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Seeking for a good man, not sure of what i will be getting from this site. Female 37 from Denver North Carolina, USA

I am honest and down to earth, looking for the right man for me ..


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Looking for, ages 54-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests,

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Starting with Friendship and getting to know each other better Female 55 from Shelby North Carolina, USA

My interest in nature and all things that encompass it, from the largest to the smallest.i have always had an interest in all things natural and like to read about, research,and experience them.first, I will be interested in my partner's activities, then I enjoy dancing, swimming and photography but I'm not a pro in any of these :-). I love traveling and visiting new places.


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Im 44 years old, living in the Anderson region. Couple 44, 44 from Anderson South Carolina, USA

I'm 44 years old, living in the Anderson region.
I'm interested in meeting a transgender person or a couple or a woman or a man aged between 18 and 45.


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I am seeking to meet someone caring, faithful , communicative , loyal , generous.. Female 38 from Charlotte North Carolina, USA

I am here looking for a man to be with and make him happy always


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Here to meet unique and diplomatic people Female 68 from Canada Kentucky, USA

I’m a sweet person ready to meet new friends and explore


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I am a woman with a good heart and I am looking for a serious relationship and .. Female 35 from Canada Kentucky, USA

I am a women who respects my peoples and love peoples too


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A Dominant woman finds her path to power through various avenues. For Me, BDSM b.. Female 36 from Hampton Virginia, USA

When you present yourself, you’ll receive empathetic understanding. When you listen, you’ll embody strict guidelines; compassionate clarity. My power will envelop you because you know once you are in My presence, you will be exposed, bare, vulnerable to My curiosities about you and your perversions. Allow Me to push you to your edge with mischievous, sadistic, playful experiences that can be our little secret . Address Me as Mistress. Revere Me as your Goddess. Prove yourself worthy and endure what I have in mind for your inevitable submission.


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I’m new here seeking a devoted sub Female 38 from Columbia South Carolina, USA

I’m a dominant mistress a very strict one don’t mess with my time


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Im pretty new to the dating scene and looking forward to making a genuine conne.. Female 50 from Cleveland North Carolina, USA

I'm pretty new to the dating scene and looking forward to making a genuine connection here too..


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Submissive looking for true dominant. Female 51 from Hickory North Carolina, USA

I enjoy being obedient, submissive, physical touch.


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I am a Humilinatrix. Looking for pathetic humans. Female 38 from Drayton South Carolina, USA

I am a humiliation dominatrix. I get what I want, when I want and how I want. You are too pathetic and weak to tell me no.


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married couple looking for a 3rd Couple 29, 29 from Rich Creek Virginia, USA

we both are opened minded people,
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I find joy in simple things. For me, happiness is to see my family healthy. Female 39 from Denver North Carolina, USA

The majority of women judge men by their achievements and financial success. But for me the main man's virtue lies in such a rare quality as the ability to take a punch. Now and then life arranges checks for us, hitting us hard and painfully, and sometimes even knocking us out. But if a man is a fighter, every tough situations will just make him stronger, forcing him to optimize all his internal potential and come up with a new way to soar even higher and reach new height


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Trying to figure out the world like everyone else Female 37 from Woodruff South Carolina, USA

I’m a small town country girl these days. And a little bored


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Hello, how’s your weekend imagining if I was there lol. Anyway I’m Florence sing.. Female 50 from Gastonia North Carolina, USA

Single likes sports such as football baseball hookey etc never been married with no.


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Fun couple looking for meet new people and have fun together ! Couple 50, 43 from Bristol Virginia, USA

We love music and the outdoors.  We’d like to meet a man or woman to share ourselves with and have new experiences!


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Hello there let’s get laid tonigh xoxoxo Female 56 from Denver North Carolina, USA

My name is Mary what’s your name , I would be pretty much delighted talking to you over the phone maybe. so we can talk or if we don’t want to rush things. Thank you  Xoxo


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Let’s start with this:- I’m Dominant Are you curious about this amazing lifestyl.. Female 34 from Durham North Carolina, USA

I will push your buttons and push your limits,your submission is my energy ..!
Come experience fun


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I am a hopeless romantic and always strive to believe in the good within everyon.. Female 41 from Clemmons North Carolina, USA

I am looking for an equally positive partner who loves to try new experiences and is a great and open communicator.


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I am a mistress looking for a dedicated sub willing to sub Female 38 from California Maryland, USA

I am a mistress looking for a dedicated sub willing to sub


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hello there am Yvonne single never married with no child and hoping to find my s.. Female 37 from California Maryland, USA

hello there am Yvonne single never married and hoping to find my soulmate on here


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Im 59 years old, living in the Mount Holly region. Female 59 from Mount Holly North Carolina, USA

I'm 59 years old, living in the Mount Holly region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 58 and 99.


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I want someone who is ready to show me love and respect. Female 37 from Simpsonville South Carolina, USA

I am looking for a man who is intelligent, fun, sexy, open minded, good looking, respectful, and open to any possibilities.  No Drama.  I want a man with no hang-ups, but one who can also come out to dinner and have an intelligent conversation. While looks are always important, an intelligent girl with a good personality


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Looking for, ages 40-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Dom, Erotic Fiction

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Im 48 years old, living in the Charlotte region. Female 48 from Charlotte North Carolina, USA

I'm 48 years old, living in the Charlotte region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 38 and 70.


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Looking for, ages 38-70. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, S&M, Sex Toys

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Drug/Disease free couple looking for other couples, and women, or BBC/BWC Couple 33, 33 from Swansboro North Carolina, USA

We have busy schedules (doesn't everyone :) )  so we don't get a lot of down time so when we do we would enjoy some fun sexual experiences with other like-minded people. With that said we aren't looking for friends outside the bedroom but inside where fun times can be had. We have littles at home and we prefer to keep sexual life and everyday home life separate. We aim to please so know if you join us we will surely make sure you are taken care of and get the most out of our time together. Let's chat and see what we can do for one another!


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