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Im Jane, a wild and fun dominant woman seeking to be worshipped Female 38 from Brookhaven New York, USA

I'm a kinky female with a lot of experience as a dom. I enjoy a lot of fantasies and definitely open to trying new kinks and subs


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I am very faithful, responsible and caring lady and I know that my future man wi.. Female 53 from Midlothian Virginia, USA

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Im 52 years old, living in the Pennsburg region. Female 52 from Pennsburg Pennsylvania, USA

I'm 52 years old, living in the Pennsburg region.
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Good loving dominant goddess for you Female 34 from New York New York, USA

I’m an experienced and powerful goddess seeking for that’s obedient and submissive bitch willing yo serve and worship at my feet  and lick  my pussy and become my submissive bitch


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Life is for the living, let’s live it Female 29 from Alexandria Virginia, USA

I am a wonderful, smart young mistress, am love and enjoy amazing conversations and exploring nature at its peak. I am dominant woman that enjoys training submissive males


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Im 31 years old, living in the Colorado Springs region. Couple 31, 43 from New York New York, USA

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ADVENTUROUS, NASTY, COUNTRY WOMAN KEEPING MY SUMMER BODY HAHAHA Female 45 from Buffalo New York, USA

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Hit me up let’s have a chat….. Female 51 from North Bergen New Jersey, USA

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Eyes never lie. Look into mine, they are the gates to my soul. Welcome! I have a.. Female 45 from Washington New Jersey, USA

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Curvy Model in search for a good time session Female 30 from Silver Spring Maryland, USA

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Well.. Linda Bolton, and I’m a medical supplier Female 38 from California Maryland, USA

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Hi everyone Im new here single seeking FWB to get to know each other better and.. Female 47 from Providence Rhode Island, USA

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Latina that speak little bit English Female 35 from Brunswick Maryland, USA

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Hello let’s ride, not too fast tho Female 32 from Boston Massachusetts, USA

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Hello I’m a dominant mistress seeking for a submissive partner to serve under my.. Female 35 from Newark New Jersey, USA

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I’m looking for someone loyal and honest, who respect women and someone who’s re.. Female 29 from Glen Burnie Maryland, USA

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I’m a dom and it’s all about fun for me Female 32 from Maryland Line Maryland, USA

Great personality and great moment with my sissy always


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Hello there...how are you doing today handsome...? Female 38 from Maryland Line Maryland, USA

A man who is set to a real meeting in a very short time. Life is too short to just sit at home and chat. The Internet is a good opportunity to just get acquainted, but you can really get to know a person if you meet him.


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IM A DOMINANT GODDESS SEEKING FOR A SUBMISSIVE TO OWN AND TRAIN AND EXPLORE WIT.. Female 30 from Concord New Hampshire, USA

I’m into  feminization, bondage,  chastity,  pussy worship, Ass face sitting, Role play, Ass licking, panties/lingerie,  humiliation,  pegging,  crossdresser, trampling,  cuckold submissive alot of things real
My limit are like blood,  faeces ,  or extreme pain.


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Tenderness, love, affection is what I want to give and receive. I am a direct, s.. Female 32 from Philadelphia Pennsylvania, USA

I am a beautiful lady with a beautiful figure. I am very active, I like to be in the spotlight. It's always fun with me, I have a fine sense of humor. I am also very purposeful. I love to achieve my goals and develop in directions that are interesting to me.i am always dominant when it comes to kinky role plays...


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Seeking meaningful connections Female 49 from New York New York, USA

Oi... people please read b4 messaging Female, experienced, employed, serious, and seeking like minded others.  NOT here for casual sex, can get that anywhere. Deeper connections preferred.   Will sub to the RIGHT Dom, but seeking those who live to serve.  Don't be boring if you message me, at least TRY to get my attention. Very open minded to many forms of kink. Oh yeah, DON'T be married unless you both cum as a package  otherwise I don't play that way.  Open to POSSIBLE long-term, live ins, 24/7 lifestyle if you prove to be a potential candidate to serve this house (for this seeking those younger than me), however not holding my breath for that.  I am not needy so I can be picky. I have been wronged b4 so trust will not come easily.  I will expect to meet in person if you show promise, not into online time wasting.  Really just want to find my people I can be free and have fun with, go to bdsm parties with or just hang out and enjoy some non-vanilla life.


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I’m just a ugly and boring redhead that loves to wear jeans ❤️ Female 30 from Northampton Massachusetts, USA

A nice and responsible man ,that knows how to take care of a woman


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I’m dominant mistress looking for submissive Female 39 from Newark New Jersey, USA

I like feminization, bondage,  chastity,  shemales,  panties/lingerie,  humiliation,  pegging,  anal,  alot of things really.
Don't like blood,  or pain.
Boring. . . like your weak posts here slut . . . I wasn’t here to beg for money ok.


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