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A submissive boy, that is willing to eat me out till I got bored, Yes Its true .. Female 40 from New York New York, USA

l am ready to to dominate who ever is willing to submit to me , let's explore and enjoy the kinky side of this lifestyle, bondage and submission is the dream but I choose to dominate.

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Im seeking a kinky submissive who shares her dirty mind and high sex drive. Ide.. Female 31 from New York New York, USA

A kinky and strong woman, Who’s got enough power of steer and control over her subs in the past…o chat with and hopefully get together for real time play and interaction

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Im 29 years old, living in the Queens Village region. Female 29 from Queens Village New York, USA

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hello there am Yvonne single never married with no child and hoping to find my s.. Female 37 from California Maryland, USA

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