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Looking to explore and reconnect with this part of my identity. Female 40 from San Jose California, USA

Hello! Thanks for checking out my profile. I recently separated from my husband who was very vanilla and am looking to reconnect with this side of my identity. Feeling safe is important, please don’t message asking for a random meetup. I need a human connection before meeting. Also, please don’t message me if you live in another state. Only local people, thank you. I look forward to hearing from you!


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Looking for, ages 35-45. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Roleplay, Sub

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Looking for that loyal submissive to fully explore the BDSM Lifestyle and have a.. Female 46 from Atherton California, USA

My interactions are generally passionate, affectionate, warm and kind. One thing I know is true is; submissive have needs. I seek to satisfy those needs.


Straight

Looking for, ages 36-80. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Dom, Fetish, Pegging

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Im 28 years old, open to anything Like to explore Female 29 from Modesto California, USA

I'm 28 years old, I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 19 and 86.


Bisexual

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Hi Im looking for a friend first and maybe more later. I want to laugh, dance ex.. Female 61 from Alviso California, USA

Hi Im looking for a friend first and maybe more later. I want to laugh, dance explore this world-just looking for someone to join me


Bisexual

Looking for, ages 55-70. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Dirty Talk

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Welcome to My digital and playground, My devotee. If you are not yet a rabid adm.. Female 24 from San Jose California, USA

Welcome to My digital and playground, My devotee. If you are not yet a rabid admirer of Mine, you will be worshipping say goodbye to your old life pm me


Straight

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Looking for a loyal and honest sub and more Female 34 from Carson City Nevada, USA

I can a pain in the ass both the in bedroom and outside the bedroom


Straight

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Im mistress Sophie and my opinion about the world is we all have one life to li.. Female 40 from Sacramento California, USA

I take delight in playing with the imaginations of my sub just as much as I take pleasure in exploring their sexuallity to the peak, I am intelligent, curious, adventurous, creative, compassionate... And real.

I have high expectations of who ever I give the opportunity and privilege to serve Me.


Straight

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Hi am farra am single funmy amd caring i wosh to have a man like the way i will .. Female 33 from Santa Clara California, USA

I'm 33 years old, living in the Santa Clara region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 35 and 90.


Straight

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I am a DOMINANT woman, who enjoys training men on how to be a loyal and submissi.. Female 38 from Newark California, USA

I Like Face sitting feminization, bondage, Chasity,
panties/lingerie, collared, pegging, anal, alot if things really
Don’t like blood, faeces or pain


Straight

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LOOKING FOR A NICE TIME GETTING TO KNOW EACH OTHER AND HAVING SOME FUN. Couple 39, 46 from Rohnert Park California, USA

We're interested in concerts, traveling and making new memories.


Lesbian, Lesbian

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25 year old findom goddess who’s been dabbling in the hobby on and off for some .. Female 26 from Merced California, USA

What makes me happy/ excited when I’m in control of the situation I feel like my sexiest self If I had to describe my self in few words I’m spicy with the right amount of sweetness  and being a dominant makes me feel my most powerful being someone who has dealt with a lot of BS it gives me relief


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I am an active person, so I prefer to travel in my free time. I like to cook. I .. Female 43 from San Jose California, USA

I am an active, beautiful and passionate woman. I like my age. I love being myself, what I am! I am an open woman and always happy about new acquaintances. I have a good sense of humor. I always support different topics in communication and try never to lie. I am an accomplished woman. I have a good job. I am a dentist. My job gives me pleasure. I came to this dating site to meet a man who will become my second half! I want to be happy and loved.


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I’M WILLING TO OWN A SUB TO TRAIN AND OWN AS MINE Female 36 from San Jose California, USA

I like feminization, bondage, chastity, pussy worship, Ass face sitting, Role play, Ass licking, panties/ lingerie, humiliation, pegging, anal, alot of things really.
Don't like pain.


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Hey slave, you found me.Im Exploring boundaries, seeking a submissive connectio.. Female 34 from Sacramento California, USA

I'm a huge fan of communication, trust, and consent. I'm all about exploring and  fulfilling your desires in a safe and pleasing consensual way. I'm open and honest about boundaries, limits, and ready to fullfil your desires by giving you a fulfilling and enjoyable experience.


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Sometimes I wish I would meet people like me but the universe does not work that.. Female 50 from San Jose California, USA

If I could only send one text to someone to contact me, I would probably put it as "Hey there! Let's connect and chat. Send me a text and let's start the conversation!


Bisexual

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Im here to make new friends and see where it goes ! Female 35 from San Francisco California, USA

I am happy to take the step to be in control of my life and sexuality.  I want to meet new people share different experience !


Straight

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Looking for my life partner, someone to spend the rest of my life with Female 40 from Santa Clara California, USA

First of all I am looking for a true honest and faithful GENTLEMAN, you never have to impress me with a LIE, never start a relationship out with dishonesty it will not go far. Just be true to yourself and then you will be truthful with me. (yes I have been lied to and cheated on continuously throughout my previous relationship) therefore I am not giving up on finding true love and honesty from a true GENTLEMAN. I have closed that chapter in my life, looking to start my final chapter of love.


Straight

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Dominant lady looking for a sub Female 42 from Atherton California, USA

I enjoy giving out instructions and I get pleasure from seeing them executed perfectly. Subs that do this get rewarded and pleasured


Straight

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Married couple here looking for a playmate for husband and/or couples for full s.. Couple 31, 31 from Sacramento California, USA

We enjoy the outdoors and spending time together and with family. Concerts, four-wheeling, fishing, nature walks, ocean, camping just to name a few.


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Mistress looking for a submissive male to explore his submissive side.I need a o.. Female 42 from Sacramento California, USA

Having completed control over a submissive male. Who will obey commands without hesitation.
The one that I'm in complete control of the submissive male and that his heart Body and Soul belongs to me and also willing to show appreciation and commitment when needed .!!


Straight

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Im a vibrant, captivating woman who thrives on embracing lifes endless possibi.. Female 40 from San Jose California, USA

I am self-confident, funny, friendly and loving. I love this life and would like to share my love with my special man. I am optimistic, energetic, devoted, active. I prefer reasonable talks and compromises.


Straight

Looking for, ages 55-86. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Discreet Meets, Outdoor Fun, Threesomes, Webcam

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Couple looking for a women for a threesome encounter only Couple 51, 54 from Sacramento California, USA

We are a easy going couple looking for new experiences to explore. Discreet no strings attached.


Straight, Straight

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I’m a dominatrix and I’ve led this lifestyle for quite some time now Female 37 from San Jose California, USA

Im looking for a sub to train for a long term relationship


Straight

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I’m Taylor I do meet ups if you’re dtf no games no bs Female 29 from Sacramento California, USA

AM DOWN FOR MEETUP  I Wanna fulfill your widest sexual fantasies My Service are erotic lick eat & GFE &new 69 style &BBBJ+BJ &body to body Nuru oomassage &shower together &kissing and touch me & B2B including sex


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Im 32 years old, living in the Richmond region. Female 32 from Richmond California, USA

I want to have a fantastic relationship with you as my obedient sub and I look forward with much excitement to train with strict discipline. I want you to prove worthy of my supremacy as I will make you yearn to where my collar and leash and relinquish total control of yourself to me. Your time with me would be a time you would never forget all your life and would last for a very long time, having great times together and exploring those kinky side in you with great pleasure.


Straight

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