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I’m Experienced Dom, seeking a Male sub to train, collar , own and dominate. Female 34 from Anaheim California, USA

This Dom,  understands boundaries and limitations and will help you explore and realize your potentials. I love most regular fetishes like Tease & Denial, role-play, bondage, orgasm control, body worship, light whipping, spanking, tickling, stretching (rack), suspension, body worship , feet and ass worshiping strap on play, pony training, butt plugs


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Im a switch woman that gets excited training subs and also a good girl for dadd.. Female 33 from Los Angeles California, USA

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I am a dominant woman So are you here now to submit yourself to me, to serve me?.. Female 37 from California Hot Springs California, USA

I'm into feet fetish. I'm basically into a lot of kinks. Very open minded


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im an easy going woman with a heart of gold, be who you are Female 59 from Riverside California, USA

my name is Gloria, i'm 59 years old, i have been single for 3years now, i'm here to give it a try if i can be lucky enough to meet with my partner


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We are a couple of open-minded guys from Colombia and the United States who are .. Couple 26, 30 from North Las Vegas Nevada, USA

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Im an open minded woman. I like hiking, ski, LA snow ski pro. always on birth c.. Female 26 from Los Angeles California, USA

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Looking for the right FWB relationship. . Female 71 from Carlsbad California, USA

Thought I was interested in a bdsm relationship but I’ve discovered I’m too dominant to be a true submissive and not dominant enough to be a dominant.
Somewhere in the middle I guess, but not sure what that looks like.
I want an FWB; I’m not looking for marriage nor a 24/7 relationship. I would like someone that is kind, loyal and not demanding or unreasonable.
I want something less vanilla than my 30 year marriage was.
I’m easy to get along with, I enjoy quiet times and just hanging out and being with someone whether watching TV, a movie or relaxing.


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Hey! I’m very experienced and well cultured in the lifestyle but being discreet .. Female 36 from Los Angeles California, USA

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Im 25 years old, Im actually seeking for the submissive ones, whos ready for .. Female 25 from California City California, USA

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nothing good comes easy so I always kept looking since I will one day find a man.. Female 49 from California City California, USA

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Goddess/mistres s, bossy is my tone and way of life… If you’re not ready to ob.. Female 38 from Long Beach California, USA

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Hello how are you doing , am new on here Female 39 from Los Angeles California, USA

Well my name is Nailah and I just join the site looking for soulmate to love and spend the rest of my life with him


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Im 34 years old, living in the Newberry Springs region. Female 34 from Newberry Springs California, USA

I'm 34 years old, living in the Newberry Springs region.
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Looking for a sub to have fun with Female 28 from California City California, USA

A happy mistress that willing to train my sissy slut


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Im a professional mistress looking forward to explore Female 34 from Santa Monica California, USA

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I am loving and a caring woman who is looking for the same Female 43 from Orange California, USA

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Mistress looking for a submissive male to explore his submissive side.I need a o.. Female 42 from Calimesa California, USA

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with the aromas of delicious dishes that I cook with love. I believe that here, .. Female 34 from San Diego California, USA

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Im looking for a real serious sub whos ready to serve and worship at my feet n.. Couple 41, 53 from Los Angeles California, USA

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never married and had no kids, i am here looking for my soul mate to build a lon.. Female 38 from California City California, USA

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Am here to fine love and happiness Female 30 from Los Angeles California, USA

I am into buying and selling of goods and I also do painting


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IM A PROFESSIONAL DOMINANT WOMAN HOPING TO FIND A SUBMISSIVE TO EXPLORE OUR SEX.. Female 39 from Los Angeles California, USA

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Im single,i lost my worker some months ago,this is my first time on the interne.. Female 41 from Los Angeles California, USA

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Hello I’m shy but once I get past it I’m a fun person with a good personality an.. Female 46 from Las Vegas Nevada, USA

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