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Im 48 years old, living in the Palm Springs region. Female 48 from Palm Springs California, USA

I'm 48 years old, living in the Palm Springs region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 45 and 85.


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Im 33 years old, living in the Orange region. Female 33 from Orange California, USA

I'm 33 years old, living in the Orange region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 30 and 79.


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I want to watch you lather your cock with lube and then shove it into my ass Female 35 from Calimesa California, USA

I want you to pin my arms over my head while you thrust, so you have total and complete control of my body.


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As a female dominant on this BDSM dating site, I am a confident and experienced .. Female 36 from Las Vegas Nevada, USA

Physically, I am blonde yet powerful, with a commanding presence that demands attention. My soft voice can be both soothing and demanding, and I know how to use it to get what I want. I have a penchant for dressing in black leather and lace, and I take great pride in my appearance as a dominant woman.


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Looking for, ages 46-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Roleplay, Sex Toys

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I’m new to this site seeking for a loyal submissive partner who’s ready to obey .. Couple 41, 54 from Los Angeles California, USA

Loyalty sissy slut, and submissive man who’s ready to serve.


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Sexy, smart willing to meet new people Female 39 from Riverside California, USA

Sexy hot naughty smart and love new things in my life, néw to this


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I’M A DOM THAT WANT TO BE IN CONTROL OF EVERYTHING Female 35 from Malibu California, USA

I’m a DOM,I have been into this  lifestyle for many years looking for something ongoing hope it turns into something serious permenant
I seek a lil lost kinky SUB who will love honor worship serve & obey me that’s in need of training discipline punishment pleasure love guidance control protection!
I’m a good lady good person good woman strict but fair w firm hand great kisser/lover! 
I LUV giving oral & anal pleasures mixed w passionate kisses bondage & spankings!


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i am looking for that special older one who will rekindle the flame of passion a.. Female 36 from Los Angeles California, USA

I am DOMINANT woman, who enjoys training men on how to be a loyal and submissive man, ready to please his partner and how to live the alternate BDSM lifestyle. I've led the BDSM lifestyle for years now, i am not into blood or any form of permanent markings or bruises, i am not into much pain at all, rather, i like the kinky role play, bondage play, pussy worship, foot worship, and other special ways at pleasuring one's partner


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I’m a very strict and dominant mistress, I’m Experienced Dom, seeking a Male sub.. Female 36 from Anaheim California, USA

I love most regular fetishes like Tease & Denial, role-play, bondage, orgasm control, body worship, light whipping, spanking, tickling, stretching (rack), suspension, body worship , feet and ass worshiping strap on play, pony training


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Looking for that special someone to explore our fantasies together Female 43 from California City California, USA

I'm a dominant woman looking for a sub who we can both explore this alternate lifestyle with


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I’m a dominant mistress looking for a true submissive Female 41 from Los Angeles California, USA

I have been a mistress for more than 7 years now and I am an active member of a group of dominant women in the city and all over the world.


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Mistress looking for a loyal and faithful sub Female 45 from San Diego California, USA

Is there someone out there that is ready to please and make me happy


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Im a mistress looking for a male sub to explore all my kinky and fetish prefere.. Female 28 from San Diego California, USA

I'm a simple lady interesting in exploring all my kinky preferences. If I find you intriguing I would invite you to my dungeon.


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For he was aware of the great secret of life: Women dont look for handsome men... Female 38 from Riverside California, USA

was just like any other mistress; and the charm of novelty, falling down slowly like a dress, exposed only the eternal monotony of passion, always the same forms and the same language.


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As a matter of fact...its obvious that i want a man that is not too hurt and not.. Female 28 from California Hot Springs California, USA

As a matter of fact...its obvious that i want a man that is not too hurt and not too hard to trust....again and can give himself to a wife to be loved and taken care of in a way that will bring a joy of life and an appreciation he will lookgfforward to every day...


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Easy going, good listener and good friend .. Im here to get to know you if you .. Female 41 from Los Angeles California, USA

I'm kind and sincere, loving and careful. I'm Divorce and completely unattached .. I take care of myself Of course after 3 years, I feel that my body, my blood and my soul need to love again Is the reason because I'm looking for a special  Man... someone who need to be loved, someone who need kisses and caress, someone who need a big hug like I need all that.


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Looking for, ages 47-84. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Body Hair, Dirty Talk, Dom, Mature, Outdoor Fun, Sex Talk, Sex Toys

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Hello I’m here to find the love of life Female 36 from Los Angeles California, USA

Am that type of person who always try to make people laugh. I always make sure to share the little that I have with someone and  also satisfied with whatever I have...


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Im looking for a man who brims with energy, humor, kindness, and respect.Hit me.. Female 46 from San Diego California, USA

It is important for me that my man is caring and able to compromise. I want to motivate my man, it is important for me to be a muse for my beloved and inspire him. The ideal relationship for me is when we are together and our eyes shine with happiness when we look at each other. I do not have a criterion of age and appearance, for me the most important thing is how I feel next to a man and how he feels. I believe that if people really fit together, no matter what they do, they feel good even when they are silent and silence does not bother me.


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I am a confident person whos kind, smart, and respectful. I`m looking for a lon.. Female 49 from Orange California, USA

I’m so much happy that I finally got my profile published on here.Any way i was introduce to this so called dating Internet and online date stuff by a friend of mine which she told me that she got her husband from the internet and in which i testify too it and they re now happily married .So please i am a woman of my words if u not really intrested in a serious relationship with me as i am writting to you rite away just let me know cos i am not here too waiste my time and any once time either,


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Sensual Dominatrix ⛓️ Certified Hypnotherapist⛓ ️ Performance Artist Swift Mist.. Female 29 from Los Angeles California, USA

Sex toys, fetish, Mistress lifestyle and sensual Dominatrix


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Not like the other girls, in so many ways Female 55 from Orange California, USA

I see so many humans, so little humanity...where have all the real people gone?
I am a submissive, anyone looking for a Femdom please look elsewhere. I am in Orange County California, currently I can only respond to individuals in my area. Thank you
I am not a very important person, I am unable to read messages. Please don’t think that I am intentionally ignoring ANYONE


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Im looking for a real serious sub whos ready to serve and worship at my feet n.. Couple 42, 53 from Los Angeles California, USA

That's serious sub who's ready for a fetish lifestyle..Hi sub


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im an alpha dominant woman seeking for a loyal and submissive male Female 27 from Corona California, USA

A goddness seeking for a submissive male to worship my body and feet


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You gotta appreciate people who look out for you even when you don’t directly as.. Female 37 from North Las Vegas Nevada, USA

Stop making yourself easily available for people who never prioritize you.


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I’m here to make new friends and talk about political issues Female 31 from North Las Vegas Nevada, USA

I’m here to have fun with the right person everyday and night


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