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Attractive, sexy, athletic and intelligent couple in central NJ is looking for a.. Couple 54, 40 from Middletown New Jersey, USA

Athletic, sexy, intelligent and open-minded couple. Wife is bisexual.


Straight, Bisexual

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Seek Bi gent lady for lovely couple. Bi. only. Bi only Couple 60, 60 from Hartford Connecticut, USA

Notice..This info below is for our Trinidad lovers.(WE LIVE ABROAD IN THE NORTH EAST TRI STATE OF USA.Travel often all over.)HAPPY LIFE TO ALL YOU LOVERS I. Bi only. Bi. only Bi. people. Mature minds and DDF plzWe are well travelled. open minded Bi for years. Embrace positive energy and passion with our match. Our only interest in Bi men, Bi ladies. Stable.  We love Big plantains. hehe! ! Don't ask for our naked pics wife naked pics on a intro or hello. . Wont happen. Be courteous intro about youself. make sure you sane, MATURE and humble? Please. match what we like in shape and CLEAN. FINANCIAL STABLE only. No a charity giver. Love making friends for liming. Not only a sex mind or perv. Immature a No.


Bisexual, Bisexual

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Perhaps what you read here may tickle your fancy and then we can chat more and g.. Female 31 from Harrisburg Pennsylvania, USA

Welcome to my world kind of you to stop and have a look. Tell me what you think


Straight

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I’m 39year old , I’m on here looking for fun Female 37 from New York New York, USA

Sucking up all the juices that are leaking out of my hot hole. As u feel and see me getting close to cumming.


Straight

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I am dominant mistress I will be interested in making my sub serve and worship m.. Female 43 from Centreville Virginia, USA

I want thee total surrendering and servitude of both your mind and body. My goal is connection and catharsis for us both though,  I like feminization, bondage,  chastity,  pussy worship, Ass face sitting, Role play, Ass licking, panties/lingerie,  humiliation,  pegging,  anal,  alot of things really.


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I seek a lil lost kinky SUB who will love honor worship serve &amp obey me that¡.. Female 35 from Boston Massachusetts, USA

I¡¯m a good lady good person good woman strict but fair w firm hand great kisser/lover!


Straight

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Hello how are you doing today nice meeting you here Female 49 from Ocean View Delaware, USA

Hello how are you doing today nice meeting you here


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Open to anything fun and pleasure Female 31 from Florida New York, USA

Loves to be cherished and treated like a goddess, open to anything


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Im 30 years old, living in the Manchester region. Female 30 from Manchester New Hampshire, USA

I'm 30 years old, living in the Manchester region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 26 and 71.


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I am new at this and I have a taste for it now. If I see something I want, I tak.. Female 48 from Brooklyn Maryland, USA

I'm new at this lifestyle but I've already gotten a taste for it. After 27 years of marriage, I will never be someone's wife again.There will be one mistress here, and no master!


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simple looking and very mature , I believe every man that comes my way will find.. Female 53 from New York New York, USA

simple looking and very mature , I believe every man that comes my way will find peace of mind , i so much want some real love that will last more


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Everything is our hands, this is why we should not give up Female 53 from Philadelphia Pennsylvania, USA

I believe that everything is possible, it goes about our efforts and inner strength. As you might have understood already - I am a purposeful, responsible and optimistic lady. At the same time I am kind and caring, compassionate, romantic. I am a big humanist. I am too much sincere and too trustful to people. I believe that a lady should be modest, smart and feminine! I know that all these qualities are in me!
Hobbies and interests
I think that the life itself is interesting and amazing; it i


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Im 38 years old, living in the Texas City region. Female 38 from Carolina Rhode Island, USA

I'm 38 years old, living in the Texas City region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 40 and 70.


Straight

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I am a faithful and honest girl and I want to become very happy. My man will nev.. Female 37 from California Maryland, USA

I am a faithful and honest girl and I want to become very happy. My man will never be bored with me. In my head there are many ideas how to make our life bright and interesting. I'm not afraid to be funny and make mistakes, because we learn from them! Life is very interesting and I want to get the most out of it.


Straight

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Looking for fun with safe clean people. This is our first time. Couple 49, 77 from Norwalk Connecticut, USA

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Yall should see my feet Theyre perfect Female 25 from Atlantic City New Jersey, USA

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Straight

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Never tire and never settle for less when you have me Female 41 from Maryland Line Maryland, USA

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Straight

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Hi there I am new here and doing good to everyone on here…Am single and not marr.. Female 34 from Manchester New Hampshire, USA

Hi there I am new here and doing good to everyone on here…Am single and not married is you are interested just get in touch so we Know more


Straight

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here to explore and have fun with anyone who is ready Female 31 from New York New York, USA

A very friendly Mistress and great opportunity you have by meeting me let explore


Straight

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I am a woman who enjoys every moment of life and those things that it offers us,.. Female 43 from Fairfax Virginia, USA

I am a woman who enjoys every moment of life and those things that it offers us, I really like the beach since I was born on a beautiful island and of which I keep many beautiful memories, I love being in contact with nature, I tend to be very fun and not stress about unimportant things, I am always interested in knowing new things.


Straight

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Hello I’m Linda. I’m new on here and looking for new friends to get to know each.. Female 43 from California Maryland, USA

I'm Old enough. Appearance and age are not important. And I don't think that age difference between us should be a barrier, the most important thing is for us to be sure if we really find understanding, happiness trust, faith and joy within each other. Above all, I think love is the greatest, don't you also think so?


Straight

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Justabadgurl looking for a partner Female 33 from Washington Virginia, USA

Good conversation make me happy and happy especially BDSm lifestyle exploring


Straight

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The unholy trinity of My wit, skill and ferocity will have you on your hands and.. Female 33 from Pennsville New Jersey, USA

I am daring but you have no choice but to call me Mistress. I'm a professional Dominatrix of six years practicing My craft in 'Brisbane'. I prefer an organic and genuine encounter over providing you with a menu to choose from, however here is a shortened list of my skilled abilities: Latex fetish & worship, Bondage (chains, ropes, leather, plastic etc) Foot fetish/Foot worship etc.


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I am good, loving and caring professional mistress. Female 35 from Piscataway New Jersey, USA

I am a dominant mistress who likes to be in control looking for that obedient sub. Who will always serve and worship at my feet and lick my ass and who will be very honest.


Straight

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It is so hard to describe myself, as I am sure it is for most people. I guess th.. Female 50 from Delaware City Delaware, USA

I consider myself to be realistic and down-to-earth, but still with high ambitions. I have never tried internet-dating before, it feels a little bit strange to me.
 I'm well-figured with an outgoing personality and love to smile, very sensual, creative, intelligent, and driven by my passions, enjoy theater and art, love to travel, would be empty without music and bored without great conversation.


Straight

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