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Looking for a weak bitch that loves to be dominated Female 24 from Long Beach California, USA

Social media influencer just starting out, love to travel and need more cash pigs 4 mami


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Looking for a soulmate text me I dont bite. Female 61 from Los Angeles California, USA

I am a cheerful and happy woman. I am a positive and life loving person with a good sense of humor. I see good things in every day. I am reliable, faithful and know how to love. I love to travel and explore new places. I like to study the culture and cuisine of different countries of the world.


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I’m a gorgeous dom in search for a qualified sub to bring me pleasure, hit me up.. Female 39 from Los Angeles California, USA

I’m a gorgeous dom in search for a qualified sub to bring me pleasure, hit me up to see if we can work out


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nothing good comes easy so I always kept looking since I will one day find a man.. Female 49 from California City California, USA

I think my goal in this life is to make people happy and enjoy life. I really enjoy helping others and feeling their gratitude. I am as delicate as a flower, but I need a man who will help this flower grow and bloom. In a relationship, I like to share love and passion and get it from man. I am a kind, easygoing, feminine, lovely woman. I am a very optimistic person and always try to keep calm. I hope we will never argue with my future husband. I am a very cheerful person. I love life and this world. I consider myself as a positive, smiling, attentive, passionate, caring, family-oriented and affectionate woman. I am looking for a partner with whom we can enjoy this life together.


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I seek to find fun relationship and a partner who appreciates the richness of a .. Female 43 from California Hot Springs California, USA

I enjoy nights out date nights few drinks, time at the house exploring


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I’m a dominant mistress who seek a true submissive man Female 31 from California City California, USA

I’m a strong dominant woman who’s looking for a true submissive man who’s ready to be trained, help him explore all of he’s kinky sides and know more if he’s fantasy....


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Super hot blonde who ❤️s 2 ruin your day ! In all honesty, humiliation, and all .. Female 32 from Granada Hills California, USA

Making YOU happy, new adventures, new connections, FREEDOM


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Just a honest and trustworthy mistress Female 35 from West Hollywood California, USA

I’m a dominant mistress looking for loyal submissive obedient understanding sub or sissy to submit to me


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Hello I’m Angela and I M looking for a serious relationship and some fun . I am.. Female 49 from Long Beach California, USA

Hello I’m Angela and I M looking for a serious relationship and some fun .  I am very friendly my interests include cooking , swimming,  fishing, cooking, hiking and many more events .  Don’t be shy .  Get in touch with me .  Take care .


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If a bloke is sexually satisfied via the attention of a good mistress, that will.. Female 37 from Riverside California, USA

From a mistresses’s perspective, taken men are low maintenance. All they want is sex, sex, sex. They don’t fall in love with you. They don’t send you clingy text messages asking where you are. They don’t complain when you kick them out to sleep at home. And they don’t try to pressure you into having  with them.


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Open-minded. I enjoy engaging in philosophical conversations. I have a calm and .. Couple 34, 34 from California City California, USA

Open-minded. I enjoy engaging in philosophical conversations. I have a calm and composed nature, and I value organization and practicality in my life. I believe in meaningful connections and appreciate deep discussions that delve into life's mysteries. If you're looking for a thoughtful and grounded companion who appreciates intellectual exchanges, I might be the one you've been searching for. Let's explore the depths of the mind together and embark on a journey of philosophical exploration.


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what if you spoil me…? Female 31 from Los Angeles California, USA

Our sensual moments - that’s what’s on my mind lately….


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I am very happy with who I am as a Person, and I want to share and experience Li.. Female 45 from California City California, USA

I'm 44 years old, living in the California City region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 55 and 90.


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I’m a dominant woman hoping to find a submissive male to explore our sexual fant.. Female 37 from Los Angeles California, USA

Feminization / Sissy Play - I enjoy dressing you up and treating you like my girlfriend - what kind of girlfriend depends on you.

Roleplay - Let’s allow our imaginations to run wild.  

Corporal / Impact play - whip,    cane,    paddle,    strap,    flogger,    rug-beater,    my bare hand.   .   .    I can be unrelentingly sadistic in My desire to see you suffer for Me.

Bondage - rope,    leather,    latex,    and metal.    Also mummification,    but most of all,    delicious predicaments.

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Sensory Deprivation / Sensory Overload - a great way to tame and quiet that busy mind.

Fetishes - My perfect feet,    stockings,    food,    latex,    balloons,    materials,    etc.


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Hey! I’m very experienced and well cultured in the lifestyle but being discreet .. Female 36 from Los Angeles California, USA

Let’s explore our wildest fantasies together discreetly.


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HEY I’d never play hide and seek with you because someone as wonderful as you is.. Female 38 from Los Angeles California, USA

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Here for whatever comes my way Female 29 from Los Angeles California, USA

An easy going girl that want all man’s choice and I don’t snub


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I am a DOMINANT woman, who enjoys training men on how to be a loyal and submissi.. Female 35 from California City, California

I am looking for that special one who will rekindle the flame of passion and desire that seems to have been quench in my past relationship. Someone i can confide in and someone ready to live the alternate BDSM kinky lifestyle with me secretly.


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Im 25 years old, Im actually seeking for the submissive ones, whos ready for .. Female 25 from California City California, USA

I'm a pro dome, I enjoy this lifestyle everyday of my life and I practice what I preach everyday. I got into this dominant lifestyle for some old years back, I need a submissive person that would be my personal property and that would serve, obey command


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I just need the one with his advantages and disadvantages who will make me feel .. Female 25 from Los Angeles California, USA

I like to be in the nature. Also I am fond of sport. I keep my body


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Not like the other girls, in so many ways Female 55 from Orange California, USA

I see so many humans, so little humanity...where have all the real people gone?
I am a submissive, anyone looking for a Femdom please look elsewhere. I am in Orange County California, currently I can only respond to individuals in my area. Thank you
I am not a very important person, I am unable to read messages. Please don’t think that I am intentionally ignoring ANYONE


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Hey guys how is everyone out there well Im seeking a female for this couple he.. Couple 33, 37 from Bakersfield California, USA

Having fun gets me excited. My dog is what makes me happy


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Trust me,Im someone you will always want to be with. Female 26 from San Bernardino California, USA

A loving and understanding mistress that's always available for you


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Experienced Mistress Seeking a Submissive Canvas for Artful Exploration. Female 37 from California City California, USA

A seasoned Mistress, well-versed in the intricate dance of dominance and submission. With a firm yet nurturing approach, I guide my submissives through a journey of self-discovery and pleasure. Communication, trust, and mutual respect are the pillars of our dynamic, creating an environment where desires are explored, boundaries are respected, and the profound connection between Dominant and submissive flourishes.


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Im 35 years old, living in the Birmingham region. Female 22 from North Las Vegas Nevada, USA

I'm 35years old, living in the Birmingham region. I'm interested in meeting a transgender person or a couple or a man aged between 18 and 98.


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