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My Bed Or Yours Members Around North Carolina
Making the most of every moment. Female 38 from Canada Kentucky, USA

You are enough just as you are. Jovial and collected


Straight

Looking for, ages 40-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Sex Toys

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I have little experience but I’m more focused in having fun Female 31 from West Columbia South Carolina, USA

I prefer to be with someone who is insightful and understands the power of a strong woman


Straight

Looking for, ages 38-53. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys, Sub

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My name is Hannah and I will be very happy if you can write your number in lett.. Female 35 from Dallas North Carolina, USA

My name is Hannah  and I will be very happy if you can write your number in letters so that we can get to know about each other and exchange pictures


Straight

Looking for, ages 45-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Couples, Cuckold, Discreet Meets, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Fetish, Group Sex, Pegging, S&M, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Temperature Play, Threesomes, Tickle Play, Voyeurism, Webcam

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Looking for a good spanking, I’ve been a bad girl. Female 55 from Little River South Carolina, USA

Looking for a good time. Not a long time. You know unless it’s good


Bisexual

Looking for, ages 44-64. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Anal, BDSM, Bondage, Couples, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Group Sex, Lace, Leather / Latex, Lingerie, Oral, Outdoor Fun, Roleplay, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Threesomes, Tickle Play, Voyeurism

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Ideal Mistress here for the Good of the lifestyle and you!! Female 28 from Denver North Carolina, USA

Straight to the point and direct this lifestyle is more than me


Straight

Looking for, ages 35-48. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

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I am pretty much an open book. I have nothing to hide, and I am an honest and ge.. Female 62 from Wilkesboro North Carolina, USA

i get excited when the the man i love get me a surprise things


Straight

Looking for, ages 56-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Outdoor Fun

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What is the essence if not doing the things that make us truly happy Female 44 from California Maryland, USA

Unique in my own way, not necessarily trying to be something else


Straight

Looking for, ages 46-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

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Life is too short to worry about the little things. I want someone to share all .. Female 36 from Charlotte North Carolina, USA

I enjoy walks, road trips, camping, dancing, cooking and trying new cuisines.


Straight

Looking for, ages 50-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Erotic Fiction, Oral, Sex Talk

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how good are you with what you got? Female 49 from Charlotte North Carolina, USA

I am open minded, sexy, sensual and respect all

limits.;i am a dominant woman seeking a submissive man ready to explore

the the kinky world in a female lead long term relationship,

someone open to exploring new boundaries and pushing limits.

qualifications are for you to be

willing to learn and serious about your desires..I seek more of a kinky twist to the

everyday

vanilla affair. I am a very patient person and I don’t mind teaching someone who is new and

wishes to learn


Bisexual

Looking for, ages 18-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay

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Looking for non-pushy people to get to know. Lets talk and see if we match. Couple 58, 39 from Snow Camp North Carolina, USA

We are open to learning about new things. Life is short, let's enjoy it while we are here.


Straight, Straight

Looking for, ages 26-55. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Cuckold

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My wit, skill, and ferocity form a formidable trio that will leave you at my mer.. Female 33 from Canada Kentucky, USA

I go by Mistress Claudie , and addressing me as Mistress is non-negotiable. With few years of expertise as a professional Dominatrix in US, I prioritize authentic encounters over predefined menus. Although I prefer the organic experience, here's a brief overview of my expertise, including Latex fetish and worship, Bondage using various materials (chains, ropes, leather, plastic, etc.), and indulging in Foot fetish and worship, among other skills.


Straight

Looking for, ages 18-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

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Let me control you. Sensually, emotionally, sexually and mentally. Give up every.. Female 32 from Canada Kentucky, USA

I'm 31 years old, living in the Canada region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 34 and 90.


