way to describe myself is rock and roll with a dash of soul and jazz. I believe in living life, not just being a spectator. I work to live, not live to work. I take each day as it comes and try to make the absolute most of it. Nothing makes me happier at the end of the day feeling like, "Wow, that was great!" and looking forward to making the next day even better.
I am a quality, positive, creative, caring, classy, fun-loving woman t! I have a big heart almost to a fault and am a good listener. I'm simplistic, yet I do like to enjoy the finer things in life from time to time, provided they are within my means.I am like a bottle of good champagne, bubbly and sweet. I have a good sense of humor, spontaneous at times and young at heart. I am a person of integrity and honesty. I love to live life to the full at life's mom-
Straight
Looking for, ages 43-90.
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Interests, Dirty Talk, Mature, Oral, Sex Talk, Sub, Temperature Play, Tickle Play

I love caring for people and making people feel special.
Bisexual
Looking for, ages 48-61.
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Interests, BDSM, Dirty Talk, Outdoor Fun, Roleplay, Sex Talk, Sexual Massage, Sub, Threesomes

I'm 39 years old, living in the Kansas City region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 40 and 90.
Straight
Looking for, ages 40-90.
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Interests, Age Gap, Age play, Anal, ASMR, BBW / BHM, BDSM, Body Hair, Bondage, Bukkake, Crossdress, Cuckold, Curves, Dirty Talk, Dom, Edging, Electro Play, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Feet, Fetish, Impact Play, Lace, Leather / Latex, LGBTQIA+, Lingerie, Mature, MILF, Nylons, Oral, Outdoor Fun, Pegging, Petite, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Temperature Play, Tickle Play, Voyeurism, Webcam

Money. Trips. Shopping sprees. Cars. Bags. Shoes. Jewelry.
Straight
Looking for, ages 44-90.
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Interests, Dom

Please don’t add me as a friend unless we’ve had some kind of interaction here. Feel free to follow to keep up with me
Bisexual
Looking for, ages 55-86.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Discreet Meets, Outdoor Fun

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- Foley Minnesota /
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- Virginia Minnesota /
- Anoka Minnesota /
- Houlton Wisconsin /
- Alexandria Minnesota /
- Harris Minnesota /
- Elk River Minnesota /
- Paynesville Minnesota /
- Lake Elmo Minnesota /
- Plymouth Minnesota /
- Circle Pines Minnesota /
- Monticello Minnesota /
- Forest Lake Minnesota /
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