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I’m a Dom looking for a loyal Sub, I enjoy diverse switch role play and anything.. Female 50 from Reston Virginia, USA

I’m a sweet loving caring and understanding woman, I’m beautiful, sexy, intelligent and Dominant


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Looking for, ages 50-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Crossdress, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Outdoor Fun, Roleplay, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Threesomes

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Im sweet, ambitious and thoughtful. Female 29 from Elizabeth New Jersey, USA

I'm a passionate and caring person who is always looking for new experiences.


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A man who knows how to combine work and personal life. I want to be with a man a.. Female 52 from Pennsburg Pennsylvania, USA

I am kind and have a calm character. I know how to listen and understand. I don't pay much importance to every small problem, but look at it as a situation that can be easily corrected. I like the house to be warm and cozy. I am hardworking woman.


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m looking to have a my domination experience here! Female 25 from Baltimore Maryland, USA

I’m an experienced dom seeking submissive ones for domination. Interested in training newbie. I am also open to a good time


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I might be looking for you too, lets give it a try. drop a line. Thank you Female 38 from Mclean Virginia, USA

I consider myself a very good person with a lot to offer to the right person. I just don't give my heart away easily. I’m very passionate person and anything I get involved in, I do it right. I’m very positive and a solutions person.


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Looking for a serious submissive or dominant male for long term relationship im.. Female 36 from New York New York, USA

A very loyal and trustworthy lady that's seeking for a loyal and trustworthy sub or dom to explore the lifestyle together


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It takes nothing to get spank and pegged by me in a kinky way Female 36 from New York New York, USA

I like to explore more on my greatest fantasies in a kinky during some role play actions


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Im 41 years old, living in the Florida region. Couple 41, 53 from Florida New York, USA

I'm 41 years old, living in the Florida region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 50 and 99.


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Im 41 years old, living in the Newark region. Female 41 from Newark New Jersey, USA

I'm 41 years old, living in the Newark region.
I'm interested in meeting a couple or a man aged between 40 and 99.
I'm White / Caucasian  Blonde hair
I will travel for hookups


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Fun and charismatic couple looking to have casual dates and hangouts. We are car.. Couple 37, 37 from Howard Beach New York, USA

We love to live carefree and present the best version to ourselves. Wine bars, clubs, karaoke are some of the few things we enjoy doing. Behind closed doors is different. Strap ons, vibrators, anal plugs are some of the toys we enjoy using on each other. Will you help me put it on? ;)


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Im 37 years old, living in the New York region. Female 37 from New York New York, USA

I get happy when i see people who are interested in me and they let me know and even try to link up, I’m all fun if you get to know me better and it will be a wonder experience


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Im actually seeking for a submissive person to owned and to be used! Female 35 from Newark New Jersey, USA

I'm a pro dom, who's into this lifestyle for so long and have the capability to owned and explore on my pet


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I am a dom looking for a submissive Female 31 from New York New York, USA

I like feminization, bondage, chastity, pussy worship, Ass face sitting, Role play, Ass licking, panties/ lingerie, humiliation, pegging, anal, alot of things really.
I have my limits although little


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Hey there I’m Clara single never been married before ,I’m new on this site hopin.. Female 38 from Bronx New York, USA

I’m Clara searching for a serious relationship that’s can leads to marriage in the nearest future


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I am looking for serious relationship that will lead to marriage, read my descri.. Female 49 from Boston Massachusetts, USA

I'm 49 years old, living in the Boston region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 50 and 90.


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I need a man who will embrace my whole being without any doubt or fear, instead .. Female 59 from Washington District of Columbia, USA

I love when life is boiling and full of swings and turns. I am always open and happy to meet new impressions. I adore being active and enjoying this life. I like to order Americano, I like to watch the first greenery in spring, bask in the sun, listen to the autumn rain and feel the falling snowflakes on my face in winter. I do not like when people try to manipulate me.


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Love feels great but get the taste from your partner/feet worshipping orgasms an.. Female 29 from Washington New Jersey, USA

Sexually practice with a well behaved partner feels more better


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Its about gaining your trust and your respect, so youll let me exert my will o.. Female 24 from Florida New York, USA

Consent is not a sign of weakness; it is a sign of strength and self-respect


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I’m so horny. I wish I was in between your legs right about now. Female 44 from Harrisburg Pennsylvania, USA

It’s liya here . My life as been so boring nowadays. I closed from work always to go home have no one else to talk to, cuddle with and go outing with . I need someone caring that we can explore or make our life better and sex life as well . I’m willing to find a great man


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Im 38 years old, living in the Hartford region. Female 38 from Hartford Connecticut, USA

I'm 38 years old, living in the Hartford region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 59 and 89.


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All I desire is a loyal sissy to make my best sub Female 43 from Cape May New Jersey, USA

I’m a mistress who needs sissy  to be my , loyal and honest sub


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I’m here to meet beautiful people who are ready to explore their sexuality Female 38 from Washington District of Columbia, USA

I’m a happy soul who is hopeful of meeting beautiful people


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Seeking for a long term relationship Female 36 from Jersey City New Jersey, USA

Well it my first time here if we can be friends you can say hi…I’m Naomi looking for long term relationship


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I urge you all today, especially today during these times of chaos and war, to l.. Female 28 from Newark New Jersey, USA

The word 'teach' suddenly conveys a sense of menace that’s foreign to me


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A listener who will provide you with a listening ear after a tough day, and not .. Female 50 from Baltimore Maryland, USA

I value Gods presence in my life very much. Life is too short for games and drama, I am a fun loving Christian woman who takes each day as a gift from God. Im a kind, thoughtful, sincere, respectful person with moral virtues and Christian values. Im a happy person, ok with being me, but it would be nice to find that special person to love, cherish, and complete me. I enjoy many things, one is singing, which I do regularly; Was once a lead member in a Praise Team and Gospel Choir.


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