Straight

Looking for, ages 34-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Dom, Fetish, Sex Toys

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I want you to lick my pussy while your dick is halfway down my throat Female 35 from Tennille Georgia, USA

I want you to pin my arms over my head while you thrust, so you have total and complete control of my body


Straight

Looking for, ages 50-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age Gap, Age play, Anal, ASMR, BBW / BHM, BDSM, Body Hair, Bondage, Bukkake, Couples, Crossdress, Cuckold, Curves, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Dom, Edging, Electro Play, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Feet, Fetish, Group Sex, Impact Play, Lace, Leather / Latex, LGBTQIA+, Lingerie, Mature, MILF, Nylons, Oral, Outdoor Fun, Pegging, Petite, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Temperature Play, Threesomes, Tickle Play, Voyeurism, Webcam

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Feel free to let your minds blown away by that special remarkable mistress which.. Female 45 from Canada Kentucky, USA

love traveling, swimming reading and
most importantly the basm world. I love to be with a sub who see's me as his goddess, Who would love to be with
me always and love to travel the world with me.


Straight

Looking for, ages 50-67. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Dom, Fetish, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

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So, youve stumbled on the unopened secrets of your own desire. Its time to cra.. Female 30 from Wilmington North Carolina, USA

I am a nurturing and sensual disciplinarian,  creative, at times playful,  strict,  and intuitive. I work to find common interests, fetishes, and fantasies to create authentic and powerfully cathartic experiences. I'll encourage you to tease your boundaries, walk the line, expand them.  I am an extremely verbal Mistress, coaxing you into submission with ease, amused at how easy it is to instigate your various forms of submission, to watch how you crumble in the presence of my natural dominance.


Straight

Looking for, ages 18-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Roleplay, S&M

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am a nice woman seeking for a caring naughty man honest man to spend the rest o.. Female 45 from Greenville South Carolina, USA

am a nice woman seeking for a caring  naughty man honest man to spend the rest of my life with


Straight

Looking for, ages 45-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay

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kind, serious, confident, cheerful, responsible Female 50 from Winston Salem North Carolina, USA

I am very healthy, fit, and active for my age, and try to eat healthily every day. I am passionate about intimacy, and romance. I love to have fun and can make fun in most situations. I am younger than I am, good genes I guess!  I am a fun woman that likes being active, and getting out in nature.


Straight

Looking for, ages 50-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Erotic Fiction, Lingerie, Mature, Sexual Massage

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I need an alpha, straight, straight, old fashioned Dom Female 45 from Salisbury North Carolina, USA

Sort of a brat, but I've been called an "alpha sub" not sure what that is, but we'll see.


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Looking for, ages 36-56. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, S&M, Sex Toys, Sub

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Im an elegant and dominatrix whos willing to do anything for my sub. Female 54 from Canada Kentucky, USA

I like exploring my fetish and discreet lifestyle with my sub


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Looking for, ages 44-64. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

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I’m a Findom looking to be Serve. Come serve me! Female 24 from Augusta Georgia, USA

Money makes me happy. People serving me makes me happy.


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Looking for, ages 18-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests,

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I’m loving and caring woman seeking a man who can be great husband. Female 41 from Dallas North Carolina, USA

Hi can we talk and get to know more about each other better ?


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Looking for, ages 49-88. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Erotic Fiction, Tickle Play

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Hey I need something you all think I need just give it to me any way posiible Female 45 from Dearing Georgia, USA

I am new here no worries about being fake or a bot I smile alot


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Looking for, ages 44-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Body Hair, Cuckold, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Fetish, Lace, Mature, MILF, Nylons, Oral, Outdoor Fun, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Temperature Play, Threesomes, Tickle Play, Voyeurism, Webcam

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Hi guys I’m seeking for naughty chat Female 49 from Gastonia North Carolina, USA

I love been naughty if you are interested. I love sex conversation


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Looking for, ages 50-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Discreet Meets, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys, Sub

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Im 43 years old, living in Minnesota City, Minnesota Female 43 from Belmont North Carolina, USA

I'm 43 years old, I'm interested in meeting men aged between 25 and 85.


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Im 31 years old, living in the California region. Female 31 from California Maryland, USA

Hello handsome’ I’m available for hookup/nude pic.


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Looking for, ages 40-70. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Dom

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Active member locations

  • Fayetteville North Carolina /
  • Winston Salem North Carolina /
  • Lancaster South Carolina /
  • Turnersburg North Carolina /
  • Critz Virginia /
  • Mineral Springs North Carolina /
  • Salisbury North Carolina /
  • Leland North Carolina /
  • Halifax North Carolina /
  • Pageland South Carolina /
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