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A strict Dom that what's to explore her desires and fantasies with the right Sub for LTR, I like to be control and pleased


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I will bring out the best in my partner, help him find hisself, his self esteem .. Female 40 from New York New York, USA

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I’m very naughty and looking for the right man to spend my life with Female 47 from Pennsburg Pennsylvania, USA

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Don't like blood,  or pain.


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Hi New here would like to meet and have fun with new couples Couple 54, 53 from Philadelphia Pennsylvania, USA

Like to watch the wife in action and get some going myself.  We like all
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When I makes more friends
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Im 35 years old, living in the Providence region. Female 35 from South Carver Massachusetts, USA

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Im strict straight and loving mistress Female 30 from Secaucus New Jersey, USA

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