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A Dominant Goddess seeking for a true submissive Sub that is willing to be loyal.. Female 34 from Gunlock Kentucky, USA

Highly Brutal in Dominance. If you can’t keep up, don’t reach out. Complete loyal and devotional Dominance


Bisexual

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Adventurous marketing director; seeking someone to explore the world and enjoy a.. Female 36 from Lexington South Carolina, USA

I like fishing ,driving around ,walk out with my dogs


Straight

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Thank you for paying attention to my profile. I am a mature woman; I like to fee.. Female 39 from Angier North Carolina, USA

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You are welcome to my world, a world where you treat my juicy pussy as the queen.. Female 43 from New Bern North Carolina, USA

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lam Dominant, but there is nothing more that I appreciate, than to session with .. Female 47 from Mechanicsville Virginia, USA

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Im 32 years old, living in the Charlotte region. Female 32 from Charlotte North Carolina, USA

I'm 32 years old, living in the Charlotte region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 21 and 90.
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I drink socially I don't smoke
I will travel for hookups


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Im a switch woman that gets excited training subs and also good for my dom! I.. Female 46 from Charlotte North Carolina, USA

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Im 48 years old, living in the Charlotte region. Female 48 from Charlotte North Carolina, USA

I'm 48 years old, living in the Charlotte region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 38 and 70.


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I have a great sense of humor ,like going to beach and mountains Female 39 from Winston Salem North Carolina, USA

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Hello am Maylie ya can call me Joan ! Female 38 from California Maryland, USA

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l am ready to to dominate who ever is willing to submit to me , lets explore an.. Female 44 from Virginia Beach Virginia, USA

A submissive boy, that is willing to eat me out till I got bored, Yes It's true I'm naughtier than I look, certainly I deserve so much pleasure from a worth sub.


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Hi there I’m new on here and would like to have new friends on here to have fun Female 33 from Canada Kentucky, USA

It’s become very popular to find your other half on the internet


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Looking for a Dom to train me and push my limits Female 53 from Blacksburg Virginia, USA

Fear of the unknown turns me on. I want to try new things.


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I am new here looking for a serious relationship that can leads me to marriage Female 37 from Denver North Carolina, USA

I am an open person. I love everything about creativity. I take various courses that can contribute to my personal development and in future help me to achieve my own goals and the formation of a career. I love to spend time with friends, go out of town to the mountains or to the sea.


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Well I would say , I Am a very easy going, loving by nature kind of woman, I .. Female 57 from York South Carolina, USA

I hopefully wish I can meet. Couples who would want a mistress,or a submissive man who wants a mistress, Am a mistress who is gentle ,loving,and hoping to find that perfect sub who I can have a very long lasting relationship with, a relationship that will start slow then blossom into something beautiful and for long term,it does not change who you are ,you just know am the mistress when we are at home ,if you are ready for something long term and something meaningful then write me


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IM A DOMINANT MISTRESS SEEKING FOR A SUBMISSIVE TO CHAIN AND COLAR AS MINE Female 38 from Clemmons North Carolina, USA

I like feminization, bondage,  chastity,  shemales,  panties/lingerie,  humiliation,  pegging,  anal,  alot of things really.
Don't like blood,  or pain.


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Confident and Empowered Woman Seeking a Strong and Respectful submissive Partne.. Female 30 from Raleigh North Carolina, USA

"Assertive Dominant Woman Ready to Take Charge and Lead with Strength and Grace"


Bisexual

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married couple looking for a 3rd Couple 29, 29 from Rich Creek Virginia, USA

we both are opened minded people,
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We are a very wild curious couple that likes to try numerous things we are into .. Couple 29, 29 from Hickory North Carolina, USA

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Just a honest and trustworthy mistress that want to dominate you Female 35 from Stuart Virginia, USA

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Straight

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I am 43 years old living in Kentucky Canada Female 43 from Canada Kentucky, USA

looking for that special older one who will rekindle the flame of passion and desire that seems to have been quench in my past relationship. Someone i can confide in and someone ready to live the alternate BDSM kinky lifestyle with me secretly.


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Seeking for a serious relationship Female 38 from California Maryland, USA

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I want to meet a hardworking and responsible man. A person who loves sports and .. Female 37 from Una South Carolina, USA

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Couple we want to have another guy added for both of us to have fun Couple 39, 39 from Winston Salem North Carolina, USA

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