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I aim to please on my knees. I like a *firm hand* to put and keep me in my place.. Female 43 from Walnut Creek California, USA

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I am here for fantasy fulfillment Female 41 from San Jose California, USA

I’m an easy going lady who can go with anyone, I am responsible,GOD fearing and very respectful.


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I’m new here to meet new friends and lovers to get to know more Female 37 from Union City California, USA

I like when a man has a good sense of humor. I am very talkative so we will find a lot to speak about. You will never be bored withe me! If you are every bored or upset, I hope you will like my kisses. I do not have any special requirements to my man. I just want you to be yourself and open your heart to me!


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Worship me through your wallet. Female 28 from Walnut Creek California, USA

California girl born and raised! I'm single with a fur baby. In my free time I love to cook, travel, and read. I'm a book worm and read mostly smut. I love when men fall at my feet and worship me.


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Im 54 years old, living in the Mountain View region. Female 54 from Mountain View California, USA

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I was born and raise in Canada and when i was at the age of 18years old i lost .. Female 31 from San Francisco California, USA

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Lovely to be with and I love meeting new people and had some fun Female 31 from Sacramento California, USA

I’m looking for a loyal man,a best friend,a partner, a lover, my soul mate and would like to end up one day in a long term relationship with beautiful kids


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I’m a lovely lady with a pure heart ❤️it’s all love Female 33 from Union City California, USA

I’m happy when I make people happy, I do like to have fun as well. I love to draw, and paint. design clothes, sing, play the guitar, drums, bass, violin, and piano. I've been playing music since I was five years old. so music's been a part of My life... forever.


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Looking forward to find someone serious Female 38 from San Jose California, USA

I’m a one man type of lady, hoping to find something serious on here.. Build a better life together


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Looking for my last kiss . I’m ready for you Female 44 from Fremont California, USA

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Looking for someone to have fun with , leave a contact if you’re interested Female 58 from Santa Clara California, USA

Send me a messages , I’ll catch you up .. Always free to talk


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Im 39 years old, living in the Sacramento region. Female 40 from Sacramento California, USA

I'm 39 years old, living in the Sacramento region.
I'm interested in meeting a couple or a man aged between 46 and 90.


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I don’t want time wasters and unserious sub. Female 37 from San Francisco California, USA

I have the zeal for the BDSM lifestyle, not every woman should be a Mistress. I am here to rock your kinky world and take you on a long ride in my UNIVERSE.


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Curvy and Nerdy woman searching for a Sir/master/dadd y. Is in an open relatio.. Female 32 from Oakland California, USA

I’m a 31 year old submissive woman that loves video games, anime, cosplay, and TTRPGs. I also enjoy making art and cooking. I’m excited to find a dom for me that will take care of my needs and spoils my fantasy kinks one day. I’m in a relationship with my wife , we are open and poly so there’s no drama with keeping this secret as she knows I do this.


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I am a woman with a beautiful and tender heart who has gone through many trials .. Female 36 from San Francisco California, USA

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Hello everyone here, im new here and im single and im here to look for a serious.. Female 38 from Los Banos California, USA

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I want to look for a life partner who lives a healthy life style. It would be gr.. Female 34 from San Jose California, USA

Thank you for looking at my profile. I am a mature lady and I like to fight for my dreams. Now I am here to look for my love and I want to end my single life with the right person, I don't have time for games, I want to be with someone who will transform my life and give a spark of joy to yours. I love to have fun in a healthy way, any plan no matter how simple, I will enjoy it. I have my own business. I love new experiences and new challenges. I am sure I will also give you a lot of surprises when you get to be together with me. Do you think I am a type of your lady? Come and get to know


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Im a good communicator and believe that trust and respect are essential in any .. Female 40 from Oakland California, USA

I am a DOMINANT woman, who enjoys training men on how to be a loyal and submissive man, ready to please his partner and how to live the alternate BDSM lifestyle. I've led the BDSM lifestyle for years now, i am not into blood or any form of permanent markings or bruises, i am not into much pain at all, rather, i like the kinky role play, bondage play, pussy worship, foot worship, and other special ways at pleasuring one's partner. My main aim is to derive pleasure in ways unexplainable. There's so much to this lifestyle i want to show to my potential sub All i want is your obedience and loyalty, and above all, your submission to me as your mistress.


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My wit, skill, and ferocity form a formidable trio that will leave you at my mer.. Female 28 from Sacramento California, USA

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Looking for a serious Male Dom, for a long term relationship. Female 34 from San Jose California, USA

I'm a girl who loves material things. I'm not a golddigger, but I value men who take care of their women. Giving me a gift goes a long way in my heart. Although gifting is not my love language, I like it when my man buys me a gift every time. It makes me feel important and tells me how much he loves me. I know you can give someone you don't like or love a gift; you buy a gift for someone you love.


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Looking for the man to be with Female 48 from San Jose California, USA

I do not think that I am not better than others, but I hope to be the best for my future partner. You will see that I`m active and spontaneous. I like to laugh and always try to be positive. I always try to understand others and it is easy for me to make friends. I am honest and open with my close people. I have everything to become an excellent wife or a lover to make my man happy sexually and be the best friend and a passionate lover for my man!


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Im 41 years old, living in the Santa Rosa region. Female 41 from Santa Rosa California, USA

I'm 41 years old, living in the Santa Rosa region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 49 and 86.


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Im 18 years old, living in the Rio Linda region. Female 18 from Rio Linda California, USA

I'm 18 years old, living in the Rio Linda region.
I'm interested in meeting a couple or a man aged between 18 and 40.


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