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Straight
Looking for, ages 40-90.
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Straight
Looking for, ages 29-55.
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Im single never been married before, and I’m new here so I’m looking for to find a good partner to start a new relationship with
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Looking for, ages 48-90.
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Straight
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Bisexual
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I'm Black hair
I don't drink I don't smoke
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I have many turn-ons, will further enlighten you just how far I'll go if we seem to have the right connection. I love to be dominated/controlled , and get a deep satisfaction out of being watched and desired. Pretty new to indulging the dominatrix within myself, but there's only one way to learn If I don't respond to you, it's probable my lack of savviness with technology is showing, or site access limitations. IF SERIOUS and not just looking to bang, hit me up.
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Bisexual
Looking for, ages 18-40.
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I'm 32 years old, living in the Minneapolis region.
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Straight
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I am a faithful dominant seeking happiness , I am optimistic honest ,caring etc
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Essentially, it's a consensual exchange of power, usually to heighten intimacy, sexual desire, or both.
Straight
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I love to plan my trips and go out on mini-adventures once I feel comfortable there. You can say I'm an organized free-spirit. I love to try out new food, immerse myself in the beautiful culture of other places, and meet locals. I'm excited to meet you so we can plan our next adventure together
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Looking for, ages 49-90.
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Interests,

I'm 37 years old, living in the Minneapolis region.
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Straight
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